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Guys, What Are Red Flags You Notice When You Meet A Girl For The First Time? - by Infolenka: 12:48am On Dec 10, 2020
Red flags are traits, behaviors or an attribute of a person that indicates that they aren't someone you should get close to and develop a relationship with.

Guys, what are those red flags that you notice when you meet a girl for the first time?

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Re: Guys, What Are Red Flags You Notice When You Meet A Girl For The First Time? - by showafrica(m): 12:57am On Dec 10, 2020
Bleached skin and tattoos... Nah nah

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Re: Guys, What Are Red Flags You Notice When You Meet A Girl For The First Time? - by Nobody: 12:57am On Dec 10, 2020
Fake lashes cheesy cheesy

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Re: Guys, What Are Red Flags You Notice When You Meet A Girl For The First Time? - by majamajic(m): 1:17am On Dec 10, 2020
Take my number but my phone spoil since , so am not using phone now , I will soon repair it


That phrase is no no no for me ,

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Re: Guys, What Are Red Flags You Notice When You Meet A Girl For The First Time? - by Kolisky(m): 1:17am On Dec 10, 2020
showafrica:
Bleached skin and tattoos... Nah nah



I seconded even though I'm fourth on the list grin cheesy cheesy cheesy

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Re: Guys, What Are Red Flags You Notice When You Meet A Girl For The First Time? - by Openbusiness: 1:18am On Dec 10, 2020
"Some" (quote and unquote for emphasis) of the red flags I look out for include:

Ornaments such as waist beads, ankle beads, exaggerated ear piercings, tongue piercings, nose rings, eyelash piercings, belly rings, ring on the toes, star or snake or other weird tattoos, excessive jewelry... etc! 99.5% of them are Sluts, Hoeloshos, Escorts, Runs girls, or full time full blown Prostitutes, either codedly or openly. As a woke guy, highest they can get from me is booty call levels, can't commit to these hoes, they belong to the streets with their community puci. Dig and send her away. No attachments or strings. "From the streets they came and to the streets they shall return" - Niggalations 7:2
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Fetish inclinations such as things she uses or her belief system or communication etc. For example, I'm using this soap for good luck, or I went to do cleansing inside river or going to do incisions with herbalists or using charms or I spray this perfume to get favors, or I belong to ogbanje society etc all these kinds of fetish inclinations = i don japa delete d crazy witch number - YES, every fetish female is either a witch or potential witch. Light and darkness no get business together. No time for fuckery either. So I don't mingle with such people, female or male sef. I don disappear
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Social media. If she's a social media freak, the type that is on all the popular social media, and active on everything, has that unhealthy social media obsession as a source of her self esteem, "power" and validation. Or has this false sense of fame or celebrity status that makes her feel over important or like some idol that should be worshipped. 99% of them are very toxic mannerless females with bad character and low self esteem. Social media is the drug they "get high" and "feel fly" and on top of the world with from all the adulation from those bloody ass-licking simps and wimps and it gives them fake make-believe they are super important, all her life and self worth is social media, mtchwwwwwww.
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Communication. If she's the type that's always running her mouth cho cho cho yen yen yen, either with excessive nagging or bickering or bitchiness, or the type that has diarrhea of the mouth and always saying sh*t anytime she opens her mouth. Or the type that can't talk and express herself or her feelings properly and she wants you to be a psychic mind reader or feelings detector machine 95% of the time. I call them "drama Queens" because 97% of them always have drama, 'crazy' is their middle name. It's always another day another drama with these type of females. It is only the extremely patient and super coolheaded guys that can cope with them. But I'm a hothead, so no time for drama Queens abeg. Mr Somebody cum an carey ur crazy dawta oh, before drama Queen "mistakenly" push my Hulk Smash buttons like a nuclear football and i "mistakenly" break somebody's dawta's head. I like my Bruce Banner form, thank you.
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Boring sex These ones nawa for dem oh, no sexual passion, no sexual creativity, no romantic enthusiasm etc. They just lie down like firewood. They are ok with one position for 1 hour. The only style they know is "digging"; just dig till you're tired, they don't care about nothing else. They will just be looking at you like zombie, to moan sef na war, if they catch themselves moaning, they squeeze face and squeeze stomach until the moaning turns to murmuring. Nawa! They won't ride you, they won't climb table or chair, they won't do helicopter, they won't do acrobatics, they won't roll, they won't even move an inch, na where you start you go finish, the room go dey neat, even the bedsheet no go ruff up when u finish, everything go dey arranged sad. They are just too lazy for anything exciting, too rigid and unmotivated, too boring. Abeg shift, waka comot, let the wild girls that like doing gymnastics cum to papa grin Freaky girls will scatter everywhere, you start in the bedroom but you end it in the kitchen, her wig removed in the toilet as you were rolling everywhere, the whole house is upside down. They are so kinky, their imagination runs wild, so enchanting, so explosive. They add spice to your spice. Fire meets fire. When you finish, you are gasping for air, the sweat on your bodies can form a river grin.
I'll pass abeg lipsrsealed
[img]https://media1./images/75000b257c29d05534e1c412c86b167f/tenor.gif?itemid=8383617[/img]

Now this is how I like them, freaky freaky grin
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Lemme stop here abeg, he af do before my cho cho cho mouth says sumtin that can cause World War 7 here grin

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Re: Guys, What Are Red Flags You Notice When You Meet A Girl For The First Time? - by stacyadams: 2:16am On Dec 10, 2020
ALEX182:
Fake lashes cheesy cheesy
grin grin grin

I hate that shit

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Re: Guys, What Are Red Flags You Notice When You Meet A Girl For The First Time? - by Stephenmoka4(m): 2:17am On Dec 10, 2020
Waist beads, anklets, tattoo, hair color and if the skin is bleached.

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Re: Guys, What Are Red Flags You Notice When You Meet A Girl For The First Time? - by Freestainworld(m): 2:17am On Dec 10, 2020
Hate dirty girls, even the talkative one's are turn off for me.

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Re: Guys, What Are Red Flags You Notice When You Meet A Girl For The First Time? - by techmo(m): 2:36am On Dec 10, 2020
Stephenmoka4:
Waist beads, anklets, tattoo, hair color and if the skin is bleached.


Eye lashes too ..

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Re: Guys, What Are Red Flags You Notice When You Meet A Girl For The First Time? - by odinson1(m): 6:28am On Dec 10, 2020
Pride
Greed
Selfishness
Arrogance and Rudeness

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Re: Guys, What Are Red Flags You Notice When You Meet A Girl For The First Time? - by Nobody: 6:50am On Dec 10, 2020
bad odour

most bleached mudafùckers stink

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Re: Guys, What Are Red Flags You Notice When You Meet A Girl For The First Time? - by anochuko01(m): 7:49am On Dec 10, 2020
Me: Hey pretty Miss, how're you doing today.
Her: I'm fine.

Me: Hmmmm, that's Nice. So how have you been spending it?
Her: Fine.


I intentionally ask this second question to assess a lady's ability to talk reasonably. The moment I get that kinda answer, I meeewooovvvvee

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Re: Guys, What Are Red Flags You Notice When You Meet A Girl For The First Time? - by Kapilta(m): 8:02am On Dec 10, 2020
I can't relate jare.
Re: Guys, What Are Red Flags You Notice When You Meet A Girl For The First Time? - by Nazgul: 8:04am On Dec 10, 2020
Indirectly telling me her financial problem.

Spending more time on her phone than our conversation, it clearly shows that she's a flirt.

Excessive make up, eyelashes, nails. That's a big turnoff for me. I hate fake people.

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Re: Guys, What Are Red Flags You Notice When You Meet A Girl For The First Time? - by blinking001(m): 8:06am On Dec 10, 2020
Being broke is a major turn off for me. Broke women irritates me.

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Re: Guys, What Are Red Flags You Notice When You Meet A Girl For The First Time? - by Nobody: 8:12am On Dec 10, 2020
Openbusiness:
"Some" (quote and unquote for emphasis) of the red flags I look out for include:

Ornaments such as waist beads, ankle beads, exaggerated ear piercings, tongue piercings, nose rings, eyelash piercings, belly rings, ring on the toes, star or snake or other weird tattoos, excessive jewelry... etc! 99.5% of them are Sluts, Hoeloshos, Escorts, Runs girls, or full time full blown Prostitutes, either codedly or openly. As a woke guy, highest they can get from me is booty call levels, can't commit to these hoes, they belong to the streets with their community puci. Dig and send her away. No attachments or strings. "From the streets they came and to the streets they shall return" - Niggalations 7:2
[img]https://media1./images/63383f94c408636446f1d929c392f0fa/tenor.gif?itemid=11658802[/img]
[img]https://media1./images/b30650bb7b9982173d4c9949391d1f91/tenor.gif?itemid=3525733[/img]
[img]https://media1./images/eb729463707ee12e9241635aa6d82eb5/tenor.gif?itemid=10285903[/img]


Fetish inclinations such as things she uses or her belief system or communication etc. For example, I'm using this soap for good luck, or I went to do cleansing inside river or going to do incisions with herbalists or using charms or I spray this perfume to get favors, or I belong to ogbanje society etc all these kinds of fetish inclinations = i don japa delete d crazy witch number - YES, every fetish female is either a witch or potential witch. Light and darkness no get business together. No time for fuckery either. So I don't mingle with such people, female or male sef. I don disappear
[img]https://media1./images/a4de595cd3538e59bb10b233ce435a71/tenor.gif?itemid=9989277[/img]
[img]https://media1./images/e19b4dc0f0a080ffdb612b1e59529cd7/tenor.gif?itemid=9460762[/img]
[img]https://media1./images/0b4f613d993892bf70f6d159c533e52f/tenor.gif?itemid=4940116[/img]


Social media. If she's a social media freak, the type that is on all the popular social media, and active on everything, has that unhealthy social media obsession as a source of her self esteem, "power" and validation. Or has this false sense of fame or celebrity status that makes her feel over important or like some idol that should be worshipped. 99% of them are very toxic mannerless females with bad character and low self esteem. Social media is the drug they "get high" and "feel fly" and on top of the world with from the all the adulation from those bloody ass-licking simps and wimps and it gives them fake make-believe they are super important, all her life and self worth is social media, mtchwwwwwww.
[img]https://media1./images/eb6e02eba2c9173feac93e2e9a045ded/tenor.gif?itemid=17314388[/img]



Communication. If she's the type that's always running her mouth cho cho cho yen yen yen, either with excessive nagging or bickering or bitchiness, or the type that has diarrhea of the mouth and always saying sh*t anytime she opens her mouth. Or the type that can't talk and express herself or her feelings properly and she wants you to be a psychic mind reader or feelings detector machine 95% of the time. I call them "drama Queens" because 97% of them always have drama, 'crazy' is their middle name. It's always another day another drama with these type of females. It is only the extremely patient and super coolheaded guys that can cope with them. But I'm a hothead, so no time for drama Queens abeg. Mr Somebody cum an carey ur crazy dawta oh, before drama Queen "mistakenly" push my Hulk Smash buttons like a nuclear football and i "mistakenly" break somebody's dawta's head. I like my Bruce Banner form, thank you.
[img]https://media1./images/3e90bc0750c262fa3c2480c6ed470d07/tenor.gif?itemid=11561239[/img]

Boring sex These ones nawa for dem oh, no sexual passion, no sexual creativity, no romantic enthusiasm etc. They just lie down like firewood. They are ok with one position for 1 hour. The only style they know is "digging"; just dig till you're tired, they don't care about nothing else. They will just be looking at you like zombie, to moan sef na war, if they catch themselves moaning, they squeeze face and squeeze stomach until the moaning turns to murmuring. Nawa! They won't ride you, they won't climb table or chair, they won't do helicopter, they won't do acrobatics, they won't roll, they won't even move an inch, na where you start you go finish, the room go dey neat, even the bedsheet no go ruff up when u finish, everything go dey arranged sad. They are just too lazy for anything exciting, too rigid and unmotivated, too boring. Abeg shift, waka comot, let the wild girls that like doing gymnastics cum to papa grin Freaky girls will scatter everywhere, you start in the bedroom but you end it in the kitchen, her wig removed in the toilet as you were rolling everywhere, the whole house is upside down. They are so kinky, their imagination runs wild, so enchanting, so explosive. They add spice to your spice. Fire meets fire. When you finish, you are gasping for air, the sweat on your bodies can form a river grin.
I'll pass abeg
[img]https://media1./images/75000b257c29d05534e1c412c86b167f/tenor.gif?itemid=8383617[/img]

Now this is how I like them, freaky freaky grin
[img]https://media1./images/4dbd7d0ded4cb206a6b8f6688081502e/tenor.gif?itemid=17135996[/img]


Lemme stop here abeg, he af do before my cho cho cho mouth says sumtin that can cause World War 7 here grin

You are toxic and mentally and emotionally ruined

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Re: Guys, What Are Red Flags You Notice When You Meet A Girl For The First Time? - by Twoclans(f): 8:20am On Dec 10, 2020
The comments cheesy cheesy cheesy

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Re: Guys, What Are Red Flags You Notice When You Meet A Girl For The First Time? - by Kennyfancy(m): 8:21am On Dec 10, 2020
I hate broke women

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Re: Guys, What Are Red Flags You Notice When You Meet A Girl For The First Time? - by fiyinfoluwa29093: 8:23am On Dec 10, 2020
The comments
Re: Guys, What Are Red Flags You Notice When You Meet A Girl For The First Time? - by casdoruche: 8:23am On Dec 10, 2020
If I discover by chance you have dated a yahoo boy.

Its a no no

My glory is still okay f9r me. Don't come and use your Toto collect the one wey remain. Make one yahoo boy dey use you as agent of destiny collection.

Many guys on nairaland have been victim. I know some yahoo boys who do this with their gf. May will not believe. Pray you don't fall victim.

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Re: Guys, What Are Red Flags You Notice When You Meet A Girl For The First Time? - by Openbusiness: 8:43am On Dec 10, 2020
michaelpop50:


You are toxic and mentally and emotionally ruined
I'm in a happy mood, so i'm ignoring hopeless egotistic fools like you today. Come back tomorrow.

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Re: Guys, What Are Red Flags You Notice When You Meet A Girl For The First Time? - by Liposure: 9:46am On Dec 10, 2020
Fake life;Pretending to be what you are not. Dont be too forward. I hate shallow mentality

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Re: Guys, What Are Red Flags You Notice When You Meet A Girl For The First Time? - by Dreadlock69(m): 10:12am On Dec 10, 2020
Your first impression matters the most to me
If I'll be happy with it
If I'll cope with it
If I'll play the game with you with chances I'll win
and for the thrills
or prolly walk out immediately
I take the first impression serious

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Re: Guys, What Are Red Flags You Notice When You Meet A Girl For The First Time? - by Nobody: 10:20am On Dec 10, 2020
michaelpop50:


You are toxic and mentally and emotionally ruined
Lol. Is the guy not allowed to have an opinion on the type of women he finds detestable?
Re: Guys, What Are Red Flags You Notice When You Meet A Girl For The First Time? - by Dayoebe(m): 11:00am On Dec 10, 2020
Stephenmoka4:
Waist beads, anklets, tattoo, hair color and if the skin is bleached.

This is exactly what I wanted to write.

That waist bead and leg chain are Total turn off.
Even if you posses other qualities

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Re: Guys, What Are Red Flags You Notice When You Meet A Girl For The First Time? - by Nobody: 11:08am On Dec 10, 2020
Sub for me

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