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Re: Relationships are Overrated by Nanavati(m): 12:54pm On Dec 14, 2020
AM SERIOUSLY THINKING
Re: Relationships are Overrated by ojuu4u(m): 12:54pm On Dec 14, 2020
babakbb:
The female bashers are here again....

These women didn't beg you to propose marriage or relationship to them so leave them alone.

Everyday you guys come online and bash women but go behind and beg women for relationship and marriage, some sissy azz niggaz even go on their knees and propose to this women and post pre wedding pics online with their teeth wide open.

You are the one toasting and begging theses women and not the other way round, so they are the ones doing you a favor.


Something which is burden to them , yet they don't let go of it.

If women are your problems leave them for us who appreciate them.

The ways these guys believe they are wiser than God who created males and females to complement each other, is sickened

Perverted everywhere.

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by Kingstanding: 12:55pm On Dec 14, 2020
GOTVee:
sad Even though I'm a born again Christian, this is one of the reasons I think islamic marriage is better than Christianity. In Islam you are allowed to marry as many as you want which makes the importance attached to women drastically reduced. We Christians need to stage a protest against marrying one wife. Marrying one wife is parasitic while polygamy breeds competition among women with each and every wife trying to outdo each other in pleasing their husband. Majority of the stupid laws protecting women are from Christian countries, you can never find such in Muslim nations yet they have a more prosperous marriage than we Christians do sad
. As a Christian if you marry more than one wife. are you going to be arrested by police in Nigeria?

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by GOTVee(m): 12:56pm On Dec 14, 2020
Alexaonfleek:
No one is forcing you to remain a christian


I have been a Christian before you were born. I was born again two decades ago, and before you reply me with insults, be aware that I am in my late 40's. So do the maths

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by iezeiyida(m): 12:57pm On Dec 14, 2020
It's now very rare to find a good, hardworking, mentally equipped girl/lady who's ready to add value before or after marriage, to a man's hussles and love him genuinely.

The pretence of 95% of women to love and care about men is selfish and not trustworthy.

#SayNoToDependencyMentality

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by teemy(m): 12:59pm On Dec 14, 2020
GOTVee:


I would have done that when I was in the world. I'm presently enjoying my life in christ as a born again Christian. Peace out

Are you saying you enjoy your Christian lifestyle over what you could have in Islam?

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by JoeEeL(m): 12:59pm On Dec 14, 2020
GOTVee:



Yes my brother. You're saved in Jesus name

Saved from what bro? Ur wahala too much grin
Re: Relationships are Overrated by solasoulmusic(f): 12:59pm On Dec 14, 2020
We actually need each other but the truth is if your aren’t loyal to one you may find it difficult to find a true soulmate. Ps you don’t need money to be loyal just a conscience because your kids are watching you.

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by crazycrypto710: 1:00pm On Dec 14, 2020
Hello, Hi, off pant. No long story grin

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by khingTony(m): 1:00pm On Dec 14, 2020
TemmyT002:
Some women actually add value to some men's lives. They help them with business, advice, protection, welfare, and so on.
The problem is that they are not many.
You are ranting because you haven't met ladies like that.
Pele my dear.
Protection

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by GOTVee(m): 1:01pm On Dec 14, 2020
JoeEeL:


Saved from what?

What for bro?


I only prayed for you to be saved in this sinful world
Re: Relationships are Overrated by JoeEeL(m): 1:01pm On Dec 14, 2020
GOTVee:



I only prayed for you to be saved in this sinful world

Hehehe. Amen o, guy. Thx.
Re: Relationships are Overrated by Alexaonfleek: 1:02pm On Dec 14, 2020
GOTVee:



I have been a Christian before you were born. I was born again two decades ago, and before you reply me with insults, be aware that I am in my late 40's. So do the maths
With all due respect SIR,if christianity doesn't favour you,you're free to convert to another religion.
Re: Relationships are Overrated by SweetCunt97(f): 1:04pm On Dec 14, 2020
odinson1:
Men don't really need women, infact we are actually doing them a huge favor by marrying them.

Imagine a bachelor doing well financially:has a nice house, decent job, drama free life,can cook etc.

Then all of a sudden he decides to take on a woman who he thinks will add value into life.

Which kine value?



The relationship between a man and woman in modern times is never symbiotic ---its parasitic in nature.

One benefits(the woman) at the expense of the man.



As sides sex--which can be gotten with money, I don't see an atom of value all these girls add to a mans life. All they do is make Stupid monetary demands,lie,nag and Give someone Headache. Like how can you expect your boyfriend to Be the one Paying for your Toiletries,pants,Hair,Fake nails,house rent etc

Infact, they actually make an otherwise decent and peaceful life worse!

Now Take Away the Sex(which includes child bearing) and ask yourself what your Girlfriend Or actually Adds to your life? I'll rather just have a baby mama who will birth my kids,but won't be Legally entitled to my Properties.

A lot of men Are suffering in the Americas and Europe because of Divorce courts,Child support and Restraining orders. But I still wonder why Those Simp leaders Gave out laws that Favours only women at the Expense of men,yet some Men knowing full well the dangers they face in marriage,still gets married all in the name of "Not all women are like that" And " Being a real man "who Will sarcrifice his sanity,Assets,freedom and Life for A woman
So who will be legally entitled to yiur properties?
Re: Relationships are Overrated by Nobody: 1:05pm On Dec 14, 2020
GOTVee:



I have been born again for two decades. Your opinion doesn't count
Title doesn't equal relationship.
Eden is the blueprint of the plan God had in mind for marriage. One man, one wife till death do them part.

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by Ginaz(f): 1:07pm On Dec 14, 2020
I pity the unfortunate woman who ends up marrying the op. With the mentality he's already having , it won't take a blind man to know he won't treat his wife with dignity and esteem.

Ladies should seriously pray that God give you the man with the right frame of mind and has a sound mind. Its very important cos the mentality of the average Nigerian male is appalling.

You begin to wonder if they ever have mothers or sisters. Why don't you get your fine house , money and cars pregnant then? Why need this same women who add nothing to your lives to get pregnant for you?

Na wa.

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by samsard(m): 1:07pm On Dec 14, 2020
GOTVee:
sad Even though I'm a born again Christian, this is one of the reasons I think islamic marriage is better than Christianity. In Islam you are allowed to marry as many as you want which makes the importance attached to women drastically reduced. We Christians need to stage a protest against marrying one wife. Marrying one wife is parasitic while polygamy breeds competition among women with each and every wife trying to outdo each other in pleasing their husband. Majority of the stupid laws protecting women are from Christian countries, you can never find such in Muslim nations yet they have a more prosperous marriage than we Christians do sad
Maybe you should send your mother and sisters to Sharia countries where they're treated as properties.
You say you're a 'born again' Christian yet you clearly just ridiculed a basic tenet of Christianity?

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by paulsoniv: 1:08pm On Dec 14, 2020
If someone had told you dad the same you for no yarn this okoto
Re: Relationships are Overrated by SweetCunt97(f): 1:08pm On Dec 14, 2020
odinson1:
Men don't really need women, infact we are actually doing them a huge favor by marrying them.

Imagine a bachelor doing well financially:has a nice house, decent job, drama free life,can cook etc.

Then all of a sudden he decides to take on a woman who he thinks will add value into life.

Which kine value?



The relationship between a man and woman in modern times is never symbiotic ---its parasitic in nature.

One benefits(the woman) at the expense of the man.



As sides sex--which can be gotten with money, I don't see an atom of value all these girls add to a mans life. All they do is make Stupid monetary demands,lie,nag and Give someone Headache. Like how can you expect your boyfriend to Be the one Paying for your Toiletries,pants,Hair,Fake nails,house rent etc

Infact, they actually make an otherwise decent and peaceful life worse!

Now Take Away the Sex(which includes child bearing) and ask yourself what your Girlfriend Or actually Adds to your life? I'll rather just have a baby mama who will birth my kids,but won't be Legally entitled to my Properties.

A lot of men Are suffering in the Americas and Europe because of Divorce courts,Child support and Restraining orders. But I still wonder why Those Simp leaders Gave out laws that Favours only women at the Expense of men,yet some Men knowing full well the dangers they face in marriage,still gets married all in the name of "Not all women are like that" And " Being a real man "who Will sarcrifice his sanity,Assets,freedom and Life for A woman
Will it kill you to date a woman who's financially independent? If u don't fancy marriage, good and fine but know you'll regret the baby mama nonsense you've conceived in ur heart.

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by maximusprime2000: 1:09pm On Dec 14, 2020
TemmyT002:


A lot of men just want sex. No real love.

is the sex free
av any girl ever considered herself to be too broke to go into a relationship.

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by GOTVee(m): 1:10pm On Dec 14, 2020
samsard:
Maybe you should send your mother and sisters to Sharia countries where they're treated as properties.
You say you're a 'born again' Christian yet you clearly just ridiculed a basic tenet of Christianity?



May Jesus forgive you
Re: Relationships are Overrated by benji93: 1:14pm On Dec 14, 2020
Initial plan, yes. But is it a sin to marry more than one wife, even in Christianity, No. But it is ideal to follow the original plan.
Chii59:

Title doesn't equal relationship.
Eden is the blueprint of the plan God had in mind for marriage. One man, one wife till death do them part.
Re: Relationships are Overrated by Liposure: 1:16pm On Dec 14, 2020
samtoles:
Damn niggaaarrr
(Dont know why I had to say Damnn niggaarrr. Probably to succum to the trend of one Nairalander like that who starts his comment on women bashing with that cliche...Yeah, so...Dammmn niggarrrr once again)

Don't get married.

Marriage favours only women. There is nothing in it for you as a man. That pvssy and round bobby you want to die un top will soon sag, the beauty will fade once she is 35 while you are still waxing strong and handsome. You will leave your entire life to satisfy another man's daughter who will contribute absolutely nothing to your life. No shame in a man not getting married. The society only puts stupid pressure on you and las las na woman shame dey cash if them no marry.

Get a baby mama and live a peaceful life. 90% of married men are regretting ever walking that lane but they are afraid to confess it.
but the holy book says it is not good for man to be alone especially in old age
Re: Relationships are Overrated by angelfallz(m): 1:17pm On Dec 14, 2020
Deejay1000:
different strokes for different folks.
we actually need each other (my opinion).
women are back bone of men, even when its hard to find the one who truly loves you these days.


btw you wanna go into importation of goods from china beep me up in my signature

women are the back bone of men in what sense?

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by Ishilove: 1:18pm On Dec 14, 2020
EXLOVER:
There comes a time in a man's life when you will feel so lonely and incomplete, you will have a beautiful apartment, cars and a steady income, then you will know you are missing something. That is you need a family. You need someone to go home to.


Now you won't understand cause you don't have what it takes to have a family, when that time comes you will understand.

For now keep and 4ucking around. Time will tell, I pray God answers all your prayers.
You speak from a place of maturity. These chewing gum boys here don't know what they are doing.

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by samsard(m): 1:18pm On Dec 14, 2020
GOTVee:




May Jesus forgive you
Jesus would be ashamed of you for ridiculing his teachings while claiming to be born again.
Bye.

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by benji93: 1:18pm On Dec 14, 2020
I am sorry but marrying more than one wife is not sinful, perhaps that applies to your definition of a tenet. For something that was only predated by creation itself, i would think it would be stated clearly that you cannot have more than 1 wife.
samsard:
Maybe you should send your mother and sisters to Sharia countries where they're treated as properties.
You say you're a 'born again' Christian yet you clearly just ridiculed a basic tenet of Christianity?
Re: Relationships are Overrated by angelfallz(m): 1:19pm On Dec 14, 2020
in Islam you are limited to 4 wives. Unless you divorce one of them, you can't exceed 4.

GOTVee:
sad Even though I'm a born again Christian, this is one of the reasons I think islamic marriage is better than Christianity. In Islam you are allowed to marry as many as you want which makes the importance attached to women drastically reduced. We Christians need to stage a protest against marrying one wife. Marrying one wife is parasitic while polygamy breeds competition among women with each and every wife trying to outdo each other in pleasing their husband. Majority of the stupid laws protecting women are from Christian countries, you can never find such in Muslim nations yet they have a more prosperous marriage than we Christians do sad
Re: Relationships are Overrated by GOTVee(m): 1:19pm On Dec 14, 2020
samsard:
Jesus would be ashamed of you for ridiculing his teachings while claiming to be born again.
Bye.


If you keep insulting men of God like me you will end up in hell. I have been born again before you can speak a word
Re: Relationships are Overrated by Ishilove: 1:19pm On Dec 14, 2020
Ginaz:
I pity the unfortunate woman who ends up marrying the op. With the mentality he's already having , it won't take a blind man to know he won't treat his wife with dignity and esteem.

Ladies should seriously pray that God give you the man with the right frame of mind and has a sound mind. Its very important cos the mentality of the average Nigerian male is appalling.

You begin to wonder if they ever have mothers or sisters. Why don't you get your fine house , money and cars pregnant then? Why need this same women who add nothing to your lives to get pregnant for you?

Na wa.

You have spoken well.

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by angelfallz(m): 1:21pm On Dec 14, 2020
Okuda:
una for nigeria dey get relationship all wrong. the issue os deep if we wnt to start askimg the question of what went wrong. its in Nigeria i saw buying gifts for a girl buy her love. in almost all the cases. and nigerian men are the cause. they dont know how to talk to women. hold conversations other than lets go out to do this and that. na so so enjoyment here and there.

What you said about gifts also happens abroad. It just depends on the woman.
Re: Relationships are Overrated by Binhamid(m): 1:21pm On Dec 14, 2020
Okuda:
una for nigeria dey get relationship all wrong. the issue os deep if we wnt to start askimg the question of what went wrong. its in Nigeria i saw buying gifts for a girl buy her love. in almost all the cases. and nigerian men are the cause. they dont know how to talk to women. hold conversations other than lets go out to do this and that. na so so enjoyment here and there.

Bro forget hold conversation. Only few girls will even take you serious if you are trying to only talk when you meet each other. Most of them are looking for men to flex them and buy stuffs that their 7 months salary can't buy. If na talk you wan talk you are on your own boss.

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