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Re: Relationships are Overrated by Hassanmaye(m): 8:57pm On Dec 14, 2020
dalass:


I wonder who's forcing you to be in a relationship

If you feel you don't need a woman in your life, dey like that now. No be by force oh. Enjoy your life, money assets all by yourself...

No qualms bro.. grin cheesy cheesy

P.S. Get yourself a sex doll and you're good to go.. For sex. No hassles

Mtchewwwe
He will never try it na them go back screen they kneel down and beg women, do you think he can use sex doll? If only women know the power they have over men ...

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by professore(m): 9:00pm On Dec 14, 2020
Zzor:
Send me a pm, i still give you another grace to do so, I may be your messier. Deal or not?
so you are here chasing white men all about but you kept forming you are not ready to take (black) men serious. You are a disgrace for the post above. Use yourself to beg him very well o.
Re: Relationships are Overrated by professore(m): 9:02pm On Dec 14, 2020
Zzor:
You are a coward, be doing anyhow here so that they will not say you've fall hands abi
he has told you no deal. Shameful lot.

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by Hassanmaye(m): 9:04pm On Dec 14, 2020
[quote author=EXLOVER post=97057239] Some people are just capping for capping sake, even people that call themselves alpha male online, girls are this girl's are that. I can't be in a relationship, baby mama all the way crew, this are just write up. Many live in one room, like me i don't do relationship for now, even when the girls want it, I prefer fwb, that is what i can afford for now, I don't want to waste any girls time, when the time comes, and i'm financially okay, I know i will need a woman that i will want to spend the rest of my life with.

Who wouldn't like being welcomed with a kiss, or going to vacations, buying gift, or having someone by your side? We just have to work for the good life we want, for now, we don't need anyone to suffer with us. [/quote
Fwb meaning?
Re: Relationships are Overrated by BigBrother9ja: 9:06pm On Dec 14, 2020
dalass:


I wonder who's forcing you to be in a relationship

If you feel you don't need a woman in your life, dey like that now. No be by force oh. Enjoy your life, money assets all by yourself...

No qualms bro.. grin cheesy cheesy

P.S. Get yourself a sex doll and you're good to go.. For sex. No hassles

Mtchewwwe
Just be reasonable enough to tell us what you can offer first apart from sex.

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by BigBrother9ja: 9:08pm On Dec 14, 2020
SweetCunt97:
So who will be legally entitled to yiur properties?
My children.
Charity or the government
Re: Relationships are Overrated by BigBrother9ja: 9:10pm On Dec 14, 2020
Ginaz:
I pity the unfortunate woman who ends up marrying the op. With the mentality he's already having , it won't take a blind man to know he won't treat his wife with dignity and esteem.

Ladies should seriously pray that God give you the man with the right frame of mind and has a sound mind. Its very important cos the mentality of the average Nigerian male is appalling.

You begin to wonder if they ever have mothers or sisters. Why don't you get your fine house , money and cars pregnant then? Why need this same women who add nothing to your lives to get pregnant for you?

Na wa.


They are asking you how you can add VALUES to a man's life apart from sex, you're talking rubbish.
I forbid marrying someone like you.

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by BigBrother9ja: 9:11pm On Dec 14, 2020
Ginaz:
I pity the unfortunate woman who ends up marrying the op. With the mentality he's already having , it won't take a blind man to know he won't treat his wife with dignity and esteem.

Ladies should seriously pray that God give you the man with the right frame of mind and has a sound mind. Its very important cos the mentality of the average Nigerian male is appalling.

You begin to wonder if they ever have mothers or sisters. Why don't you get your fine house , money and cars pregnant then? Why need this same women who add nothing to your lives to get pregnant for you?

Na wa.


They are asking you how you can add VALUES to a man's life apart from sex, you're talking rubbish.
I forbid marrying someone like you..
Re: Relationships are Overrated by Nobody: 9:13pm On Dec 14, 2020
professore:
so you are here chasing white men all about but you kept forming you are not ready to take (black) men serious. You are a disgrace for the post above. Use yourself to beg him very well o.
lmao he understands why i said he should send me pm, black mentality has taken over you all. mtchew
Re: Relationships are Overrated by Nobody: 9:14pm On Dec 14, 2020
professore:
he has told you no deal. Shameful lot.
I'm shameless so I don't know what shame is all about
Re: Relationships are Overrated by BigBrother9ja: 9:19pm On Dec 14, 2020
dalass:



He's the pained one, not me....

Why is he ranting here, relationship is overhyped... Yen, yen, yen...

Relationship is by choice... You too can choose, even animals choose....

If he doesn't want any female in his life, he feels there is nothing a woman contributes to his existence. So be it.... Including you, nothing is by force abeg... Abi women dey beg una? grin
Why not address the issue with a counter argument instead of ranting?
The questions are very simple.

What do most of you girls of this generation do to add VALUES to a man's life apart from sex?

It's expensive to be in a relationship these days... DO YOU PEOPLE EVER CONSIDER YOURSELVES TOO BROKE TO GO OR BE IN A RELATIONSHIP?

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by EXLOVER(m): 9:30pm On Dec 14, 2020
[quote author=Hassanmaye post=97070644][/quote] FWB(Friends With Benefits)

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by khingTony(m): 9:33pm On Dec 14, 2020
Hassanmaye:

He will never try it na them go back screen they kneel down and beg women, do you think he can use sex doll? If only women know the power they have over me ...

Fixed
Re: Relationships are Overrated by Harshreality: 10:25pm On Dec 14, 2020
TemmyT002:
Some women actually add value to some men's lives. They help them with business, advice, protection, welfare, and so on.
The problem is that they are not many.
You are ranting because you haven't met ladies like that.
Pele my dear.

You see the thing is this.

Those kind of women are very intelligent. Intelligent women are quick to see things that will cause them problems in the future and discard them.

They know their worth and they aren't ready to be treated anyhow or endure crap.

They value their peace of mind over monetary things and are very picky on who they choose.

A lot of men aren't up to the standard they've set for themselves.
Re: Relationships are Overrated by dalass(f): 10:25pm On Dec 14, 2020
BigBrother9ja:

Why not address the issue with a counter argument instead of ranting?
The questions are very simple.

What do most of you girls of this generation do to add VALUES to a man's life apart from sex?

It's expensive to be in a relationship these days... DO YOU PEOPLE EVER CONSIDER YOURSELVES TOO BROKE TO GO OR BE IN A RELATIONSHIP?

You have a problem with understanding simple English grin

It is quite simple really......I agree totally

That the male folks can do without the females if they so wish... If it is too expensive, keep your money and assets. Abi?

I'm not in any way pained. I only agreed with what the male folks seem to want and all are still quoting me.. Na wah oh..

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by Xyzkwenu(f): 10:32pm On Dec 14, 2020
Harshreality:


You see the thing is this.

Those kind of women are very intelligent. Intelligent women are quick to see things that will cause them problems in the future and discard them.

They know their worth and they aren't ready to be treated anyhow or endure crap.

They value their peace of mind over monetary things and are very picky on who they choose.

A lot of men aren't up to the standard they've set for themselves.


How many women add benefit to their husband?
Many women marry for money.
It is marriage for benefits.
When women make money, how many of them help their husband?
Las las, if the man cannot pay rent, the wife will look for flimsy excuse to run away.

Visit some of our courts and learn about divorce.
The stories are all over social media.

Men should be careful to marry the right woman. Look beyond beauty. Women plenty like pure water. With this bad economy, na women go beg man to marry them.

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by Rexnegro(m): 10:42pm On Dec 14, 2020
odinson1:
Men don't really need women, infact we are actually doing them a huge favor by marrying them.

Imagine a bachelor doing well financially:has a nice house, decent job, drama free life,can cook etc.

Then all of a sudden he decides to take on a woman who he thinks will add value into life.

Which kine value?



The relationship between a man and woman in modern times is never symbiotic ---its parasitic in nature.

One benefits(the woman) at the expense of the man.



As sides sex--which can be gotten with money, I don't see an atom of value all these girls add to a mans life. All they do is make Stupid monetary demands,lie,nag and Give someone Headache. Like how can you expect your boyfriend to Be the one Paying for your Toiletries,pants,Hair,Fake nails,house rent etc

Infact, they actually make an otherwise decent and peaceful life worse!

Now Take Away the Sex(which includes child bearing) and ask yourself what your Girlfriend Or actually Adds to your life? I'll rather just have a baby mama who will birth my kids,but won't be Legally entitled to my Properties.

A lot of men Are suffering in the Americas and Europe because of Divorce courts,Child support and Restraining orders. But I still wonder why Those Simp leaders Gave out laws that Favours only women at the Expense of men,yet some Men knowing full well the dangers they face in marriage,still gets married all in the name of "Not all women are like that" And " Being a real man "who Will sarcrifice his sanity,Assets,freedom and Life for A woman
Re: Relationships are Overrated by Rexnegro(m): 10:49pm On Dec 14, 2020
samtoles:
Damn niggaaarrr
(Dont know why I had to say Damnn niggaarrr. Probably to succum to the trend of one Nairalander like that who starts his comment on women bashing with that cliche...Yeah, so...Dammmn niggarrrr once again)

Don't get married.

Marriage favours only women. There is nothing in it for you as a man. That pvssy and round bobby you want to die un top will soon sag, the beauty will fade once she is 35 while you are still waxing strong and handsome. You will leave your entire life to satisfy another man's daughter who will contribute absolutely nothing to your life. No shame in a man not getting married. The society only puts stupid pressure on you and las las na woman shame dey cash if them no marry.

Get a baby mama and live a peaceful life. 90% of married men are regretting ever walking that lane but they are afraid to confess it.

It is not in the nature of a man to fvck one pussy forever. Men are designed to test many waters. Getting married to one woman is cheating nature, and once you start looking outside for more fresh punna, she will catch you and start a war. So why the fvck are you getting married?

I like that part you said ,
It is not in the nature of a man to fvck one pussy forever. Men are designed to test many waters. Getting married to one woman is cheating nature.... bitter truth bruh .. myself I have been questioning my stand on if I can get married so. me that is allergic to female stupidities , how can I cope with a woman under same roof for life without affecting my emotional wellness. worse part is almost all nigeria girls Are dumb ehn .

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by Preshieben(f): 10:51pm On Dec 14, 2020
I really pity who's gonna marry you undecided
Re: Relationships are Overrated by Evolutionlove: 10:59pm On Dec 14, 2020
odinson1:
Men don't really need women, infact we are actually doing them a huge favor by marrying them.

Imagine a bachelor doing well financially:has a nice house, decent job, drama free life,can cook etc.

Then all of a sudden he decides to take on a woman who he thinks will add value into life.

Which kine value?



The relationship between a man and woman in modern times is never symbiotic ---its parasitic in nature.

One benefits(the woman) at the expense of the man.



As sides sex--which can be gotten with money, I don't see an atom of value all these girls add to a mans life. All they do is make Stupid monetary demands,lie,nag and Give someone Headache. Like how can you expect your boyfriend to Be the one Paying for your Toiletries,pants,Hair,Fake nails,house rent etc

Infact, they actually make an otherwise decent and peaceful life worse!

Now Take Away the Sex(which includes child bearing) and ask yourself what your Girlfriend Or actually Adds to your life? I'll rather just have a baby mama who will birth my kids,but won't be Legally entitled to my Properties.

A lot of men Are suffering in the Americas and Europe because of Divorce courts,Child support and Restraining orders. But I still wonder why Those Simp leaders Gave out laws that Favours only women at the Expense of men,yet some Men knowing full well the dangers they face in marriage,still gets married all in the name of "Not all women are like that" And " Being a real man "who Will sarcrifice his sanity,Assets,freedom and Life for A woman

I don't think I'm going to ever consider marriage with the way everything Is nosediving recently lol......
Re: Relationships are Overrated by Xyzkwenu(f): 11:11pm On Dec 14, 2020
Evolutionlove:


I don't think I'm going to ever consider marriage with the way everything Is nosediving recently lol......

It all depends on who you marry.
Marry your level and marry a girl that has respect and tells you the truth about herself before marriage.
There are decent girls from good family background.
All these agberos have sisters who get married.
Prisoners, babalawos, ashawo, mortuary attendants, armed robbers, murderers, grave diggers etc have daughters who get married. Many use lies to cover up. Packaging too much.

Many times, these lies are exposed after marriage and everything collapses.

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by Evolutionlove: 11:17pm On Dec 14, 2020
Xyzkwenu:


It all depends on who you marry.
Marry your level and marry a girl that has respect and tells you the truth about herself before marriage.
There are decent girls from good family background.
All these agberos have sisters who get married.
Prisoners, babalawos, ashawo, mortuary attendants, armed robbers, murderers, grave diggers etc have daughters who get married. Many use lies to cover up. Packaging too much.

Many times, these lies are exposed after marriage and everything collapses.

Thank God you said the truth yourself.......
Re: Relationships are Overrated by merits(m): 11:24pm On Dec 14, 2020
odinson1:
Men don't really need women, infact we are actually doing them a huge favor by marrying them.

Imagine a bachelor doing well financially:has a nice house, decent job, drama free life,can cook etc.

Then all of a sudden he decides to take on a woman who he thinks will add value into life.

Which kine value?



The relationship between a man and woman in modern times is never symbiotic ---its parasitic in nature.

One benefits(the woman) at the expense of the man.



As sides sex--which can be gotten with money, I don't see an atom of value all these girls add to a mans life. All they do is make Stupid monetary demands,lie,nag and Give someone Headache. Like how can you expect your boyfriend to Be the one Paying for your Toiletries,pants,Hair,Fake nails,house rent etc

Infact, they actually make an otherwise decent and peaceful life worse!

Now Take Away the Sex(which includes child bearing) and ask yourself what your Girlfriend Or actually Adds to your life? I'll rather just have a baby mama who will birth my kids,but won't be Legally entitled to my Properties.

A lot of men Are suffering in the Americas and Europe because of Divorce courts,Child support and Restraining orders. But I still wonder why Those Simp leaders Gave out laws that Favours only women at the Expense of men,yet some Men knowing full well the dangers they face in marriage,still gets married all in the name of "Not all women are like that" And " Being a real man "who Will sarcrifice his sanity,Assets,freedom and Life for A woman
Shut up,is not everybody that have miserable and frustrated life like yours even the two holy books supports marriage.
Who beg you to marry seff?your old age will tell mumu.in your old age you will be taking to psychiatric hospital to give up the ghost ewuuuu
Re: Relationships are Overrated by Xyzkwenu(f): 11:50pm On Dec 14, 2020
merits:

Shut up,is not everybody that have miserable and frustrated life like yours even the two holy books supports marriage.
Who beg you to marry seff?your old age will tell mumu.in your old age you will be taking to psychiatric hospital to give up the ghost ewuuuu

Many husbands are frustrated with their wives. They rely on side-chicks, single mothers and slay queens for peace. Many men are married to witches that frustrate them and end up killing them.
Many high blood pressure and stroke is caused by cantankerous witches called wives.
Many wives behave like kids. They are foul-mouthed, bad-tempered, argumentative, and uncooperative. They gossip up and down and have verbal diarrhea.
Many men are just managing their feminist wives who have turned into freedom fighter, liars, thieves and destroyers of human lives and property.
Quickly go and marry and you will understand what many men are going through.
Many men will happily dash money to ashawo to have some peace and quiet.

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by Xyzkwenu(f): 12:01am On Dec 15, 2020
Many street girls get married. Even prostitutes and runs-girls get married after pretending to be who they are not to deceive their husband.
Getting married by pretences can work. The difficulty is to continue the pretence after marriage or after child birth. In no time, the true colour will appear and it cannot be hidden. Bleaching will fade away. Ashawo and runs-girl will continue after marriage and they will be caught.

A thief will continue stealing
A liar will never stop lying.
Na so broken home go start and we will end up with single mother and touts, hoodlums and hooligans.

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by blackmaine: 12:12am On Dec 15, 2020
EXLOVER:
There comes a time in a man's life when you will feel so lonely and incomplete, you will have a beautiful apartment, cars and a steady income, then you will know you are missing something. That is you need a family. You need someone to go home to.


Now you won't understand cause you don't have what it takes to have a family, when that time comes you will understand.

For now keep and 4ucking around. Time will tell, I pray God answers all your prayers.
omoh you talk well oo, but do we really have women who are capable of building up a family, make I tell you , you see some of these ladies , they are not even trained to build up their families, Marriage is just a business entity where they can come in just to answer married woman, giving you headaches, then you going down the grave before them , then them enjoying all your efforts...Sorry Marriage age are gone, just sit down checkmate How your mother took care of you and what you learnt from her , some of these girls are brainless, their civilization lies in making bulky demands from your small salary

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by BigBrother9ja: 2:02am On Dec 15, 2020
dalass:


You have a problem with understanding simple English grin

It is quite simple really......I agree totally

That the male folks can do without the females if they so wish... If it is too expensive, keep your money and assets. Abi?

I'm not in any way pained. I only agreed with what the male folks seem to want and all are still quoting me.. Na wah oh..

Keep your frustration and painments to yourself grin
Re: Relationships are Overrated by Xyzkwenu(f): 2:46am On Dec 15, 2020
We need to ask married women what value they add to their husband.
Some only open their legs and that is all. Everything else is to nag, fight and quarrel from morning till night. Small thing they will start talking about the pain of childbirth. If men can give birth, many men will do it without complaining.

They eat free food
Watch free DSTV
Consume free electricity and waste free water

What they do is steal money from the husband's pocket
Work is done by househelp
Food is cooked by househelp
Market runs is operated by househelp
School runs is done by driver & school bus

That is why some women remain unmarriageable. They are a liability to themselves and anybody that associates with them. All they know how to do is open leg and continue demanding for money. Simple respect they cannot give their husband who they see as their houseboy.

Divorce and seperation teaches many of them a very bitter lesson and turns them to ashawo. Single mothers and ashawo compete for attention from sugar daddies who use them on pay as you go basis.
You need to get close to some single mothers who have left their matrimonial home to know how bitter and frustrated they are.
They are tempted with freedom to operate outside the control of their husband but that freedom comes at a cost.

Most of the free things and awoof that husband provides are cut off. Many start paying house rent, electricity bill, medical bill, t-fare, hair dresser and menstral pad etc from their pocket. The money they get from multiple Sugar Daddies is not enough and soon age will betray them. The life of a divorced wife and that of prostitutes have many similarities.

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by dalass(f): 3:31am On Dec 15, 2020
Hassanmaye:

He will never try it na them go back screen they kneel down and beg women, do you think he can use sex doll? If only women know the power they have over men ...

You're right... They will be forming Rambo here , be grovelling before a lady grin

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by Xyzkwenu(f): 3:34am On Dec 15, 2020
dalass:


You're right... They will be forming Rambo here , be grovelling before a lady grin

apart from sex, what else do they offer?
Sex means open leg for many

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by Hassanmaye(m): 5:07am On Dec 15, 2020
samsard:
LMAO. You're a ridiculous man. I'm irreligious and have zero regards for frauds on pulpit. If there is hell, it walks with me
God Elijah, blood of Zachariah! Guy what are you saying are you terming our men of God as scammers. shocked
Re: Relationships are Overrated by Hassanmaye(m): 5:10am On Dec 15, 2020
Xyzkwenu:
Before you marry be sure you do enough investigation, testing and sampling.
Don't be deceived. There are many secrets that you need to discover. Many have married ashawo, olosho, single mother, slay mamma, drug pusher, murderer, idol worshipper, masquerade, demon possessed wife, rape victim, cultist, hooligan, hoodlum, drug addict, alcoholic, amebo, tatafoo, grave digger, gold digger, criminal, psychiatric patient, 419er, cannibal, etc etc without knowing

Don't allow marriage turn you into a fool.
Many use marriage to escape poverty.
It is more of marriage for benefits not marriage for love.
Shine your eyes.
Stop scaring me abeg, I don't care about my girlfriend past record I just love her, nothing can stop by God Elijah

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