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Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Sixfeetbelle: 8:18pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
extol1: Because he came to visit the family with gifts, he will now start maltreating the wife? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by SMBH: 8:18pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
He shouldn't have gone there empty handed and your mum shouldn't have complained and you shouldn't have told him directly. 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by codedphyness(m): 8:19pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey: I can see you're not ready to learn from your mistake 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Sirebonny(m): 8:19pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
my opinion,I tinz he wasn't rite going empty because day did both Christmas and new year he did give dem anything at least we r still in d season of giving and receiving.thanks |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by festusforchrist: 8:19pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
My beloved go and reconcile with your fiance and forge ahead. Talk to your mother for there are better days ahead. Don't allow Devil to steal your joy with this minor issue. Your mother is not a saint, she is a human being, emotionally we should expect her to react being a son in-law to be, it's behoove on him to establish himself in the heart of the mother inlaw. This is a sensitive matter, commenting because you have data but not making sense will not help our sister. When it concerns the issue of serious relationship/marriage, don't comment if you don't have marital experience because who no go no know. Our sister reaction is her level of understanding. Go and reconcile with your fiance and both of you should go and meet your mother. For one on one Counseling, call/WhatsApp:-08181075096 |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Gkemz: 8:19pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Your entitlement mentality is wrong. Inasmuch it's expected of him to buy a present for your mum while visiting but it should not be made mandatory. I believe he has been giving you all the while and because he failed to give your mum a present in his visit, you want to ruin this relationship. I'm sure this is his first visit to your mum and will continue to visit her afterwards. Don't judge a book by its first cover page. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Ewizard(m): 8:19pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
While your fiance might be wrong or right in different cultures and perceptions. I only have one honest truth to tell you from personal experience. That guy has automatically develop 50% dislike for your mum and it's irreversible. MEN NEVER FORGETS! 7 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Acidosis(m): 8:19pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Munzy14: I agree, the babe did not act rightly. Calling your man to discuss the issue of gift is wrong. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by obstead200(m): 8:19pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
GIANTPLUSHUB:at the bolded, my wife dey do am Wella. She knows me Na. Sometimes I will put my foot down and say I am not giving. She will bring out her own money and hand it to me to give to her people. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by OdenKelechi(m): 8:19pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey: Ohhh! So he has visited your mum before and he got something for her... And your mum is making a fuss about this one time he didn't come with something and you're siding her... Wow! At this point i hope the guy is done with the relationship. You and your family don't deserve him, period... What manner of fuckery 6 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by BusinessCity: 8:20pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
idahme: It's the man that would change. Smh |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Ihatebuhariwith(m): 8:20pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey:that mean her mama like ijekuje translate ijekuje(Yoruba) 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Nobody: 8:20pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
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Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by kolade560: 8:20pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
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Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Juoflife1(f): 8:20pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Babe stop the arguements abeg. What you and your mom did is wrong. Send a text to your guy and apologize 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by farmboyy: 8:20pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
You are not just wrong both you and your mother are greedy fools. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Messiah123: 8:21pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey:Then your mother is a greedy thief. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by AFONAMARO: 8:21pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey: You and your mother are leeches that need to be avoided like a plague. Just imagine the seedy and queer feeling of over sense of entitlement! You mean he should have brought the market to your house just because he came to see your mother? And you have the effrontery to tell him that he'd have stayed back instead of coming empty handed. This clearly shows that you and your mother are after his pocket, and not his genuine intention towards you. 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by deltateam: 8:22pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
osazsky: Simp kill you there oponu. It's obvious you are a single mofo. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Shokoloko(f): 8:22pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
BusinessCity: Your response so far have been very mature. I had to go investigating and found the attached. I agree with the person 95%. The 5% is for when you call people "fool" and "Ode"
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Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by At10tion: 8:22pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
descarado:it's not entitlement mentality! It's courtesy, if you know what that means and courtesy demands he doesn't go empty-handed, hence the red-flag he triggers. This is not even about tradition, this is universal and resonates with the law of give and take, sow and reap! The Bible says "the gift of a man makes way for him". The woman may not even be thinking of the gift as anything now but the thought of will the supposed fiance be able to take care of her daughter may just continually fills her mind. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by kolade560: 8:22pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
GayPontiff:we are Africans,,,,,but they want same right as men as done in Europe,,,,,hypocrites everywhere 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Drone95(m): 8:22pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey:you & ur mom are wrong.. probably he didn't have much as at that time, you should have told ur mom to calm down that the next time he pay a visit, he's gonna come with goodies 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by BusinessCity: 8:22pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
JovialJune: You are not wise to keep taking the guy should be excused. Come to marry her girl and come without gift. That relationship ends. Nonsense. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by OdenKelechi(m): 8:22pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
stupidmod2: Na this kain people go marry and allow their mother dictate their relationship and eventually ruin it... Fuckkk 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by luminouz(m): 8:23pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
WILLuKPquiet: You should literally obey your moniker... What a load of bullcrap 7 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Draei: 8:23pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
....and some stupid fools on this thread are even supporting her. Foolishness knows no bound. If I were to be the guy, that's a total turnoff, we are near OVER if not fuckinq over. 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Nobody: 8:23pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Sarita01: They aint married yet. It wasn't his first visit to her mom. He has done so in d past bearing gifts. I salute his boldness and wanting to bond with the lady, but then her greed speaks volume. She has successfully put discord in d relationship.make she marry her daughter. No law states he should bear gifts. He also is lucky to see this part. He can safely take a walk. 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by OdenKelechi(m): 8:23pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Afromentalist: Harsh... But then, the truth is never comforting. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by kolade560: 8:25pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Mariangeles:marriage has now become a place u lobby or ecpect. for material things...tueh 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Nobody: 8:25pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
You know all this poverty people sef, poverty will mess up your sense of reasoning a times. I just can't comprehend the big deal in serving a visitor a drink. Biglittlelois: 4 Likes |
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