Virginprince:
The way some men make guys feels as though they are weak for been a virgin is just saddening. Is there any theory that says virginity is only for female? Even if there is, i care less, all i know is that no man will make me feel less of myself for doing what i feel is right, i won't bow to peer pressure because only weak men do.
Appreciate yourself if you are virgin because keeping oneself in a world filled with lust and immorality is not a mean feat.

Wish I can like this comment a zeellion times.

baralatie:

no is not


the act and art sexual abstinence is a different discuss

from the art and act of successful,fruitful relationships.

one deals with one's self,beliefs and training

the other is interpersonal skills,experience,faith,problem and conflict resolution skills and productivity outcomes

I get what you're trying to say though.

Something like "the personality and character matters"
Right?

Well it does but,I'm taking it from the sexuality aspect now.

Let me use a goat and a yam for example.

Your goat got a yam as a gift. Funny enough,you have other yams littered round your environment.
The goat will most definitely eat the yam you got,right?

After having his feel,being used to eating yams before. He comes out to meet yams littered everywhere,regardless being taught self control by you the owner and already filled up by the taste of the other yam inside the house,

Do you think the goat can endure??


Character matters a lot too but,once you get addicted to something. Letting go will be HARD.

Marriages keeps crashing but,we seem not to know the root cause of it.
My grandparents got married and lived together as one happily, till death parted them. Why, cause they married chaste and pure. Non looking at the panties or boxers of another man/woman outside their home.
Everyone keeps encouraging immorality and homes keeps breaking.
Even the westerners who are being copied know the level of damage this sex before marriage thing have caused.
Divorce is not far fetched.
I think we should all just try every possible way to teach the kids about sex at very early stages. It will go a long way

StacyO:


I get what you're trying to say though.

Something like "the personality and character matters"
Right?

Well it does but,I'm taking it from the sexuality aspect now.

Let me use a goat and a yam for example.

Your goat got a yam as a gift. Funny enough,you have other yams littered round your environment.
The goat will most definitely eat the yam you got,right?

After having his feel,being used to eating yams before. He comes out to meet yams littered everywhere,regardless being taught self control by you the owner and already filled up by the taste of the other yam inside the house,

Do you think the goat can endure??


Character matters a lot too but,once you get addicted to something. Letting go will be HARD.

you are still coming back to my earlier comment about sexual abstinence.
it is all about training.training based on beliefs.if a person does not have a belief system regarding sexual abstinence.it is pointless for the person to engage himself/herself in the demanding lifestyle of sexual abstinence.a practitioner of sexual abstinence is Apostle Paul,he said I put my body under authority .it is an act and an art.Jesus Christ explained in this there are those who get this gift from birth,there are those who get this gift by training,there are those who get this by making .
therefore not everyone can ensure.
Now back to the goat and yam analogy.
a goat personifies a person whose beliefs and training is anything that I see is good for food.it does not know boundaries or belief.the stomach is it's God.they eat from morning till night and are yet not satisfied.
how do you think a goat will learn abstinence.it take God's miracle.
So in context of humanity.There are" goats" in symbolic sense.anything that walks about in skirt there are salivating.they cannot hold or control themself.
In the book of Proverbs,solomon says there are people who have forgotten their vows with God,therefore you will see them in the marketplace,in the town square ,in the dark corners looking for sexual partners.He also said there are simple minded men who will leave there way to the business and turn into the way where the woman is (just for the pleasure of sex)
sexual abstinence is based on training.training that is rooted on a belief system.


it is different from relationships bruhaha.it is a personal discovery and a beautiful journey but not for weak hearts

StacyO:


Here's how to know whether a man is a virgin or not.
1) When he has sex for the first time,you notice some reddish liquid (blood) coming out from his pinis.
It might not be in large quantity but,it will be a bit visible.

2) When a virgin man pee,his urine always comes out pointed in a straight manner but,once he loses his virginity,his urine will seem to scatter in different directions.

3) He is always a bit clueless in bed but,as time goes on,he tends to master the game.



Male virginity is priceless. Regardless you've lost yours,please try to encourage young boys to keep theirs.

No 1 and 2 is not true.Guys that are virgins usually have wet dreams often to free the old sperm aw so the first time,the guy have sex,I don't think there will be any red stuff because he has already released some many things.I have not had sex because of the kind of conscience I have.
If only the time I opened porn sites for few minutes,I feel guilty and dirty for watching it.I can't even open my mouth in the morning to thank God for a new day.I don't know how it will be like if I start having sex.That why i always say I can't marry a community PU**SY.It's not easy ooo but God dey.

StacyO:


Here's how to know whether a man is a virgin or not.
1) When he has sex for the first time,you notice some reddish liquid (blood) coming out from his pinis.
It might not be in large quantity but,it will be a bit visible.

2) When a virgin man pee,his urine always comes out pointed in a straight manner but,once he loses his virginity,his urine will seem to scatter in different directions.

No.1 is a sign of a disease


No.2 is due to lying on your stomach for long



Also, if a man is urinating with low-pressure [because you don’t have to pee all that badly], it’s way more likely for the stream to deflect.” This goes back to her water hose analogy
— the less pressure behind the stream, the less
likely it will shoot out in a straight line.

It should also be noted that obstructions within the urethra — like, for instance, dried semen — can cause your stream to divert, for obvious reasons, until they’re pushed out.

StacyO:


Here's how to know whether a man is a virgin or not.
1) When he has sex for the first time,you notice some reddish liquid (blood) coming out from his pinis.
It might not be in large quantity but,it will be a bit visible.

2) When a virgin man pee,his urine always comes out pointed in a straight manner but,once he loses his virginity,his urine will seem to scatter in different directions.

3) He is always a bit clueless in bed but,as time goes on,he tends to master the game.



Male virginity is priceless. Regardless you've lost yours,please try to encourage young boys to keep theirs.

If u don't know what to say just shut up, leave the sexuality of a man to men n focus on ur gender. See d nonsense u just wrote up there. Blood will come out of his penis, madam shut up once more.

FalseProphet1:

If u don't know what to say just shut up, leave the sexuality of a man to men n focus on ur gender. See d nonsense u just wrote up there. Blood will come out of his penis, madam shut up once more.

Kikikikiki
I know some people will correct me.


Oya,check the picture on the topic.


Kikikikkkki

paul100:

No 1 and 2 is not true.Guys that are virgins usually have wet dreams often to free the old sperm aw so the first time,the guy have sex,I don't think there will be any red stuff because he has already released some many things.I have not had sex because of the kind of conscience I have.
If only the time I opened porn sites for few minutes,I feel guilty and dirty for watching it.I can't even open my mouth in the morning to thank God for a new day.I don't know how it will be like if I start having sex.That why i always say I can't marry a community PU**SY.It's not easy ooo but God dey.

Seems you have very low libido.

StacyO:



Kikikikiki
I know some people will correct me.


Oya,check the picture on the topic.


Kikikikkkki

U no nothing about the male reproductive organ so stop make a fool of urself on line. The male organ was created to function effectively not mindin how many holes he bangs, that is why our grandfathers had multiple wives but still maintain their erection and even kept on satisfying and impregnating them all. Stop givin people false education to cover ur worn out pússy. A girls virginity is her pride, if she foolishly gives it out to foolish boys and it slackens then that is her own problem, guys will call her a cheap slot because that is exactly what she is.

FalseProphet1:

U no nothing about the male reproductive organ so stop make a fool of urself on line. The male organ was created to function effectively not mindin how many holes he bangs, that is why our grandfathers had multiple wives but still maintain their erection and even kept on satisfying and impregnating them all. Stop givin people false education to cover ur worn out pússy. A girls virginity is her pride, if she foolishly gives it out to foolish boys and it slackens then that is her own problem, guys will call her a cheap slot because that is exactly what she is.

Your grandfathers never fvcked around during their youthful age. Why? Cause every one knew what morality was all about then,they knew the consequences of pre marital sex.

I know you didn't feel stupid while typing this cause it's exactly your type that go about convincing people to engage in immorality.

And the guys sleeping with her are what??
Do you think when it comes to sex,ladies are the only ones being used?
You are both using yourselfs,don't be deceived.

I hope your destiny haven't been deflowered as well.
Try have dignity,it will save you some shame.

StacyO:


You grandfathers never fvcked around during their youthful age. Why? Cause every one knew what morality was all about then,they knew the consequences of pre marital sex.

I know you didn't feel stupid while typing this cause it's exactly your type that go about convincing people to engage in immorality.

And the guys sleeping with her are what??
Do you think when it comes to sex,ladies are the only ones being used?
You are both using yourselfs,don't be deceived.

I hope your destiny haven't been deflowered as well.
Try have dignity,it will save you some shame.

Shut up ur slutty mouth jare, people have been engaging in premarital sex before the days of our grandfathers so keep shut, ur just looking for some consolation to give u hope or ur miserable lifestyle but I will tell u the truth, u are a slot, and can never be compared to a guy, no matter how many girls a guy has been with women will still flock around him whenever he decides to settle down, but u once it becomes obvious that ur virginity has been ripped off, there is nothing special left in ur body to give out again. So focus on ur life and how to make it meaningful and stop comparing urself with men cos we are totally different from u people

FalseProphet1:

Shut up ur slutty mouth jare, people have been engaging in premarital sex before the days of our grandfathers so keep shut, ur just looking for some consolation to give u hope or ur miserable lifestyle but I will tell u the truth, u are a slot, and can never be compared to a guy, no matter how many girls a guy has been with women will still flock around him whenever he decides to settle down, but u once it becomes obvious that ur virginity has been ripped off, there is nothing special left in ur body to give out again. So focus on ur life and how to make it meaningful and stop comparing urself with men cos we are totally different from u people

It's very simple to identify ones without home training when you sight them.


I don't have attention to waste.



Aurevior.

Men get hymen?

StacyO:


It's simple to identify ones with home training when you sight them.


I don't have attention to waste.



Aurevior.

Lol truth is bitter shey, don't ever think u can compare ur sexuality to a man, if u like keep opening ur legs for unserious boys, then keep wondering why no man is proposing marriage, the truth is no man will taste a slacked pússy and struggle to own it for life by marrying the owner, he will hav his taste an break up with u over nothin for a virgin pússy. I've just educated u never compare urself to a man. Close those legs and just maybe u might get someone serious, don't ever think men get used, that's a very terrible idealogy cos men are the ones who proposes not women, if no man proposes to u, you will remain single and lonely, thts life

Sonnobax15:



A male virgin ? In this era?

No na You no go fit see am

see me for here

ObiaboAdoka:
Men get hymen?

Not at all.

Favemmzar200:
see me for here

Lol



Trump don suffer.

StacyO:


Not at all.

Wet dream disvirgins us at puberty

Imaginations before wet dreams make us succumb and release

It's not our fault

StacyO:


Lol



Trump don suffer.

ahbi oo

JESHAL:


Wet dream disvirgins us at puberty

Imaginations before wet dreams make us succumb and release

It's not our fault

I still don't think that justifies having sex with multiple strangers.


Some go as far as paying prostitutes to satisfy this urge after they've been exposed.

Not being hypocritical but,if I tell you how many types of deeks this sex workers have passed through.

After all this riding and humping,they come online demanding for a virgin wife.
Ever wondered why most marriages are blessed with faults??


#let'sencouragemalevirginity

StacyO:


I still don't think that justifies having sex with multiple strangers.


Some go as far as paying prostitutes to satisfy this urge after they've been exposed.

Not being hypocritical but,if I tell you how many types of deeks this sex workers have passed through.

After all this riding and humping,they come online demanding for a virgin wife.
Ever wondered why most marriages are blessed with faults??


#let'sencouragemalevirginity

Ok you are correct

StacyO:


Here's how to know whether a man is a virgin or not.
1) When he has sex for the first time,you notice some reddish liquid (blood) coming out from his pinis.
It might not be in large quantity but,it will be a bit visible.

2) When a virgin man pee,his urine always comes out pointed in a straight manner but,once he loses his virginity,his urine will seem to scatter in different directions.

3) He is always a bit clueless in bed but,as time goes on,he tends to master the game.



Male virginity is priceless. Regardless you've lost yours,please try to encourage young boys to keep theirs.

wrong. There are no physical indicators of male virginity. As a matter of fact the best way to be certain if your man is a virgin is to ask him outright whether he has had sexual encounters in the past. All these your scopes are just signs

StacyO:


I still don't think that justifies having sex with multiple strangers.


Some go as far as paying prostitutes to satisfy this urge after they've been exposed.

Not being hypocritical but,if I tell you how many types of deeks this sex workers have passed through.

After all this riding and humping,they come online demanding for a virgin wife.
Ever wondered why most marriages are blessed with faults??


#let'sencouragemalevirginity

una see am nau!

the basic issue behind this I want this and that is because .
of choice and preference

this issue has never been about sexual abstinence but about the choice that is been made by male folks when they want to marry!



before do you want the man to choose what he does like?

abeg o!
if woman like open leg for every time dick and harry (no problem)

if man like shook any hole in between a girls leg (no problem)

that is a choice of wether you believe in sexual abstinence or not

but when it boils down to productive,healthy and successful relationships ,it is a totally different set of rules, experiences and some sense of hard work.(which is a different discuss)

StacyO:


Seems you have very low libido.

No,I don't have a low libido.What you wrote made me laugh. every guy has the reason for keeping himself. My own is because of my Christian background.Not all male virgin have low libido.The urge comes every damn time.

StacyO:


I still don't think that justifies having sex with multiple strangers.


Some go as far as paying prostitutes to satisfy this urge after they've been exposed.

Not being hypocritical but,if I tell you how many types of deeks this sex workers have passed through.

After all this riding and humping,they come online demanding for a virgin wife.
Ever wondered why most marriages are blessed with faults??


#let'sencouragemalevirginity

I blame the moral decadence on society
In recent times music videos display excessive nudity unlike the past, ladies dress skimpishly exposing their curves

We men are faced with 5 options
Masturbation
Pornography
Visiting prostitutes
Alpha-Gaming (having many sexual partners or girlfriends)

Abstinence the last and most unpopular option


Like u said only Self discipline and taking responsibility overs ones mind and body can bail men out

The temptations are enormous

If all method to reach abstinence fails, Spirituality (God) is our last resort for divine help

StacyO:


Lol

There's still time to learn.
Don't bother yourself so much about that.
Besides,make sure to get a wife who isn't so promiscuous.
Someone who has the same sex libido as you.

You'll be fine,don't stress too much about that. For now channel your energy into something useful.

but so true

Great trend by the way

paul100:

No,I don't have a low libido.What you wrote made me laugh. every guy has the reason for keeping himself. My own is because of my Christian background.Not all male virgin have low libido.The urge comes every damn time.

Damn straight brother. No dulling

StacyO:
Male virginity is not something regarded as normal. The society have decayed to the extent that normal things are seen as abnormal.

9 out of every 10 males you come across today have five to fifteen sexual history.
They tell you this feeling all proud about it.

Enquiring from a man then,asked him how many ladies he has slept with.
His reply was 50 and he said it with his head up high.

How will you even live to believe that such a man will want to channel his energy into something useful again?

Then again,mothers please try to encourage your male children to keep themselves till marriage. It might be hard to do but ,at least,it's worth it.
Because,if 6 out of every 10 males are virgins,don't you think the girl child will be free to keep hers?Rape and sexual harassments are sure to reduce.
Let's help save the future generation from conc. immorality.


Being a virgin as a male doesn't mean you're weak.

Many men who ventured into sex are regretting their actions now. Why cause, sex is a remote control on it's own.


Here are some of the advantages and disadvantages of being a male virgin.

ADVANTAGES;

1) Lower chances of cheating while married.

2) You're certain that his destiny is still intact. Many men venture into the act of having sex early without knowing the implications of sleeping with different strangers.

3) He's pure and free from any form of connection with other women.

4) He has self discipline.

5) He has self respect and dignity.

6) You both grow in love and happiness,free from EX stories.

7) Very interesting to be with.

He knows what he wants and when he wants it.

9) He is not controlled by lust.

10) He has an entirely different positive energy.



Disadvantages and some of the stereotypes associated with it;

1) Virgin males are inexperienced: In as much as this might be true,I still believe that virgins are far more interesting than non virgins.

They learn new things everyday and just waiting for the perfect day to unleash it all.

They are generally weak and are mostly nerds. This is as a matter of fact a "solid LIE".
Being a virgin doesn't make you weak,you can be a virgin and still have mind control over ladies.

Let no one tell you you're not man enough if you're a virgin.


Lastly,never pray for a virgin wife if you're not one.

Ladies never feel you owe anyone the right to pick a second hand machine.
Any man whose body count is above 5,please watch well ooo.

I pray everyone gets blessed with a partner who has the same sexometer as them.

Ignore any irrelevant comments below and ask any IMPORTANT questions you have.

Feel free to drop your questions using the comment box down below

we both know that ur memme pic is false..

Sonnobax15:



A male virgin ? In this era?

No na You no go fit see am

hold up, I was a virgin till September

StacyO:


Here's how to know whether a man is a virgin or not.
1) When he has sex for the first time,you notice some reddish liquid (blood) coming out from his pinis.
It might not be in large quantity but,it will be a bit visible.

2) When a virgin man pee,his urine always comes out pointed in a straight manner but,once he loses his virginity,his urine will seem to scatter in different directions.

3) He is always a bit clueless in bed but,as time goes on,he tends to master the game.



Male virginity is priceless. Regardless you've lost yours,please try to encourage young boys to keep theirs.

ok ok just discard 1 and 2 none of that shit happened to me

LuciferO:
hold up, I was a virgin till September

which means you have reiterated his views