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Re: Male Virginity (Diamonds In The Rough) by Nobody: 3:11pm On Jan 08, 2021
StacyO:


Lol



Trump don suffer.
that sticker makes me feel pain and anger
Re: Male Virginity (Diamonds In The Rough) by Nobody: 4:47pm On Jan 08, 2021
LuciferO:
ok ok just discard 1 and 2 none of that shit happened to me

Really?? grin

It might not happen to everyone though.
Re: Male Virginity (Diamonds In The Rough) by Nobody: 4:58pm On Jan 08, 2021
baralatie:

una see am nau!

the basic issue behind this I want this and that is because .
of choice and preference

this issue has never been about sexual abstinence but about the choice that is been made by male folks when they want to marry!

grin grin

before do you want the man to choose what he does like?

abeg o!
if woman like open leg for every time dick and harry (no problem)

if man like shook any hole in between a girls leg (no problem)

that is a choice of wether you believe in sexual abstinence or not

but when it boils down to productive,healthy and successful relationships ,it is a totally different set of rules, experiences and some sense of hard work.(which is a different discuss)

Don't you think it's the virgins that'll suffer it?

I can't even imagine getting married to a man with more than ten body counts..
All from sleeping with different strangers.
It will pollute the other's purity.

We don't want such type of men,if you can't zip that pant,
don't demand for a brand new pucci.


It is well.
Re: Male Virginity (Diamonds In The Rough) by Nobody: 5:01pm On Jan 08, 2021
milann:
wrong. There are no physical indicators of male virginity. As a matter of fact the best way to be certain if your man is a virgin is to ask him outright whether he has had sexual encounters in the past. All these your scopes are just signs

Yeah
Eggzakly
I was on the lookout for correction fluids.
Re: Male Virginity (Diamonds In The Rough) by StrikeBack(m): 5:24pm On Jan 08, 2021
Wahala for us wey no be fagin
Re: Male Virginity (Diamonds In The Rough) by baralatie(m): 5:40pm On Jan 08, 2021
StacyO:


Don't you think it's the virgins that'll suffer it?

I can't even imagine getting married to a man with more than ten body counts..
All from sleeping with different strangers.
It will pollute the other's purity.

We don't want such type of men,if you can't zip that pant,
don't demand for a brand new pucci.


It is well.
that is why I said relationship is different from sexual abstinence

when you now come to relationships a lot of things are involved.
do the two people even have an idea that there are responsible for each other's safety and care for life!
even if we take sexuality interaction (an aspect of relationships) you will be shocked .how it plays out in relationships.
when in relationship mode some people are lead by fantasies some are lead by mechanical role play.
For example,a female virgin got married to a young man and the first complain she had was sex was not the way she thought it would be (she was lead by fantasy).she got into extra marital affair (because her sexual abstinence wasn't based on belief).she found out sex was pleasurable but realised late that pleasure with a man who doesn't believe in abstinence always bring out the trouble of troubles.
Another she was a virgin but the thought of even having a man who never believed in abstinence ruins her body system(she is mechanical).
now there all kinds of variations that come about but one variations very common is where you have a woman who was a virgin married but her friends both at home and office are single moms.divorcees,young widows who have man friends and lovers(how long do you think she can last before she falls temptations).
I am not even talking about woman despite being virgins are under constant bombardment from all kinds of temptations from men with gifts and sweet mouth (all for relationships)
then God she enter problem
Re: Male Virginity (Diamonds In The Rough) by Nobody: 6:06pm On Jan 08, 2021
StacyO:


Really?? grin

It might not happen to everyone though.
it just doesn't happen
Re: Male Virginity (Diamonds In The Rough) by Nobody: 11:22pm On Jan 08, 2021
Me I want a virgin husband o.
I don't want second hand deek cheesy what is good for the goose...
Re: Male Virginity (Diamonds In The Rough) by baralatie(m): 11:27pm On Jan 08, 2021
Chii59:
Me I want a virgin husband o.
I don't want second hand deek cheesy what is good for the goose...
you do realize a virgin is someone who doesn't have any experience with sex.as in a man who has never had or seen a naked woman's body?
you will not even give him face for 2 ininutes
Re: Male Virginity (Diamonds In The Rough) by Nobody: 11:32pm On Jan 08, 2021
baralatie:

you do realize a virgin is someone who doesn't have any experience with sex.as in a man who has never had or seen a naked woman's body?
you will not even give him face for 2 ininutes
Let that be my problem to deal with.
Re: Male Virginity (Diamonds In The Rough) by baralatie(m): 11:37pm On Jan 08, 2021
Chii59:

Let that be my problem to deal with.
ha!
let us solve the problem now o!
before you know you women will start epilogue

em.....
Nigerian virgin are full
Nigerian husband are unromantic
Nigerian men are useless in bed
is it by force to marry!
no means no! yes mean yes


no you want to give driving license to somebody without driving experience.is it not problem?
Re: Male Virginity (Diamonds In The Rough) by baralatie(m): 11:59pm On Jan 08, 2021
so if you say you want virgins best of luck
Re: Male Virginity (Diamonds In The Rough) by abbatoir(m): 9:41am On Jan 09, 2021
DEMZEE:
VIRGINITY FOR A MAN IS HIS WORST NIGHTMARE BUT VIRGINITY IS A WOMAN'S TREASURE


KNOW THIS AND KNOW PEACE

NO LADY SEEKS VIRGINITY AS A QUALITY CRITERIA IN HER MAN

Never argue with ignorant people...he highlighted the advantages and disadvantages... just one disadvantage is everything... Experience is the best teacher
Re: Male Virginity (Diamonds In The Rough) by abbatoir(m): 10:02am On Jan 09, 2021
AustineJohn908:
You're just wasting your time aunty. Virginity wasn't made for boys/men so it won't be used against us.
Boy Will be boys.
Re: Male Virginity (Diamonds In The Rough) by Nobody: 10:38am On Jan 09, 2021
StacyO:


Lol

There's still time to learn.
Don't bother yourself so much about that.
Besides,make sure to get a wife who isn't so promiscuous.
Someone who has the same sex libido as you.

You'll be fine,don't stress too much about that. For now channel your energy into something useful.

With the way ladies of nowadays go about sex, it's something to worry about.
How will you know someone who isn't promiscuous? If there was a way of knowing, many homes and marriages wouldn't be suffering breakups today.
About 99.894% of women in Nigeria won't even continue dating you if you say no to sex before marriage.
Adult men who are virgins don't reveal to girls that they are because a lot of girls see it as something abnormal. Most of them will dump you immediately.

Also, how will you know someone who has same sex libido as you without you having sex with them. That means I have to start having sex with anyone I meet to ascertain their sex libido. We are not even talking about the fact that a lot of people hide a lot of things until marriage.

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Re: Male Virginity (Diamonds In The Rough) by Nobody: 6:59pm On Jan 09, 2021
DEMZEE:
VIRGINITY FOR A MAN IS HIS WORST NIGHTMARE BUT VIRGINITY IS A WOMAN'S TREASURE


KNOW THIS AND KNOW PEACE

NO LADY SEEKS VIRGINITY AS A QUALITY CRITERIA IN HER MAN

Lol


This your comment is quite funny.
Re: Male Virginity (Diamonds In The Rough) by Nobody: 7:12pm On Jan 09, 2021
TheSuperb:


With the way ladies of nowadays go about sex, it's something to worry about.
How will you know someone who isn't promiscuous? If there was a way of knowing, many homes and marriages wouldn't be suffering breakups today.
About 99.894% of women in Nigeria won't even continue dating you if you say no to sex before marriage.
Adult men who are virgins don't reveal to girls that they are because a lot of girls see it as something abnormal. Most of them will dump you immediately.

Also, how will you know someone who has same sex libido as you without you having sex with them. That means I have to start having sex with anyone I meet to ascertain their sex libido. We are not even talking about the fact that a lot of people hide a lot of things until marriage.

For the record,men due to nature are wired towards demanding for sex a lot.
Why circumcision was advised for young boys in the holy book.

After that,it is demanded that the urge for sex reduce. But,due to the fast rising state of immorality,men tend to think virginity is meant for women.

Due to too much twisting,men who want sex=demanding from the ladies.
Ladies= virgins

From that process,sanity population begins to reduce.
More sex starved non virgin males=more sex starved non virgin females.
Re: Male Virginity (Diamonds In The Rough) by Nobody: 7:26pm On Jan 09, 2021
TheSuperb:



How will you know someone who isn't promiscuous? If there was a way of knowing, many homes and marriages wouldn't be suffering breakups today.

This is one of the major disadvantages of encouraging sexual immorality.

In as much as you can meet your wife in a brothel,a woman who can change once she enters your home.
There's no particular place you can't meet your destined lover but,once a goat masters how to eat a yam,regardless how you flog it,it will only see yam as a source of medicine to all the pain you inflicted.

Same goes to men. Once you taste pucci,backing down will be tough. Even in your marriage


Many people venture into marriages even after seeing the warning signs at the early stage.
Knowing a promiscuous man or woman is a very tough thing. Why? Cause people tend to pretend a lot lately.




I'll be giving some few tips that might be of help.

1) If a lady has no control over her body, she never hesitates to ride you silly any time you request for sex. (Some men find this type of ladies interesting though)

2) When she keeps tags with her ex(es). She's always sneaking out to meet one ex or the other. Always making late night calls.
Her male bestie is always on the line with her.

3) At a point in some relationships, a guy or lady will most likely compare you to their ex.
When they start doing this more often than never,just start knowing your level in their heart.
It might still be at the bottom or partially dangling at the top.



Men and women, before marriage;

Ask your partner series of questions. Not only sexually related but,background as well.

Some mother's are just what their daughters portray.

To know your man for who he would be in marriage, get to know his father.

Never marry cause of bréast and bum,those things become tasteless(Lol) and useless in the future. But,her legacy and the happiness she brought to you is all that will matter.

Never marry cause he has six packs or six cars. The problem is,can he share those six cars with you or with other women in his life?

Never marry cause he or she has confused you with their pretence. Ask from their friends,colleagues at work or family friends.

Lastly,never marry because of so much pressure.
Wait for the perfect time,when you know you've concluded your research and declared him/her the lucky half.

Seek help from your creator.




If you can fulfill most of this,why then do you think you can't find a non promiscuous woman or man??
Tell me please.
Re: Male Virginity (Diamonds In The Rough) by Nobody: 7:37pm On Jan 09, 2021
TheSuperb:


With the way ladies of nowadays go about sex, it's something to worry about.
How will you know someone who isn't promiscuous? If there was a way of knowing, many homes and marriages wouldn't be suffering breakups today.
About 99.894% of women in Nigeria won't even continue dating you if you say no to sex before marriage.
Adult men who are virgins don't reveal to girls that they are because a lot of girls see it as something abnormal. Most of them will dump you immediately.

Also, how will you know someone who has same sex libido as you without you having sex with them. That means I have to start having sex with anyone I meet to ascertain their sex libido. We are not even talking about the fact that a lot of people hide a lot of things until marriage.

I wonder where you got that 99.8% from.
That's conc. stereotype.



This stereotype equally addresses your last question.
Once a girl you get into a relationship with is always ready to jump on the bed with you,no day goes by without her talking about sex, she might just be that promiscuous.

If she's a virgin with high libido: Always excited when the discussion centers around sex. Views porn a lot. Masturbates quite often. pre-intimacy always gets her going OR rather romance.

Virgin with low libido: Never really into sex,not at interested in sex talks. Not even a fan of soft romance.



Some of this might not apply to everyone though but,it might be of help.
Re: Male Virginity (Diamonds In The Rough) by DEMZEE(m): 5:44pm On Jan 10, 2021
abbatoir:


Never argue with ignorant people...he highlighted the advantages and disadvantages... just one disadvantage is everything... Experience is the best teacher

I don't argue
Re: Male Virginity (Diamonds In The Rough) by DEMZEE(m): 5:45pm On Jan 10, 2021
StacyO:


Lol


This your comment is quite funny.

Na fact
Re: Male Virginity (Diamonds In The Rough) by Nobody: 9:44pm On Jan 10, 2021
DEMZEE:


Na fact

To you??

Try read your comment again and read the disadvantages of pre marital sex.

Ciaoo
Re: Male Virginity (Diamonds In The Rough) by DEMZEE(m): 7:49am On Jan 11, 2021
StacyO:


To you??

Try read your comment again and read the disadvantages of pre marital sex.

Ciaoo


No lady wants a virgin man!
Re: Male Virginity (Diamonds In The Rough) by Nobody: 6:51pm On Jan 15, 2021
baralatie:

so as you dey now.your own sexometer is reading zero man sexed per second bah
Funny.

Can't stop laughing whenever I see this. grin
Re: Male Virginity (Diamonds In The Rough) by Nobody: 6:53pm On Jan 15, 2021
DEMZEE:



No lady wants a virgin man!

That's generally what you think and what the society have painted virgin men to be.
Re: Male Virginity (Diamonds In The Rough) by Nobody: 10:33pm On Jan 15, 2021
StacyO:


That's generally what you think and what the society have painted virgin men to be.

Don't blame Society

It pisses me off
Re: Male Virginity (Diamonds In The Rough) by Nobody: 12:09pm On Aug 20, 2022


I wonder where you got that 99.8% from.
That's conc. stereotype.



This stereotype equally addresses your last question.
Once a girl you get into a relationship with is always ready to jump on the bed with you,no day goes by without her talking about sex, she might just be that promiscuous.

If she's a virgin with high libido: Always excited when the discussion centers around sex. Views porn a lot. Masturbates quite often. pre-intimacy always gets her going OR rather romance.

Virgin with low libido: Never really into sex,not at interested in sex talks. Not even a fan of soft romance.



Some of this might not apply to everyone though but,it might be of help.

Alright.

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