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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by psalmistkakah(m): 6:49am On Jan 14
RichDadTwo:


Suicide is never the answer. I remember my 100lv days vividly; just lost my father and also Depressed, Anxious & Broke.
I basically failed half of my 100lv courses. Had really bad self esteem after that. On top of that, the girl I liked didn't even send me at all! I seriously wanted to end my life because I felt I was a failure.
Fast forward few years. I'm a Millionaire living a low-key private life. Made over ₦3M From crypto currency trading this lockdown!
Sometimes I look back on my life; I'm still shocked. From being dead broke in 100lv to being a millionaire.
It's just a phase. Keep going!
good day, how can one invest in this crypto trading.. I need guardian...
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by GeneralPula: 9:06am On Jan 14
southniyikaye:
O GA o
Last year, I was so close to taking my life..
I think the thread is still here somewhere..
There is this particular nairalander in portharcourt that reached out to me.. Said he stocked his shop for December and everything got burnt or looted, I can't remember right now.. He promised he was gonna send me something to feed..
Like 2-4 people promised same.. It was those promises that I held on to even though it never came through but it delayed that suicide attempt..
When I look back today, I regret ever wanting to take my life looking at how bright and promising the future is...
I am happy I created that thread cos sincerely, I already tied a rope to the ceiling fan with a stool beneath it..
Something just told me"why don't you just tell nairalanders what you passing through?
Help came later from nairaland and places I least expected...
Depression kills when you let it overwhelm you..
LET'S ASSUME BEING DEPRESSED PEAKS AT 100%, WHEN YOU FEEL 1%, PLS TALK TO SOMEONE ASAP...

SEE AS FINE BOY JUST WASTE..

Why did you wanted to take your life?
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by GeneralPula: 9:10am On Jan 14
Alexgman1:
Am also going through severe depression since 2017 but when its too much 4 me i take a long walk and play with kids around. Its so dangerous that nothing in life will make sense to you again when it comes

God dey bro..

Care to share what’s happening?
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Osagiewangbon: 9:30am On Jan 14
True knowledge should be celebrated more than funfare and fanfare. Luke12:15, Matthew4:4, Deuteronomy8:3, John17:4, 8:31-32, 15:11.
That a human life exist into adulthood without true knowledge it is not good. Proverb19:2. It is not good to be alone: but it is 'more bitter than death' to keep the wrong company. Ecclesiastes7:25-26.
The wrong company may be a woman or even a 'christian church' (Hosea6:9, Ezekiel22:25, Micah3:5, Matthew23:13-15, Revelation2:2).

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by southniyikaye(m): 9:40am On Jan 14
GeneralPula:


Why did you wanted to take your life?
oga, na long story.. Go through my threads
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by sherifato(f): 9:58am On Jan 14
Alexgman1:
Am also going through severe depression since 2017 but when its too much 4 me i take a long walk and play with kids around. Its so dangerous that nothing in life will make sense to you again when it comes




Please open up to a reasonable adult. And I pray you will soon get over it.
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by lucky4west: 10:00am On Jan 14
this is sad....committing suicide to find peace i doubt, suicide is a sin against God and self.....u had tyme to dye ur hair and yet claimed to be depressed? hmmmm ...u should have turned to God, genuine repentance and salvation takes away depression...we brought nothing to this world, we take nothing back so why should we allow issue we met here( in this life) bother us to the point of depression?...if Christ tarry to come we will all embark on that journey one after the other so why hasten it? u lived wrongly and made a wrong choice sad...i pray God have mercy on your soul

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Raysleek: 10:26am On Jan 14
aspiring44:



One's spirit has to be well fortified to overcome suicidal thoughts. It's not always easy.
Thats exactly what I am saying. Rich suicide, poor suicide, middle class suicide, beautiful suicide, handsome suicide, terminal illness suicide, very healthy suicide, pass exam suicide, fail exam suicide, healthy relationship suicide, relationship problem suicide. That devil is a liar. Some people even encourage themselves to commit suicide as a game or as a result of what they have seen on the Internet. Its a demonic influence, we only tend to point fingers towards the physical circumstances.

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by aspiring44: 10:33am On Jan 14
Raysleek:

Thats exactly what I am saying. Rich suicide, poor suicide, middle class suicide, beautiful suicide, handsome suicide, terminal illness suicide, very healthy suicide, pass exam suicide, fail exam suicide, healthy relationship suicide, relationship problem suicide. That devil is a liar. Some people even encourage themselves to commit suicide as a game or as a result of what they have seen on the Internet. Its a demonic influence, we only tend to point fingersi
towards the physical circumstances.

Well said.

There are at times when I am in a precarious situation whereby no one could assist I will just like God please don't let me do the unthinkable.
And it's most important to share what is your present situation with someone and counselling could be a bridge , but at times nobody cares untill the deed is done.
Especially , OCD - Obsessive compulsive disorder which is a very strong psychotic disorder.
May God help us to surmount challenges in all situations of life and not be vulnerable to suicidal thoughts.
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Raysleek: 10:38am On Jan 14
aspiring44:


Well said.

There are at times when I am in a precarious situation whereby no one could assist I will just like God please don't let me do the unthinkable.
And it's most important to share what is your present situation with someone and counselling could be a bridge , but at times nobody cares untill the deed is done.
Especially , OCD - Obsessive compulsive disorder which is a very strong psychotic disorder.
May God help us to surmount challenges in all situations of life and not be vulnerable to suicidal thoughts.
Amen. But I want to tell you my brother suicide is npt an option. I came from a very poor background but when important bills need to be paid, God always made a way before the deadline. One way or the other it always happened so when I face some kind of challenges I just remember those days how God used to provide for my parents and I know it is settled. Infact I use that principle to achieve big things. If I set a target that I want asomething that's within my faith limit before the end of the year. I will get it. The mind is powerful.

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by aspiring44: 10:39am On Jan 14
Raysleek:

Amen. But I want to tell you my brother suicide is npt an option. I came from a very poor background but when important bills need to be paid, God always made a way before the deadline. One way or the other it always happened so when I face some kind of challenges I just remember those days how God used to provide for my parents and I know it is settled. Infact I use that principle to achieve big things. If I set a target that I want asomething that's within my faith limit before the end of the year. I will get it. The mind is powerful.


Faith is the ultimate and it rules and command everything.

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Megaflex(m): 11:29am On Jan 14
ebhaleleme51490:
:What's d root source of the depression? Mine is due to drug addiction. (medical drugs 4 asthma)
how does asthma drugs cause depression?
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by mahnoor3141: 12:09pm On Jan 14
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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by joe4christ(m): 12:38pm On Jan 14
@ODJ124

I really don't think so. The source of this guy's depression might likely not be related to financial ish. Dig deep now, you'll realize he is from a financially bouyant family. And he is even working and earning.
Do u know how many Nigerian graduates are jobless and at thesame time depressed? Yet they try to survive and give themselves reasons to live. This guy's problem is more of psychological. Most depression that leads to suicide are more psychological than you can ever imagine!
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Alexgman1(m): 2:28pm On Jan 14
GeneralPula:

God dey bro..
Care to share what’s happening?
Am asthmatic
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by ogaboss2021: 2:43pm On Jan 14
Go fuvk some pussy and drink a beer.when you feel depreesed
U go dey alright las las.

Everyone has a problem and suicide is not the way to go about it.
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by ODJ124(m): 3:28pm On Jan 14
joe4christ:
@ODJ124

I really don't think so. The source of this guy's depression might likely not be related to financial ish. Dig deep now, you'll realize he is from a financially bouyant family. And he is even working and earning.
Do u know how many Nigerian graduates are jobless and at thesame time depressed? Yet they try to survive and give themselves reasons to live. This guy's problem is more of psychological. Most depression that leads to suicide are more psychological than you can ever imagine!
yeah
seconded... I think so..
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Flamemignon1(m): 3:37pm On Jan 14
bluefilm:
Was he gay or something?
Most likely he couldn't accept his sexuality and that led him to deep depression
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by grim33(m): 4:06pm On Jan 14
I’ve made my point. Educate yourself
futurerex:
The money spent on your education is a waste. Gibberish.
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by mojid22000: 2:31pm On Jan 15
ogaboss2021:
Go fuvk some pussy and drink a beer.when you feel depreesed
U go dey alright las las.

Everyone has a problem and suicide is not the way to go about it.

If Na woman nko ooo?
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by ogaboss2021: 3:18pm On Jan 17
mojid22000:


If Na woman nko ooo?

Let her consult me for solutions.
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by rawfact: 9:51pm On Jan 24
Kriss216:
embarassed

LIFE IS LIKE A PARTY, WHEN YOU STOP HAVING FUN, LEAVE.

No, don't amplify the demonic quote that motivated him to take the life he never gave himself.

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