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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by sammirano: 5:00pm On Jan 13
Mental health awareness is limited in this part of the world. The perception also sometimes discourage people from believing what others actually think is wrong with them.

Depression is most times not a illness itself but a symtoms of many critial illnesses such as Cancer, bipolar and other chronic conditions. Although, in some cases, people just deal with depression but a good psychologist should be able to determine the underlying condition triggering depression.

It is so sad, that till this moment, there is no known cure for depression only short term drugs to help patients feel better.

However, there is a solution that is available to all that experience such devastating state. It is simply seeking help from the one that gives eternal joy, the creator of happiness and the master of your life. He knows what to do, to make you whole. Just surrender your life to Jesus today and experience tremendous wholeness like a child without problems. He is always available and near to you than you can imagine.

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by thundafire: 5:00pm On Jan 13
Bullshit,u committed suicide and didn't tell anyone because u are suffering from depression,yet u want people to discuss theirs.
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Rilwayne001: 5:00pm On Jan 13
arantess:
suicide is never an option and i consider it a weak thing to do... he dosent love his mum or friends or folarin because if he did he would stay alive for them..
he wrote about resting in the after life...how? when you killed yourself,
abeg no sypmathy for peole who commit suicide, such a weak thing to do

He obviously said he didn't love himself, and there's a saying you can't give what you don't have.

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by MedicH: 5:00pm On Jan 13
Your mama should simply have aborted you man. Now you will be going to.hell. shame

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by chunny01(m): 5:00pm On Jan 13
He could have easily join the military and died in active service in sambisa

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by goatmeat1(f): 5:01pm On Jan 13
Suicide is not the answer: Think about the pains yu will inflict on your loved ones before killing yourself

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Oyinlomobambam(m): 5:01pm On Jan 13
Depression is real, Yes but committing suicide if not the perfect solution but speak out...

I will never in my life type RIP for person who commit suicide...

If you are reading this and also planning to commit suicide, May You Not Rest In Peace ooo

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by PrinceVM(m): 5:01pm On Jan 13
it easy to say that suicide is not a way out , but if u enter wahala , even this world will b a strange land to U

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by nerd004: 5:01pm On Jan 13
Never build you hope on tangible things....
Build your hope on God's love and his promise for you...
So Sad!!!
Sucide is never option....
i pray you find rest which I strongly doubt....

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Kayberg(m): 5:02pm On Jan 13
embarassed
If no one understood you bro, I do.

I just pray I get over mine soon….
Been difficult hanging on for too long while your fingers hurt and telling your heart and head, "Let go of this edge."

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by AFONJACOW(m): 5:02pm On Jan 13
Omoslim26:


I have reported you to the mod but its unfortunate dat nothing will be done to curb dis your mental problem dat use to come off and on like nepa light

i no just understand watin dey occur for nairaland its like bigotry is the only reason why dis forum exist

shun bigotry

otu nnegi Wawa tongue
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by arantess(m): 5:02pm On Jan 13
ODJ124:
Depression is more deadly than covid -19...

life hasn't been fair to this handsome guy...



Thread seen...
na so
has life been fair to leah sharibu and chibok girls or dead ones killed by bokoharam or homeless ones under the bridge or or the ones in the orphanages...
he made his choice and will bear the consequences in the afterlife

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Oizatobad(m): 5:02pm On Jan 13
bluefilm:


No, I am really singing it.
EVEN IF YOUR GAY GIRLFRIEND LEAVE YOU GOD WANT YOU TO CHANGE
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Parrot173(m): 5:02pm On Jan 13
Depression is what i have being battling since my undergraduate day's, I had some suicidal thoughts time's without number at a point in time I have finalised my mind to risk it all, but I was lucky to have involved my frnds nd my dad they reignited the hope in me, my very good friend gave me life changing advice which I heeded to that time sad thing is I'm still yet to get off it
.I hate my self, I feel miserable in life nd obviously still fighting this battle I'm still yet to be myself....
One thing I learnt is not everybody really knows what Depression is or how it feels like, not everyone will know the struggles you are passing through so know who to talk about your self to, know who express your self to cause....wallhi some don't really care or may just make fun of you

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by silibaba: 5:03pm On Jan 13
Godpikin4real:
Blood of Jesus. This handsome guy just wasted his life just like dat?
Truly, depression is real. Let's always try 2 reach out 2 friends and loved ones. Who knows, u might be touch a depressed soul.
RIP.
U can't cure depression by killing itself.

Easier said.

Who is ready to listen to one's predicament?

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by oloshun: 5:03pm On Jan 13
I really wished Dele did not die. But, it goes beyond that. Anyone reading that note would know that, that guy was a talent. Look at the way he was playing with figures of speech; I mean he confident, smart and intelligent. In all, when a mind is made, nothing can change it. Another talent gone due to depression. God sees it all. Leaders won't do anything so stop this kind of future occurrences but would summon who killed cows in Oyo north. Hmm!

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Mindlog: 5:03pm On Jan 13
futurerex:
Suicide is not an option and can never be. It is low self esteem, not depression that leads to suicide. RIP

Low self-esteem?

Go study the psychopathology of suicide.
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by nedekid: 5:03pm On Jan 13
Na wah.
People are really going through alot.
May his soul Rest in perfect peace.
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by privaldo: 5:04pm On Jan 13
PataAlhajaKeji:


Suicide is actually an option ... It will forever be a very viable option in a cold, cruel world.

It's probably too esoteric and deep for you to understand.

O daa rọ, Dele. You are now free.

Very wise words. Suicide is the only way to shut yourself out of this world, and probably the best.

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by TOPCRUISE(m): 5:05pm On Jan 13
One of the ways of battling depression is involving in ngo activities, welfare activities, actively and physically involved in help activities pertaining to missions, motivational and ministerial activities, emigrating to areas of needs, help and people who also share your pain.
I pray that help and healing will quickly reach those who are depressed this new year in Jesus Name.

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by jonnypie(m): 5:05pm On Jan 13
That's why when I have those crazy depressing thought I head down to mama elija take enough shots of monkey tail and light up some az with my niggas n after I will be fly...

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by debbydams: 5:06pm On Jan 13
Depression is real embarassed RIP young man
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Djyucee1(m): 5:06pm On Jan 13
Depression is real. I pray that God gives everyone battling depression an answer of peace

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by haryorbarmie83(m): 5:06pm On Jan 13
Oppression is real, depression is real. May your soul rest in peace.

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by oloshun: 5:06pm On Jan 13
silibaba:


Easier said.

Who is ready to listen to one's predicament?


Exactly my problem. Peoe don't see beyond. Who are we to judge him? Are we going to cherish his life than himself? Only him, and himself understood. He was so smart to to embed his reasons in the note. He thought about it for good 7years before actions. Only him saw what we did not see.

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by StUriah(m): 5:07pm On Jan 13
Best suicide note ever written by a depressed soul.

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Princeofasia: 5:07pm On Jan 13
no symphaty for idiots like this
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Parrot173(m): 5:08pm On Jan 13
Alexgman1:
Am also going through severe depression since 2017 but when its too much 4 me i take a long walk and play with kids around. Its so dangerous that nothing in life will make sense to you again when it comes
Really true

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Princeofasia: 5:08pm On Jan 13
this is the only guy using laptop to type, the rest na phones them dey use. dont ask me how i know
arantess:

na so
has life been fair to leah sharibu and chibok girls or dead ones killed by bokoharam or homeless ones under the bridge or or the ones in the orphanages...
he made his choice and will bear the consequences in the afterlife
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Bimpe29: 5:08pm On Jan 13
Depression is grossly deadly most of the time without symptoms.

No matter how dangerous and deadly it may seem, its solution has never rest with suicide but assuring hope in the Lord Almighty.

Obviously, headache can and will never be cured by cutting off the head itself.

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by oloshun: 5:09pm On Jan 13
It takes an extra extra STRENGTH not HOPE to live and survive in Nigeria on daily basis. You hardly wake up to hear good news. Isn't that alone psychologically disturbing?

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by stupidmod2: 5:09pm On Jan 13
dyera:
This post reminds me of rudeboy's song 'audio money'.

Slow down slow down
Why you wan kill yourself?
Why you wan pa yourself?
Living fake life vida loca
Calm down calm down
Why you wan kill yourself?
Why you wan pa yourself?
Living fake life vida loca

If the man had listened to this song in the last moment of his life, he would not have killed himself.
look @ what u just wrote i swear lot of humans dont known how to use reference, did they tell u he was faking life online or he was struggling haba

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