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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Ezi1993(f): 7:49pm On Jan 13
NeoWanZaeed:
Where is the ig page screen grab? We all go through depression. Na NL a dey use cruise mine. . All is about m0ney. .all i nid is a smartph0ne and get an online job. Its always about m0ney. No am0unt of m0ney or w0man wahala worths my life . . Mo kuti . .if u want to help me out. Quote me please o
Good evening,,, please link !e to an online job na..so I can add it up to my business.
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by luvme0702: 7:50pm On Jan 13
To think that this is only the 13th day of the year with all these horrible news cry
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by ebhaleleme51490: 7:53pm On Jan 13
:What's d root source of the depression? Mine is due to drug addiction. (medical drugs 4 asthma)
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by CoolJul: 7:54pm On Jan 13
Kayberg:


Well, thanks for showing concern, but no one cares about anyone in this world.
Everyone have always been selfish and only love to say nice words about the dead.

The dead guy's friends can't say they have no idea of what he had been going through, but nothing will be done as well until he went missing and later found dead.

You are welcome. You are correct about this. You know why it is so? cos we all have our peculiar challenges. We are all fighters but some become WINNERS because they they didn't QUIT. As for the QUITTERS, they are the LOSERS.



May God never make us to see what will make us to conceive the thought of suicide.


KNOW JESUS, KNOW PEACE!

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by alexola20(m): 7:55pm On Jan 13
I have been battling depression for almost decades.
I guess the depression started when my self-centered, selfish and greedy mother left me at my father's house of commotion when I was about 6/7 years when I was in primary 1 or 2,of course with my late brothers ,one of them claimed he was not from our dad as mum claimed and the second and immediate brother was an SS carrier.Since mum left us the children age 10,9 and 6.
Man,that was my beginning of my life struggle and I never get it right.
The hatelred and suffering we endured in my father's house was not from here.
My dad didn't like my elder brother, probably because he knew he was not his.So 3 years later we eloped to go find our mum.So we left home on that monday in 1987.
We were brought back to my father's house after a week But my late brother then around 14 years declared he didn't want to live with my dad anymore and he said he was not going to school again as well as he was not really doing well in school as kid because there was no guardian or mentor couples with too much suffering.
So my dad let him go and live with my mum but wouldn't let me go because to be honest I too resemble my papa.
Rest in perfect peace dad.Eventhough we were not close but I miss you everyday.
It was when my brothers left and remained only me in my dad's house of commotion caused by wicked mothers and wives.
Now all my brother have died,and I can't stop pointing fingers to our mum.
To be honest my mother has been on my matter for a very long time after squandered all my hustle money.
Anyway,I really don't see any reason to continue living but the love I have for my kids won't let me do the extreme.And also I don't want my enemies to win this battle.
My first suicide attempt was when I was 13/14 years old.
Sometimes it's better not be born at all than to be going thru unending depression.
NextD18:
"The noise got too loud, but now the noise can stop"

That statement was deep coming from him. To even think he battled depression for 7 years while carrying out his daily activities makes me believe depression got no particular symptom to get people's attention to you.

You can look and appear like the happiest person alive in the public, social media or gathering, whereas you are mentally struggling and battling a lot.

You can battle it for 10 years without even knowing you are battling depression because you'll have to nurture your system on how to cope and endure overthinking, unrest and no peace of mind. All these will be endured without speaking to anyone because you've gotten use to it and feel it's normal until it hits you to the point you can't endure anymore which normally leads to suicidal thoughts.

Please learn to speak up when you start loosing your sanity and peace of mind.
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Kayberg(m): 7:57pm On Jan 13
CoolJul:


You are welcome. You are correct about this. You know why it is so? cos we all have our peculiar challenges. We are all fighters but some become WINNERS because they they didn't QUIT. As for the QUITTERS, they are the LOSERS.



May God never make us to see what will make us to conceive the thought of suicide.


KNOW JESUS, KNOW PEACE!

Amen.
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by RichDadTwo: 7:59pm On Jan 13
squash47:
Wahala full this new year.

Suicide is never the answer. I remember my 100lv days vividly; just lost my father and also Depressed, Anxious & Broke.
I basically failed half of my 100lv courses. Had really bad self esteem after that. On top of that, the girl I liked didn't even send me at all! I seriously wanted to end my life because I felt I was a failure.
Fast forward few years. I'm a Millionaire living a low-key private life. Made over ₦3M From crypto currency trading this lockdown!
Sometimes I look back on my life; I'm still shocked. From being dead broke in 100lv to being a millionaire.
It's just a phase. Keep going!

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by izubext007: 7:59pm On Jan 13
this is why I don't associate with every body.

some people are out there to make u feel less of ur self.

God knows the people who made him feel less of him self over this years.

guys avoid any guy that will always outsmart you when ever it's come to women affair it's kill slowly.

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by CoolJul: 8:03pm On Jan 13
Kayberg:

Amen.
I will keep in touch. Wishing u the best!!!

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by habsydiamond(m): 8:07pm On Jan 13
Lashist:

No be by writing it on NL front page. Dey call dem to keep checking up on all of them everyday wink
OK my Oga.... I will
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Katlyst(m): 8:13pm On Jan 13
Cure for depression.
1-Accept that life has its ups and downs. Season for everything.
2-Accept that tough times never last. Only tough people do.
3-Accept that you're still useful to someone in the society.
4-Accept that family & friends will disappoint you a times.
5-Accept that you don't need to compare yourself with others.
6-Accept that social media will harm you more. Stay off Facebook etc.
7-Accept that you have gone too far and hope is on the way.
8-Accept that you need a change of environment and routines.
9-Accept that you need to stay on your lane and follow your pace.
10-Accept that you do what makes you happy and not public opinion.
11-Accept that life is a journey/marathon and not a sprint race.
12-Accept that you need to disconnect yourself from depression influencers.
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by dewuyiebun: 8:14pm On Jan 13
Kriss216:
embarassed

LIFE IS LIKE A PARTY, WHEN YOU STOP HAVING FUN, LEAVE.
that word is strong
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by bouqola: 8:14pm On Jan 13
NwaNimo1:
His punishment should be to reincarnate immediately in Borno state.



190 million Nigerians are depressed!

You ehn, you just made me laugh loud. Borno kwaaa
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Tbvxl: 8:17pm On Jan 13
Nay....why kill yourself man? I've been depressed for past 18 years of my life and I have never thought of taking my life myself angry. Rip bro
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by mindpresh: 8:23pm On Jan 13


arantess:
suicide is never an option and i consider it a weak thing to do...he dosent love his mum or friends or folarin because if he did he would stay alive for them..
he wrote about resting in the after life...how? when you killed yourself,
abeg no sypmathy for peole who commit suicide, such a weak thing to do
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Katlyst(m): 8:34pm On Jan 13
Katlyst:
Cure for depression.
1-Accept that life has its ups and downs. Season for everything.
2-Accept that tough times never last. Only tough people do.
3-Accept that you're still useful to someone in the society.
4-Accept that family & friends will disappoint you a times.
5-Accept that you don't need to compare yourself with others.
6-Accept that social media will harm you more. Stay off Facebook etc.
7-Accept that you have gone too far and hope is on the way.
8-Accept that you need a change of environment and routines.
9-Accept that you need to stay on your lane and follow your pace.
10-Accept that you do what makes you happy and not public opinion.
11-Accept that life is a journey/marathon and not a sprint race.
12-Accept that you need to disconnect yourself from depression influencers.
.........
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by eby001(m): 8:41pm On Jan 13
Icetech:
He must have battled with a bad behavior he couldn't live with any more from his note. Only if he accepted Christ and got the grace to live right!
Now am not even sure he got the peace he craved for? May God help us in this life and lead us not into temptation!
When you guys keep shouting church, your pastor is never and will never replace a psychologist. Even it is my own fold that want to drive me into one. I had to leave for my sanity.
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by seniormallam(m): 8:41pm On Jan 13
For those saying talk to someone, I got back my sanity when I stopped talking to my friends, i lost my job, they will be talking about millions and cannot give me 10k, they are only using me to complete drinking table and that's all, I will tell them I don't even have #500 but they will tell me not to worry , they will order fish and yoghurt for me, the next thing they will settle bill of 15k and never gave me 1kobo, I gave them space when I heard them saying "who go give who curse dey follow money" they didn't know I was coming, I distance myself from them since I'm now tagged a bad luck,
I started thinking straight when I don't have them by my side any longer, I accept reality and moved on,
I'm not there yet but I thank God for today, though in everything, suicide never for one day flash my thought.

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by inumidun2010(m): 8:43pm On Jan 13
Kriss216:
embarassed

LIFE IS LIKE A PARTY, WHEN YOU STOP HAVING FUN, LEAVE.


OGA, You are going no where.. YOU MUST SHOCK THOSE PEOPLE.... WHEN YOU STOP HAVING FUN.. Tell the DJ to switch SONGS.. If e no GREE.. throw am PURE WATER... GOD PUNISH DEVIL...

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by dairykidd(m): 8:46pm On Jan 13
Well I'm not surprised these set of young men like doing everything the easy way out. Drugs to fvck good, jazz to make money, some can't even make a girl love them without applying jazz, some others consult jazz immediately they meet someone they like, enhanced sexual organs both male and female, surgically enhanced body instead of working out, they're mostly dumb almost all of them ( not talking academics), even their so called hard men are weak in reality ( no level one on one) baming now na backyard that's why u see them shouting and even exposing themselves online... What real men got with blood, sweat and tears plus fasting sef . So its natural for them to find easy routes in everything. See his weak face even while trying to mask his looks with the beards.. No RIP for u. You couldn't find ur balance here and u expect to find it in the afterlife?

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by YekingPhones(m): 8:48pm On Jan 13
Depression is real honestly. I was once in his shoe but it takes a strong and bold men to confront it only fragile heart submit to it. Suicidal is never the solution, just talk to the nearest person. God help us all


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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by mrkings84(m): 8:49pm On Jan 13
Megaflex:
Judgemental mofos

Am not, that's just the simple fact....
Although some truth is hard to absorb.
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by mastermaestro(m): 8:53pm On Jan 13
Elsueno:
I remembered when I made an investment blunder with loaned Cash. The funny thing is. I had already used the money in D first place and ready to pay back. Na so opportunity to make quick cash came, instead of paying my loan, I decided to take the risk. Omoh I lost the whole money grin grin grin . Even that did not make me think of suicide, na to run before the owner of D money finish me.

I Japa leave town, collected another loan from my uncle, use half to pay my debt and then the other half to invest again grin grin


Good old days cheesy


R.I.P man, may God forgive you. Amen

I like your drive. grin grin I have a slogan which is, 'there is a way!' Never ever feel trapped or helpless, never! The moment you accept that you are trapped or helpless, you lose control of your mind. Wahala starts! Thank GOD for His mercies and inner strength. grin grin

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by CalliDora1(f): 8:56pm On Jan 13
mojid22000:


Many of you think people care about others
They all have worries too
Many will tell you it's ur life and feel unconcerned,
Few will console you

You can pretend and experiment by telling people close to you that u are depressed and see their reactions

When I say people, I dont mean regular people like him. People like men of God, counselors and Psycologists.

It's just unfortunate he had to let the world know at death.
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by NiklauseFred(m): 8:58pm On Jan 13
NextD18:
"The noise got too loud, but now the noise can stop"

That statement was deep coming from him. To even think he battled depression for 7 years while carrying out his daily activities makes me believe depression got no particular symptom to get people's attention to you.

You can look and appear like the happiest person alive in the public, social media or gathering, whereas you are mentally struggling and battling a lot.

You can battle it for 10 years without even knowing you are battling depression because you'll have to nurture your system on how to cope and endure overthinking, unrest and no peace of mind. All these will be endured without speaking to anyone because you've gotten use to it and feel it's normal until it hits you to the point you can't endure anymore which normally leads to suicidal thoughts.

Please learn to speak up when you start loosing your sanity and peace of mind.


Depression is no joke.
Have had my own share and when I couldn't help it,I tried committing suicide twice(2016/2020) but just happy that I'm alive now.
Sometimes life will seem sooo meaningless and worthless.
Never blame anyone that commits suicide out of depression. It can get really messy at times. embarassed

Just happy that the last one I tried didn't work.
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by byinks(f): 9:01pm On Jan 13
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Hassanmaye:

How is that possible my friend you scared me

Which part scared you

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by NiklauseFred(m): 9:05pm On Jan 13
ottalo:
Suicide is not an option my brother there is nothing worst than insomnia I'm battling with insomnia since 2015 with constant depression. God has kept me

I pray you heal man embarassed
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Kayberg(m): 9:06pm On Jan 13
CoolJul:
I will keep in touch. Wishing u the best!!!

Thanks bro….
Would appreciate that… really….
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Josyakin: 9:07pm On Jan 13
delishpot:
Even in death, he is still leaving his battle for others. Enslaving them in his mental jail. Tasking them to pray for him, for his soul as if his peace now depends on how well they pray.
why did he not ask for that otayer to overcome while alive?

Pls my people, succide dose not solve jack.
You cross over to another raealm. Your body will be silent here but what makes you; you still carries rhe burden. You cross over to feel pain and regrets at the waste of opportunity of not fighting till the natural end. Yes, take it from me. Its the fact.
best comment ever�

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Sequence10: 9:19pm On Jan 13
Depression is real.. I'm having a mental stress and I know what am going through everyday.. Since March last year that's when it started till now I'm still having sleeping disorder everyday.. Sometimes I do have suicide thought 07045087546 here's my WhatsApp number in case you wanted to reach out to me for advice...
After going to many hospital still same thing.. Hospital have exhausted me financially.. Now I'm always thinking about finance + the mental stress now imagine both what am passing through.. The worst part of it is that my family members and friends never understand what am going through.. Any time I complain my mom will start shouting at me that I always like complaining and it hurts me so bad�...

Rip for the guy that lost his life...I understand because I'm witnessing it..
Cognitive deficits that's what I'm suffering from...
Don't underestimate anyone for complaining.. Try and help them out because it has not been easy with them that's why they're complaining it to you...
What they need is advice and consoling thanks
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by SirDelight: 9:23pm On Jan 13
Depression is really a bad thing. Everyone is fighting his/hers. I'm gonna win over mine, too. It's a matter of time.


May God rest his soul
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by omiolota1960(m): 9:43pm On Jan 13
r.i.p young man.i was depressed during december time to extent of commiting suicide but i thank God that i overcome it now.pls contact me 4 ur house painting work contact me on 09065194548.thanks.oluwafemi 4rm lagos

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