Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,194,827 members, 7,956,127 topics. Date: Monday, 23 September 2024 at 03:46 AM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters (89357 Views)
Marriage: Women Decry Lack Of Financially Eligible Suitors / How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. / "Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids To Our Daughters For Marriage" - Nigerian Parents (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) ... (11) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by chevkosticks(m): 11:05pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
This is polartv.. Your tv for both naughty and educational updates.. Also business and hookup��your one stop for *daily memes and videos�,giveaways, creative content,relationships and lots more.. *You can also advertise with them.* My name is___________ https:///message/TP4KXUQI5O3CD1 |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by Nobody: 11:07pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
phineas:Makes the loudest noise... You're right. 1 Like |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by joegigs(m): 11:08pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
twale |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by Nobody: 11:08pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Blueelf:Long yawn. 1 Like |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by Gerrard59(m): 11:09pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
edoairways: Yes, because there are several questions which it didn't answer. What economic stratum are these men who married maids? How many men have they interviewed factoring income levels, location, age etc., before they came to the headline? What are the implications of a certain strata of men getting married to maids? These mothers weren't asked if they would accept these kinds of men as in-laws. And a whole lot more. Maybe if the media house cited a study that answers at least one of such questions, it will make the article more logical and insightful. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by Nobody: 11:09pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
babakb:Pray tell, did you get thus format as an example of your mother's life? 5 Likes |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by edoairways: 11:12pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Gerrard59:Exactly! The writer just made a story without strong evidence to back it up. If he or she isn't checked, others would come up with another story to deceive the public |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by FirstbornWds: 11:12pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
TeemahBeddings: You sincerely need to read that piece with a good, well balanced head to grasp what the point is all about. A good adult is supposed balance through without emotions, sometimes. |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by Mypeople2(m): 11:14pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
TeemahBeddings:My dear men are not shameless.You don't expect me to leave a beautiful, a good cook, decent etc lady for an educated Zee world, ROK TV, Telemudo ,Instagram and Facebook lady with ear rings in her nose .Na wife person need nor be babe. 8 Likes |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by FirstbornWds: 11:17pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Gerrard59: Mister... You don't have to try to appear smart. What has survey, studies got to with this kind of article? Besides, you can see from the style that it's a conversational piece with really no formality. The article is properly crafted, IMO! 3 Likes |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by Gerrard59(m): 11:20pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
FirstbornWds: If you like shout to the heavens but it's not a well written article judging from other magazines and articles I've read online. Those writers ensure certain statements/statistics are backed by verifiable data not OKOTO MEOW conjectures. However, if you believe this article is factual, fine and good. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by TOPCRUISE(m): 11:20pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Thanks for the write up. Yet they will say simps go for the maids which is very wrong from the perception of lazy girls and shortsighted guys. What you hear from them is I married a wife not a slave. You are only a slave when you view the reality as a slave mentality 1 Like |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by Nobody: 11:21pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
phineas:Don't be Ridiculous.... That you are Jobless doesn't mean we all are....Time or No Time....If you gat Money in reality you won't also have this time,you ain't gat nothing yourself...I Think,It's just too much,This Nairaland is Filled with Very Rude Women who think they're the Best Thing Ever..Absolute Nonsense. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by Nobody: 11:21pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Old news. Train your daughters well, teach her the way of God and men will come for her hand in marriage. 2 Likes |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by WelcomeToBiafra: 11:21pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Some of them don't even know how to watch their underwears/pants... Housekeeper does everything, over working 24/7 and 7/1. They don't even have time t This is one of the reason IPOB must be allowed to restore Biafra to save our children. Nigerians don't know the important and values of housekeeper, 2 Likes |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by Gerrard59(m): 11:21pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
edoairways: It actually corroborates the article. 1 Like |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by Duridadi: 11:22pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
chatinent:....Gbam ! |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by CHoccolaTE: 11:31pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
TeemahBeddings: That's Nigerian men for you. Confused, entitled, selfish, vulgar, irritating Just look at their thought process, they want a slave that can work as a maid and clean up after them and she should also be a provider that hustles money to feed them. All while being a submissive wife that does not question their authority. Nasty and selfish useless pieces of shit called Nigerian men 2 Likes |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by Originalsly: 11:33pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
I'm really impressed. This write up is sooo on point..... no room for argument... case closed. Parents should take note. 1 Like |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by Nobody: 11:36pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
chinchonglee: A word SIMP |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by Nobody: 11:38pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
CHoccolaTE: If you don't like it kill yourself 1 Like |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by Nobody: 11:43pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
TeemahBeddings: Stupid progressive harlott 1 Like |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by sweetrace(f): 11:45pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
SocialJustice: you talk about women knowing their place. Please enlighten us. What is the place of a woman so the rest of us can learn. 1 Like |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by Dpundict: 11:45pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
The differences between the maid and your daughter is "Entitlement mentality". Most of you parents now train your daughters to believe that even in marriage you will still be there for her and if her husband can't provide (for any reason) anything she so needs you will step in the shoes of her husband; and by so doing disgrace the husband and put her marriage in danger. You take your daughters to choice places while the maid is at home cleaning and cooking and doing all manners of chores and even washing your grown daughter's clothes. Failure to do so makes you disgrace or beat her in the presence of your daughter for failing to wash her clothes. Some of you take them to places and cut corners for them to get what they want at the expense of their Male counterparts. Whatever she wants you provide and then feministically you teach her she has no moral obligation to submit to any man whatsoever and howsoever because "what a man can do a woman can do better". While not disputing this claim it has the tendency of making a man out of your daughter; because through it all, you the parent forget that "NO MAN WANTS TO MARRY ANOTHER MAN" (literally) in the sense of her not being submissive and obedient to her husband in ways that are most convenient for the union to thrive. How can I live with you in peace when you have no regard for me as a man and a husband?. "Your opinion is final" is also a fallout of these lessons you teach your daughters directly or indirectly also. Most times as in almost all cases, who I will ask, does this or teaches these anomalies to the maid? Who will make her sit at the table in company of all family and dine like a normal human being with equal rights and opportunities like the cherished overpampered daughters who sits at these tables and chat away with anyone eating at the table almost without respect; when the maid is confined in the kitchen; only to be called upon to come and clean up?. Who teaches her those manners that the maid effortlessly brandishes in front of all that visits your home? Who will give her that feeling of entitlement that your daughter carries about like a briefcase on her shoulders?. Do you think men don't see the differences?. I dare submit I will choose a maid who is responsible, respectful, cooks and cleans, makes a home and caring to your entitlement mentality-laden and may even be on drugs daughters. Argue with your keyboard in case you want to insult someone. Thank you. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by Blakpot: 11:47pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Maybe Nollywood movies has something to do with it |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by JohnBullMySon: 11:48pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
chinchonglee:exactly, this is 21st century, once we blend with each other, understand and complement our deficiencies, then we're good to go. any other skill if needed can be picked up later. otherwise, even your cleaning go dey vex me 4 Likes |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by lebete3000: 11:51pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
christopher123: Grace Essien. That name is most likely from AkwaIbom. Kitchen and other room duties na their domain, no try them at all, no even go there. Why dem no go corner better men dem. Make Afonja girls continue to dey malnourish their husbands with their greenish liquid zero-nutrient draw soup; and starve them of high quality sex. Them go soon sabi scores... 3 Likes |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by djon78(m): 11:56pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Mypeople2: I don't understand how some of them don't understand this. Most marriages that you hear divorce and break up comprise of the type of ladies you mentioned. The ones that give a man peace are those the article highlighted The person may not be a maid but a well domesticated woman She can be a graduate but highly domesticated These are the kind of women that will give a man peace in his home Not the ones that have become toxified by her environment and upbringing Bringing only sorrow to men that marries them It's all about wisdom simple 1 Like |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by lebete3000: 11:58pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
CalliDora1: I hope she also taught you how to handle the rod in za oza room, cos that one too is important oh, if not importanter |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by richie240: 11:58pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Dpundict: 1 Like
|
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) ... (11) (Reply)
Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. / Girls night out discussions / Twerking Young Girl Amazes Social Media Users, Goes Viral
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 69 |