MRbrownJAY:

@jaybee
Of course they do, to a certain point.
Common sense would prevail here if you knew that you wouldn't be able to get a proper hospital to care for your lil ones (in case something happened) or unless you had lots of cash.
Anyway, in most cases, the love for the children exceed the one for the hubby so all decision will be based towards them. Lol

MRbrownJAY:

@katy86
I understand fully what you mean regarding small children. As for the food, no worries, while he makes his dish, you can have your salads, Lol.

@Jaybee
Love?! Are you saying people should drop their common sense and maternal/paternal instinct because of love?!

MRbrownJAY:

Even if there was no children, the for ME is greater than anything else. My ex that I loved dearly wanted us to go trekking in the jungle of Amazonia. I didn't stop her from going but, ME, I definitely aint going. Why would I follow someone's foolishness because of love? What's next? Let's go walking in the Serengeti. Nah I loved her for who she was and how open minded and adventurous she was but that's about it!
Jungle ko, rumble ni!!

MRbrownJAY:

@jay
Yeah its been a while man, every good and you?

jay bee:

@Q & Mzdarskin
You both are looking are looking at it from a bf/gf relationship whilst I'm looking at it from a husband/wife relationship. Loving someone involves wanting to go extra length to ensure the relationship works out.
Now, I'm not saying i would force someone to go to Africa if they had genuine reasons but petty reasons such as mosquito bite and the food oozes ignorance which frankly shouldn't be tolerated in ma opinion.

@Mzdarskin
I do get your point on not wanting to make the extra adjustment if the other party ain't willing to do same. Relationships that deserves working on shouldn't be a competition nor does it deserves to be one sided. We always have to strike the balance and if bending a little to achieve the best is what's required then please do so.
Remember that if you marry someone with a different culture, it's an advisable obligation for both parent to educate the children about each others culture so they can have the ever so important sense of belonging.
We blacks have strong roots that needs to be taught/instilled regardless. We have to be proud of who we are.


@MrbrownJay

How u been ma guy? been a while

Tosinville:

Una nyansh o! al of una wey dey date naija guys still dey condemn mi kontri 4 here, una fine reach me even though i stay 9ja 24/7.


@Poster
Condition is behind your own love, if a man truly loves you, coming down to africa to see your country & ppl won't be a big deal for him, he'll even to pretend to eat your african meal with u even tho he doesn't like it thats love for u.

MRbrownJAY:

@jaybee
What have you done to Mrs Chima? Your name seems to be all over her earlier post. It looks like a clear case of "good dikcing withdrawal". What's going on?!

@mrs Chima
I am just stating a fact oh, not looking for trouble! Lol

jay bee:

:-x

MRbrownJAY:

@mrs Chima
Maybe it was "mental sex", you seem to sing praises about it. No need for you guys to meet. Isn't it?

Tosinville:

Sincerely, we nigerian guys needs to reason before hooking up with any kind of foreign girlz for marriage just because of silly worldly things we wanna gain from them, not matter what you'll end up marrying your nigerian lady for so many MAJOR REASONS even tho u have a wife abroad.

Tosinville:

Talking like a lost black woman well since you were conceived there so i don't need to blame u in anyway but put the blame on the white folks from forcing many black ppl out of here to where you at today. Real african women who was born & raise a lil here before moving abroad can never forget where she comes from & her homeland will always be on her mind whenever she finds her dream man for some of her fam to see who she's getting married to so you don't need to use d way u reason in comparison with the poster so i support her in everyway. Shekinah!!