seanwilliam:
With people like this , Nigeria can never move forward .. imagine someone saying mastubation deh make money disappear for him hand .. hahah rubbish

troublemakea:
@soulwin4life me to brother. I just clocked bout 3weeks last weekend without masturbating after series of prayers n counsel but ion know thing have really not turn normal yet like that even tho I have this happiness in me that I've finally overcome masturbation but I Feel like God is kinda punishing me for wasting my time all thr this years cuz I really lost lotta opportunities last year due to masturbation n i know it...I just pray n hope He have mercy on me as soon as He can cuz I'm always down with disturbing thoughts

Cc; Righteousness2 jesusjnr2020 royalhouse femoint007 GodPraise

troublemakea:


jesusjnr2020 that was a soul lifting exaltation thanks n I'm trying I'd say but I feel like the spirit have not left me completely cuz atimes the thought of the feeling flashes everyday and Bfr I know it the urge kinda comes but not as hard as it used to Bfr tho the thing would later die down within minutes

How can I help fight the thoughts please bcoz tbh I really can't control it, it just flashes n i feel the urge again tho I try to replace the thought with something else but I do have this fear in me that if not careful I might go back to the act unknowingly

soulwin4life:
I was a little bit timid why growing up, I found out that things don't usually work out well with me and the opposite gender, I always feel cheated and some kind of, nd fast still nothing changed. Immediately those act came and I perform it, it will be as if they have taken my joy away, I will be unnecessarily unhappy, I couldn't help myself then and I keep on repeating one particular goal. Life was just a messed up for me then that I even attempted suicide more than ten times.

Until I decided to listen to gospel giving myself wholly to God, I prayed to God to help me out as I couldn't help myself, because people including my relation always mock and take me as someone that have nothing to contribute, even when important issue emerge I hardly come to mind, sometimes I will sat down to imagine how I have been working so hard with no result, I hardly keep money, I don't even know sometimes how money use to vanish from my hand, in fact the whole thing may not be compiled in one note.

As I seek the face of God I prayed I refuse to allow those evil thought cross my mind, and the moment I started to abstain from it things started changing.

I can testify today that masturbation left me and I discovered who I am.

soulwin4life:
I was a little bit timid why growing up, I found out that things don't usually work out well with me and the opposite gender, I always feel cheated and some kind of, so one day I was sitting alone and discovered that I was feeling some kind of Hot. To cut the long story short that was how the issue of masturbation en kindled me. But I discovered something then I lived a very stagnant life, I hardly have any goal accomplished, I will pray to God, cry, beg and fast still nothing changed. Immediately those act came and I perform it, it will be as if they have taken my joy away, I will be unnecessarily unhappy, I couldn't help myself then and I keep on repeating one particular goal. Life was just a messed up for me then that I even attempted suicide more than ten times.

Until I decided to listen to gospel giving myself wholly to God, I prayed to God to help me out as I couldn't help myself, because people including my relation always mock and take me as someone that have nothing to contribute, even when important issue emerge I hardly come to mind, sometimes I will sat down to imagine how I have been working so hard with no result, I hardly keep money, I don't even know sometimes how money use to vanish from my hand, in fact the whole thing may not be compiled in one note.

As I seek the face of God I prayed I refuse to allow those evil thoughts cross my mind, and the moment I started to abstain from it things started changing.

I can testify today that masturbation left me and I discovered who I am.

GuyWise101:
Nna mehnnnnnnnnn


People should stop acussing my innocent masturbation....


I had nothing in 2014, I started masturbation in 2015 now I am a millionaire with over 5m in my account and I am 24.


That you failed in life is not caused by masturbation because many people are into it and are doing fine and living a happy and stress free life.

troublemakea:
@soulwin4life me to brother. I just clocked bout 3weeks last weekend without masturbating after series of prayers n counsel but ion know thing have really not turn normal yet like that even tho I have this happiness in me that I've finally overcome masturbation but I Feel like God is kinda punishing me for wasting my time all thr this years cuz I really lost lotta opportunities last year due to masturbation n i know it...I just pray n hope He have mercy on me as soon as He can cuz I'm always down with disturbing thoughts

Cc; Righteousness2 jesusjnr2020 royalhouse femoint007 GodPraise

kalu61:
What's wrong with African man?

Masturbation was hindering your progress and causing your money to vanish. Tell me, is your money not vanishing again.

Your problem was not masturbation but twist of life. When things doesn't work out, we naturally tend to question and blame everything. Sometimes it may just be indicipline, careless decisions, environment and state of mind etc. If you were in America where life is much easier and organized, would you have accused masturbation. Africa and Religion!

Anyways, when you feel the urge, first is to work out of your house. Take a stroll. Occupy your minds with meaningful things, get obsessed with your vision and most importantly, if you have the courage, make female friends in your church.

Because your fear will always stare at you.

Thefxchanger:
Arrant rubbish ...

So u concluded masturbation was what was blocking ur success?

Damn... Religion has enslaved so many in this country...

U can as well say everyone masturbating are not succeeding and everyone who’s not masturbating are succeeding... right ? Since masturbation is what is blocking success

kalu61:
What's wrong with African man?

Masturbation was hindering your progress and causing your money to vanish. Tell me, is your money not vanishing again.

Your problem was not masturbation but twist of life. When things doesn't work out, we naturally tend to question and blame everything. Sometimes it may just be indicipline, careless decisions, environment and state of mind etc. If you were in America where life is much easier and organized, would you have accused masturbation. Africa and Religion!

Anyways, when you feel the urge, first is to work out of your house. Take a stroll. Occupy your minds with meaningful things, get obsessed with your vision and most importantly, if you have the courage, make female friends in your church.

Because your fear will always stare at you.

simplesearch:



Let him alone, he knows exactly what went wrong with him and you sure don't want to intrude into another man's life or assume you know and understand his situation better than him.
There are psychiatric patients abroad and those under the yoke of masturbation, drug addiction and unnatural sexual Attachments, who've never being able to walk away from it, some leading up to suicide. One may try to feign ignorance of some certain predicament at the initial stage and act as if they don't exist, but mark it when madness reaches the level of psychosis you sure can't continue to pretend as if nothing is happening when its visible you are out of range.
OP have subjected himself to a ruinous culture that had him overwhelmed, which here is masturbation a somewhat an open invite for demonic infestation, manifestation and forceful posesssion. When people share their problem don't always speak in such a manner as to make them feel stupid, or that they really don't know what is going on with them.

PotatoSalad:
Nigerians are filled with envy, they cheat, deceive one another, lie, do all sorts of things but those things are lesser sin than masturbation. Whenever it comes to masturbation, everyone's eyes do waaaa. Infact masturbation is being treated worse than fornication. (See how everyone is preparing for just a single day for weeks now. A day of immorality, but masturbation is a bigger sin)

Anything you do in this life, always exercise moderation. Alcohol, food, medicine, sex, social media, hanging out, spending, video games, movies etc. Why are you surprised that your life is turned upside down when you spend all day online, you watch movies all day. You're not productive and you expect miracles to happen. It will never happen.
Stop blaming masturbation for your misfortune and start doing things in moderation.

You can't quit a habit in 3 weeks. When the withdrawal symptoms set in, you'll beat the living hell out of your meat, and still come here to complain

simplesearch:



Let him alone, he knows exactly what went wrong with him and you sure don't want to intrude into another man's life or assume you know and understand his situation better than him.
There are psychiatric patients abroad and those under the yoke of masturbation, drug addiction and unnatural sexual Attachments, who've never being able to walk away from it, some leading up to suicide. One may try to feign ignorance of some certain predicament at the initial stage and act as if they don't exist, but mark it when madness reaches the level of psychosis you sure can't continue to pretend as if nothing is happening when its visible you are out of range.
OP have subjected himself to a ruinous culture that had him overwhelmed, which here is masturbation a somewhat an open invite for demonic infestation, manifestation and forceful posesssion. When people share their problem don't always speak in such a manner as to make them feel stupid, or that they really don't know what is going on with them.

Wolfeye:


You just dey scatter talk.
Africans have a culture of shifting responsibilities. Every damn time it’s one thing or another.
If you were in a country where you don’t need to suffer that bad to earn a moderate salary you won’t be here crying that something is eating your life away.
People in other countries have problems too but it’s easier to deal when things aren’t that hard.
You earn unemployment cheques at the very least.
You have 24 hours a day. Masturbate with 1 full hour you still have 23... so what are you doing with those??
Smh. Primitive.
And na only men e dey affect which is funny.
9/10 girls/women masturbate REGULARLY I haven’t seen not one run out here talking about it’s ruining her life.
People own freaking intimacy gadgets...do you know how addicted you have to be to masturbation that you invest in actual toys?
Yet you will never hear this nonsense!
Na always men wey no get focus go dey find Wetin to blame.

humilitypays:
The truth is, majority of Africans don't have sense. Black Africans are just too daft, no wonder they remain the lowest of low among all races of the world.

Masturbation is a sin in Christianity, yes we know. If you are a Christian, it is good to live a righteous life in other to have close relationship with God. But living a righteous life or being a righteous person does not expressly mean you will be rich and successful financially, nope. There are millions if not billions of poor righteous people all over the world.


The laws of financial riches is different. Whether you are a pagan, an atheist, a Buddhist, an Hindu, a Muslim or Christian, so long as you practice the principles of making money, by providing values and solutions to the society, you will be financially successful. Your living a righteous life is for your personal salvation not for you to become rich.

Masturbation is never the reason anybody is poor or jobless or struggling with life. Nigeria have no jobs, the available jobs are underpaid jobs. So if you live in Nigeria, your chances of becoming financially free is limited by virtue of your location. This has nothing to do with Masturbation.


Masturbation is not the only sin we commit daily. We fornicate, we lie, we deceive others, we hate, we backstab, we mock and bully and envy others.....we steal at our workplaces, we steal from societies we belong, we inflate prices, so tell me how it's only Masturbation that make only black Africans poor and unemployed


Blame your failed past and present corrupt governments that destroyed Nigeria.


Americans are among the richest people on earth, they have the highest number of billionaires and even good paying jobs for their citizens, but do you also know that Americans masturbate, fornicate and do all sorts of filthy sexual activities from gay to transgender to incest yet they are materially blessed with good things of this world.


Same Nigerian person complaining of evil spirits holding him down and preventing him from getting a good job or buying a car, the moment he leaves Nigeria and enter US, he gets a good job and buy a car and start to live a good life and may even start committing more sexual immoralities while in the US than when he was in Nigeria yet he or she will still be progressing.


Nigerians please fix your country, hold your foolish leaders accountable. Stop worshipping God just because you want money, good job, best wife, best husband, etc. Worship God because you love and cherish God for who He is, not because of the things you want God to do for you.

kalu61:
What's wrong with African man?

Masturbation was hindering your progress and causing your money to vanish. Tell me, is your money not vanishing again.

Your problem was not masturbation but twist of life. When things doesn't work out, we naturally tend to question and blame everything. Sometimes it may just be indicipline, careless decisions, environment and state of mind etc. If you were in America where life is much easier and organized, would you have accused masturbation. Africa and Religion!

Anyways, when you feel the urge, first is to work out of your house. Take a stroll. Occupy your minds with meaningful things, get obsessed with your vision and most importantly, if you have the courage, make female friends in your church.

Because your fear will always stare at you.

justli:


No sir. It's either your parents still fend for you, or you just started masturbating, or you have never masturbated or you are living in denial.

The human being is as whole as his mind. Masturbation and porn fvcks with the mind in ways you cannot begin to imagine. It cripples your spirit, your drive, your manly energy, your persona.

It is safe to say, no addicted masturbator can ever achieve their full potential. Don't be decieved by fake experts telling you how masturbation is the absolute best thing...
Any masturbator, If they are true to themselves, would wish they never indulged that first wanking...

And I don't get the urge with people always berating fellow Africans as uncivilized because they hold a different opinion... The problem of masturbation is not limited to the African man, there are thousands of Reddit threads dedicated to this struggle on different levels. People have hosted Ted talks on the same topic...so, this is a real struggle.
The billion dollar porn industries can afford to hire pseudo experts to gloss over the topic and come up with hundred reasons why you should never stop masturbating, because if you do, porn industry will be burried

GuyWise101:
Nna mehnnnnnnnnn


People should stop acussing my innocent masturbation....


I had nothing in 2014, I started masturbation in 2015 now I am a millionaire with over 5m in my account and I am 24.


That you failed in life is not caused by masturbation because many people are into it and are doing fine and living a happy and stress free life.

HopeVictor:
Masturbating can be used to clear the mind sometimes.. doing it in excess is bad..keep your mind busy maybe once in a week you can do it. You are either a masturbator or a fornicator..at least masturbating no dey bring STD

troublemakea:
@soulwin4life me to brother. I just clocked bout 3weeks last weekend without masturbating after series of prayers n counsel but ion know thing have really not turn normal yet like that even tho I have this happiness in me that I've finally overcome masturbation but I Feel like God is kinda punishing me for wasting my time all thr this years cuz I really lost lotta opportunities last year due to masturbation n i know it...I just pray n hope He have mercy on me as soon as He can cuz I'm always down with disturbing thoughts

Cc; Righteousness2 jesusjnr2020 royalhouse femoint007 GodPraise

NewSoul:

Bro are things working out at the speed of light for you? because I feel if one is not masturbating, watching porn and masturbating, you will be under the radar of the almighty. The angels will be at your beck and call to attend to you...