NairalandSARS:
Where that Uyaiincomparabl wey dey find her trouble that year?

lefulefu:
dem both settled after their splat and started talking to each other

The5DME:


You don tey for this forum oh. You suppose don be mid by now sef.

The5DME:

You're lieing.

rawpadgin:
Oboy!! This one shook me���. We dey chat steady before wen i dey use my old phone. This life nor clear! Na charles babe that year na

Sanchez01:

There is the reality check that life is short after learning that someone you got into an argument with has passed on. The feeling that you should have reached out in time or understood them will always stare at you.

Death does not change whether someone is an idiot or not, as you rightly pointed, but sympathisers become more human and realize they can let go of whatever grudge they had with the dead.

dominique:
This is so sad. She has spoken about her late parents, her only brother who is also late now she too is gone. An entire family wiped out like that! So darn painful .

She used to get badly trolled while she was using her Amelian handle, I wonder what is it about her that made people talk down on her like that. Perhaps the different stories about herself and people around her, some people she was making them up to get attention. I haven't had much interactions with her but I used to like and admire a lot of her posts especially in the family section. Without a doubt she will be missed greatly, may God rest her soul

The5DME:

You're lieing.

Sixfeetbelle:


But does the dead let go of the grudge they have with you?

I think, as humans, we should always be conscious of how we treat people not minding if they'll die soon or not. We shouldn't regret our actions only after people die. That's not a good way to live.

People who trolled and abused her are forever indebted to her.

lefulefu:
The energy some ppl take in trolling here ehn baffles me .Having a little splat here and there that one is normal but to carry trolling as work to me such a person is jobless
May she rip

Sixfeetbelle:


Exactly the point Poco and Seg was trying to make. I personally don't know the lady like that, but when I joined this forum, I met intense trolling being done on three ladies in particular: Poco, Coco and Funmi. To me, it was just something else and no matter how hard I tried, I couldn't figure out what they did that was so bad they had to troll them. Same thing they did to zzor and are now doing to sapphire. Troll people with their personal stories and call it 'catching cruise'

Now imagine if one of them was dead and I see all those monikers typing 'she's a good lady' everywhere, imagine how pissed off at them I would have been.

As far as I'm concerned, anyone who trolled this Victoria lady endlessly, even after knowing her personal stories, should not even pretend to feel sorry for her cause I know it's all an act. After this RIP, they would continue with their nasty behavior until the next.


Forgive my long talk, jare.

How are you? Long time? I noticed from comments here that you were good friends with her?

lefulefu:
well for poco and the others u mentioned since they couldnt get any personal info on them the trolling wouldnt be that effective.for victorian though she was a little bit trusting and would spill her little of her personal info here and there maybe telling some ppl who might pretend to be her friend on her contact then come on with masked monikers to troll her on nl.at one time she deactivated her other moniker and stayed away from nl.i dont know what could have gingered the bitter trolling but from what some ladies always say here there is this perception that when a guy likes u here and maybe asks u out in pm and u refuse then it hits on his ego and he resorts to trolling.Not saying all guys do it here but it seems some disturbed individuals do this if u would folllow what some ladies tend to say here.
Oh sure we were quite good friends online..one thing about victorian is that she quite friendly and easy to mingle with and though she loves talking quite a bit i am used to that .She was the only nairalander i told i was traveling when i was preparing for my journey and she was wishing me well and all.Though after i traveled i di.dnt chat that regularly with her cos of busy stuffs over here.Quite painful sha that it has to end this way
lol nope ur talks wasnt that much

Sixfeetbelle:


That's good. About Victoria, I mean. Good people always leave fond memories for the people who knew them. In a way, I hope she's in a better place now and that some of her trolls reconciled with her before her death. I hate when people abuse someone's goodness and she sounds like she had a lot of it.

Lefu, you abandoned us here. Na wah ooh. Na so sweet obodo oyibo sweet you say make you no gbadu us?

I think there was a time this year you weren't really that active here, abi?

Sixfeetbelle:




I think there was a time this year you weren't really that active here, abi?

kindredspirit:
Hello guys,

Please, is there anyone who knows this Nairalander outside Nairaland:

https://www.nairaland.com/victorian

Her neighbours said she SLUMPED AND DIED in her house on Sunday. They said they don't know any of her relatives.

Her phone is locked and they're unable to access her contact list.

I'm posting this topic here with the hope that a friend who knows her family would see it and provide leads on how her family could be reached to claim her remains.

Anybody ??

shamsin6300:
Rip

makydebbie:
Awwn, she was so lovely and lively. May her soul rest in peace.

Rip Victorian.

lefulefu:
wetin be mid? Or u mean mode? I doubt if I go get dat time to be a mode and as for tey for here majority of the users here also don tey.na d deactivating and creating of new moniker's dey deceive u

lefulefu:
how u take know say she dey lie since u be newbie
U registered here 2nd january 2021
Abi u sef na old user too using a new moniker?

eternityk:

but people will die, people die everyday,as we are talking right now people are still dying
u didn't cry when u see your chicken die,you didn't cry when u see animals die
why then do u feel sad about something that happens everyday and something you know will happen to all of us soon
this life is not precious,life just exists and then it dies.
it is the law of the universe, what you do or think doesn't matter at the end of the day because we are all pieces of shittt
our existence is pathetic,but u know what is more pathetic? humans,even though we human know this fact,we tend to pretend it doesn't happen and then when somebody dies we all act surprised
people die every God dam fuckinnnnggg day
there is not surprising or sad or bad or cruel about it
it's just the law of the universe
the earlier we accept this fact the better we stop acting like a cry babies when someone dies
our existence is meaningless
we human beings are too proud to think we matter
we are not at all different to those chicken rats animals that die anyhow
because that's what we humans are.
pathetic!

MejiLoyon:
Emmm. Op. Kindly link me with any family member they finally see. At all at all....make we no loud am

Humanoid01:

God exists. We live, we die but as humans, we all have a divine purpose on this earth. Eternity exists, and our eternal destinations are determined by the life we live here. Until you believe these things, you'll continue to place humans in the same position as animals.

bigjackass:
Rip Victorian
Everyone is saying sweet things yet she was one of the most hated females on nairaland. Human beings sha

eternityk:

the reason why u believe humans are special is because of your evolution given brain that has intelligence
let natural disasters happen,which will happen and people die in large numbers,that's when u will know how pathetic humans are
u haven't experienced any of this,u are in this bubble created by your pastors churches family that won't open your brain to reality
I will just tell u that nature and reality are very very harsh when they show u how the world is
be living in your bubble,I can assure you a test is still coming for you

Humanoid01:

If it's because of our "evolution-given brain" , why then was it given to just us? Why hasn't any other organism evolved to our level after thousands of years? Why is it just us at the top of the chain? Oh! It's just a thing of chance?

I don't need to have a personal experience to know how harsh nature is on those who are partakers of it, but that should not change my belief about how special we are. We are not complex for nothing. Look at how small our brains are, compared to some other animals with larger ones, and look at the amazing things we do.

In the beginning, God said we should dominate the world, and that is exactly what is at play here -- utter dominance. Speaking of test, I've had my own share of that but it doesn't tell me how worthless I am.

Sixfeetbelle:


But does the dead let go of the grudge they have with you?

I think, as humans, we should always be conscious of how we treat people not minding if they'll die soon or not. We shouldn't regret our actions only after people die. That's not a good way to live.

People who trolled and abused her are forever indebted to her.