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Re: Is It Wrong To Raise An African Child The British Or American Way? by Rukkyken71: 5:04pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
BadRadio: Notin is really wrong with our way of life when it comes to bringing up a child, our way is the best with good morals but the problem is in the education and the environment. Our leaders have killed everything here in Nigeria, no good school apart from the private primary and secondary schools and most of them in some part of the country re not up to standard, they just have nice building and equipment. Our universities are finished, honestly there is notin left of our universities except maybe the private ones which u must be well to do before u could afford it. our health care centres are zero. if u hav the money to live abroad then pls do. Don't mind people telling u otherwise. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Wrong To Raise An African Child The British Or American Way? by Ghostmode2two(m): 5:07pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Jashub:But dem Africa get sha |
Re: Is It Wrong To Raise An African Child The British Or American Way? by Jaqenhghar: 5:07pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Jashub:Mr. MAN. Lets compare notes. Nigerian youths in diaspora are the ones making people notice that shithole. Nigerian kids in diaspora are the ones winning awards and scholarships. Name one in the Niggeria that did anything worth noticing. That reknown robotics engineer, foreign Nigerian The girl that got offers from different ivy league schools, foreign Nigerian The girl that wrote the book flesh and blood ( cant remembered the exact name) On the other hand lets talk of the popular Niggerian youths and what Niggerian youths love Bobrisky James Brown Okiemute Denrele Hushpuppi 'Dem go flog me tire' girl Awawa boys One million boys Cultists Youths gang raping girls Any BBN ( soft porn) contestant Pastor Suleiman Can you name one foreign Nigerian cross dresseer as popular as the first three I mentioned? 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Wrong To Raise An African Child The British Or American Way? by Emmadoc: 5:08pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
JosephXavier: I need to screenshot and laminate this your comment. "That building from scratch without any atom of help" Is reason why Africa is still backward. 1 Like 1 Share
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Re: Is It Wrong To Raise An African Child The British Or American Way? by Amiteye(m): 5:09pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
generationz:So my kid can walk out on me while am still speaking, make stupid decisions and ask me to mind my business under my own roof, wouldn't feel obliged to say MIGWO when they see elders and absolutely become spoilt brats without them knowing. All that while shielding them from the reallity of the Nigerian way of life, making them smart gullible dumbasses as soon as the step out my door and most importantly from under my wings........ No thank you, africa way it is. Afterall I did not turn out too bad 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Wrong To Raise An African Child The British Or American Way? by Jashub: 5:09pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Ghostmode2two:We get, but na coded. Oyibo no dey code their own...na fulltime exposure. And if you want your children to be "exposed "like that, then send them abroad. But pray you have the stomach to endure whatever they turn out to be. |
Re: Is It Wrong To Raise An African Child The British Or American Way? by Shattuck(m): 5:09pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
if you believe in values and morals you can teach your kids same anywhere in the world, there are lots of good responsible American kids, just because the system gives you freedom, does not make it less moral or having less value than the African system. 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Wrong To Raise An African Child The British Or American Way? by Horlufemi(m): 5:11pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
BadRadio: Africans, especially Nigerians have zero values. People with values in Nigeria are hated. If you want to stealing under your watch you're evil for not letting them to steal. They are most holiest unrighteous hypocrites in the world that are very religious. No I don't want to raise my kids the African way and not even in Africa. 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Wrong To Raise An African Child The British Or American Way? by peacettw: 5:12pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Very naive way of thinking. I feel very sorry for you |
Re: Is It Wrong To Raise An African Child The British Or American Way? by Jaqenhghar: 5:12pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Jashub:Do yiu call bobrisky coded? Abeg make we hear word 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong To Raise An African Child The British Or American Way? by Ghostmode2two(m): 5:13pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Jashub:It would be the failure of the parents |
Re: Is It Wrong To Raise An African Child The British Or American Way? by Jaqenhghar: 5:13pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Horlufemi:.very pretentious people. To them pretending you are righteous automatically means you are righteous. 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Wrong To Raise An African Child The British Or American Way? by mulero23: 5:13pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Then how many of them on average have this ? You need do your statistics wella... Don't wish yourself bad things in life. Not all that glitters is gold! BadRadio: |
Re: Is It Wrong To Raise An African Child The British Or American Way? by Oluwaseun2020(m): 5:15pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Raise your kids the lords way.... the human ways has crashed 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong To Raise An African Child The British Or American Way? by Jaqenhghar: 5:16pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
mulero23:Certainly most of them. Look at that shithole. Even with your money you cant get quality education. Is it not the "well raised" children that are constiuting a nuisance in countries like Malaysia? 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Wrong To Raise An African Child The British Or American Way? by naijamafioso: 5:16pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
BadRadio:If you have taken your kids from Nigeria to the western world before, you wont be asking this question 2 Likes
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Re: Is It Wrong To Raise An African Child The British Or American Way? by Nobody: 5:16pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Africa is too primitive, naive and backwards? How is this okay? If a white person says this you'll be screaming racism. Don't be silly OP. You can raise your child anyway you choose to without being a raging racist and an idiot about it. I've lived studied and worked in the UK in the past, I've got family in the US but I won't stoop that low to call Africa primitive. It's your child afterall. Raise him/her however your choose. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Wrong To Raise An African Child The British Or American Way? by LordErrk: 5:16pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
There is no best way...so just raise your child the right way. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong To Raise An African Child The British Or American Way? by chineloSA(f): 5:17pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Why would you want to wear someone else's identity? That's living a lie and its self hatred. They will grow up to be called coconuts ( white on the inside and black on the outside ) What's important is education, exposure and opportunities they get in those countries. |
Re: Is It Wrong To Raise An African Child The British Or American Way? by Amiteye(m): 5:17pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Jaqenhghar:Nkoyo Ngozi Iweala, Chimamanda Adichie, Asa, prophet T.B Joshua, chinua achebe, Wole soyinka. We hav gud pipo 2 |
Re: Is It Wrong To Raise An African Child The British Or American Way? by Jashub: 5:17pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Jaqenhghar:Bros do not be deceived. The Nigerians in the diaspora that making us proud are not even aware that they are Nigerians; it is our dumb newspapers that keep saying they are Nigerians . Infact, if you were to ask them personally, they would tell you they are citizens of their host country. So let us get that straight. Lastly, the Nigerians that you mentioned are only doing the rubbish that they are doing because of foreign influence through social media. And you cannot use that as a yardstick to speak bad of Nigerian youths. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Wrong To Raise An African Child The British Or American Way? by drakeli: 5:19pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
[img][/img] BadRadio: Raise your kids the God’s way. Whether African or American way. They will all fail you. Only God’s way will give you peace of mind |
Re: Is It Wrong To Raise An African Child The British Or American Way? by Geenosko: 5:20pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
BadRadio: Seems that you have already made up your mind, so why ask for strangers opinions on the internet? |
Re: Is It Wrong To Raise An African Child The British Or American Way? by Jashub: 5:20pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Jaqenhghar:Bobrisky own na coded. Compared to what we have outside Nigeria |
Re: Is It Wrong To Raise An African Child The British Or American Way? by mulero23: 5:21pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
I am sorry, if I may ask have you lived or stayed in the so-called western world and see things yourself? Sometimes, you know experience is the best pointer! Jaqenhghar: |
Re: Is It Wrong To Raise An African Child The British Or American Way? by martineverest(m): 5:23pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Latinos,Arabs and Indians raise their kids in their respective tribes when they reside in western countries 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong To Raise An African Child The British Or American Way? by Nobody: 5:25pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
doxijaw: No. We have immoral people just like they do, but we don't normalise immorality and impose it on everyone like they are always doing. There is a world of difference. At least we have a sense of shame when it comes to immorality; except when we try to be like them and adopt their foolishness under the guise of forward sounding labels like 'human rights', 'women's liberation', 'freedom of speech', 'free market' etc. Notice how much they use nice words like 'freedom, knowledge and liberation' to give inferior Africans a false sense of security, just like the biblical myth of Satan did when he allegedly got Eve to eat the apple. We do not ignore the academic side. We just never sit down to think whether their style is adapted to our needs. Because of our inferiority complex, we simply believe that they are superior and we keep trying to emulate their methods to fulfill our needs. We fail to understand that their world is built on the basis of greed and hyperconsumerism which is not our culture here. So we are using the proverbial wrong tools for the right job, and we will keep failing in that sense. 5 Likes |
Re: Is It Wrong To Raise An African Child The British Or American Way? by AutoRedux: 5:28pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Someone is suffering from mkpi-riori-iti kwomplex. |
Re: Is It Wrong To Raise An African Child The British Or American Way? by JasperVII(m): 5:29pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Here's a better question: do the British and Americans raise their children the African way? 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong To Raise An African Child The British Or American Way? by olarafiat(f): 5:34pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Come and see spoilt children and you go weak. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong To Raise An African Child The British Or American Way? by uniquelyspecial(m): 5:39pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Jashub:A lot more. The common sense that is rare especially in Nigeria. |
Re: Is It Wrong To Raise An African Child The British Or American Way? by OrdinaryNigeria(m): 5:40pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
We wey them rub with African mud, African beating, African food, wetin we brought to de table? Abeg raise a child right. Shikenan |
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