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Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by Hassanmaye(m): 8:36am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Stockquality:Can't go back to your vomit wickedness |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by Hassanmaye(m): 8:36am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Stockquality:But are you sure the rich are also arrogant not all of them though because in my experience it's the Broke Girls that have such mentality |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by Hassanmaye(m): 8:42am On Mar 16, 2021 |
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Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by Hassanmaye(m): 8:46am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Jaqenhghar:Hahaaha wickedness
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Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by Hassanmaye(m): 8:54am On Mar 16, 2021 |
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Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by Yeecar(m): 8:54am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Ardar:I would have ignored you, because your post reeks of stupidity and illiteracy. However for the sake of the reasonable and intelligent young ladies out there on this social media platform, I will have to prefely correct this gross irresponsibility caused by diarrhea of the mouth.... 1. there is nothing like traditional and modern marriage, marriage is marriage. It is actually sadistic and untrained girls like you who have decided to divide it in your myopic minds. 2. If you as a woman is not ready to be submissive and financially supportive , you can as well remain in your father's house or whatever cage you choose to be for the rest of your life ,No one cares. 3. An husband is the head of the family as ordained by God he will never give you conditions to support or assist you , why should you give him conditions? Aren't you supposed to be his backbone. 4. Please do not imprison someone's son with your low mentality. Ire oo. |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by KingMicky3286: 8:55am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Kebbiprince: Nigerian man appreciates his fiance for always supporting him despite his hard times. Can a Nigerian woman of these days stand by you if you dont have money? |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by Hassanmaye(m): 9:01am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Labadi69:True 1 Like |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by Hassanmaye(m): 9:03am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Cashsteady:What of if you love her so much? We are human beings |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by Hassanmaye(m): 9:04am On Mar 16, 2021 |
ednut1:You mean you train yourself? |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by Hassanmaye(m): 9:08am On Mar 16, 2021 |
nick50:Why? |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by Hassanmaye(m): 9:15am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Fiscus105:You should thank God because you don't know what God has done for you nija girls are something else |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by Hassanmaye(m): 9:18am On Mar 16, 2021 |
MrIcredible:Haha
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Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by addexx: 9:25am On Mar 16, 2021 |
johhnnie: Damn right they are. The mistake parents make is assuming their kids are stupid. They don't know that kids observe EVERYTHING. |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by POTUT(m): 9:40am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Kebbiprince: Many women are listening to social media 'influencers' who are throwing around dogmas from there personal experiences. Many of those experiences are not good ones. In a marriage, it's a partnership that demands the two to bring things together. Money, body, opinions, energy, knowledge and spirituality. There's no room for individuality. |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by Nobody: 9:56am On Mar 16, 2021 |
tammyf: You get out of the marriage. Just as you never shirk your responsibility, you must never shirk your authority. If you're paying, you're the king. There should be no compromise in that. And that is why you ditch all these mythological notions of love and romance and enter marriage with your eyes on the ball; marry the right person and train her well. |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by Gerrard59(m): 9:58am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Stockquality: At the time of quoting this post, it had 80 likes even with the bold . Nigerian girls are in deep wahala if there are people who have such thoughts. Maybe na why TwitterNG feminists dey use una shine. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by Nobody: 10:04am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Yeecar: Well you've gotten my attention because your post is riddled with foolishness and contradictions. Your first point is wrong, there is a traditional marriage and a modern marriage. Your second point is contradicting it self. I guess you pulled the word submission from the bible so that means that that same bible also instructed mails to provide for their families 100% while women cater for their homes (that's an example of a traditional marriage by the way) Your third point is also about the bible too and I've noticed that you tend to pick the parts that fit your narrative and ignore the rest. Then as for your fourth point, you should save that advice for yourself cuz I pity the unfortunate woman that is married to you or would marry you in future. |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by phineas: 10:16am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Till Nigeria has a social protection plan for women who get easily divorced by their men.Wise women had better keep their money for their children and themselves for the unforeseen future Ignore threads like this.they are sponsored by selfish lazy add people |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by phineas: 10:22am On Mar 16, 2021 |
I repeat again any woman that did not learn from examples of women of older generation who slaved it all and kept nothing for themselves and their kids for later years is a compound fool. A woman's duty is to protect her children and herself .it includes keeping and saving assets for your old age and for themselves in case things go awry later So Nigerian boys are now asking women bring their money's again and the foolish women will oblige.At best its can be occasional request but when it becomes the norm.theres a problem Women just make sure you are building a safe nest somewhere.theres no court here that will enforce child support or sharing of the assets "jointly" buildt in he case of a divorce. Don't even get me started on if the spouse dies.PS everybody dies eventually. |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by phineas: 10:29am On Mar 16, 2021 |
I don't think I'll have time to respond to comments later but note to women again.if he keeps needing funds from you to make the house work always and adds nothing to assets in your name..Chances are he is underachieving,you are not helping by enabling his lazy underacheieving arse If you must support, support his investments and get your funds back.also help him cut his coat (lifestyle) according to his size while he is at it. E.g don't pay for so he can drive a benz or you all can afford family summer vacation etc thats just crap.thats money you should be saving |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by Nobody: 10:41am On Mar 16, 2021 |
ednut1: Within the space of those free 2 hours, I'm very certain you guys must've learned one of two things from your househelp sorry parents. Imagine your parents getting back home from work tired. What will they offer you at that moment if not a stress filled session. Or they'll at least pretend to be agile. Like I wrote, I won't drag your ass here. |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by ednut1(m): 10:42am On Mar 16, 2021 |
StacyO:omo na u sabi, we all turned out well is the koko, abeg comot here |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by Nobody: 10:44am On Mar 16, 2021 |
ednut1: I already told you to comot first *Hiss small* |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by Malawian(m): 10:47am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Brother man, focus on your children alone, make sure not even a penny of your money gets into your wive's mouth. Been there done that. |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by bukatyne(f): 10:55am On Mar 16, 2021 |
abdsamad: 'Nigerian' husbands and wives like to eat their cake and have it. They both want to be traditional and modern/flexible at same time. Today, it is the men/boys wailing. One said why should a woman want a man who does chores when she is at home watching zeeworld all day? How would a woman supposedly watching zeeworld all day have money to contribute to the family purse in the first place? Oh, she is an housewife watching zeeworld all day yet working hard to bring in money. Tomorrow, the women would equate respect/submission to finance yet they would complain when a husband earning more/ sole earner treats them like trash. My brother, just siddon look. 'Nigerian' husbands and wives are a perfect FIT. 1 Like |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by Zane2point4(m): 10:55am On Mar 16, 2021 |
missoreo:Men don't need to join to cut tomatoes or onions in the kitchen, he can do more masculine chores like cleaning the compd and the cars, servicing the generator etc. Women own the kitchen, no dispute. 1 Like |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by Jaqenhghar: 11:02am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Raph3177:You will soon call me your mother. Continue |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by Jaqenhghar: 11:45am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Hassanmaye:Na true nah. This Dangote when you dey see if he sees 500# to collect from you, he will 1 Like |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by Nobody: 12:11pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
sisisioge: It was not indoctrination. That was the working approach. Women have a lot to do in taking care of the children. Nothing degraded society to this extent more than the fact that both parents now have to work, while the children are left to the internet to raise. 'Economic reality' has not differed in any way, except that people; especially women; are now less satisfied with what their husbands' incomes can comfortably provide so families are normalising the wives' compulsory financial contribution just to keep up with the Kardashians. Now everyone has to work just to sustain the kind of lifestyle that they see on Instagram and Facebook and want for themselves. As Mahatma Ghandi once said; "there's enough on earth for everyone's need, but not enough for everyone's greed". Its a vicious cycle of consumerism and poor upbringing. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by sisisioge: 12:45pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
RisenPhoenix1: Hmmmm....you need to make up your mind as it's quite impossible to eat your cake and have it. The economic reality has truly changed. School fees are not anywhere close to what they used to be. Food inflation is above 20% now. Cost of money is astronomical. Rent, transportation, clothing, etc. Meaning, meeting the basic physiological need is no longer an easy feat. How many young men can afford to do it alone while their wives sit at home nurturing children in this age? Yeah, such a long shot. Haven't you seen that divorce/domestic violence/marital discord thrive in the face of financial distress? It is well. The good thing about this life is that there is no mandate that says every household must adopt the same approach. Let's all adopt whichever works for us. Good luck. 1 Like |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by descarado: 1:19pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
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