Imagine your parents finding out you are having sex. How would they react? I asked 7 Nigerian women about how their parents found out they were sexually active. Here’s what they had to say.

Lexi, 22
I was 19. I came home from university for holiday. One morning, I was preparing to head to the place I was interning at when my mom offered to drive me. In the car, she said, “When did you start having sex? I saw your messages.” My heart dropped to my stomach because I could not deny it, and I couldn’t confront the breach of privacy.

I owned up to it but she still forced me to tell my father and he reacted irrationally. They made me break up with my lover. Both of them refused to look me in the eye for the rest of my holiday. Eventually, they moved on and we’re on good terms now.

Grace, 24
I was 18. My mum was snooping in my stuff at 3 a.m. when she found a negative pregnancy test in my bag. She woke me up and held it in my face until my half-asleep brain realized what was happening. LMAO.

I just started apologizing. She was quiet, so I went back to bed. The next morning, she was still obviously upset but we talked about it and she offered to get me birth control because I was careless if I was taking pregnancy tests. We’ve never talked about it since then.

Carol, 23
My parents found out that I was sexually active when I was 17. I came home for a short Easter break from school. I was a bit weak but it wasn’t anything serious. My parents took me to the hospital for tests. I assumed it was a routine check-up.

A week later, I was ready to go back to school after the break. On the ride to the park, my mum brought out the test result. She presented it to me and asked if I have been having sex. Before I could even respond, she said, “Don’t even bother lying. The only way you can have this infection is through sex.” I had to say yes.

My father was disappointed. His problem was that my husband will not marry me as a virgin. My mum kept asking why I didn’t wait till I was 18. She even asked if I was raped. I told her it was consensual. My father called me loose. He asked me how many guys I had slept with. He thought it was after I left his house for university. Meanwhile, it was right after secondary school. It was the longest car ride of my life. They stopped letting me go out. It was a traumatizing experience. I never got their trust back, and I’ve stopped trying.

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Amaka: They found out when I stood and urinated and it came out like tap. How did my mother think that she could know this through urine.

Body no firewood

AngelicDamsel:
Amaka: They found out when I stood and urinated and it came out like tap. How did my mother think that she could know this through urine.

it came out like tap? you have a wide kpekus then!

this blogger must be new to Naira land....

meobizy:
Concocted lies.

Chai....Laff wan kill me die

Donno if they already ......

The sexual intercourse age dropped uniquely... From 19 to 17. Mostly from affluent families. The first three were boarders and mostly had something to do with a car ride.

Op, dig the ghetto that's where the sales lie

AngelicDamsel:
Amaka: They found out when I stood and urinated and it came out like tap. How did my mother think that she could know this through urine.

Those petals look virginly solid...

That's the only thing I saw

AngelicDamsel:
Amaka: They found out when I stood and urinated and it came out like tap. How did my mother think that she could know this through urine.

Amaka no dey disappoint

Nice jugs

AngelicDamsel:
Amaka: They found out when I stood and urinated and it came out like tap. How did my mother think that she could know this through urine.

Hmmm

AngelicDamsel:
Amaka: They found out when I stood and urinated and it came out like tap. How did my mother think that she could know this through urine.

have we met before

If she did not threatened you with pistle and mortal , she ain't African