Good morning everyone,pls overlook my typing errors, I really need help on what to do, there's this guy I really like, he's everything I wished for, he's been there for me in everything apart from monetary matters, I am the one actually helping him with money and accommodation, he has tried looking for work but it's not forthcoming, the thing is my parents says they won't allow us marry because he doesn't have money, that he can't be staying with me and then later we come and say we want to marry, this guy does everything my dad wants, like cooking for my dad sometimes and runs some little errands for him, we have been to church to pray, tried everything possible for him to get work yet nothing is moving, he cries all the time because my parents says it's an already made man they want asin a man that has money and can sort my bills and take care of me, I don't know what else to do, I have begged my dad, spoken to him to find work for him but still my dad hasn't done anything, I just dont know what else to do, I tried finding work too for him but it's not forthcoming.... I have been so sad because he's the only person I really wish to spend the rest of my life with, he's very sincere too... Pls I need your advice on what to do or how to get work for him or any kind of help pls... Thank you

Hummmm... I'm just speechless Firstly, did he love you? Hope it's not your money is the reason he is still with you? If you truly love him, why not wait for him a little more to make it in life? With prayers, I believe God will do something. Just be pleading with your parents. It's a matter of time.

I pray that he won't cheat nor ignore you in future when he gets better

I have no advice for you. Deep inside, you both know what to do.

I pity who no get skills in Nigeria, but the one I pity even more is the one that isn't earning at least 7-digits per annum and still wants to get married.

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This is how you guys end up populating this country with children that you won't be able to cater for. Both you and the guy should go and make money and leave marriage alone, what's all this rubbish for?
(No offense, just speaking my mind.)

Amormivida:
Good morning everyone,pls overlook my typing errors, I really need help on what to do, there's this guy I really like, he's everything I wished for, he's been there for me in everything apart from monetary matters, I am the one actually helping him with money and accommodation, he has tried looking for work but it's not forthcoming, the thing is my parents says they won't allow us marry because he doesn't have money, that he can't be staying with me and then later we come and say we want to marry, this guy does everything my dad wants, like cooking for my dad sometimes and runs some little errands for him, we have been to church to pray, tried everything possible for him to get work yet nothing is moving, he cries all the time because my parents says it's an already made man they want asin a man that has money and can sort my bills and take care of me, I don't know what else to do, I have begged my dad, spoken to him to find work for him but still my dad hasn't done anything, I just dont know what else to do, I tried finding work too for him but it's not forthcoming.... I have been so sad because he's the only person I really wish to spend the rest of my life with, he's very sincere too... Pls I need your advice on what to do or how to get work for him or any kind of help pls... Thank you

Him get driving license?

Xenry:

Yes he does

drmikeadams:

Him get driving license?

Yes he does

Amormivida:
Good morning everyone,pls overlook my typing errors, I really need help on what to do, there's this guy I really like, he's everything I wished for, he's been there for me in everything apart from monetary matters, I am the one actually helping him with money and accommodation, he has tried looking for work but it's not forthcoming, the thing is my parents says they won't allow us marry because he doesn't have money, that he can't be staying with me and then later we come and say we want to marry, this guy does everything my dad wants, like cooking for my dad sometimes and runs some little errands for him, we have been to church to pray, tried everything possible for him to get work yet nothing is moving, he cries all the time because my parents says it's an already made man they want asin a man that has money and can sort my bills and take care of me, I don't know what else to do, I have begged my dad, spoken to him to find work for him but still my dad hasn't done anything, I just dont know what else to do, I tried finding work too for him but it's not forthcoming.... I have been so sad because he's the only person I really wish to spend the rest of my life with, he's very sincere too... Pls I need your advice on what to do or how to get work for him or any kind of help pls... Thank you

If your parents truly ask you not to marry him because he does not have money then..... ..Hmmmm. They are not good parents. This is assuming that:

1. This is not one of these "Super Story on Nairaland".
2. You have read your boyfriend well and he is true to the character you painted above; i.e he is not faking.....

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GoldHorse:



If your parents truly ask you not to marry him because he does not have money then..... ..Hmmmm. It is too early in the morning to start insulting people else I would have said that "awon parents e need small lakaye..." This is assuming that:

1. This is not one of these "Super Story on Nairaland".
2. You have read your boyfriend well and he is true to the character you painted above; i.e he is not faking.....

He is not, I don't understand them as well�

Amormivida:







Yes he does

He should look for a car and start doing uber,,,or get a driving job...

Bola146:
Hummmm... I'm just speechless Firstly, did he love you? Hope it's not your money is the reason he is still with you? If you truly love him, why not wait for him a little more to make it in life? With prayers, I believe God will do something. Just be pleading with your parents. It's a matter of time.

I pray that he won't cheat nor ignore you in future when he gets better

He's not after the money I can swear with my life, I am willing to wait for him as well.... Thank you God bless you

drmikeadams:


He should look for a car and start doing uber,,,or get a driving job...

Okay, thank you very much, God bless you

Amormivida:
Good morning everyone,pls overlook my typing errors, I really need help on what to do, there's this guy I really like, he's everything I wished for, he's been there for me in everything apart from monetary matters, I am the one actually helping him with money and accommodation, he has tried looking for work but it's not forthcoming, the thing is my parents says they won't allow us marry because he doesn't have money, that he can't be staying with me and then later we come and say we want to marry, this guy does everything my dad wants, like cooking for my dad sometimes and runs some little errands for him, we have been to church to pray, tried everything possible for him to get work yet nothing is moving, he cries all the time because my parents says it's an already made man they want asin a man that has money and can sort my bills and take care of me, I don't know what else to do, I have begged my dad, spoken to him to find work for him but still my dad hasn't done anything, I just dont know what else to do, I tried finding work too for him but it's not forthcoming.... I have been so sad because he's the only person I really wish to spend the rest of my life with, he's very sincere too... Pls I need your advice on what to do or how to get work for him or any kind of help pls... Thank you

Connect me with the guy I will help him out on getting jobs call me on 08089456258

Ynix:
Connect me with the guy I will help him out on getting jobs call me on 08089456258

Thank you very much God bless you, I will contact you

First of all, u are the cause of ur problem,why will u bring him so low to the extent of cooking for ur dad. hmmm so sad.....allowing ur dad to use him like an house boy.

i even blame the guy, he is not a man of integrity

Bola146:
Hummmm... I'm just speechless Firstly, did he love you? Hope it's not your money is the reason he is still with you? If you truly love him, why not wait for him a little more to make it in life? With prayers, I believe God will do something. Just be pleading with your parents. It's a matter of time.

I pray that he won't cheat nor ignore you in future when he gets better

if she didn't have money,would you ask her if the nigga is after her money?? You ladies are always funny

Vikinatty:
First of all, u are the cause of ur problem,why will u bring him so low to the extent of cooking for ur dad. hmmm so sad.....allowing ur dad to use him like an house boy.

i even blame the guy, he is not a man of integrity

Thank you very much, I accept its my fault...

Vikinatty:
First of all, u are the cause of ur problem,why will u bring him so low to the extent of cooking for ur dad. hmmm so sad.....allowing ur dad to use him like an house boy.

i even blame the guy, he is not a man of integrity

seconded...asin whick kind familiarity come make your guy start cooking for your dad?abeg that na see finish.Even if i broke like church rat,i won't stoop so low.

Amormivida:
Good morning everyone,pls overlook my typing errors, I really need help on what to do, there's this guy I really like, he's everything I wished for, he's been there for me in everything apart from monetary matters, I am the one actually helping him with money and accommodation, he has tried looking for work but it's not forthcoming, the thing is my parents says they won't allow us marry because he doesn't have money, that he can't be staying with me and then later we come and say we want to marry, this guy does everything my dad wants, like cooking for my dad sometimes and runs some little errands for him, we have been to church to pray, tried everything possible for him to get work yet nothing is moving, he cries all the time because my parents says it's an already made man they want asin a man that has money and can sort my bills and take care of me, I don't know what else to do, I have begged my dad, spoken to him to find work for him but still my dad hasn't done anything, I just dont know what else to do, I tried finding work too for him but it's not forthcoming.... I have been so sad because he's the only person I really wish to spend the rest of my life with, he's very sincere too... Pls I need your advice on what to do or how to get work for him or any kind of help pls... Thank you

If he can not get a job, let him start a business no matter how little. Then, go back and speak to your dad

Xenry:
I pity who no get skills in Nigeria, but the one I pity even more is the one that isn't earning at least 7-digits per annum and still wants to get married.

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This is how you guys end up populating this country with children that you won't be able to cater for. Both you and the guy should go and make money and leave marriage alone, what's all this rubbish for?
(No offense, just speaking my mind.)

I don't think you understand me, we aren't planning marriage sir, but my parents don't want us to have anything together not to talk of marriage..... Thanks anyways

gfon:
seconded...asin whick kind familiary come make your guy start cooking for your dad?abeg that na see finish.Even if i broke like church rat,i won't stoop so low.

Thank you

Amormivida:






He is not, I don't understand them as well�

Since you are pretty sure he is not faking.... Ignore your parent and marry him. When one even marries someone one really loves problem will still call at your doorsteps but your feelings for each will help in those times.

Getting a job is not about "I beg to apply". When you have the right skills companies will "beg" to employ you. What are his skills? People pay for your skills; if you don't have good ones you won't get far. Review that first.

dawnomike:
If he can not get a job, let him start a business no matter how little. Then, go back and speak to your dad

Thank you�

What on earth would make a grown up man wash clothes and run errand for the girlfriend father? like what on earth?

He is the one that reduced himself to nothing.
your parents have seen him finish.

No matter his condition , she shouldn't have subjected himself to a mere house boy position to your father.


I pray he finds a good job, so that he can reclaim his place as a real man, and do the needful by marrying you legally.

Continue to love and respect him, the future is certainly bright believe me.

Anigreat:






What on earth would make a grown up man wash clothes and run errand for the girlfriend father? like what on earth?

He is the one that reduced himself to nothing, your parents have seen him finish.

No matter his condition , she shouldn't have subjected himself to a mere house boy position to your father.

Thank you

Anigreat:






What on earth would make a grown up man wash clothes and run errand for the girlfriend father? like what on earth?

He is the one that reduced himself to nothing.
your parents have seen him finish.

No matter his condition , she shouldn't have subjected himself to a mere house boy position to your father.


I pray he finds a good job, so that he can reclaim his place as a real man, and do the needful by marrying you legally.

Continue to love and respect him, the future is certainly bright believe me.

Thank you, God bless you�

gfon:
seconded...asin whick kind familiary come make your guy start cooking for your dad?abeg that na see finish.Even if i broke like church rat,i won't stoop so low.

I blame him for losing his integrity and now the family are rejecting him

GoldHorse:


Since you are pretty sure he is not faking.... Ignore your parent and marry him. When one even marries someone one really loves problem will still call at your doorsteps but your feelings for each will help in those times.

Getting a job is not about "I beg to apply". When you have the right skills companies will "beg" to employ you. What are his skills? People pay for your skills; if you don't have good ones you won't get far. Review that first.

Thank you very much�

Amormivida:
Good morning everyone,pls overlook my typing errors, I really need help on what to do, there's this guy I really like, he's everything I wished for, he's been there for me in everything apart from monetary matters, I am the one actually helping him with money and accommodation, he has tried looking for work but it's not forthcoming, the thing is my parents says they won't allow us marry because he doesn't have money, that he can't be staying with me and then later we come and say we want to marry, this guy does everything my dad wants, like cooking for my dad sometimes and runs some little errands for him, we have been to church to pray, tried everything possible for him to get work yet nothing is moving, he cries all the time because my parents says it's an already made man they want asin a man that has money and can sort my bills and take care of me, I don't know what else to do, I have begged my dad, spoken to him to find work for him but still my dad hasn't done anything, I just dont know what else to do, I tried finding work too for him but it's not forthcoming.... I have been so sad because he's the only person I really wish to spend the rest of my life with, he's very sincere too... Pls I need your advice on what to do or how to get work for him or any kind of help pls... Thank you

If you could help him start a business, he would definitely be fine. Self-employment is the key to his success.