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Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by Eastcoastboy(m): 1:59pm On Apr 01
ibedun:


How old are you?

Are you aware that African people have critical thinking issues?

Pretty young. Your guess is good. And for the critical thinking issues. Please school me.
Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by positivevibez: 2:15pm On Apr 01
Bornsinner7:
Nothing! Nothing!!

The woman gains everything.. her title changes from Miss to Mrs.. the man remain Mr before and after marriage..

If anything should happen in the marriage.. the law favours the woman for the kids to be with her while the man goes back to bachelorhood

It is finance? you hear ratio like 90/10.. 70/10.. 80/20 where the man takes the bigger responsibility..

It is sex?? the ladies just lay there and the man does the work like an unpaid slave.. no pleasure just thrust thrust then cum.. sometimes he has to beg the entire family and even the king of her village before he can even taste it
if he doesn't go through that route then he pays for it
Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by Ishilove: 2:18pm On Apr 01
omonnakoda:
Not necessarily
You already have observation bias and are seeing what you want to see
Everyone here is opinionated .
My conclusions are not based entirely on the fuckery on this thread. Nota bene.


Where is your marriage certificate?
Why do you ask and what do you need it for?
Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by omonnakoda: 2:43pm On Apr 01
Ishilove:

My conclusions are not based entirely on the fuckery on this thread. Nota bene.


Why do you ask and what do you need it for?
I ask just to establish that we have no way of knowing who is married or unmarried here

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Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by deeva2: 4:40pm On Apr 01
richie240:

I love and concur with wt u said......in as much as its 'wife', not 'slay queens'.
majority of modern day women fall into d 2nd category.
Most modern day women just want the 'mrs' title but not d accountabilities and responsibilities that go with it.
sorry.
cool

majority of modern day women Meaning that some women out there are marriable...SORRY
Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by ibedun: 6:24pm On Apr 01
ogbonti:




you are obviously a very worthless person, Honesty I never memorized your username because I care less about you - trolling in a faceless forum. I only care about getting information and debating ideas here - and I try to contribute to threads than petty quarrels with people I don’t know and most likely will never meet in life - But for you to memorize my username and use it to stalk me in a faceless forum shows how useless your life is- you have an unpaid full time job on your hands stalking me on nairaland and good luck doing it as I perpetually live in your head rent free.

Stop ranting, professor green card.

You made some interesting but valid points on this subject, well done.

Don’t worry I have a full serviced self contained duplex boys quarters (back houses as we call them in England) at the back of my house in lekki. When your wife finally kicks you out, aged 61 and collect your pension and leave you with the shirt on your back........and you start thinking of topping yourself......and frustration sends you back to Naija ...I will give you a room to sleep.
You can wash my cars for a living while you narrate your US stories to my mai-guard, my driver and cook. Ogbontiiiiii!

grin grin grin

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Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by gudvibz(f): 8:34pm On Apr 01
Edusouls:
Shut up � stupid girl, see things have changed men are now wiser, that’s why men don’t marry nowadays as they do back then, because we have realised that the we gain nothing from marriage but suffering till death, that’s why women pray and crave to get married cos they are the parasites



Please mind your language, don't insult me. I simply aired my views just as everyone else, take your frustrations somewhere else.

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Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by House1411: 10:00pm On Apr 01
ibedun:


...I will give you a room to sleep.
You can wash my cars for a living while you narrate your US stories to my mai-guard, my driver and cook. Ogbontiiiiii!

grin grin grin

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Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by House1411: 10:02pm On Apr 01
ibedun:


Stop ranting, professor green card.

You made some interesting but valid points on this subject, well done.

Don’t worry I have a full serviced self contained duplex boys quarters (back houses as we call them in England) at the back of my house in lekki.
grin grin grin

Hello sir. I plan to come down to Lagos to job hunt, I wouldn't mind the boys quarters sir. If it's available for free sir
Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by Oturatetuala(m): 10:11pm On Apr 01
The struggle sir/ma...
Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by ibedun: 11:15pm On Apr 01
House1411:


Hello sir. I plan to come down to Lagos to job hunt, I wouldn't mind the boys quarters sir. If it's available for free sir

Sorry sir, the boys quarter is reserved for the US professor of business studies (Ogbonti).

He is coming to join my domestic staff after his wife will throw him out like a piece of toilet paper.

He’ll run back to Naija with his tail (green card) between his legs and his depression.

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Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by ogbonti: 11:31pm On Apr 01
[quote author=ibedun post=100399045]

Stop ranting, professor green card.

You made some interesting but valid points on this subject, well done.

Don’t worry I have a full serviced self contained duplex boys quarters (back houses as we call them in England) at the back of my house in lekki. When your wife finally kicks you out, aged 61 and collect your pension and leave you with the shirt on your back........and you start thinking of topping yourself......and frustration sends you back to Naija ...I will give you a room to sleep.
You can wash my cars for a living while you narrate your US stories to my mai-guard, my driver and cook. Ogbontiiiiii!

grin grin grin[/quotes

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Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by ogbonti: 11:34pm On Apr 01
ibedun:


Stop ranting, professor green card.

You made some interesting but valid points on this subject, well done.

Don’t worry I have a full serviced self contained duplex boys quarters (back houses as we call them in England) at the back of my house in lekki. When your wife finally kicks you out, aged 61 and collect your pension and leave you with the shirt on your back........and you start thinking of topping yourself......and frustration sends you back to Naija ...I will give you a room to sleep.
You can wash my cars for a living while you narrate your US stories to my mai-guard, my driver and cook. Ogbontiiiiii!

grin grin grin


Thank God I have a green card, to those who don’t have it in America and living under the shadows - I am a rock star - but you this. sh it hole okokomaiko resident forming Lekki land lord, every reply you have mentioned me, you have never failed to say you live in Lekki, that’s how we know liars. Those who live in Lekki don’t brag about it because it’s just a normal thing for them... you get tired of saying you live there because it’s part of your life, it is useless okokomaiko and ajamgbadi residents who dream of one day being mai guard at Lekki that say things like you do - basta rd poverty stricken as s h ole grin

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Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by ogbonti: 11:38pm On Apr 01
House1411:


Hello sir. I plan to come down to Lagos to job hunt, I wouldn't mind the boys quarters sir. If it's available for free sir


Guy don’t mind the idiot bragging about Lekki when he is squatting with his jobless uncle at okoko - hmmmm you self you dey for all hand anyhow, na everything you dey read for internet you dey believe? person wey you dey beg make him give you place to stay is a homeless and frustrated vagabond - using any free N100 data card he can hustle in a day to come online to insult me that he wil never be qualified to clean my shoes in this life and in the hereafter


The internet is really the great equalizer- I no blame am, once you descend to contribute on nairaland you set yourself up to receive messages from the dregs and scums of the earth!

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Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by ogbonti: 11:50pm On Apr 01
ibedun:


Stop ranting, professor green card.

You made some interesting but valid points on this subject, well done.

Don’t worry I have a full serviced self contained duplex boys quarters (back houses as we call them in England) at the back of my house in lekki. When your wife finally kicks you out, aged 61 and collect your pension and leave you with the shirt on your back........and you start thinking of topping yourself......and frustration sends you back to Naija ...I will give you a room to sleep.
You can wash my cars for a living while you narrate your US stories to my mai-guard, my driver and cook.
Ogbontiiiiii!

grin grin grin



Gbozah, the boldes parts - you sold your fathers house and travelled to America and you flopped big time as your as s was sent back home and you have successfully told us what you do now at lekki, washing cars and being a mai guard and talking about your endless stories of woes and bad luck when you travelled to America with your fellow poverty stricken mai guard and house helps in Lekki - This is exactly what happened to you, that is why you can explain it flawlessly and that’s why you are unnecessarily angry and stalking me on nairaland grin


ndo, sorry oooo my story can never ever be your story because you are cursed and I am blessed.

And na that driver work you go die put - bastard deportee that is intimidated by ordinary Green card - green card wey some of my relatives don get through me almost 10 years ago

yeye fawo grin
Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by ibedun: 12:55am On Apr 02
ogbonti:




Gbozah, the boldes parts - you sold your fathers house and travelled to America and you flopped big time as your as s was sent back home and you have successfully told us what you do now at lekki, washing cars and being a mai guard and talking about your endless stories of woes and bad luck when you travelled to America with your fellow poverty stricken mai guard and house helps in Lekki - This is exactly what happened to you, that is why you can explain it flawlessly and that’s why you are unnecessarily angry and stalking me on nairaland grin


ndo, sorry oooo my story can never ever be your story because you are cursed and I am blessed.

And na that driver work you go die put - bastard deportee that is intimidated by ordinary Green card - green card wey some of my relatives don get through me almost 10 years ago

yeye fawo grin

Mumu! Celebrating green card

A whole professor of business studies angry angry angry

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Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by ogbonti: 3:49am On Apr 02
ibedun:


Mumu! Celebrating green card

A whole professor of business studies angry angry angry



why you dey frown face na, Lekki Landlord wannabe - you no mention your Lekki House for your reply again ? Useless mai guard - vagabond ba stbard grin make Ogun kee ya hopeless papa and smelly towtow mama grin Anuofia, agbaya express, you dey come faceless online platform dey claim landlord - Ozuor

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Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by Hassanmaye(m): 10:16am On Apr 02
Escabado:
If you say s. ex : currently s.ex is the cheapest commodity you can buy now as low as N500 to N1000

If you say a child : how can a woman have sex with a man give birth , and she seats back waiting for the man to bring money for feeding, clothing , house bills . Which is called financial slavery

If you say been responsible : how can only a man be responsible for the children, and a woman who is a grown up adult . We're as both of them are supposed to be responsible for there family expenses.

Have u noticed when a man takes up all the financial responsibility of his home till the kids grow they only buy gift and cars for there mom.

Have you also noticed when a woman bear financial cost for raising her child , she will spoil there minds towards there father and make them see him as evil .have u ever seen a single mother that speaks good of his baby dady ? We need to use our head here .think very well men



So tell me exactly what a man stand to gain in marriage .
This your statement is absolutely correct wlh, it's absolute stupidity by some men who take good care of there mother more than there father! Do they think without there father they will be were they are today? That's why I promise myself considering how my father raised me I will work in the state he lives so that I can take good care of him, do you know one funny thing with women including our mothers they are all the same, for example I bought my father and mother the same Crets of eggs only to go back home and discover mum has packed all my father's eggs to herself, I was shocked.

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Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by Hassanmaye(m): 10:19am On Apr 02
Bornsinner7:
Nothing! Nothing!!

The woman gains everything.. her title changes from Miss to Mrs.. the man remain Mr before and after marriage..

If anything should happen in the marriage.. the law favours the woman for the kids to be with her while the man goes back to bachelorhood

It is finance? you hear ratio like 90/10.. 70/10.. 80/20 where the man takes the bigger responsibility..

It is sex?? the ladies just lay there and the man does the work like an unpaid slave.. no pleasure just thrust thrust then cum.. sometimes he has to beg the entire family and even the king of her village before he can even taste it
Daughters of Jezebel can drink your urine for you to marry them but immediately she answered Mrs you are in trouble

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Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by Hassanmaye(m): 10:24am On Apr 02
popweezy:
question for people who will eventually end up getting trapped in marriage.. not me
Do you mean you will not get married? If I slap you, who will inherit all what you have

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Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by Hassanmaye(m): 10:26am On Apr 02
FuckThaMod:
Absolutely no gain i swear...
I could use IVF if i need a child..

Infact these women would take your peace instead, i pity married men of this generation.
stop scaring the hell out of us
Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by Hassanmaye(m): 10:26am On Apr 02
fergie001:

Jesuuu
Haha grin grin grin
Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by Hassanmaye(m): 10:29am On Apr 02
DaudaTheSexyGuy:
Na only toto meanwhile you don't even need to be married to have access to unlimited supply of fresh toto grin
Wicked boy grin grin
Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by Hassanmaye(m): 10:31am On Apr 02
Another guy scaring the hell out of me
itsRhamzy:
Nothing much..

You marry her and foot almost all bills including hers.

Both of you get children.

The responsibility of those children rests on your laps from school bills to feeding for at least 2 decades while your wife contributes almost nothing in those bills. she'll tell you it's your responsibility.

A man can survive alone but a woman can't.

She wants your commitment in raising her children in the best possible ways as you're the disposable gender.

You're just a workhorse tool to fulfil her most desired needs -money, commitment, children etc.


So when you look at these factors as a man, you figure the only thing you gain is kids.. feel free to delude yourself.
Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by Hassanmaye(m): 10:32am On Apr 02
seyz91:
NOTHING undecided
shocked shocked undecided
Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by emmaodet: 10:36am On Apr 02
xynerise:


Culture didn't change. People changed.

Well, people make the culture and not the other way round
Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by Hassanmaye(m): 10:37am On Apr 02
tiredoflife:


lies
if u no buy that wig no toto
if u no take her to that trip no toto
if u no open shop for her no toto
if u no buy that car no toto
their toto is metered
its pay as u go even in marriage wink wink
Are you serious stop scaring us o, you mean I will marry a daughter of jazabel and I have to beg her for my right
Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by Hassanmaye(m): 10:51am On Apr 02
Akuruoulo:
Lies... They whole world will knw it if the woman becums the breadwinner. She is likely turn the children against. U CN ONLY GIVE INSTANCE WHERE WE CNT REACH.
I agree
Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by Hassanmaye(m): 10:52am On Apr 02
yeman1:
I enjoyed my marriage for one year when we just married. Then my mother in law came to visit, then things changed. As I'm telling u now, marriage is nothing to me. I cook myself, wash my clothes myself, doing house chores myself, even fuvckin set,, she go dey deprived me . Sometimes two months nothing nothing... So tell me .. na like this I go dey look till I die ?

I bought everything full for house , food and drinks and other miscellaneous.
Hahha please stop scaring us o
Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by Hassanmaye(m): 11:01am On Apr 02
[quote author=Edusouls post=100364520]Shut up � stupid girl, see things have changed men are now wiser, that’s why men don’t marry nowadays as they do back then, because we have realised that the we gain nothing from marriage but suffering till death, that’s why women pray and crave to get married cos they are the parasites [/quo
te]
After reading this messages one will be thinking wether he should marry
Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by Hassanmaye(m): 11:03am On Apr 02
DEMZEE:


Trash

So u will stop ur lineage and ancestry line all because u cant find a unicorn

Do u even understand women's sexual mating strategy and Women's nature
Explain to me sir. Let me learn
Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by popweezy(m): 12:10pm On Apr 02
Hassanmaye:

Do you mean you will not get married? If I slap you, who will inherit all what you have
my family, brogrin

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