I'm in this boat. Constant communication and trust is the bedrock.

DrFunmisticGlow:
pour 'something' on the ground na

except na soapy gang u be

I have been in a long distance relationship now for 5 years and we are already preparing for marriage. Trust and communication had been on a level of 99%( that's if it's not 100%). And it's my first ever relationship. But it hasn't been easy. You just have to make a decision to be committed to one person and stick with it. And I must say it's worth the effort you put in to it if you are with the right person

Distance relationship is not for the weak trust me, it’s for serious minded and matured couples. Personally, i’ve been in a distance relationship for more than a year and i know how it feels... it was hard at first but i got accustomed to it... communication, trust, understanding and love all have to be in thesame context in a DR.. everytin works in hand, well it’s abt to end and i give God the glory

About being secretive, communication really helped in that part, we spoke everyday and so .. it was hard to be secretive... lolz... again DR is not for the feeble minded.

My dilemma right now

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The truth is either long distance or the person is in your backyard, person wey go cheat go still cheat. Cheating has nothing to do with distance and those people that wash their dirty linen on social media because one of them cheated, where they not living in the same house? I think long distance will work best for people who have never been sexually active or people who are very dedicated and have serious self control.

Drsnives:
I foresee ladies coming here to lie.
I foresee SIMPs coming to spill trash


This I have seen

Lol
FalseProphet, why you change your name?
Abi no be you?

I have been in a LDR for the past four years now and I must confess, it has been amazing despite the challenges. Two hearts would always be together no matter how far they are, it takes a lot of patience and commitment.

Fearjah:

Lol
FalseProphet, why you change your name?
Abi no be you?

I know no false prophet from adam

Amarisco:
Been in two and never cheated.

Wont recommend it though unless it’s temporary or you were together before the distance.

Asides cheating, it puts a lot of strain.

And cheating can happen even if you’re in zero distance relationship let me just tell you now.

I'd worship your body

seunny4lif:
Long distance relationship worked for me
Now married with kids

Please go for a paternity test

this OP sef
ppl dey reveal to dem partner say Dem dun cheat?

am currently in one sha
am in Rivers State, she's in Edo State.
we talk on phone once or twice EVERYDAY.
last time I was "with her" was January 2020
and according to her statement about 3weeks ago, January 2020 is still the last time she was with someone (me).
now, am I supposed to believe that?

well, dat's long distance relationship 4 most of us
...trust is usually on a low.

Lol
Those are done already

alphaNomega:
Please go for a paternity test

olanreyman:
Long distance relationship often make your mind tells you your partner is probably somewhere fvcking and enjoying his or her life while you are here acting faithful. 90% long distance relationship na scam

. God bless you

Sniper101:
this OP sef
ppl dey reveal to dem partner say Dem dun cheat?

am currently in one sha
am in Rivers State, she's in Edo State.
we talk on phone once or twice EVERYDAY.
last time I was "with her" was January 2020
and according to her statement about 3weeks ago, January 2020 is still the last time she was with someone (me).
now, am I supposed to believe that?

well, dat's long distance relationship 4 most of us
...trust is usually on a low.

Just ph to edo and una never see for that long? una no ready.

seunny4lif:
Long distance relationship worked for me
Now married with kids

where did you find ur partner?

If you have trust issues or you always feel insecure don't try long distance relationship ooohh

Drsnives:
I foresee ladies coming here to lie. I foresee SIMPs coming to spill trash

This I have seen

Baba be calming down

Raymondj0:
CUG first time hearing that... I'll need to search Google to know about it and if you have time to respond.. You can help

Okay all you need to do is just go to any network service provider of your choice and tell them you want to buy CUG sim they will put you through its that easy, I use Airtel and it's #700 monthly but I don't know of other networks.

Long distance relationship is recommended unless one partner is willing to relocate soon.

Fearjah:
Lol Falseprophet1 , why you change your name? Abi no be you?

na impostor oh

Fearjah:

Lol
FalseProphet, why you change your name?
Abi no be you?

It's not me...it's an imposter

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seunny4lif:
Lol
Those are done already

Lucky guy

alphaNomega:
Lucky guy

Holuwahphemy:


Lack of communication you meant?


Well, me and my baby reside in different states, we met during my undergrad days. I finished and moved back to Lagos, she stayed behind with her family. We remained friends for years, and started dating just a year ago. Infact, today is our first anniversary. Communication has been strong and we reconcile almost as immediately as we have our differences. The relationship is very healthy too. I trust her, because I feel it's the right thing to do and I believe she trusts me too.
No relationship is perfect, be it long distance or "short distance" relationship, understanding matters the most, and "love conquers all"

You have sad it all

Trust
Communication
Love

Amwitty:

Use CUG na it saves you alot on airtime, all you need to do is subscribe monthly and it's unlimited.

Pls tell me how it works I use Airtel

Draggun:
I have been in a LDR for the past four years now and I must confess, it has been amazing despite the challenges. Two hearts would always be together no matter how far they are, it takes a lot of patience and commitment.

True

evil1:


Pls tell me how it works I use Airtel

You can't use your current sim you will need a new sim card for that, I advise you go to the nearest Airtel office close to you and get it done it cost about 2k. I hope this helps.

FalseProphet1:

It's not me...it's an imposter

Wow! Okay my Original FalseProphet1
what do you see about this impostor?
Lol

Thank you

Amwitty:

You can't use your current sim you will need a new sim card for that, I advise you go to the nearest Airtel office close to you and get it done it cost about 2k. I hope this helps.