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Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by deekseen(m): 4:07pm On Apr 08
Hmmm
Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by SanctifiedSista(f): 4:09pm On Apr 08
Komu1048:



Mistrust from your part? The lady I'm getting married to soon, we've been dating for 5yrs now n only see each others once in a year. She's in abj while I'm in lagos. Distance relationship have been my thing right from time anyway. U Av time to focus on yourself and anytime you meet it's a if it shouldn't end
from my part and his
Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by Aadeniyi092: 4:09pm On Apr 08
THE SIMILITUDE OF LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP IS LIKE THAT OF AN ILLITERATE TRAINING A LADY/GUY IN THE UNIVERSITY, IT TAKES 1/1000 TO BE SUCCESSFUL.

IT USUALLY FOR KIDS WHO ARE STARTING LIFE, OR WEAK MINDED ADULTS.

IT ALWAYS END IN TEARS

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Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by Oluwasaeon(m): 4:11pm On Apr 08
Amarisco:
Been in two and never cheated.

Wont recommend it though unless it’s temporary or you were together before the distance.

Asides cheating, it puts a lot of strain.

And cheating can happen even if you’re in zero distance relationship let me just tell you now.
Then we will be good imo wink
Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by omotola90(m): 4:14pm On Apr 08
SimplyFacts:


I hope this sister would tell us why she really had to end it. If we look into it well, POWER must have changed hands. Na church sisters dey break hearts pass! On seeing a baddest instrumentalist or the new Choir Master, dem go just fall your hands undecided. The % of choristers making heaven is very minimal. If your peace of mind is important to you, pick a sister from other units in the church.but wait ooo bros, how you take know say she be chorister?



Do you need help with the question
Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by seyz91(m): 4:14pm On Apr 08
grin i belong to the high libido group so long distance shit is a no no for me

me that like a girl to be with me everytime and i do have sex like almost everyday

ogashman:
long distance relationship is for those with low sexual libido.

if u have high sexual urge, pls don't try long distance relationship, because u must always be tempted to pour something somewhere when presented with the opportunity.



Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by donestk(m): 4:15pm On Apr 08
Long distance rship is okay as long as the 4 of you agree

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Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by Duplexxx: 4:20pm On Apr 08
Long distance relationship anything you will see take it like that because if you no see pepper you no go stop
Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by TempoJunkie6(m): 4:23pm On Apr 08
I was faithful all along until i jam one keleh with thick thigh, average tits with good communication skill.. damn it! i find ma'am irresistible .. na there long distance relationship end o..

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Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by fait10(m): 4:26pm On Apr 08
ogashman:
long distance relationship is for those with low sexual libido.

if u have high sexual urge, pls don't try long distance relationship, because u must always be tempted to pour something somewhere when presented with the opportunity.



Exactly. Long distance relationship is a no no. If konji dey hold man how man wan take pour m.
Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by Richthekid: 4:35pm On Apr 08
tired
Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by HRHQueenPhil(f): 4:40pm On Apr 08
SanctifiedSista:
Just ended things recently
I hate long distance relationship
The mistrust and lack of communication is so annoying
no offense, I always thought you were married..u sound so mature and friendly on phone. Let me bring my brother grin thank God u are now free
Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by dalass(f): 4:45pm On Apr 08
ogashman:
long distance relationship is for those with low sexual libido.

if u have high sexual urge, pls don't try long distance relationship, because u must always be tempted to pour something somewhere when presented with the opportunity.


Lmao at the bolded cheesy
Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by Polynek(m): 4:49pm On Apr 08
it doesn't work for everybody and dsame time it works for some pple
Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by ItzBIM(m): 5:04pm On Apr 08
Whether long, short or medium, if you wan cheat you go cheat.

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Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by Amarisco(f): 5:06pm On Apr 08
Oluwasaeon:

Then we will be good imo wink

Oya ja lo grin

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Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by KayceeBen: 5:10pm On Apr 08
SanctifiedSista:
Just ended things recently I hate long distance relationship The mistrust and lack of communication is so annoying

are serious olu
Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by Drsnives(m): 5:15pm On Apr 08
LagbajaTheBEREAN:

And to be honest, ma NIGGGA..

You're damn right, LDR is just another name for mistrust

I saw oluwa blessing you for that comment



This I have seen
Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by DrFunmisticGlow: 5:16pm On Apr 08
ogashman:
long distance relationship is for those with low sexual libido.

if u have high sexual urge, pls don't try long distance relationship, because u must always be tempted to pour something somewhere when presented with the opportunity.



pour 'something' on the ground na

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Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by Oluwasaeon(m): 5:17pm On Apr 08
Amarisco:


Oya ja lo grin
For real or cruise ? Don't whine me o abeg
Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by sam564: 5:20pm On Apr 08
distance relationship is neva a gud idea for me again.... i left for school at lokoja and my babe is at abuja, although she often visit me at lokoja some of the weekends, and often reimburst my account wen broke.... long story cut short, i graduated and went bak to abj and decided to visit her and regain my weigth lost tru studies stress, on a faithful day wen she had gone to her normal saloon shop business i decided to go tru her photo album of which i stumbled upon a diary and i decided to go tru it, i saw many things though but the one that choke me is this" ON THIS SO SO DATE I WAS PREGNANT FOR SO SO, AND HE ADVICED ME TO ABORT IT, PLS GOD HELP ME"
the date she wrote in the diary is still same period i was in school, i jejely close the diary and write a note and drop in the diary at the middle of the room and zoom off without calling her....
she almost commit suicide because i abandoned her...
dating my neigbor sef is still a distance relationship after that experience..

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Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by NobleDeSage001: 5:35pm On Apr 08
Long distance relationship is very tough. If you cannot endure, stay off.

I speak from experience.
Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by demmymoney(m): 5:37pm On Apr 08
Long distance relationship is trash

U don't have a relationship, u just have an invisible friend
Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by AUTHORITTY(m): 6:08pm On Apr 08
You will know a faithful partner via a long distance relationship. i rest my case
Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 6:11pm On Apr 08
I can't even advise anyone I know to delve into such. Almost doesn't yield anything. Except you both had been dating before the distance was established, fine. Asides that, no bother, abeg. I won't even take you seriously.

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Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by emkz: 6:21pm On Apr 08
Some people never learn true friendship before relationship.

My first long distance relationship ended because I didn't fully love her. I could not share things with her about my life. No, it didn't start as long distance. We are not friends till this day because she didn't quite forgive me.

My second long distance relationship ended because she was an irreparable slut as she wanted to deguy me to fund her sexual relationship with one useless married pastor. She actually asked me for money to buy a chair for sex as they normally do in porn. I smelt her bullshit from miles away and decided to visit her unannounced to break up with her.

The third relationship did not start as long distance; during our relationship, she got a two-year job with an international NGO and had to travel. Me had to stay back and continue my work. I am not worried who she's talking with or worried if she's cheating.

If I am playing games then I'd naturally suspect her of playing same. If she's cheating, I have been blessed with a natural instinct to know. Maybe I can say I hear conversations through walls.

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Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by SirMichael1: 6:38pm On Apr 08
LDR is really stressful. At times you don't want to talk, only want to remain in silence and if she calls at that moment, you must pick, else her head will start getting filled with ideas. If you don't sound interested at that moment, she feel you guys are growing apart and starts asking what is wrong. It's actually draining when you can't just bask in the silence of one another because you're kilometers apart.

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Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by kepstone: 6:40pm On Apr 08
Abeg it works. LDR works the true test of fidelity is distance. I know 5 friend's who had LDR and today dey are married. 6yrs, 10yrs, 8yrs, 4yrs, 2yrs n 13 yrs, me dt my ex was in the same town with me but na gamer. The stories I heard and the once I saw broke my heart. People cheat long distance or not. My best relationships were LDR. It works for some and it doesn't work for others it's all about, trust, understanding and communication and commitment.

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Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by Austineva(m): 6:40pm On Apr 08
PrimadonnaO:
Won't try LDR. Will never feel like a relationship to me. It feels like being committed to an idea.

My number 1 love language is spending quality time together. A LDR makes that unattainable.
and be collecting gbola anytime u want it

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Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by Amwitty(f): 6:41pm On Apr 08
Raymondj0:
One thing about long distance relationship is communication and communication, honestly it's not really that easy for me but I have to, I spent nothing less than 2k daily on call.. Just to keep the communication between us going, I call morning and night and I make sure I spent at least 1 hour on phone gisting about everything not to talk about online chatting when we're both free and that's been helping us going forward since we met each other some years back, and also trust. When you're in long distance relationship, you'll lose trust sometimes because you'll keep guessing why is she not picking up her calls and other stuff like that, but as the time goes by I keep trying to forget about such things, I just like her and trying everything possible to make it work out, but honestly it's not been that easy but if you really believe in it, you'll try everything possible to make it work out
Use CUG na it saves you alot on airtime, all you need to do is subscribe monthly and it's unlimited.

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Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by nenyewrites: 6:50pm On Apr 08
Raymondj0:
One thing about long distance relationship is communication and communication, honestly it's not really that easy for me but I have to, I spent nothing less than 2k daily on call.. Just to keep the communication between us going, I call morning and night and I make sure I spent at least 1 hour on phone gisting about everything not to talk about online chatting when we're both free and that's been helping us going forward since we met each other some years back, and also trust. When you're in long distance relationship, you'll lose trust sometimes because you'll keep guessing why is she not picking up her calls and other stuff like that, but as the time goes by I keep trying to forget about such things, I just like her and trying everything possible to make it work out, but honestly it's not been that easy but if you really believe in it, you'll try everything possible to make it work out

I don’t know if you’re responding to this question or trying to encourage yourself. Receive strength to carry on.

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Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by Raymondj0: 7:02pm On Apr 08
Amwitty:

Use CUG na it saves you alot on airtime, all you need to do is subscribe monthly and it's unlimited.
CUG first time hearing that... I'll need to search Google to know about it and if you have time to respond.. You can help

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