Ayo2004:
Op,don't let all these mumu feminists make u feel bad
U better run for your life

booscy:
You Are You Perfect?

Your judgemental type makes people insecure and unable to trust people they love with their true story

Lovethaa:
Have been friends with a babe at my workplace and from her frequent visit to my office plus the way she calls me to check on me . you could easily tell that she likes me .

One thing led to another and we ended up kissing , after the kiss I told her to tell me about her past relationships plus her sexual life .

She opened up to me that she was introduced to sex at 8years old by one neighbor uncle ,
she told me how the uncle take her to his room and ask her to play with his Prick and sometimes would make her suck it ,she claim she couldn't tell her mom because she will beat her mercilessly

She said she officially started having sex at 10 ,she disclosed that she had done 4 abortions so far although the abortions were for the same guy . mind you she is just 24 years old

She claimed she's telling me all this because she loves me and wants to be honest with me .

But hearing all that I was weak.. this babe is from a wealthy family , she travels to yankee like someone going to a neighboring state plus she is an MSC Holder , unknown to her I have decided that I would marry her because she's educated and wealthy family is like a bonus but now she actually disgust me and I wish she didn't tell me all that ..

Ladies are doing shit behind forget all that pretty gentle face.. if I was to judge with the face I could have bet with my life that this babe was a virgin or atleast not that experienced in sex ...


and pls ladies if you have such dirty past ,I think u should keep it to yourself...



I'm just lost for words , wish I could unhear everything

Yusufisraelj:
@Lovethaa

You are being unwise, foolish and childish.

I know a lady who was raped at age 8 till she was 24, have had multiple partners over 11.

She met a virgin guy who decided to date her, bkos life is not about people's past but what they decide to do with their future presently.

I'm not advocating careless living but my brother if a lady opens up to you and you are disgusted by her past, then walk. it shows you are not emotionally matured to handle certain levels of TRUTH. Mark my words any relationship built on lies will never last, Falsehood was never designed to stand the test of time, only TRUTH does

sapphiere:
Are you any better than her? Bloody hypocrite.

hkidola00:
shut up

Yusufisraelj:
@Lovethaa

You are being unwise, foolish and childish.

I know a lady who was raped at age 8 till she was 24, have had multiple partners over 11.

She met a virgin guy who decided to date her, bkos life is not about people's past but what they decide to do with their future presently.

I'm not advocating careless living but my brother if a lady opens up to you and you are disgusted by her past, then walk. it shows you are not emotionally matured to handle certain levels of TRUTH. Mark my words any relationship built on lies will never last, Falsehood was never designed to stand the test of time, only TRUTH does

Kingcalls:


Will u marry a broke man if he opens up to u ...bloody hypocrite

jclassiq:


So you expect him to marry a woman who had terminated not one child, not 2, not even 3 but 4!!!?? Why?

Can you honestly ask yourself if you can do this thing if it were to be you, or you are just itching to type your hypocritical BS here so you can gather "likes"?

You ppl disgust me tbh.

Dalil8:


@Lovethaa

I've been going through the comments and i just realized women will never talk ill of a fellow woman.

4 frigging abortion, yet they see nothing wrong with that.

Trying to guilt trip him into marrying her out of pity.

"Another man will marry her if he doesn't" yen yen yen.

Op you have the info now, what you do with it is entirely up to you.

And please make sure her future boyfriends/husbands know about this too cuz i doubt she'd open up to them as she did with you. Save a brother

I wouldn't even advise my enemy to marry a girl who's done 4 abortions at just 24. God have mercy.

pseudaria:


Nigga Bleep that bullshit. A lady will knowingly turn a how just because she is young and when she is old and ready to settle down she starts forming'dont judge me based on my past, guys who judge me are emotionally immature ' bullshit. Me that is a guy who is loaded and can have any girl I choose to, but decided to keep myself I should not judge you who liked to explore and Bleep all kinds of dick. Get the Bleep outta here

Emiiboy24:
If you don't love kindly send her too me I will cherish her for the rest of my life for telling me the truth about herself and also her past

Lovethaa:




She is not even up to 4 months at our workplace and we already kissed and cuddle. although no crime in that but heating all that made me conclude she might never change..

Ishilove:

Don't be unfortunate. You asked her to open up and she did, now you are coming here to yarn dust. It shows you are not emotionally mature enough to handle a relationship and I hope she kicks your goldigging ass to the dustbin

Lovethaa:



What are you even saying... Countless sex 4 abortions.. just 24.... o wrong nau

Lordbinsmar:


God bless you abundantly.

Preach the gospel to them.

I don't understand why a lot of Nigerians celebrate mediocrity. I now understand why mosdii do say a lot of Nigerian girls are useless.

Most of them see nothing wrong with having 4 different abortions at the tender age of 24

Lovethaa:




She is not even up to 4 months at our workplace and we already kissed and cuddle. although no crime in that but heating all that made me conclude she might never change..

Magnoliaa:


How does it make her dishonest? Abi dictionaries have changed the word's meaning and I wasn't aware of it?

Magnoliaa:


Get the fuçk out of here. I don't give a damn about your background. Las' las', you're simply immature and delusional , looking for relevance online, trolling and forming hard guy with standards.

You're very small, swrs, and you're not worth my time at all even.

phazotron:


These ones have no hope

People Wey don dey open leg from teenage years

Na God Kuku put urge for intimacy for man body

If not wetin person dey find up and down with them

jclassiq:


Why this woman dey provoke like this? Seems you also have a dark secret like the lady in question.

Not to worry now; you will certainly find someone who would accept you with your flaws and all.

Just don't try to blackmail someone Into accepting what they don't want.

I know the reason the Op asked for her past in the place, is to make an informed decision.. So you guys shld understand with him.

Saig:

You are the same. is it because you don't have a womb to get pregnant?? Have you never poured sperms in another girl? Even if you used condoms, was that not like abortion?? How many times did you do that? you spilled out kids from your semens. Can you count the times you did that?? Man, you aborted too if we go that way.

sometimes it's cus some of these girls needed guidance and direction but there was nobody to give them or they simply wanted to explore but in ignorance. They need somebody to trust and share with, somebody who will protect them emotionally, physically and psychologically. some Once they get that they change. All of us have a past. You shouldn't feel disgusted cus she told you the truth. if you really love her and want to marry her, you may want to find out things from the hospital

Zenithpeak:
What you are doing now is even terrible than her ugly past.... You tricked her to to tell you her dirty secret and instantly you are using it against her.

That shows your motive.... You got close to her because of her rich background and her beautiful academic career. You are willing to benefit immensely from her good past but never want the bad side of her past.... Life isn't structured like that. "This life with its ups and downs".

You may end up with a lady who has had 4 children in their village before coming to Lagos and will still give you another man's son as your first child....

Geosignor:


You nailed it. I know of a family that is at the edge of collapsing because the lady lied she was a virgin and the guy discovered the truth after marriage that she even had abortion. She is not finding it easy now. Its better to open up and allow the other party to decide either to continue or not.

Yoruba will say: Ile ti afi ito mo, iri ni yio wo. A house built with saliva, will be destroyed by dew.