jennykadry:

You are toooooo generous. It is a 90-10 for me. 90 for the men and 10 for me. Hey he better not complain lest I change it 92-8

Amiga4u:

ewoo no vex abeg but i will advance u that if your not financially stable enough to provide basic needs to your wife n kids   pls dont marriage oo

jay bee:

Well fortunately i can and even have enough to marry more than one if dats what's in fashion   but i chose not to act as a bank for a lady that doesn't want to contribute.

Why won't some Nigerian men disrespect their wives when it's highly expected of them to be the Man in Charge and sole provider of the relationship.

It's the 21st century and women are as powerful as us men so y'all should hold ya own in relationships.

jay bee:

Why do i have this strange feeling that Jenny is all mouth

Amiga4u:

your right im too generous its in my blood but actually its 99% to my huuby n 1% to me   ,im the one who just want to increase the %

jennykadry:

And why do I have the feeling that you are broke?not a dime to your name

spikedcylinder:


Ahahahahahahaha! Agbaya ni e! I can't stop laughing.

jay bee:

^^^^
Yeah dats a nice/acceptable sharing formula
70/30 or 65/35
u cud even do 80/20 depending on the number of kids but that talk is for another day

jennykadry:

Ehen naaa. I phock his brains out with diff styles both wheel barrow, canine, missionary , touch your toe e.t.c just for him to provide. By the time I am done him no go even get strength to say ''No'' when I ask

Umblerra Style nko? Abi you no sabi that one?

jennykadry:

Ehen naaa. I phock his brains out with diff styles both wheel barrow, canine, missionary , touch your toe e.t.c just for him to provide. By the time I am done him no go even get strength to say ''No'' when I ask

armyofone:

african woman has been working for doggone years. so men on this thread, don't say it like na today the thing start, abeg!!

i hate to think that they want a woman who will help them to pay bills and take care of their mortgages . a lady's money should be for taking care of herself and help sometimes. not to help you take care of your responsibilities

Bawss1:

Let the cry of double standards be put to rest when men have it their way then.  


But seriously balance should be sought for in this area as in all things. It is selfish to think that one party deserves to be taken care of by the other. Nuff said

armyofone:

african woman has been working for doggone years. so men on this thread, don't say it like na today the thing start, abeg!!

i hate to think that they want a woman who will help them to pay bills and take care of their mortgages . a lady's money should be for taking care of herself and help   sometimes. not to help you take care of your responsibilities  

r231:

now why would i tell my wife not to work

Ujujoan:

It's not really about telling your wife not to work honey . . . more like not making a big deal out of it if she decides not to work!

dayokanu:

And why shouldnt the man's money be to take care of himself and help sometimes also and not to take care of your responsibilities.

Unless you are saying that you are intellectually inferior to the man and he can think and make money while you cant

r231:


den we be broke together innit

dayokanu:

Now tell me if a woman thinks this way why should equal amount be spent on the education of a male and a female child when one thinks all she can do is to leech on the other?

Why not educate her on how to be a better leech?

Whats the use of getting an education when all life ambition still revolves round milking another human being who has the same intellect and education as you?

Ujujoan:

You know a working wife is perpetually on a double shift . ,  because after work, she goes back home for poo 2!

It's not about being 'intellectually inferior' but about shared responsibilities!

If my husband will rather hold up the home front while I work and bring in [b]all [/b]the cash, I'll be happy to trade places!  
What I don't however subscribe to is a man maintaining his 'manly front' and yet contributes just 50% of the finances. That's sheer cheating!  

dayokanu:

Now tell me if a woman thinks this way why should equal amount be spent on the education of a male and a female child when one thinks all she can do is to leech on the other?

Why not educate her on how to be a better leech?

Whats the use of getting an education when all life ambition still revolves round milking another human being who has the same intellect and education as you?

Ujujoan:

You know a working wife is perpetually on a double shift . ,   because after work, she goes back home for shift 2!

It's not about being 'intellectually inferior' but about shared responsibilities!

If my husband will rather hold up the home front while I work and bring in [b]all [/b]the cash, I'll be happy to trade places!  

What I don't however subscribe to is a man maintaining his 'manly front' and yet contributes just 50% of the finances. That's sheer cheating!  

jay bee:

Most educated young men this days embrace the need for shared responsibility when it comes to house chores and upbringing of the children.
It's not the money i worry about actually afterall who else is going to spend ma money if not ma family. I am more worried about the mentality clouding ya'all's reasoning.

Ujujoan:

Ain't you assuming that every woman wants to/will get married  

If she has to make a choice b/w building her career and raising a family, she should be allowed some slack abeg!

Personally, I have to work to survive, but if I change my mind tomorrow and decide to be a full time HW instead, I don't need some guy whining about it!

Ujujoan:

You know a working wife is perpetually on a double shift . ,   because after work, she goes back home for shift 2!

It's not about being 'intellectually inferior' but about shared responsibilities!

If my husband will rather hold up the home front while I work and bring in [b]all [/b]the cash, I'll be happy to trade places!  

What I don't however subscribe to is a man maintaining his 'manly front' and yet contributes just 50% of the finances. That's sheer cheating!  

jay bee:

Most educated young men this days embrace the need for shared responsibility when it comes to house chores and upbringing of the children.
It's not the money i worry about actually afterall who else is going to spend ma money if not ma family. I am more worried about the mentality clouding ya'all's reasoning.