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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by 1Sharon(f): 12:39am On May 01
Rosement:
I am getting depressed that why I asked this question. I need advice on how to make my relationship work without sex, that's all.

Can't work! Consumation is important in a romantic relationship.

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by SammyX01(m): 12:42am On May 01
Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?
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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Nobody: 12:43am On May 01
1Sharon:


Can't work! Consumation is important in a romantic relationship.
Guys,This Is A Woman To Avoid grin grin grin
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by 1Sharon(f): 12:44am On May 01
DemonInvoker:

Guys,This Is A Woman To Avoid grin grin grin

Am I lying?
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by shalomme: 12:45am On May 01
Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

Rose, there are people that are willing to date without sex. Male and female. I know a couple of them. You just need to find them. It is not the easiest thing to do. But, trust me. It is not as difficult as people make it seem.

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Nobody: 12:46am On May 01
1Sharon:


Am I lying?

You Didn't Hide Any thing...But We Still Need To Fear You grin grin grin
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by 1Sharon(f): 12:51am On May 01
DemonInvoker:


You Didn't Hide Any thing...But We Still Need To Fear You grin grin grin

Lol why
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Afolashade00(f): 12:53am On May 01
DemonInvoker:

If You Laugh When You Can Also Cry When You Need To....Being A Female Caught At The Wrong Side Of Forty Is Not A Pleasurable Something.




Smile, why don't you say it this way.
I wish you well, I hope you find someone who's compatible with you.
The game is different, I never came here to lament about not getting attention, I came here to explain how difficult it is to select a partner who understands you in the simplest.
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Nobody: 12:56am On May 01
1Sharon:


Lol why
Nothing Ohh...Just That "Sex" Is The Biggest Commitment For Some Women But It Was Easy For You To Say.
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by 1Sharon(f): 12:58am On May 01
DemonInvoker:

Nothing Ohh...Just That "Sex" Is The Biggest Commitment For Some Women But It Was Easy For You To Say.

Biggest commitment, how?
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Nobody: 12:59am On May 01
Afolashade00:





Smile, why don't you say it this way.
I wish you well, I hope you find someone who's compatible with you.
The game is different, I never came here to lament about not getting attention, I came here to explain how difficult it is to select a partner who understands you in the simplest.
Lolzzzz grin grin grin grin Was Just Pulling Your Legs
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Afolashade00(f): 1:01am On May 01
3kay945:


Hmmm. But akara dey cold o wink





There is a difference in not getting attention where your comment comes in.
What I'm saying here is, to pick someone who aligns with your goal.
Should I pick the wrong person just because I wanna belong! Lol, we are wired differently.
There's nothing wrong with my akara, whatever that means!
I'm just too morally upright, what can I do? Smile!

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Untoman: 1:03am On May 01
This still makes me so mad, I had to login just to comment. Bae after he marries you and disvirgin you, what's next ?. Will you born jesus the second time?. Those hypocrites shouting dump him and all. You are shouting there are guys that will still date without sex. Let's be guided, chop your virginity. Use it to build house in your father's house, or date jesus christ. Dont come and be given me stories that touched the heart, am not a wood or impotent that you will be telling crap. So if am in the mood, I should close my eyes and say the lord's prayer bah?. Virginity wont make your husband respect you or make your marriage last. Get sense for once

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Nobody: 1:04am On May 01
1Sharon:


Biggest commitment, how?
Why Would Lady Say "No Sex Til After Marriage" For Someone That Has Worked So Hard To Make Sure He Puts Smiles On Her Face?!!If The Sex Isn't A Bigger Commitment Than The So Called Marriage Itself".
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Pegi23(f): 1:07am On May 01
Men are scum now u know.. that your white boo want to use and dump you.he is stupid..
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by 1Sharon(f): 1:10am On May 01
DemonInvoker:

Why Would Lady Say "No Sex Til After Marriage" For Someone That Has Worked So Hard To Make Sure He Puts Smiles On Her Face?!!If The Sex Isn't A Bigger Commitment Than The So Called Marriage Itself".

because she's motivated by fear lol

She think he'll leave her, once he gets the goods.
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by HellVictorinho(m): 1:10am On May 01
Rosement:
Change your mindset, not all ladies are like that


I don't know why you don't want to bang.



So, I don't know where to start from.



Does it mean he has to beg you to unlock your pussy?
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by HellVictorinho(m): 1:14am On May 01
1Sharon:


Can't work! Consumation is important in a romantic relationship.



I would like us to consume each other in an erotic relationship.
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Nobody: 1:14am On May 01
1Sharon:


because she's motivated by fear lol

She think he'll leave her, once he gets the goods.
So Where Does All That Fear Go To Eventually After Marriage?! Someone Like Me That Can Still Change My Mind At The Altar Or Any Other Time.
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by HellVictorinho(m): 1:17am On May 01
1Sharon:


because she's motivated by fear lol

She think he'll leave her, once he gets the goods.



He can still cheat on her after marriage then divorce her if she complains.



Why not consider both of us in an erotic relationship


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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by 1Sharon(f): 1:18am On May 01
DemonInvoker:

So Where Does All That Fear Go To Eventually After Marriage?! Someone Like Me That Can Still Change My Mind At The Altar Or Any Other Time.

But you're less likely to leave once married, it's not so easy
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Nobody: 1:19am On May 01
HellVictorinho:




I would like us to consume ourselves in an erotic relationship.
LMFAO!!! grin grin grin grin
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by 1Sharon(f): 1:19am On May 01
HellVictorinho:




He can still cheat on her after marriage then divorce her if she complains.



Why not consider both of us in an erotic relationship


Bang Bang Bang

Divorce is not so easy
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by 1Sharon(f): 1:20am On May 01
Pegi23:
Men are scum now u know.. that your white boo want to use and dump you.he is stupid..

If he wanted to use her, he would have kept their relationship casual and not commit to be her bf
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by obstead200(m): 1:25am On May 01
Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?
just dimp your boyfriend and date a deeper life member. But just know that it is courtship that will lead to marriage within 3 months

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by HellVictorinho(m): 1:28am On May 01
1Sharon:


Divorce is not so easy
.

Alright.


What about the erotic relationship??
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by 1Sharon(f): 1:28am On May 01
HellVictorinho:
.

Alright.


What about the erotic relationship??

Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by HellVictorinho(m): 1:29am On May 01
1Sharon:





I wish I could see you.
Where do you live?
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Nobody: 1:30am On May 01
1Sharon:


But you're less likely to leave once married, it's not so easy
So We Can't Change Our Minds If The Marriage And Every thing Becomes Unbearable,Like From The Sex, To Kids, To Sharing Housework,To Many Many Quarrels And Excuses?!Just Because I Said I Do To Some Virgin Pussssy I Can't Opt Out Of It Abi?!! Let Me Count My Losses and Move Oncheesy
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by AlexJustin(m): 1:30am On May 01
I'm happy there are still ladies like you out there. sex is now overrated in this world. keep yourself till your wedding night and your husband will ever adore and honor you. God frowns at premarital sex.

1 Corinthians 6:18-19. “Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body.

don't compromise someone better will come. be steadfast. when your time come, you'll meet your soulmate who will understand you more


shalom

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by 1Sharon(f): 1:35am On May 01
DemonInvoker:

So We Can't Change Our Minds If The Marriage And Every thing Becomes Unbearable,Like From The Sex, To Kids, To Sharing Housework,To Many Many Quarrels And Excuses?!Just Because I Said I Do To Some Virgin Pussssy I Can't Opt Out Of It Abi?!! Let Me Count My Losses and Move Oncheesy

Ofcourse you can. But it's easier to leave a gf than a wife.

By the way most divorces are initiated by women
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by 1Sharon(f): 1:35am On May 01
HellVictorinho:




I wish I could see you.
Where do you live?

Londres

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