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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by richmond500: 2:14pm On May 03
spiceadole:


Calm down.
If you engage in premarital sex(with any lady,whether married or single) you have no morals.
grin
I do things my own way actually and I define what morals is by my self.

What do u want me do to keep body and soul togeda as I never marry?

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by MikaelDare(m): 2:14pm On May 03
Ninokingz1:
Yea and we are happily married.
Kindly share more details
Thanks.
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by Cnach: 2:17pm On May 03
Rozcol:
Learn to cut your clothes according to your size and stop pricing lace materials when your capability is China lol.shalom
learn? No be am him just do So?
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by BigDawsNet: 2:17pm On May 03
I met a nice lovely lady then...she's was pretty, a very rich kid...

She gave me her attention straight away when we met at a vip section event which was very expensive...

We dated for few months..
we had to break up because she was ready to settle down and I'm not ready then...

Few months she moved to Michigan permanently

we dint get in touch anymore

A year after I moved to LA for studies
I told her abt my new location 4months after my arrival...

we are cools friends now

And we both have our own partner...

Hoping to have a table for 4 dinner night together someday....

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by Myer: 2:20pm On May 03
BKsoul:
How many of her son did she name after you? And i hope you know that anyday your wife finds out that you named her daughter after an ex, is the day peace and love will leave your marriage? Think twice bro.

And does her husband know he's still shining her congo
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by Myer: 2:22pm On May 03
MikaelDare:
Have You ever been in a relationship with someone whose status is above yours financially, socially or in terms of age(age especially for the males).
How did it go?
Did you later get married?
Kindly share experiences.

I mostly dated above my status.
But my male ego always got in the way so it never ended in marriage.

One time it was truly true love.
I wish I was as mature then as I am now.
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by BKsoul(f): 2:23pm On May 03
Myer:


And does her husband know he's still shining her congo
i hope its the same write-up that i read that you are replying to? because there was never a place there the guy said he slept with the lady after marriage. abi you just decided to put that one by yourself? abeg stop giving a dog a bad name just because you want to hang it.

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by SefunmiHookups: 2:25pm On May 03
richmond500:
Abroad ke.

I am in Nigeria with the hot sun frying my face cheeks day in day out
ouch man! your story sounded like some abroad typa stuff, that's why I asked.
So female nigerian lectures do this like their abroad counterparts.
I have one, but she is stingy gaan. Always saying "I'm prudent" bla bla.. lol and she wants me to be sleeping with her but I refused. for two years now she has been trying to use manipulative words but I am smarter. I just need her money cuz u can't love her no matter what. she is older than my mum. I know some other fellas would have accepted to bunk her steadily to be collecting handouts/ cash but I can't. I want to be emotional attached to the woman first. and I don't feel sexually attracted to her self.

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by GeneralPula: 2:29pm On May 03
SefunmiHookups:

I need her connect, Sir. I want to tell her something. She fit still dey unmarried by now.
and I get sisters for UK ..born there Sha, incase the woman needs a guarantor say I no go run away from her after chopping her mulla. omo, I wouldn't mind marrying that your ex woman. I like them older self. I feel like their baby,lmao...I don't care what the people will say. I'm soon to be 26, make she come dey with Young blood like me small...

Lol.. bad boyyy
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by Lovelyn451(f): 2:32pm On May 03
BKsoul:
How many of her son did she name after you? And i hope you know that anyday your wife finds out that you named her daughter after an ex, is the day peace and love will leave your marriage? Think twice bro.
hahahahaha...no mind am, love dey shack am...tchew
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by LionTiger(m): 2:33pm On May 03
the good thing is it motivates you to double up
That's the only reason I have decided to looking up and never to face downward.
I must achieve my positive goals in life.
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by BKsoul(f): 2:33pm On May 03
Jomoinc:

My major issue now is how to ask him to leave. I have lost and I ain’t scared of loosing. I can always start all over but if I ask him to leave, where will he go from here? How does he feed? How ll he survive? Am so pained but at same time, guilt feelings of doing the needful. He feels he so smart so I ve mastered the act of fooling fools to be the fool they think I am but the pains. Really want to help but I have a huge feeling he will repeat this again in another form cos it’s not his 1st act of sabotage.
You see that guy, he can poison you.. all this your feelings about how he will survive is because you are still alive, if he kills you today because of kitten, he will survive..

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by ademolaamoo(m): 2:34pm On May 03
Love watin tin
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by anastasius: 2:35pm On May 03
Deydontknow:





Bro you're a smart street guy, all my life I have been lucky to date like three girls from wealthy family, even after I don't want again or use distance as an excuse to abstain from them they still love to keep in contact anytime they got the opportunity due to street OT, in fact I use OT collect one msc guy babe that year wipe am belle she still go collect money from de bobo comot (God forgive me). And if you're street wise with good vibe you can date any girl despite the age and background.
what are the street vibes.. teach me
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by BKsoul(f): 2:35pm On May 03
Lovelyn451:
hahahahaha...no mind am, love dey shack am...tchew
lol.
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by talk2cletus: 2:35pm On May 03
falcon01:
I dated a girl whose father was a very wealthy man, we broke after 3 month. It's not that she is materialistic ooh but it's that the way I view 10k is different from how she sees it, she'll call me and be like if you are coming please come with soso chocolate cause she thinks I can afford it and that chocolate is like 8k to her it's just a small something but to me that's a lot or maybe she'll be like she has run out of airtime and the lowest I can send is 3k so I decided to call it off before I embarrass myself.
because u came out fake thats y,

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by EmekaChiwe: 2:36pm On May 03
KingKingKing:
No girl has commented so far, cuz they have always been of lower status in their relationships.

Some of them looking for who to rip off.

Guys stay woke!

Do you know you contradicted yourself?

The guys that commented, which gender were they dating?

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by akanbiaa(m): 2:40pm On May 03
richmond500:
wat were u expecting me to gain again? presidential seat?
Then she was your mentor and benefactor and not your date.
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by Leetika: 2:49pm On May 03
Dated this white girl. Lol it was bliss, she worked for British council.. 5 star hotels in abuja she did a lot for me sha. The. Nigerian man in me couldn’t keep up. Most times I would wanna spend also. One day she asked me to foot the bill of the hotel. Omo it was hard o. Lol it ain’t easy being a man, we got ego we have to keep up with. She was nice sha until she got pregnant for me.. we spoke about marriage whilst dating, long story short told her to keep it and she declined . She was scared lol saying I am still struggling bla bla bla it pain me oo . She went back to UK and removed the baby came back to Nigeria and said we should continue. I say God go punish her and ended it. She is a mom now for another guy by the way. But we move.. right now is hard for me to date girls richer than me

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by Marigold2rock(m): 2:49pm On May 03
SefunmiHookups:

ouch man! your story sounded like some abroad typa stuff, that's why I asked.
So female nigerian lectures do this like their abroad counterparts.
I have one who is almost sixty, but she is stingy gaan. Always saying "I'm prudent" bla bla.. lol and she wants me to be sleeping with her but I refused. for two years now she has been trying to use manipulative words but I am smarter. She is a director in one Abuja Government agency, but unmarried and divorced. I just need her money cuz u can't love her no matter what. she is older than my mum and she is very annoyi and trickish. lies too. I know some other fellas would have accepted to bunk her steadily to be collecting handouts/ cash but u can't. I want to be emotional attached to the woman first. and I don't feel sexually attracted to her self.

Aren't u suppose to be a female? Or am I seeing double

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by elmagnifico411(m): 2:54pm On May 03
GeneralPula:
Yeah..

When I still dey school, I met this rich lady on mobofree. The lady spoilt me with both sex and money. if she touch down for ma school then, every gooddamnn bills are on her. She was always moving with cash in her bag 300k, 400k

She took a very good care of me then damn!! I never commot school but she don already plan my life after school for me - (a good job). I was really getting along with her until she wanted me to give her belle!

Ahh, belle bawo! Na wetin cause kasala between us be that..

She now lives in Uk ... for say I give her belle then, my first born go don be 8-9years now!
bruv, if na me, I go give her that belle oh.. especially if she come be fine babe, matter ti pari niyen... She go treat d bay well, and she no go fit hook me. Aswear
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by SefunmiHookups: 2:55pm On May 03
Marigold2rock:

Aren't u suppose to be a female? Or am I seeing double
omo clean and shine your eyes well well oo!
Anyways, this account was being used by two people (a guy and a girl) until she left it for me. That's why I can't change the moniker. Seems you can't change it once it's set.
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by luminouz(m): 2:55pm On May 03
Jomoinc:

My major issue now is how to ask him to leave. I have lost and I ain’t scared of loosing. I can always start all over but if I ask him to leave, where will he go from here? How does he feed? How ll he survive? Am so pained but at same time, guilt feelings of doing the needful. He feels he so smart so I ve mastered the act of fooling fools to be the fool they think I am but the pains. Really want to help but I have a huge feeling he will repeat this again in another form cos it’s not his 1st act of sabotage.

You are a nice guy but you need to understand that most humans take nice dudes for granted. A guy who could do that to you despite everything you have done for him could kill you anytime,anyday, without blinking. Snatching a friend's gf while staying in his house is one of the lowest of lows. It's simply a lack of basic human conscience. It's true that all is fair in love and war but courtesy and kindness get you where you need to be in life most times, not necessarily smartness.

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by kriss27(m): 2:56pm On May 03
Deydontknow:



Bro your own small I swear... My neighbor here and still my real guy. One of his cousin was trown out by his boss so my guy accommodated him. My guy nah (neighbor) is a building engr and he has a girlfriend staying with him and the girl works in an fast food doe. To cut story short my neighbor travelled for work on a cool afternoon two weeks ago I said let me go to his room and collect his cousin charger one mind just told me to sneak in without knocking lo and behold I caught my guy cousin knackin my guy babe red handed... I was so short of word that I left the house to a hotel... The mumu cousin find me come hotel come de beg make I no tell my guy. Knowing the consequences if I tell him I had to hold it but with they way things are going now it seems I know with time my guy will find out by himself. Because yesterday being Sunday the said cousin was seeing holding hand with my guy girlfriend on they way coming back from church my guy no follow them go church nah only two of them go... I Taya for woman o all this is happening on top my guy apartment when he suffer pay for o. Somebody should advice me on what to do because I like this guy and this his cousin don't have conscience at all.
That your guy room na self con ?abi flat?
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by sharone21(f): 2:56pm On May 03
KingKingKing:
No girl has commented so far, cuz they have always been of lower status in their relationships.

Some of them looking for who to rip off.

Guys stay woke!

So, women cannot date men of same status abi?

Na wa for your mentality about women.
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by Folarxn: 2:58pm On May 03
Bornsinner7:
Yes.. she was in master and I was still in professional..

And you know how slow the progress of professional is..

grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by GeneralPula: 3:01pm On May 03
elmagnifico411:
bruv, if na me, I go give her that belle oh.. especially if she come be fine babe, matter ti pari niyen... She go treat d bay well, and she no go fit hook me. Aswear

This kind thing bro, you’ll never know how things will happen until it happens..
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by SefunmiHookups: 3:02pm On May 03
GeneralPula:


Lol.. bad boyyy
Lol..no Sir.. I just want to leave this country for buhari and co. Any way to just get outta here and find a decent , nice white woman to settle down with and build a home ( I don't want kids Sha o) I know no black lady will accept my kinda terms of not wanting to father any kids with them. I never finish to enjoy this world with all it's turmoils and hassles, then I will now bring innocent kids into it to endure the killings and woes of mother Earth. Nah...not for me tho.
I just want companionship and a hole to be inserting my thingy inside and satisfying my wife. That's why I said the older the better, cuz they don't need kids even. I just joined one dating site. I don't know how long it will take to find one or for one to find me. I want to gerrarrahere mehnn.. My automobile design talent and ambitions are dying in this country where there isn't any industry that could grow my talent. I need to jappa commit and I need to have permanent residency abroad. That's why I need a woman to do this with. At least I'm honest about the whole thing. I go tell the woman self as it dey go. She will see that I'm loyal join. One woman kinda boy. As long as her body looks easy on the eyes...then I'll be hooked for life, till death do us part
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by Myer: 3:03pm On May 03
BKsoul:
i hope its the same write-up that i read that you are replying to? because there was never a place there the guy said he slept with the lady after marriage. abi you just decided to put that one by yourself? abeg stop giving a dog a bad name just because you want to hang it.

Like you rightly said, I'm just being presumptuous.
Cos from precedence, these things happen.
I hope it's not the case with them.
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by SefunmiHookups: 3:04pm On May 03
GeneralPula:


This kind thing bro, you’ll never know how things will happen until it happens..
Yea.. but you're right tho. But then again, I kind of think it was the fear if the unknown that you had that prevented you from getting her pregnant. Perhaps, she was not your ideal plan for a last bustop. Or did u see something that made you to "jappa"?
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by BKsoul(f): 3:07pm On May 03
Myer:


Like you rightly said, I'm just being presumptuous.
Cos from precedence, these things happen.
I hope it's not the case with them.
Not every man lacks self control... some men are highly responsible.

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