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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by tifany89(m): 3:07pm On May 03
aghoghochuks:
This question should be for the guys only... because women will never date someone that's below their status
Lol so who did the guys commenting had dates with ? Since according to you , women don't date guys below their status?

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by Indispensable85: 3:08pm On May 03
NnamdiN:
Medical doctor
Me : Corper shun grin
Truly loved me, was 2 years older
But I knew it wasn't gonna last, coz buhari was dealing with us then and life after service was highly uncertain.
She's happily married now with 2 healthy kids and living very very very very well.

Meanwhile buhari still has 2 years to finish me kpatakpa .




Hahahaha.....my belle oooooo........u nor well aswear. Lol ....... Chaiiii....
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by elmagnifico411(m): 3:08pm On May 03
Deydontknow:



Bro your own small I swear... My neighbor here and still my real guy. One of his cousin was trown out by his boss so my guy accommodated him. My guy nah (neighbor) is a building engr and he has a girlfriend staying with him and the girl works in an fast food doe. To cut story short my neighbor travelled for work on a cool afternoon two weeks ago I said let me go to his room and collect his cousin charger one mind just told me to sneak in without knocking lo and behold I caught my guy cousin knackin my guy babe red handed... I was so short of word that I left the house to a hotel... The mumu cousin find me come hotel come de beg make I no tell my guy. Knowing the consequences if I tell him I had to hold it but with they way things are going now it seems I know with time my guy will find out by himself. Because yesterday being Sunday the said cousin was seeing holding hand with my guy girlfriend on they way coming back from church my guy no follow them go church nah only two of them go... I Taya for woman o all this is happening on top my guy apartment when he suffer pay for o. Somebody should advice me on what to do because I like this guy and this his cousin don't have conscience at all.
baba, if na me oooo, I go tell my guy. I won't hold it back since I saw em with my own eyes. Some guys are shameless shaaa... And some babes too.. better tell em qweek before he finds out himself and kill one of those ingrates

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by BigYash: 3:08pm On May 03
Kingdavid579:

Aswear she no dey do pass Whatsapp and Facebook and their work place official portal
Everywhere good then. No waste the opportunity bros. Use am well ..
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by NnamdiN: 3:09pm On May 03
Sirmuel1:



grin grin grin grin grin
By the time he's done, we will know the difference between six and half a dozen
you no lie brother grin

owobokiri:

grin grin grin grin grin

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by Deydontknow(m): 3:09pm On May 03
SefunmiHookups:

ouch man! your story sounded like some abroad typa stuff, that's why I asked.
So female nigerian lectures do this like their abroad counterparts.
I have one who is almost sixty, but she is stingy gaan. Always saying "I'm prudent" bla bla.. lol and she wants me to be sleeping with her but I refused. for two years now she has been trying to use manipulative words but I am smarter. She is a director in one Abuja Government agency, but unmarried and divorced. I just need her money cuz u can't love her no matter what. she is older than my mum and she is very annoyi and trickish. lies too. I know some other fellas would have accepted to bunk her steadily to be collecting handouts/ cash but u can't. I want to be emotional attached to the woman first. and I don't feel sexually attracted to her self.



Nah so one old female lawyer on late 40's last year during lock down for Lag want make I de shine her kpontus with fresh blood come still stingy grin
As I scope scope am see say nothing come out I just jakpa.
I can't sell shame de waka with my mama age mate gaining nothing... It's not done anywhere ma'am. Gracias.

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by SefunmiHookups: 3:19pm On May 03
Deydontknow:




Nah so one old female lawyer on late 40's last year during lock down for Lag want make I de shine her kpontus with fresh blood come still stingy grin
As I scope scope am see say nothing come out I just jakpa.
I can't sell shame de waka with my mama age mate gaining nothing... It's not done anywhere ma'am. Gracias.
Lol....You know how the game goes, Sir. How can she be stingy and still wanting to use a young guy's lifeform and energy to her satisfaction?

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by SefunmiHookups: 3:21pm On May 03
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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by Deydontknow(m): 3:22pm On May 03
anastasius:

what are the street vibes. teach me

Bend down make I anoint you small bro grin grin
If you dey with rich Babes not all this ekuke o, as a street boy... Never let her predict your moves. Always smile while with her and do your best to think ahead of her. No let her see you finish like say nah your own worse pass. Be on top your game, dress well smell nice. Tell her you got some money in fixed deposit account it will mature so so close time in future to stabilize her once you notice that she's materialistic... Little magic to spice it up. If your location no too sharp carry her go your one of your guy location whe sharp don't ever attempt to kiss her or touch her on the first day in your location if you do you have spoilt the whole thing. You can even go months pretending as if you're impotent...
Once she see believe say sex no be your mission and you dey presentable and you de reason fast nah she go willingly give you kpomo chop. see the koko overall the day you will eat the kpomo make sure you're ready to scatter the engine... when walking with her make her believe she's safe with you. As for billing her you have to start small small less she go decode jakpa. this will definitely make her down on one! Nah street OT bro... Use it and thank me later. Gracias.

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by cococandy(f): 3:23pm On May 03
So you guys on this thread have found women who had more money than you and they didn’t treat you bad? Good.

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by McStoic(m): 3:35pm On May 03
Deydontknow:





Bro you're a smart street guy, all my life I have been lucky to date like three girls from wealthy family, even after I don't want again or use distance as an excuse to abstain from them they still love to keep in contact anytime they got the opportunity due to street OT, in fact I use OT collect one msc guy babe that year wipe am belle she still go collect money from de bobo comot (God forgive me). And if you're street wise with good vibe you can date any girl despite the age and background.

Lol... that's that. Just get them on a groove with unpredictability and they will always be feeding from your personality. Funny thinɠ is they cann't help themselves as they fall over head and heels for you. grin
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by Ishilove: 3:36pm On May 03
richmond500:
Thats why i say im fvcked.
Actually, we suffer more when a relationship didn't end well cos of our emotional attachment to the one we are in a relationship with and our inability to just actually jump into another one real quick.
Jumping into another one quickly is simply dating on rebound. The new person will suffer
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by gnykelly(m): 3:36pm On May 03
erai30:
If I have the opportunity na to just give her Belle and prepare for the consequences grin

you will never want to be around her family cos you will look inferior
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by McStoic(m): 3:37pm On May 03
falcon01:
lols... sire those features are what Attracted her to me I ain't got that much then and she I literally have gotten more money from her than than I've ever spent but my point is I the emergency help she ask me which she sees as nothing is too bug for me. you can tell your guy "if you dey come buy sugar cane for me" to her own no be sugar cane. plus I can't Pay back the favour she does to me and that's embarrassing.

Lol...I see
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by Myer: 3:38pm On May 03
BKsoul:
Not every man lacks self control... some men are highly responsible.

Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by Deydontknow(m): 3:44pm On May 03
SefunmiHookups:

Lol....You know how the game goes, Sir. How can she be stingy and still wanting to use a young guy's lifeform and energy to her satisfaction?

This woman , her own is even annoying and funny all at the same time. She knows I'm smart, but she still likes to try to see if she can brainwash me... "age is just a number hunny" you're my confidant" "I am clingy to you... bla bla bla". But she can't just give me vex money like gboom! Take 100k or 150 k.. laye laye , she is that stingy. Even to her neive and others around her.. I even get more favours from her than them, can you imagine!? All cuz she think that one day I'll give into her sexual demands.
some days ago she just dash me 15 k . I thanked her Sha...I appreciated it. but she is far more capable than 15k. She has money, steady salary and no kids to take care of! She is using style to keep me close to her so that I can be there when she gets old. Then if na so, then why can't she be nice to me now and "spoil me silly" ? Why wait till then. I have tried to jappa.i changed SIM cards self but she still got across to me through someone else. Now I am just wondering where all this is leading to. 15 k wey I finish in two days...lol , how long was I gonna keep it for nau? And she knows I need money fa...So she is like toying with me. She is very smart too and cunny, but I am one step ahead. She said for my birthday next month say she dey think if what to get me as a gift... I just did as if I don't hear anything she said..I changed the topic. No dey tease me or toy with my feelings because she feel say she get money pass me. I need better person to date abeg. I can't even have sex with anyone.. it's been long. I don't know if she dey jazz the small money wey she dey send me Lol.. cuz I can't seem to keep any girl and no sex in the end. But it's kinda good tho...if u look at it from another angle.


Bro be a real guy, don't make silly mistake I'm below 30 but with verse experience not making mouth doe I have been to 27 out of the 32 state of the shit hole include Abj. So bro see the game line and thank me later. First you have to be a man what I mean by this is you need to comport yourself I know you must be handsome for her to like you. Bro I can bet my balls I have the secret of old stingy women. And I don't mind sharing part of it because of you. Call her arrange like 2k with you tell her where to meet you for a drink then open up and tell her you like her as much as she likes you( police say if you say the truth you will die if you lie you will still die) let her know you don't have a girlfriend nah this one go burst her head give her sleepless night even make her dey more devoted. while on this make sure you ask her what she will drink and be sipping yours too. Make her understand that you will like a relationship with her but you won't like a situation where she can't meet up with your demand start that day de call her honey and learn how to play the more you look the less you see. I'm not telling you to go and have sxx with her o. Keep in contact with her at times call her if she demand you come to her house cook up stories tell her you're busy on something. Give her two week on steady call and care her mind will be on you let me know if you need the rest reasoning. Gracias.

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by Yoighaman(m): 3:49pm On May 03
dave4rella:
cool

Dated one while in school

She was from a very wealthy family

But down to earth, she never collected transport money from me, she will always buy food stuffs for me with her money while visiting..
One day she came to my house with a 2008 model of Honda accord, her family car and asked me to sell it so that we can run away with the Money,i refused and talked sense into her and she returned the car, she loved me the more and we got closer to the extent of knowing her family house, sisters etc
I would have married her, but I had no job or business or anything to introduce myself as..
And I couldn't maintain her.. So I had to slow down.. She's married and we are still friends..
God bless you where ever you are.. I promised to name my first daughter after you.

"...God bless you where ever you are.. I promised to name my first daughter after you..."

Wow...this is deep.

May you find a woman that would truly love you too.
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by jclassiq(m): 3:50pm On May 03
Lovely human being. Cool as ice. Soft spoken. Calm and collected. You can't help but love her. Dad is a professor too.
Each time she called me we ended up chatting nonstop until my ear starts to throb from the pressure of phone.
But I dont deserve her. She was too good for me and I had no tangible plans for her either. She married her colleague instead.
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by Yampotatocarrot(m): 3:52pm On May 03
luminouz:

Oya waya my aza, big daddy!!! wink

Lol @ big daddy. You too like play, this guy. I go catch you for red pill thread... Lol
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by speaktome(m): 3:52pm On May 03
Bornsinner7:
Yes.. she was in master and I was still in professional..

And you know how slow the progress of professional is..

I backed out at Ultimate grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by peekay429(m): 3:56pm On May 03
My current gf is older than me with a year and also from a rich background buh that one no still mean say guy man go loose guard na I am still in control of the relationship as Alpha male wey I be though I don't think it will lead to marriage sha cause I will like to settle with a younger lady

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by anastasius: 4:01pm On May 03
Deydontknow:


Bend down make I anoint you small bro grin grin
If you dey with rich Babes not all this ekuke o, as a street boy... Never let her predict your moves. Always smile while with her and do your best to think ahead of her. No let her see you finish like say nah your own worse pass. Be on top your game, dress well smell nice. Tell her you got some money in fixed deposit account it will mature so so close time in future to stabilize her once you notice that she's materialistic... Little magic to spice it up. If your location no too sharp carry her go your one of your guy location whe sharp don't ever attempt to kiss her or touch her on the first day in your location if you do you have spoilt the whole thing. You can even go months pretending as if you're impotent...
Once she see believe say sex no be your mission and you dey presentable and you de reason fast nah she go willingly give you kpomo chop. see the koko overall the day you will eat the kpomo make sure you're ready to scatter the engine... when walking with her make her believe she's safe with you. As for billing her you have to start small small less she go decode jakpa. this will definitely make her down on one! Nah street OT bro... Use it and thank me later. Gracias.
hhehehem ok.
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by luminouz(m): 4:02pm On May 03
Yampotatocarrot:


Lol @ big daddy. You too like play, this guy. I go catch you for red pill thread... Lol

Life shouldn't be too hard not to enjoy some play time o... wink grin

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by Sirmuel1(m): 4:03pm On May 03
NnamdiN:
you no lie brother grin

grin grin grin grin grin


cheesy cheesy cheesy

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by spiceadole: 4:04pm On May 03
richmond500:
grin
I do things my own way actually and I define what morals is by my self.

What do u want me do to keep body and soul togeda as I never marry?

Self control.
That's what to do and have.
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by GreaterFuture3: 4:04pm On May 03
falcon01:
grin grin I learnt the hard way, I've got more money from her than I've ever spent on her. Bottom line, I cant catch up grin grin
You got more money from her?
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by djon78(m): 4:05pm On May 03
cococandy:
So you guys on this thread have found women who had more money than you and they didn’t treat you bad? Good.

Leave wetin you see for this forum
Many guys are dating or even married to women wey get pass them and running the package well.

One of my past associate dated and later married an Exxon Mobil Engr. The guy been dey control everything even her salary
Had there two children in the US

Today they live in the US as an international staff to same company

It all depends on how one plays his cards. Handling women is not that hard for guys that knows how far

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by CHoccolaTE: 4:05pm On May 03
Just look at the selfishness and entitlement from males on this thread.

You people want women to spend on you but start shouting "liability" when women expect you to spend on them.

Hypocrites

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by EdwardRandy(m): 4:14pm On May 03
aghoghochuks:
This question should be for the guys only... because women will never date someone that's below their status
You're not making any sense. The guys here are dating women who had more money and connection than them, and you're here saying women can't date men below their status.

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by EdwardRandy(m): 4:15pm On May 03
EdwardRandy:

You're not making any sense. The guys here are dating women who had more money and connection than them, and you're here saying women can't date men below their status. Who are the women in this narrative dating?
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by Oshokalo: 4:18pm On May 03
mine happen 2012 while working as a cleaner with Accessbank,there is this cash officer really in love with me,she advice me to further my education I took a partime course and she was paying my school fees,am don with school she's lucky we got married in 2019

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by SefunmiHookups: 4:20pm On May 03
Deydontknow:



Bro be a real guy, don't make silly mistake I'm below 30 but with verse experience not making mouth doe I have been to 27 out of the 32 state of the shit hole include Abj. So bro see the game line and thank me later. First you have to be a man what I mean by this is you need to comport yourself I know you must be handsome for her to like you. Bro I can bet my balls I have the secret of old stingy women. And I don't mind sharing part of it because of you. Call her arrange like 2k with you tell her where to meet you for a drink then open up and tell her you like her as much as she likes you( police say if you say the truth you will die if you lie you will still die) let her know you don't have a girlfriend nah this one go burst her head give her sleepless night even make her dey more devoted. while on this make sure you ask her what she will drink and be sipping yours too. Make her understand that you will like a relationship with her but you won't like a situation where she can't meet up with your demand start that day de call her honey and learn how to play the more you look the less you see. I'm not telling you to go and have sxx with her o. Keep in contact with her at times call her if she demand you come to her house cook up stories tell her you're busy on something. Give her two week on steady call and care her mind will be on you let me know if you need the rest reasoning. Gracias.
Hahaha I had a laugh reading your tactics 101 on how to unlock a locked hand (stingy pessin hand) Lol. You really have flows bro. You get the OT full ground, I can see. I wish it was another woman and not this particular one. I don't like her ways. She too get sense, crafty sense.
See bro, I know these things you are saying... believe me. Even one older lady (40's ) has told me the same thing that I should be calling her pet names and even touching her sexually if I want her (that woman) to release better bar for me. But I just can't mehn. I was supposed to go to her crib to visit her yesterday, but I texted to say I ain't coming anymore, Bec she made one derogatory comment at me that it is because she sent me cash that that is why I wanted to pay her a visit. I was like what? Says who!? I just vex say I no dey come again , albeit, saying it with respect sha.. Diplomatically.
I will be 25 years old soon but I understand how the game goes . But this woman own na just she is too clingy towards me. She hates to hear me talking to any other girls. She sacked my ex gf who worked for her when she got to know that we were secretly dating. I will try to be calling her more Sha...just like you said. cuz I no go lie, I don't call her ..hardly do. I only text when I she does. The other day she made a comment like ' talking on the phone is not always the best way, you're my confidant. so I need to see you sometimes' 'Thwre are documents I have to show you or will like you to see'.
after I heard that one, I just sat up in the bed.. then I was like "whatever" I'm not really interested in your documents or lips-service. Maybe she thinks I will be gingered to now get closer to her than we've been.. I didn't reply that text, I did as if I didn't notice it. She now said she has other boys, but that I'm the most special and unique one out of all of them ...I said nawa oo.. this woman self.. what do u see in me like this.i know say I be fine boy, but I haven't given her much reason to want me this much.. I've been even rude to her in the past. She come add one last finishing move when she come text say , "I'll have you in my Will' asper Will document. I say nawa oo. When did all this one start? how did we get here? We ain't even from the same part of the country or tribe. This attraction seems more than meets the eye. I dey fear say if I sleep with her she fit use my star do ritual or that will be how she will hook me down for life I no go fit see another lady marry. Cuz she once threatened to kill my ex by going to one old native doctor woman in Ore...in ondo or ogun state I think.
But she's facially fine Sha. she dey enter Yankee every two years. but her body isn't attractive to me.. no ass. How I go do na

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