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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by akpota(m): 6:36pm On May 03
falcon01:
I dated a girl whose father was a very wealthy man, we broke after 3 month. It's not that she is materialistic ooh but it's that the way I view 10k is different from how she sees it, she'll call me and be like if you are coming please come with soso chocolate cause she thinks I can afford it and that chocolate is like 8k to her it's just a small something but to me that's a lot or maybe she'll be like she has run out of airtime and the lowest I can send is 3k so I decided to call it off before I embarrass myself.
you could just let me know your financial capacity. She na big girl and it will balance if there is love
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by akpota(m): 6:47pm On May 03
GeneralPula:
Yeah..

When I still dey school, I met this rich lady on mobofree. The lady spoilt me with both sex and money. if she touch down for ma school then, every gooddamnn bills are on her. She was always moving with cash in her bag 300k, 400k

She took a very good care of me then damn!! I never commot school but she don already plan my life after school for me - (a good job). I was really getting along with her until she wanted me to give her belle!

Ahh, belle bawo! Na wetin cause kasala between us be that..

She now lives in Uk ... for say I give her belle then, my first born go don be 8-9years now!
if you love an you for give me abeg.
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by Depressed101: 6:55pm On May 03
falcon01:
I dated a girl whose father was a very wealthy man, we broke after 3 month. It's not that she is materialistic ooh but it's that the way I view 10k is different from how she sees it, she'll call me and be like if you are coming please come with soso chocolate cause she thinks I can afford it and that chocolate is like 8k to her it's just a small something but to me that's a lot or maybe she'll be like she has run out of airtime and the lowest I can send is 3k so I decided to call it off before I embarrass myself.
this is what happens when you don't come clean on a girl and allow her decide wether you want to be with her
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by Depressed101: 6:58pm On May 03
dave4rella:
cool

Dated one while in school

She was from a very wealthy family

But down to earth, she never collected transport money from me, she will always buy food stuffs for me with her money while visiting..
One day she came to my house with a 2008 model of Honda accord, her family car and asked me to sell it so that we can run away with the Money,i refused and talked sense into her and she returned the car, she loved me the more and we got closer to the extent of knowing her family house, sisters etc
I would have married her, but I had no job or business or anything to introduce myself as..
And I couldn't maintain her.. So I had to slow down.. She's married and we are still friends..
God bless you where ever you are.. I promised to name my first daughter after you.
your last statement is a bad move when your wife discovers you names your daughter after your ex

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by addictiv(m): 6:59pm On May 03
where can i find someone of higher status bikonu
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by BuddhaPalm(m): 6:59pm On May 03
Jomoinc:

My major issue now is how to ask him to leave. I have lost and I ain’t scared of loosing. I can always start all over but if I ask him to leave, where will he go from here? How does he feed? How ll he survive? Am so pained but at same time, guilt feelings of doing the needful. He feels he so smart so I ve mastered the act of fooling fools to be the fool they think I am but the pains. Really want to help but I have a huge feeling he will repeat this again in another form cos it’s not his 1st act of sabotage.

Perhaps he should have thought of that before colonizing your babe.

This is the highest form of disrespect. Right now he should be sleeping under a bridge.

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by Depressed101: 7:00pm On May 03
averageguy:


I disagree with this slightly since I think it's more important just for the man to be secure in who he is so that he doesn't frustrate another man's daughter.

For a man who is secure, he is truly happy when his wife continues to do great things and make even more money because he realizes that he is hardworking and comfortable by himself, and his worth in the relationship goes far beyond just the money he brings in. They both support each other and motivate each other to be better people in multiple areas of life.
easier said than done.. Better pray your wife don't get richer than you..

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by MikaelDare(m): 7:00pm On May 03
Ninokingz1:

That will be tomorrow which I’m off duty. Between na long epistle oh.
Alright then we'll be expecting your story and epistle tomorrow.
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by Wolfeye: 7:04pm On May 03
Every Nigerian girl should be in here.

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by MikaelDare(m): 7:05pm On May 03
Oshokalo:
mine happen 2012 while working as a cleaner with Accessbank,there is this cash officer really in love with me,she advice me to further my education I took a partime course and she was paying my school fees,am don with school she's lucky we got married in 2019

inspiring and captivating.
BTW, was there any significant difference in age between you two from the story?
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by Fantisha(m): 7:21pm On May 03
Where una dey see this type of love sef?[/quote]
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by GeneralPula: 8:17pm On May 03
SefunmiHookups:

Lol..no Sir.. I just want to leave this country for buhari and co. Any way to just get outta here and find a decent , nice white woman to settle down with and build a home ( I don't want kids Sha o) I know no black lady will accept my kinda terms of not wanting to father any kids with them. I never finish to enjoy this world with all it's turmoils and hassles, then I will now bring innocent kids into it to endure the killings and woes of mother Earth. Nah...not for me tho.
I just want companionship and a hole to be inserting my thingy inside and satisfying my wife. That's why I said the older the better, cuz they don't need kids even. I just joined one dating site. I don't know how long it will take to find one or for one to find me. I want to gerrarrahere mehnn.. My automobile design talent and ambitions are dying in this country where there isn't any industry that could grow my talent. I need to jappa commit and I need to have permanent residency abroad. That's why I need a woman to do this with. At least I'm honest about the whole thing. I go tell the woman self as it dey go. She will see that I'm loyal join. One woman kinda boy. As long as her body looks easy on the eyes...then I'll be hooked for life, till death do us part

Lord is your strength bro..
Keep pullin, one day your fish hook go grab fish..
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by GeneralPula: 8:27pm On May 03
anastasius:

hhehehem ok.

He gave you a nonsense street OT..

You don’t need to tell her shiit, just be yourself..

From my experience, these rich girls, nah companionship dem need..

Don’t bother telling her one audio fixed account..
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by akaahs(m): 8:37pm On May 03
Yeah, I dated one during my nysc days. Her aunt whom she stays with was in the house of representative then. This girl is so generous and humble but lack some life hacks lesson. She virtually does nothing apart from bathing and going to toilet.
Her maid does everything from for her even in school (school of nursing), I have to stop her from inviting her maid to come do everything for her. She cried the first day she washed her clothes.
I never demand anything from her nor allow her spend on me.

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by Loveknitting(f): 8:42pm On May 03
Jomoinc:
As I write this, it’s happening right now. Met her a couple of months ago. It was love at 1st sight. It was all blissful until my “I just got back” friend arrived without cash and accommodation. So I housed him. Same guy I seek advice from every time I have relationships issues managed to get her online. I knew the moment they met that I ll have issues. I was officially thrown out blocked as well. Now, they always online video calling at night. Painful part is that he does this ON MY BED. How wicked can the world be?
Any advice plsssssssss? My heart is bleeding. The betrayal is so so much.


Hahaha...........sorry, this is a joke right?
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by Munzy14(m): 8:58pm On May 03
BKsoul:
How many of her son did she name after you? And i hope you know that anyday your wife finds out that you named her daughter after an ex, is the day peace and love will leave your marriage? Think twice bro.
WOMEN....Smh


Everything na problem....
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by luminouz(m): 9:04pm On May 03
Munzy14:

WOMEN....Smh


Everything na problem....
I don't know what her issue is. The guy treasured the ex experience and because of that wanted her attributes on his own daughter,hence,his intention but the BKsoul babe turned it to something else. Life shouldn't be that hard na. Must the wife know you intentionally used your ex's name for your child? Children bear many names,no need to be utterly jealous of such things
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by BKsoul(f): 9:08pm On May 03
luminouz:

I don't know what her issue is. The guy treasured the ex experience and because of that wanted her attributes on his own daughter,hence,his intention but the BKsoul babe turned it to something else. Life shouldn't be that hard na. Must the wife know you intentionally used your ex's name for your child? Children bear many names,no need to be utterly jealous of such things
arr you stupid or what?? how did i turn it to something else? did i flog the guy? did i ask him not to? i am entitled to my opinion, or should i be scared of you to comment on nairaland? did i quote you? please shove your nonsense up your ass oh.
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by BKsoul(f): 9:10pm On May 03
Munzy14:

WOMEN....Smh


Everything na problem....
and how is my own opinion a problem to you? i know you before? oga you and your wife can name all your children after all your exes.. its your cup of burukutu
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by luminouz(m): 9:10pm On May 03
BKsoul:
arr you stupid or what?? how did i turn it to something else? did i flog the guy? did i ask him not to? i am entitled to my opinion, or should i be scared of you to comment on nairaland? did i quote you? please shove your nonsense up your ass oh.
K
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by Afokesco(m): 9:14pm On May 03
I don read comments enter page 8..
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by Munzy14(m): 9:29pm On May 03
luminouz:

I don't know what her issue is. The guy treasured the ex experience and because of that wanted her attributes on his own daughter,hence,his intention but the BKsoul babe turned it to something else. Life shouldn't be that hard na. Must the wife know you intentionally used your ex's name for your child? Children bear many names,no need to be utterly jealous of such things
I tire o.......Its a buhari govt, many are frustrated...Just few managed to keep their sanity...She will soon attack your comment like PRO of a market women union in one rural settlement...cheesy
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by Munzy14(m): 9:32pm On May 03
luminouz:

K
That was a classic reply to the PRO...grin
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by elmagnifico411(m): 10:11pm On May 03
Jomoinc:

My major issue now is how to ask him to leave. I have lost and I ain’t scared of loosing. I can always start all over but if I ask him to leave, where will he go from here? How does he feed? How ll he survive? Am so pained but at same time, guilt feelings of doing the needful. He feels he so smart so I ve mastered the act of fooling fools to be the fool they think I am but the pains. Really want to help but I have a huge feeling he will repeat this again in another form cos it’s not his 1st act of sabotage.
lukatew oooo... So you're the one thinking for him now? Eya, u get conscience. How will he feed, how will he survive, so he's still not thinking, you're d one thinking for him? Bros, in if u keep accomodating him, that guy wee show u more pepper! You better shake d idiot outta your apartment. Let him tell people what he did nah and let's see who would support him. Person wey fit back your babe under your roof fit kill u ooooooo

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by Oshokalo: 10:24pm On May 03
MikaelDare:


inspiring and captivating.
BTW, was there any significant difference in age between you two from the story?
she's older than me 3 yrs difference, nobody will kno unless I say it
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by Tapout(m): 11:11pm On May 03
KingKingKing:
No girl has commented so far, cuz they have always been of lower status in their relationships.

Some of them looking for who to rip off.

Guys stay woke!

stay woke wetin? grin grin no be babes wey dey date all the guys wey done comment so far?
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by peropoliet(m): 11:12pm On May 03
Deydontknow:


Bend down make I anoint you small bro grin grin
If you dey with rich Babes not all this ekuke o, as a street boy... Never let her predict your moves. Always smile while with her and do your best to think ahead of her. No let her see you finish like say nah your own worse pass. Be on top your game, dress well smell nice. Tell her you got some money in fixed deposit account it will mature so so close time in future to stabilize her once you notice that she's materialistic... Little magic to spice it up. If your location no too sharp carry her go your one of your guy location whe sharp don't ever attempt to kiss her or touch her on the first day in your location if you do you have spoilt the whole thing. You can even go months pretending as if you're impotent...
Once she see believe say sex no be your mission and you dey presentable and you de reason fast nah she go willingly give you kpomo chop. see the koko overall the day you will eat the kpomo make sure you're ready to scatter the engine... when walking with her make her believe she's safe with you. As for billing her you have to start small small less she go decode jakpa. this will definitely make her down on one! Nah street OT bro... Use it and thank me later. Gracias.
armed robber
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by obinna58(m): 11:34pm On May 03
dave4rella:
cool

Dated one while in school

She was from a very wealthy family

But down to earth, she never collected transport money from me, she will always buy food stuffs for me with her money while visiting..
One day she came to my house with a 2008 model of Honda accord, her family car and asked me to sell it so that we can run away with the Money,i refused and talked sense into her and she returned the car, she loved me the more and we got closer to the extent of knowing her family house, sisters etc
I would have married her, but I had no job or business or anything to introduce myself as..
And I couldn't maintain her.. So I had to slow down.. She's married and we are still friends..
God bless you where ever you are.. I promised to name my first daughter after you.
I feel the pain, one of the reason I remained single and keep on chasing the money.

I got in love once, I had to struggling out to keep my head straight even though it's not my wish.


I feel the only reason I should fall in love is because I made money.
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by Emmypure: 11:47pm On May 03
I win 120 k for bet9ja, I go coded runs book babe 20 k come pay hotel 8 k, when babe arrive she come with Lexus 350:suv I shock, after we drink I give collect knacking, na the babe confess say she like me that she is married but hubby is in Malaysia, she returned my money with extra 30 k, and begged me that we should be dating and she will be taking care of me, I told her that I will think about that, uptil now she is still disturbing me.

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by abdulwassi(m): 4:21am On May 04
It's never easy finding one, well I would love to be with one, one-day.
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by MikaelDare(m): 4:44am On May 04
Oshokalo:
she's older than me 3 yrs difference, nobody will kno unless I say it

you're really lucky you know
congrats to you. you found a lady who's one of a kind.

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by Ebube043: 6:41am On May 04
SefunmiHookups:

Lol..no Sir.. I just want to leave this country for buhari and co. Any way to just get outta here and find a decent , nice white woman to settle down with and build a home ( I don't want kids Sha o) I know no black lady will accept my kinda terms of not wanting to father any kids with them. I never finish to enjoy this world with all it's turmoils and hassles, then I will now bring innocent kids into it to endure the killings and woes of mother Earth. Nah...not for me tho.
I just want companionship and a hole to be inserting my thingy inside and satisfying my wife. That's why I said the older the better, cuz they don't need kids even. I just joined one dating site. I don't know how long it will take to find one or for one to find me. I want to gerrarrahere mehnn.. My automobile design talent and ambitions are dying in this country where there isn't any industry that could grow my talent. I need to jappa commit and I need to have permanent residency abroad. That's why I need a woman to do this with. At least I'm honest about the whole thing. I go tell the woman self as it dey go. She will see that I'm loyal join. One woman kinda boy. As long as her body looks easy on the eyes...then I'll be hooked for life, till death do us part
pls sir can you put me through the automobile design, thanks

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