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Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by 77star: 5:17pm On May 04
Is alright

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Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by ZooOga: 5:19pm On May 04
Dear @fieryy, I really meant what I said to you in that other thread, and thanks again for letting me down easy when I tried to shoot my shot. cheesy
May you and your boyfriend/fiancee have many happy and loving years together. wink
But maybe one day you will

'Love Me Right Back'


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2II_ECrz9TQ
Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by 77star: 5:24pm On May 04
Fuckeveryday2:

I love you, I love you
I love you, I love you, I love you, I love you
There's nothing above you
There's nothing above you, above you above you
Bridget eh, I like your mini skirt io
Oh girl you carry sense io
U are not serious I swear

After reading ur comments
The picture of cracked me up
Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by Volkswagen90: 5:40pm On May 04
CianaJoy:
Sometimes ago, one of my social media pages, I made a sample post "How will you feel if someone says the words I LOVE YOU to you" to determine what matters more to people between the words and the personality behind the words. The responses I got showed that although the words matters and can have effect, the personality behind the words matters more. This has always being my believe.

An undeniable fact is that words are powerful and can mar or make an individual. But more powerful is the person behind the word. Take for instance, your boss at work tells you that you're dumb and lazy. You feel bad. Then, you told your partner about it, and he or she confirms it again and tells you the same thing. You will feel more hurt that your partner calls you dumb and lazy because you hold your partner in high esteem than your boss. Your partner's words will have more effect on you than that of your boss at work.

In essence, it is factual to conclude that "the person behind a word will determine how much effect the word will have on you"

As individuals, it is pertinent to note that we have to be careful with our words. It is lack of wisdom to throw words casually. Never say something you don't mean. Never reduce someone's self-worth with your careless usage of words too. Say words that encourage, inspire, and edify.

Also, your whole personality can be measured with the words of your mouth. If you've spoken some words in the past that you weren't sincere and committed with, overtime, your words will stop carrying any weight or impact.. For instance, you've been telling someone you love him/her and there was no corresponding actions to back up your words; overtime, whenever you say such words again, it will lose credibility and would therefore have no effect on the person anymore. "Integrity start from you being able to stay loyal and committed to the words that comes out of your mouth". When you say something, live up to it!

Always remember, although words are powerful, the extent of the effect of the words depend largely on the person behind the words.

Happy new month fam..

Here is my counsel for you this month,

IF YOU DON'T MEAN IT, DON'T SAY IT. IF IT WILL HURT, DON'T SAY IT. YOU ARE AS POWERFUL AS THE WORDS OF YOUR MOUTH"

©Ciana Joy.

i love u, i mean it

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Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by DigitB: 5:47pm On May 04
Since women no go gree open leg unless we lie, men will continue saying "I love you" and promise marriage ontop bed grin
Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by tnerro1(m): 5:53pm On May 04
SmellySperm:

lol e still dey open legs quick till now my guy...

na ur coordination and lamba go do the magic grin
if not wetin broke boys for the use knack kpekus? na lamba we dey use kill konji for area jare cheesy

Bros those days u no Dey spend anything, just say I love u and u go nack tire. After that una go stroll back to her house no mata how far e dey una go use jist cover the distance. But now no mata how u broke, u go hold money for Tee fare , minerals or indomine and eggs .na true I Dey tell you.
Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by Mrmilly: 5:57pm On May 04
Sorry that the society we find out self into
Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by nfcshanghai(m): 6:01pm On May 04
Sometimes you need to say I Love � you too, to someone that loves you so much. When they say "I Love you" . To avoid heart breaks. Meanwhile men see respect as love.
Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by Reeberry: 6:27pm On May 04
danietohbadt:
See these funny people.

In the Nigerian context, I LOVE YOU has lost its value a very long time ago.

Na like 10 years ago boys dey shout I love you up and down, these days, no one gives a Bleep.

You see a girl you like, you chat her up and if she suites you, the word now is "We VIBE well".

Love done suffer for Nigerians hand, dem no dey use am again.

Can't even remember the last time I said that to a lady.

Taar
You haven't found love. If you love her, you will say I love you more than 10 times a day.

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Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by adanny01(m): 6:41pm On May 04
In my life, I only met one girl who practically begged me to utter the 3 words. She was in my house all ready to get down on that condition but I insisted "I liked her". The relationship ended there. When we call or chat, she asked me same thing and I gave same answer.

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Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by FRANKOSKI(m): 6:43pm On May 04
when I tell you I love you this is what I mean= BIG BOOBS,BIG NYASH AND SUCCULENT LIPS + LITTLE INTELLIGENCE.
Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by sisisioge: 7:10pm On May 04
I love you baby tongue
Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by dannyrhymes600(m): 7:16pm On May 04
Fuckeveryday2:
I love you, I love you I love you, I love you, I love you, I love you There's nothing above you There's nothing above you, above you above you Bridget eh, I like your mini skirt io Oh girl you carry sense io
brotherly, 7 bottles of cold big stout fall on your table
Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by danietohbadt(m): 7:36pm On May 04
Reeberry:
You haven't found love. If you love her, you will say I love you more than 10 times a day.

I'm not interested in finding love anymore cos it doesn't exist with Nigerian girls.

We don't date anymore okay.
We date people who are financially stable now, people who can contribute to a relationship, people who can support you emotionally, people who'll be reasonable, responsible and supportive all round.

And these are my yardsticks when it's time to get married.

And when it's time to get married, I'm going to tell the lady straight away, "We're getting married, not because of the fantasy called love, but cos we are into each other and we can support each other".

Love no dey my dictionary again Baba.
Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by ekesol: 7:51pm On May 04
CianaJoy:
Sometimes ago, one of my social media pages, I made a sample post "How will you feel if someone says the words I LOVE YOU to you" to determine what matters more to people between the words and the personality behind the words. The responses I got showed that although the words matters and can have effect, the personality behind the words matters more. This has always being my believe.

An undeniable fact is that words are powerful and can mar or make an individual. But more powerful is the person behind the word. Take for instance, your boss at work tells you that you're dumb and lazy. You feel bad. Then, you told your partner about it, and he or she confirms it again and tells you the same thing. You will feel more hurt that your partner calls you dumb and lazy because you hold your partner in high esteem than your boss. Your partner's words will have more effect on you than that of your boss at work.

In essence, it is factual to conclude that "the person behind a word will determine how much effect the word will have on you"

As individuals, it is pertinent to note that we have to be careful with our words. It is lack of wisdom to throw words casually. Never say something you don't mean. Never reduce someone's self-worth with your careless usage of words too. Say words that encourage, inspire, and edify.

Also, your whole personality can be measured with the words of your mouth. If you've spoken some words in the past that you weren't sincere and committed with, overtime, your words will stop carrying any weight or impact.. For instance, you've been telling someone you love him/her and there was no corresponding actions to back up your words; overtime, whenever you say such words again, it will lose credibility and would therefore have no effect on the person anymore. "Integrity start from you being able to stay loyal and committed to the words that comes out of your mouth". When you say something, live up to it!

Always remember, although words are powerful, the extent of the effect of the words depend largely on the person behind the words.

Happy new month fam..

Here is my counsel for you this month,

IF YOU DON'T MEAN IT, DON'T SAY IT. IF IT WILL HURT, DON'T SAY IT. YOU ARE AS POWERFUL AS THE WORDS OF YOUR MOUTH"

©Ciana Joy.

But U will support politician that promise and fail you.Nonsence
Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by Jubilancy(f): 8:38pm On May 04
I haven't been lucky in love.....because of my Genotype
Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by lagosrd: 8:59pm On May 04
danietohbadt:
See these funny people.

In the Nigerian context, I LOVE YOU has lost its value a very long time ago.

Na like 10 years ago boys dey shout I love you up and down, these days, no one gives a Bleep.

You see a girl you like, you chat her up and if she suites you, the word now is "We VIBE well".

Love done suffer for Nigerians hand, dem no dey use am again.

Can't even remember the last time I said that to a lady.

Taar

I love you is just like another walahi or I swear for naija

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Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by RICHOLAC(m): 9:06pm On May 04
your write up is pretty cool dear, but then I want to know: what if you truly mean what you said when you confessed or prohessied your love to her, yet the feedback is rather cold and hurting? tell me: should I pack my unappreciated love and walk away or should I stay put?
Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by SmellySperm(m): 9:32pm On May 04
tnerro1:


Bros those days u no Dey spend anything, just say I love u and u go nack tire. After that una go stroll back to her house no mata how far e dey una go use jist cover the distance. But now no mata how u broke, u go hold money for Tee fare , minerals or indomine and eggs .na true I Dey tell you.
na true u yarn bro grin
Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by wumi2017(f): 10:33pm On May 04
jawalis:
I love you wumi2017



Love you more baby grin
Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by Happy2020: 12:15am On May 05
Sadly 90% of Nigerians only experience fake love. Relationships are transactions only.

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Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by ebullient19(f): 1:06pm On May 05
NickNyce:
Action speaks louder than words. Don't say it always act it.
that's true but as a woman, my ears are tinkling to hear it always
Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by ezekings1(m): 1:08pm On May 05
Boy buy iPhone 12 for his girlfriend, another boy seized it ��� grin
It happened yesterday at Otolo iyi
Very funny shocked grin
Watch video below
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9GbrmXFaAQA[/embed]
Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by DarlingtonC: 11:10pm On May 05
sisisioge:
I love you baby tongue
Awwwnnnn..Thank you so much Darling, I love you too kiss

Can we go private?
Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by CianaJoy(f): 12:46pm On May 06
Xenry:
Love is more than feelings. True love is built on the value that you see in others.
(When I said value, money is included).

You think so? So you're saying, love is dependent on money too?
Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by CianaJoy(f): 12:47pm On May 06
[quote author=ekesol post=101382788][/quote]
I really don't get your point
Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by CianaJoy(f): 12:48pm On May 06
Happy2020:
Sadly 90% of Nigerians only experience fake love. Relationships are transactions only.

Wawu.. Is there a published survey or research work to back up this your claim?
Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by CianaJoy(f): 12:51pm On May 06
[quote author=RICHOLAC post=101385034]your write up is pretty cool dear, but then I want to know: what if you truly mean what you said when you confessed or prohessied your love to her, yet the feedback is rather cold and hurting? tell me: should I pack my unappreciated love and walk away or should I stay put?

The truth is, not every love will be reciprocated. Which is to say that it is noy everyone you profess love to that will respond to you positively. That's where emotional intelligence comes in. If you profess your love to someone and the person does not acknowledge, or appreciate it, then you have to move on.
Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by CianaJoy(f): 12:53pm On May 06
Lol. Only gullible women won't be able to read along the lines to know a man who really love them and one who's just trying to get her to bed.
Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by CianaJoy(f): 12:55pm On May 06
Hmmmmm
danietohbadt:


I'm not interested in finding love anymore cos it doesn't exist with Nigerian girls.

We don't date anymore okay.
We date people who are financially stable now, people who can contribute to a relationship, people who can support you emotionally, people who'll be reasonable, responsible and supportive all round.

And these are my yardsticks when it's time to get married.

And when it's time to get married, I'm going to tell the lady straight away, "We're getting married, not because of the fantasy called love, but cos we are into each other and we can support each other".

Love no dey my dictionary again Baba.

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