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Re: Family Problems About Remarrying by Champneys: 1:24pm On May 14, 2021 |
family6644: Ok. |
Re: Family Problems About Remarrying by Ishilove: 1:29pm On May 14, 2021 |
family6644:Thunder tigbu that love there. True love will allow the object of her interest heal,. How can you move in with a newly widowed man and claim to love him?? |
Re: Family Problems About Remarrying by Flakky29: 1:39pm On May 14, 2021 |
You are the architect of your present hurdle, according to your write up. You met her on Facebook and she is acting like an angel on Earth, don't you suspect she is acting or pretending to get what she needs through are acts?? Please u need to acts fast and send her away for d sake of your kids. Before she change it for them. 1 Like |
Re: Family Problems About Remarrying by Bola146(f): 2:00pm On May 14, 2021 |
bewla: Thanks sir. I'm into trading |
Re: Family Problems About Remarrying by Sanjemiga: 5:15pm On May 14, 2021 |
Please I beg you in the name of whatever you believe in. Send that woman back. Please sir. Send her back. If you can't, you can use your relation. Your sister or mother. Let them come visiting and then let them do the talking for you. This was a well orchestrated game. From the meeting on Facebook and specifically asking for your kids to come for the birthday party. This was a good plan and evil orchestration. She has no self worth nor shame and will do anything to get what she wants. Even going diabolical. You are talking from the physical aspect. This woman is obsessed and you might have to leave the area completely for your safety and your children's safety. I no you are reading it and saying I'm going to far. But I am telling you the reality of what you have gotten yourself into. The woman is sinister. A woman that cannot even respect the dead and is trying so hard to erase the memory. Are you sure madam doesn't no your wife before? Are you sure the whole thing is not deeper than you think. Your children will be at the receiving end. Again if you can't do it yourself. Use a relation. Send her back and block her off please. 3 Likes |
Re: Family Problems About Remarrying by sapeleboi(m): 11:43pm On May 14, 2021 |
body nor be firewood my brother
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Re: Family Problems About Remarrying by stacyadams: 12:19am On May 15, 2021 |
dannex4adx:Bless u...future of the children Very I important. 1 Like |
Re: Family Problems About Remarrying by ShenTeh(m): 4:54pm On May 15, 2021 |
family6644: Long reply alert! * Op, you no try at all. Your behaviour doesn't show you honoured your wife while alive. Too soon to be humping another woman in her bed. Darn too soon! Her people would feel so heartbroken. And please stop throwing that 'my children's happiness' catch. Protect them. Defer their happiness for a lasting joy. Isn't that what daddies are known for? * You do really have a huge risk appetite. I hope it wasn't your carefree nature that contributed to madam's early exit. May God rest her soul. Please use her loss to adjust that attitude. *There's so much in a name: Your moniker suggests you are torn between a family of 6 and a family of 4. Wrong. Don't mix it. Yours is yours. I bet you have started using the number 10 and 3/4 of late.. *Your attempt to pass her off as a random person from Facebook is not acceptable to me. There must certainly be a connection, except you are too carefree to verify or acknowledge. Who are your mutual friends on Facebook? You certainly knew each other before. Or, dial her number on your late wife's phone. You may be shocked. *That exclusive party was designed to mix the 'aseje' for you and your children exclusively. I bet you started flirting (or started attempting the 'do') with her from on that 'event'. Go recheck, that birthday might even not be that child's real birthday. *Did you verify her claims from third parties about her relationship with her 'ex-husband'. Either the husband is nonexistent or the divorce. Raise the conversation with her again and see the discomfort that that brings to her or the inconsistency in the fine details of what she told you before. * That said It is easier to blame you and say let her go. Easier said than done. You need practical steps. I will list them below. 1. Easiest and straightforward way is to call her and say you have seen that YOU "need a break and would be taking it. So by weekend, I shall be dropping you and the children off at your place. Be sure I will keep in touch". She may talk smooth or rough, cry or dare, nag or gag, whatever happens, keep a straight face and refuse to be blackmailed emotionally. On due date, get it done. If she refuses, report her in the nearest police station. Protect yourself. Preserve your life and the children's. 2. She is a good planner while you live by the clock. You can't talk people like that out of their plans. Talking with her won't cut it. You have to comMANd it. There are also the less brave approaches: 3. I can't overemphasize what others have said about contracting your mother or sisters or family friends to help you oust her. Sisters especially will handle that with zero stress for you. 4. You can feign repeated nightmares suggesting that you are not headed anywhere good together and insist that you need to be apart first. Or, claim 'your mum's old family prophet' called you today and told you a lot of things you need to put in place and out of place. Unfortunately, she would need to stay away from you for 9 months while at it. You can reel out some of 'the prophet's' CV in your family to let her know he is a 'real' prophet. Well, consider me as 'your mum's old family prophet'. 4. Come home 'drunk' and throw her things out. 5. You can send her children to her. Keep telling them you don't like their mum anymore and you would want them out of your house. 6. You may also show her this page on Nairaland let her read for herself. 7. Well, when all is said and done, please change your house locks or address. My N10. Advise be like public toilet, those wey need am no care, those wey dey use am no care, those wey no need am no care. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Family Problems About Remarrying by family6644: 5:00pm On May 16, 2021 |
ShenTeh: God will bless you abundantly. I have learnt a lot of from your contributions 1 Like |
Re: Family Problems About Remarrying by Realestatevixen: 6:46am On Jul 21, 2021 |
family6644: Mr op, what did you do eventually? You didn't update the house after our plenty advice. |
Re: Family Problems About Remarrying by Realestatevixen: 6:51am On Jul 21, 2021 |
family6644: Mr op, what did you do eventually? You didn't update the house after our plenty advice... |
Re: Family Problems About Remarrying by family6644: 5:06pm On Jul 25, 2021 |
Realestatevixen: I'm so sorry, I called my family members to come to my aid, she couldn't allow them to get here before she packed and left, after she left I discovered she left with a lot of my wife's cloths and fashion accessories but I'm thankful she left and my lessons learnt. |
Re: Family Problems About Remarrying by Eeghe(f): 5:38pm On Jul 25, 2021 |
TheButterflies: Poor, dead wife. 3 months and your widowed husband is moving on. 3 months. Jeez, and a half. At least you are pointing out the red flags yourself Good luck! |
Re: Family Problems About Remarrying by Efewestern: 9:06pm On Jul 25, 2021 |
family6644: God saved a brother. |
Re: Family Problems About Remarrying by Prettiepearlz(f): 8:47am On Jul 27, 2021 |
family6644:Thank God for you however that serves you right sir! She stole from your dead wife, items that should be given to your children and you kept quiet? Why couldn't you involve the police to get them back? Your ojukokoro caused this and I feel so sorry for your dead wife because you disrespected her memory so much. |
Re: Family Problems About Remarrying by descarado: 7:50pm On Jul 27, 2021 |
What a thread. I stopped at page 4. The guy try. Some start as early as 2 weeks. Infact, during mourning, he is already collecting. Yeah, a man was caught with one lady during his late wife wake keep. Her very good friend. I have only seen one man who refused to marry when his wife died. Background matters. And his reason for not remarrying was his kids. Okay, as the kids have become of age and they begged him to marry(boys) he still refused. That he want peace in his house. Bless him. 2 Likes |
Re: Family Problems About Remarrying by esthel(f): 9:49pm On Jul 27, 2021 |
You dodged a serious bullet, thank God for your life.she even still steals, the spirit of your wife will deal with her. family6644: 1 Like |
Re: Family Problems About Remarrying by Klass99(f): 10:23pm On Jul 27, 2021 |
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Re: Family Problems About Remarrying by Victoria938(f): 10:53pm On Jul 27, 2021 |
She's rude. You are going through a process of healing and anyone that wants to come into your life should respect everything about you till you are completely healed. She needs to play a major roles in the healing process. You should be the number one priority, she needs to gradually talk you out of everything that is weighing on your mind. You can't just forget about someone you thought you would spend the rest of your life with because of her selfishness. There's more to study about her. It looks like she programmed the kids to use them to get into your life. Anyway seek the face of God before you make any decision on her |
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