I feel terrible....we met in camp and he told me he was serious with me and wanted to marry me, the problem was he wanted me to visit him more regularly and have intimacy and I refused. I wanted to wait till marriage. Today I saw pictures of his traditional wedding on Facebook to his ex girlfriend.

Nothing to be hurt about…it wasn’t meant to be you

This one way u talk like say you be virgin before you meet am.

I don't think it's decency o. You just played the wrong card

Never ever regret for doing the right thing. If to say he impregnate you and dump you like single mother nkor? Ur own go come my dear, no cry or feel sad over anything. But I hope say this ur theory of NO S3X b4 marriage dey apply to both rich and poor guys? E get why I dey ask ooooo

IamRunk:
Nothing to be hurt about…it wasn’t meant to be you

That's the kind of advice you give her till she gets to 42years

Do you know if she’s past 42 already ?

bigpicture001:


That's the kind of advice you give her till she gets to 42years

How are you sure that he hasn't made up his mind to marry the person that he wants to marry but want you only for bleeping.

He might sleep with you and start comparing and still find his ex more appealing to him for marriage.

Don't be desperate!!!

Hurt:
I feel terrible....we met in camp and he told me he was serious with me and wanted to marry me, the problem was he wanted me to visit him more regularly and have intimacy and I refused. I wanted to wait till marriage. Today I saw pictures of his traditional wedding on Facebook to his ex girlfriend.

E be things. Intimacy before marriage still dey exist? You were not his. Else, he for dey make you feel h0rny. Na u for dey run go his side for nacking. If you posses most of what he wants and he too the same, na marriage be that.

I don’t understand why you feel terrible?

He proposed marriage to you on the condition that, he must test-run the equipment before buying and taking it home, you refused and held your grounds and insisted that he must first pay full price and wait until the equipment is delivered to his house; himself refused and held his ground...the scores were left at 1 to 1.

He then went back to the equipment he had previously test-ran, which he is familiar with and know it’s inner workings.

Patiently wait, you will most likely find someone that will agree to your proposal and conditions.

Hurt:
I feel terrible....we met in camp and he told me he was serious with me and wanted to marry me, the problem was he wanted me to visit him more regularly and have intimacy and I refused. I wanted to wait till marriage. Today I saw pictures of his traditional wedding on Facebook to his ex girlfriend.

Your decency has saved you from heartbreak, my dear. She was never his ex, his plan was to have a rendezvous with you....

Premiumwriter:
This one way u talk like say you be virgin before you meet am.

I don't think it's decency o. You just played the wrong card

Thank you for be truthful, but the poster above you still living somewhere in the stone.
Some girls of nowadays need to know that the world has moved long ago.....

Hurt:
I feel terrible....we met in camp and he told me he was serious with me and wanted to marry me, the problem was he wanted me to visit him more regularly and have intimacy and I refused. I wanted to wait till marriage. Today I saw pictures of his traditional wedding on Facebook to his ex girlfriend.

Don't be hurt, there is a lot of gain in doing the right thing. Your man is on the way, don't be disturbed

You don't want to f.uck him, someone else is f.ucking him, instead of you to be happy for him

Hurt:
I feel terrible....we met in camp and he told me he was serious with me and wanted to marry me, the problem was he wanted me to visit him more regularly and have intimacy and I refused. I wanted to wait till marriage. Today I saw pictures of his traditional wedding on Facebook to his ex girlfriend.

You have no reason to feel bad - you did no wrong!

Juliearth:




Your decency has saved you from heartbreak, my dear. She was never his ex, his plan was to have a rendezvous with you....

And how did you know this?

verygoodbadboi:
You don't want to f.uck him, someone else is f.ucking him, instead of you to be happy for him

Women ehn! She wants to eat her cake and have it.

linearity:
I don’t understand why you feel terrible?

He proposed marriage to you on the condition that, he must test-run the equipment before buying and taking it home, you refused and held your grounds and insisted that he must first pay full price and wait until the equipment is delivered to his house; himself refused and held his ground...the scores were left at 1 to 1.

He then went back to the equipment he had previously test-ran, which he is familiar with and know it’s inner workings.

Patiently wait, you will most likely find someone that will agree to your proposal and conditions.

This is so far the best analysis.

Just Imagine, I went to a bar, I ordered goat meal pepper soup. I was asked to pay for something I haven't even seen. How do I tell if I am going to like it or not. Since I was in company of friends, I paid and it was terrible. I felt scammed. I had no control. As least when you go to a eatery, you make a choice based on what other men are going for. No need for mystery.

Bottomline, women get paid, men get laid. Man should know what he is getting. Man got specs and wants.

Men like to tinker and study things. So asking a man to wait till marriage to test run is ridiculous.

Men have come to understand that been coy and decent doesn't change the fact that certain ladies are sluts masquerading as virgins.

Juliearth:




Your decency has saved you from heartbreak, my dear. She was never his ex, his plan was to have a rendezvous with you....

That's how myopic ladies can be... He maybe having issues with his gf and wanted someone else.. You gender only think one way... People might be in a chaotic relationship and be in the lookout for. Change... Now u termed him a liar. No worry no too much sense dry keep woman in married at 35years old and turn a good girl to a desperado

Premiumwriter:
This one way u talk like say you be virgin before you meet am.

I don't think it's decency o. You just played the wrong card

As in eeh...
The post reeks of conceit.
As if she was a virgin on meeting him.

U can still visit him,give him all d sex styles,Bleep him till ur womb drops and he still won't marry u, if it was meant to be it would have been but sorry "it didn't be"

Eeeeyyyaaa sorry ooooo.......

Here is a second chance dear......


Come let's continue from where he stopped.....

Stop being hurt........

Scarfin:


As in eeh...
The post reeks of conceit.
As if she was a virgin on meeting him.

she's Prolly fu*king one younger man..





But what do I know

Karleb:


And how did you know this?

A man can lie that he is single, a widower, in a dysfunctional marriage, etc just to lay with a woman. I can assure you that this alleged ex girlfriend was never an ex and if op had agreed to date him, she would have been a bush meat in his den, fit for the eating and not for keeps. If his "ex" was an option, would there have been a need for him to try and date another woman?


bigpicture001 take note of this reply, I cannot gratify your myopic view with an independent reply because it reeks of disrespect.

Juliearth:




Your decency has saved you from heartbreak, my dear. She was never his ex, his plan was to have a rendezvous with you....

Smart thinking

Juliearth:







A man can lie that he is single, a widower, in a dysfunctional marriage, etc just to lay with a woman. I can assure you that this alleged ex girlfriend was never an ex and if op had agreed to date him, she would have been a bush meat in his den, fit for the eating and not for keeps. If his "ex" was an option, would there have been a need for him to try and date another woman?


bigpicture001 take note of this reply, I cannot gratify your myopic view with an independent reply because it reeks of disrespect.

Haba! Haba!!

I ask again, how do you know this?

Many of you women are just toxic for no reason. Nna ehn!

Hurt:
I feel terrible....we met in camp and he told me he was serious with me and wanted to marry me, the problem was he wanted me to visit him more regularly and have intimacy and I refused. I wanted to wait till marriage. Today I saw pictures of his traditional wedding on Facebook to his ex girlfriend.

You didn't do anything bad. You obeyed God to displease man, which is commendable. Meanwhile, marriage is not the end of the world. That he got married to the ex girlfriend doesn't mean you won't get married. Relax, God's time is the best.

Godada:





This is so far the best analysis.

Just Imagine, I went to a bar, I ordered goat meal pepper soup. I was asked to pay for something I haven't even seen. How do I tell if I am going to like it or not. Since I was in company of friends, I paid and it was terrible. I felt scammed. I had no control. As least when you go to a eatery, you make a choice based on what other men are going for. No need for mystery.

Bottomline, women get paid, men get laid. Man should know what he is getting. Man got specs and wants.

Men like to tinker and study things. So asking a man to wait till marriage to test run is ridiculous.

Men have come to understand that been coy and decent doesn't change the fact that certain ladies are sluts masquerading as virgins.

What of when u go to eateries, don't u pay before eating. Or when u go to shoprite, don't u pay before taking your goods home to eat? Your argument is flawed

Kebbiprince:

What of when u go to eateries, don't u pay before eating. Or when u go to shoprite, don't u pay before taking your goods home to eat? Your argument is flawed

You see what you are buying that's the point, if it suits you, you pay.


Learn to comprehend written English

Godada:




You see what you are buying that's the point, if it suits you, you pay.


Learn to comprehend written English

Mr comprehender, Is he buying her vagina or her as a whole and hasn't he seen her. So much for poor reasoning

Karleb:


Haba! Haba!!

I ask again, how do you know this?

Many of you women are just toxic for no reason. Nna ehn!

How do I know? Like I don't see/hear/observe the happenings around me... Toxic because I speak the truth?

I did no sex before marriage...it ended in tears....the marriage.

TEST RUN THE OBOW. If you want decency Jesus is coming soon. Wait for him

Hurt:
I feel terrible....we met in camp and he told me he was serious with me and wanted to marry me, the problem was he wanted me to visit him more regularly and have intimacy and I refused. I wanted to wait till marriage. Today I saw pictures of his traditional wedding on Facebook to his ex girlfriend.

What if you were just a pastime for him...his real babe was in one corner. You would have regretted more. Stick to your decision and wear it like a crown no regrets.