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Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by cowboyT: 5:38pm On May 21, 2021 |
EYAA, PELEE. BruncleZuma: |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by MummyD2020(f): 5:39pm On May 21, 2021 |
pyyxxaro: u go still carry her go hospital. Who lose? Better still, kill her and see what widowhood plus two kids tastes like 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by rickyboss333: 5:40pm On May 21, 2021 |
I like the fact that u told the truth, atleast about the slap incident. Let's remove whatever the husband was passing through...you told him to wash your plates in public the first time and he gave you a look that already defined how embarrassing such statement was, instead of you to code and simply left him, you boldly repeated yourself again...as in what naaaaa....abeg you are lucky to have gotten just a slap. You had better open a new thread and write in a remorseful manner, asking for advice on how to beg your husband, rather than looking for who will support your stupid act. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Adebowalay(m): 5:42pm On May 21, 2021 |
Margy:myopic mindset...that's what u've got 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by godlessmind: 5:43pm On May 21, 2021 |
BonPatrick:you didn't do anything wrong he should be understanding he knows you don't have workers atleast he should've helped. Your husband has pride |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Commotfornigeri: 5:43pm On May 21, 2021 |
Personally, If my wife had a restaurant, I would wash plates for her to cut down operational costs. When my wife was baking back in nigeria, I used to help fry pof pof and a bunch of other stuff. It wasn't everyday though. In my wife's case, there's a way she usually asked that made me want to do more. Starts with a very calm voice, draws close and asks. She often winks and promises me a treat at night or later on... This gets me every time. In this case, a lot of things may have gone wrong. How did she ask, the tone of her voice, how many people were there, how loud was she. The fact he slapped her in public means that she asked him publicly. That would be very wrong. Manner of approach is very important. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by sylve11: 5:46pm On May 21, 2021 |
richmond500: You don read am na. |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Nobody: 5:49pm On May 21, 2021 |
Coldie: Is it the role of a man to wash plate even @ home not to talk of outside, that is a request you can never make to someone you honor or respect as a head. If she claims to have so much workload, more customer depict increase in sales therefore she should get @least one staff to help that is the most appropriate thing. There is no such thing as yeye pride cos when a woman is trying to subjugate the head. she deserves slap on both cheeks sef. |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Idabakanta: 5:51pm On May 21, 2021 |
BonPatrick: Hmmm.. woman u fumbled o |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by sylve11: 5:51pm On May 21, 2021 |
CalmElder: Very very depressing. |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by sharminator5: 5:51pm On May 21, 2021 |
It all falls back to manner of communication I believe if she has present it in a manner of respect the man should have wash d plate without seeing it as disrespectful.... |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Sterope(f): 5:51pm On May 21, 2021 |
Why are all the dunderheads relating it to his lack of employment? Your wife is struggling and you are right there, do you need an appeasement to ask her what you can fucking help with? 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Zeeknow3245(m): 5:52pm On May 21, 2021 |
She said asked him to HELP. Her Communications might be fringy though but you see that your wife has little workers and can't afford more and sense did not tell you to do the needful. What is this love people are talking about? Sex? Buying gifts and Trips?The man has a stupid pride and we should be objective in our argument. Some people didn't even read and are commenting like fools. The Restaurant is a business and the man is unemployed. It's not that he's even doing something that one can say he's trying. What is bad if you help in the business and try to improve customer's service. If the business is booming, everybody wins. If you wash plate will you die? If you wash plate will your life be ruined for ever? It's just a phase of life, everybody has issues. The business is dropping and you comot hand? You left the kids and went to stay with your friend because you don't want your foolish ego to drop. I hate bias comment many people are blind truly. The man messed up by slapping. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Karozy: 5:53pm On May 21, 2021 |
BonPatrick: Hmm this is serious, it’s a lack of understanding among them I will say, if the husband has never wash plate for her before, then telling him at that point was a blow to his ego and headship, i support men assisting their wives with home chores without shame but it should be from a point of love and not compulsion. |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Nobody: 5:55pm On May 21, 2021 |
Jobia: you might not be so lucky, maybe ur time naa uppercut you go get for that ur spoilt mouth. |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by freshvine(f): 5:55pm On May 21, 2021 |
Margy: What if the wife had said this to the husband, " don't sit down there doing nothing, lazy man go and do the dishes ". Just saying. |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by articlewriter: 5:56pm On May 21, 2021 |
Which title fits this man. A proud jobless man or a jobless man with pride |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by MrSly(m): 5:56pm On May 21, 2021 |
Gbest90:English na your papa language? Abeg forget grammar, we understood him. Who English eep? |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Idaytesj29(m): 5:57pm On May 21, 2021 |
BonPatrick: As a man, if I am among the customers waiting to be served, I will leave you restaurant and never patronise you again. Why would you treat your man like that? I just hope you still hold a special space in his heart. All you people will no be patient enough to understand what it means to be a man and what is very important to us. Our Ego and pride of being a MAN, you hurt us most when you attack it. Men hardly forget it, even if they manage to forgive. |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Adebowalay(m): 5:58pm On May 21, 2021 |
W.O.M.A.N Weak and wicked Original trouble Money demanding Always depending Never Grateful.....I'll begin from the last part that talked about gratitude...he set u up..there must have bn a way u spoke to him that put him off..I'm a man...and i put myself in his shoes.. if u want the best out of a beast..Tame IT...talk more of a Man...an amazing creature with a loving heart...thoughtful enough to set u up in d very first place ...u should have bn a bit more wiser in dealings or speech with a former breadwinner...e get as e be...u probably wanted the male folks in the shop to know u are the breadwinner....have u seen that movie ? "U GOT SERVED" .....Zerojoy 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by BRATISLAVA: 6:00pm On May 21, 2021 |
MummyD2020: You're talking to people who believe the success of marriage lies solely on the head of the wife. Imagine how they need to be begged or promised something in return before they will do what needs to be done. Must a man be asked to do things around him? Can't he see they need to be done and just do them, rather than sitting like a prideful statue on a pole waiting till the red carpet is rolled out before he can come down from on high to do it. They need soft words, but expect their women to jump to their rescue without batting an eyelash. Most Nigerian men are the ones who destroy marriage and make it more difficult than it needs to be with their tin god behaviors. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by bitingcool: 6:00pm On May 21, 2021 |
Coldie: Don't mind the people here claiming 'manliness'. Team work is only what the lady asked. The mentality of the average Nigerian man is 100% pride. 0% logic 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by hezik19: 6:01pm On May 21, 2021 |
Well, I don't think it's wrong to ask him to help you out, but....... It depends on the manner you use in asking him. From the look of things, you might have been maltreated him before it gets to the point of you thinking of him washing dishes for you. Before you could mentioned it here that you have been the one running the house, then there's something you are not telling us here. |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Adebowalay(m): 6:02pm On May 21, 2021 |
freshvine:what if that's exactly what she said before she got served?? just asking u sabi say women nor first get truth |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by walexsho(m): 6:02pm On May 21, 2021 |
Margy:The woman in question never told the husband the business should become joint ownership. Moreso, there is nothing wrong when the husband assist willingly but in a situation where she asked a frustrated husband to do it in a disrespectful manner she is on her own. |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by MummyD2020(f): 6:02pm On May 21, 2021 |
I am actually enjoying this thread. I wonder how some low people are crying more than the bereaved. You can defer without insult. Lets enjoy the reactions biko |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Nobody: 6:04pm On May 21, 2021 |
Coldie: Will just shush and stop trying to make sense out of nonsense ... the only way ur husband can proof he is supportive to ur resturant business is to come n wash plate n fetch water. Most of these nonsense women try they only try it with men of no income, dem born chioma well to tell david to come n wash plate abi naa reginal go tell ned make e buy ugu & ogbona from market on his way home. Maid or sales gurlz don finish for world abi .. how do you women even think sef. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by MummyD2020(f): 6:11pm On May 21, 2021 |
BRATISLAVA: Many men believe in just providing for the family. Women try alot. Honestly. Its not only soft words, u need to practically beg and pet them and bend your neck where you are begging them oh. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by descarado: 6:11pm On May 21, 2021 |
Yawns |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Jamesz12: 6:11pm On May 21, 2021 |
This woman you get mind o If na my brother or any of my relatives na Family meeting go end this one o. Village elders must hear this one |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by WATCHMANX: 6:12pm On May 21, 2021 |
DaCharis2016:She should have taken caution, after he looked at her first asking him in public, in a strange way! |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by integrity16(m): 6:16pm On May 21, 2021 |
It is wrong for your husband to have done that to you if it is true. On the hand, how did you make the request? Perhaps it sounded very disrespectful to him hence the violent reaction. Washing the dishes isn't the traditional role of a husband in Africa societies except in a situation where both couple are working class hence the need to assist each other as regards house chores. |
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