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Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by taibod: 12:03am On May 26, 2021 |
Nacoss25: Hmm you shld have done this before marriage but as it is now my own candid advise is to tell her once more politely even romantically and you make it serious wen telling her because if you take it harshly I fear what you're assuming might come to pass nd if she doesn't listen na to b careful remain o cos if a woman is strongly attached to someone is seriously hard to break the bond |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Asapchris(m): 12:03am On May 26, 2021 |
zeuss: Best solution so far. You can use one of your niece that your wife did not really know. I think that will be better |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by humilitypays(m): 12:04am On May 26, 2021 |
First op you married a girl that's not matured for marriage. Marrying a Nigerian girl below 25years is dangerously risky. Most Nigerian girls start to develop sense and become valuable and useful to their Male partners from the age of 27yrs. Second mistake is marrying a girl with that nonsense bestie of a thing. If you are not your girlfriend's bestie during dating or courtship, please dont marry her. You appear too weak like she pays the bill 4 Likes |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by friendl: 12:08am On May 26, 2021 |
Your wife no get respect for you ,... 2 Likes |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by careytommy37(m): 12:13am On May 26, 2021 |
Sundrus: Wrong. This will even make them to become even closer. Since the OP said the guy has been trying to distance himself but wifey is the one always pulling guy back, I think the best thing is to maintain the status quo. It will fizzle out naturally with time |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Sweetcho: 12:16am On May 26, 2021 |
Nacoss25: Does he have a wife? You can be his wifes best friend, if not go and find a female bestie, im sure your wife should not see a problem since she taught you that way 1 Like |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by ak22(m): 12:19am On May 26, 2021 |
zeuss: That marriage will eventually crash if you follow that way bro |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by smallsmall: 12:23am On May 26, 2021 |
Nacoss25: Too late Mr. Man, soak it up! Leave that guy alone, even if he is still shagging your wife. You will either live with it for life or divorce that woman, Your Choice. And dont even fool yourself that it will wear-off by itself, rather their bond is going to wax stronger, going by your wife's reaction. Now, she can hide under "I am married", to do whatever she likes with him I get annoyed when l her "men" like you. You are married and you are now complaining, since reality has now dawned on you? What were you looking at, all this while when you were courting? Did you not see the closeness between then, back then? Did you complain about it then? If you did and she refused to hearken to the voice of reason, what did you do? You cant just wake up one day and start changing 'what has been'. Its too late for you, my friend. See ehn, dont come here with your silly cry-cry baby stories again otherwise, l go beg thunder make him come do display for your door-mouth. "Whatever you will not eat as a rich man, you start refusing it, since when you are poor" |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by smallsmall: 12:25am On May 26, 2021 |
Sweetcho: Sense nor go kill you for this one. But he should know that the marriage is a 'living dead', just like that mannequin in Aso Rock |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Burgerlomo: 12:26am On May 26, 2021 |
Male bestie kee U there
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Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by duni04(m): 12:31am On May 26, 2021 |
AishaYesufu:Its actually possible to post a comnent without resorting to insults. I didn't mention 30yr olds women or feminists. And I am not a woman. Please carry your wahala and go elsewhere. Thanks. 1 Like |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by olalekan783: 12:38am On May 26, 2021 |
get a female bestie and make sure you call your own anytime she is calling her male bestie... thats the only way you can cure the foolishness in her head. you can thank me later. |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Aboks(m): 12:46am On May 26, 2021 |
D guy dey chop ur wife u dey do bestie
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Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by MartinsD12(m): 1:09am On May 26, 2021 |
Nacoss25:Your wife doesn't understand what marriage is, male bestie is prohibited in marriage, your wife should let the guy be or you divorce her, don't give her chance to mess you up, most of these nonsense bestie are having affair with your wife. 1 Like |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by West2019(m): 1:15am On May 26, 2021 |
Keep on watching her . If you caught her with your 2 eyes marriage end No be by force ,or are you not a man |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by AOTEMN: 1:17am On May 26, 2021 |
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Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Xmen149(m): 1:20am On May 26, 2021 |
Op seems like one of those "I don get money" kind of guys that will go and snatch one small girl from her boyfriend in name of marriage,she will then balance well and be knaking the boyfriend well. She told you all those gibberish you leave her come dey disturb NL,.who married who again Please leave us alone,.Go and take control of your wife and House. Also get the guys number and have a one on one discussion with him to leave your wife. If he persists use police harras am,small boys nowdays nodey use their head. Tell your wife to stop and if she persist pause the marriage and seek marriage counselor,if not checked now you go soon train another man pikin,or carry disease...be the man or . And for those arguing will you allow you child of 22 to get married,if anything happens to the husband (God forbid) will she be able to earn and take care of kids this age won't even know how to keep extremely clean during period sef alot still living in childhood fantasy. If a lady of 26 27 that got married knows she can't play rough play with her husband.. the 22 s in my area na kids na still wearing torn Jean,skirts and dirty underwears 1 Like |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by babajideh: 1:59am On May 26, 2021 |
My advice is you should also get a female bestie and leave the rest for her she will question you and don’t monitor her let her walk her walk .... Don’t feel bothered and she will change |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Cokahot: 2:10am On May 26, 2021 |
Hahahahahaha. 22yr old lady that's like a 200l student They are daft and dull and very gullible. This guy don dey blow your wife tay tay. That was hw my bastard ex lied its her bestie,her family friend not till I saw texts and messages on her phone from the same family friend calling u baby,honey. I gave her the beating of her life two days later and I ended it shaps. Imagine the guy had been sexing a gal I totally loved for 2 good years till one day she forgot her other phone. Shaply divorce her now o. Ok. 1 Like |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by ReeLoaDead(m): 2:18am On May 26, 2021 |
It’s obvious she married her second love. |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Fanuchi007: 2:20am On May 26, 2021 |
My advice is.... Hire me as ur private investigator make I secretly de observe them for u. But u go pay me money |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by phenzy(m): 2:35am On May 26, 2021 |
If you want to hack her Facebook account. Inbox me no be free sha lol |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Muslimsworldng: 2:39am On May 26, 2021 |
Nacoss25:I think your wife is still being immature as regards handling relationship. She might have this opinion that there is nothing bad in keeping a male friend without understanding that without understanding that feeling could grow like that especially if she meet a sharp guy. I would advice you continuously sitting down and talk to her, most times women like this learn from experience. THIS IS JUST THE TRUTH AND MY OPINION |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Cnach: 2:40am On May 26, 2021 |
AntiWailer:Talking as if women has formulae 1 Like |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Cnach: 2:43am On May 26, 2021 |
Sundrus:I thought of that but I still knew nothing happens to any one if a friend or familiar person is not among those planing it. Cases are many where the best friend was the father of a man's children. Gbado anya guy |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Cnach: 2:52am On May 26, 2021 |
BadBradley:My brother even the 30 is not yet even matured to be married owing to the mentality of girls in Nigeria currently. U need almost someone who has gotten a master degree or PhD in life issues to take that position bc I have never seen a job more challenging than marriage this days. And stop abusing the guy he only aired his opinion which many would buy to it, we are giving almost different answers or suggestions simply because Women got No FORMULAE 1 Like |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by omoadeleye(m): 2:53am On May 26, 2021 |
AntiWailer: Till she bring a pregnancy that doesn't belong to her legitimate husband abi? |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by rexesq(m): 2:54am On May 26, 2021 |
BadBradley: No point abusing her. I minus the abuses and adopt your message. Good point. There's no time for distraction in these young marriages. Couples need to understand this. Build your home. Support your spouses morally and physically. Let go of some folks, never hate them. There is no point for the young woman who should be there now for her husband to have such huge distraction checking up often for a male friend who tries to distance himself away. I have been and am still close to some of my old female friends back then on school, however, we are not just an arms length away, but world apart. Calling when necessary. We use to act in admirable way to the chagrin of the public back then. We support, argue for, assist academically, spiritually and financially but no sex. I have been opportune to be there when the umbrella was set up during one of the ladies reds snow. Yet it meant nothing to me. Now there are married. The two having become one, I have no business to put asunder by any means. |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by grandstar(m): 2:58am On May 26, 2021 |
Nacoss25 22yrs is a bit young. I feel the woman should be at least 25 and the man 26. Her age is part of the problem. You'll need to be patient with her. Wish you Happy married life. |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Ishilove: 3:02am On May 26, 2021 |
It is amusing that single people majorly are the ones advising the OP on what to do in his marriage. Social media is a funny place |
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