Can someone tell me how many times that we need to forgive the ppl that wrong us. Based on what Jesus said. I was watching a christian program yesterday and the presenter said for you to have a successful marriage you need to forgive u'r spouse any many times are he/she wronged u. Check u'r Bible oooo Jesus said 70X7= 490.00

Baby, i am sure your fiance's apartment is house fellowship centre and i am of the opinion that the lady in question came for house fellowhip or counselling.It could be all night prayers and needed the brother to pray with her .So nothing spoil

I'll advise you to move on. an advice for future relationships - Don't go to your BF's house univited and without prior info.

marry him oooo

In all honesty, it is very painful to realize that a man you love dearly cheated on you. I dont think this is enough to break up with him cos where would you find a faithful man at this time and age.
Lets be realistic to avoid making the mistake over and over again. I would understand if you break up with him for another man that would be faithful but is that obtainable? Where would you find him? Maybe in mars.

I am one of those that strongly believe in being faithful to a partner and that is only possible by God's grace and power. I am not able to do this on my own. I am fully dependent on God in my quest and efforts to abide by the laws on the almighty God.

For women that so crave for a faithful man (which of course some deserve), ensure that he is a man of truth and one focused on serving God with all power and might.

Touching on the point that you saw him with a woman of a different spec, it does not necessarily mean that he prefers that config to yours. I am in for very slim girls and in the past i had an ex that natured. after a while i started to crave for a gal with a significant amount of flesh and that didn't mean that i wanted to do away with my preferred spec. All i wanted at that point was to taste a different kind of job. simple.

So my dear, if you can forgive him pls do and if not then walk away. To avoid a similar repetition u have to commit ur kind of man fully to the hands of God. that is the only sure way is being associated with a man that would be a blessing to you in all things. Of course you know the prerequisite to achieving this, move very close to God and create a father and child relationship.

All the best and God bless.

i think you should give him a chance to redeem himself,no one is perfect you knw nd shit happens.you would want d same if it was you.4yrs aint beans.if your above 26 your not gettin any younger!!!

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Kick her no gud piece of arse to the curbs

there are too much women out there to worry bout one piece of shiiit,

if a lady cheats on you, disobeys your direct order/command, refuses to change or drop her bad habit/friends, nags, cant cook, then kick her no gud

piece of arse to the curbs, for every one lady there are 3 in line waiting to replace her

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@harakiri,na wa 4 u.u'r talking 2 a broken hart.

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@poster, ma candid advice is for u to forgive him nd u both shuld go on,d devil u knw is beta dan d angel u dnt knw o SHIKENA!afteral wat makes u tink u r gonna c a faithful type?

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If I were you, I would move ahead and not even look back. And if u decide to go ahead....just get ready to deal with all the lies and more issues of infidelity cos he will keep doing it. Once a cheat, always a cheat. Some men have no self discipline and it will take extreme measures to keep them in check

he is a guy,so please free him,although if it was you the man caught in the act that is the end of the marriage because if a man meets his so called fiancee having another affair then the lady should be thrown into the bin especially if the man meets all her needs,but since its on his side pls,you cant beat a man to it. it happens on a daily basis with men,but dont let it be you as a female because if its you,prayer sef no fit make the fiancee marry you again ohh.

rockchic: Dated him for 4 and half years. And for the first time, i caught him cheating. He was acting funny for two days, so i ambushed him, went to his house at 5am, lo and behold, a babe was in his house, in the room. Turns out they met a week ago, and he invited her over, and she came to spend the night. Anyway, she left to her own house, after which i broke up with him immediately in anger.

Its about two weeks now, ex-fiance still begging and begging for a second chance. The thing that pained me most is that the girl is not like me at all. She is kinda like Mercy-Johnson backside with cossy ojioakor front side, while me i am a lepacious genevieve body type, so it was obvious that he wanted more than me body could offer.


He claims this is the first time which i doubt of course, and wants us to still go ahead with the relationship and our planned wedding. If you were in my shoes what would you do? will you forgive a cheat?

u shld even b glad dat he cares 4 u..al men r polygamous,even those dat claim to b holy clamour 4 mor of dem bigbarca and manU..

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~Op u shld knw wat is gud 4 u.hmmm wat if u get married 2 him nd is eyes ar stil on d mercy johnson kinda galz.

husband scarce o.