Offpoint1:
If you must tell me you have to be very detailed about it, I mean like: explain the act itself and how long it lasted.

If you can't do this don't bother telling me.

this is me... I want to hear every detail even if it's going to hurt me. I can Imagine a girl telling me she cheated on me by mistake!! She has to explain how it was a mistake!!

bigpicture001:
Dont tell me just change ur ways for good

You'd probably feel terrible if you hear about it somewhere else sometime in the future even after she has changed.

When I was naive, I'd say, tell me, tell me every little splitting detail. But now I know better. What you don't know cannot kill you.

WoundedLamb:

You'd probably feel terrible if you hear about it somewhere else sometime in the future even after she has changed.

U de try

KingintheNorth:





U de try

How sir?

Kccheechy:
this is me... I want to hear every detail even if it's going to hurt me. I can Imagine a girl telling me she cheated on me by mistake!! She has to explain how it was a mistake!!

She went to a party and got drunk

WoundedLamb:

You'd probably feel terrible if you hear about it somewhere else sometime in the future even after she has changed.

For me ..i dont worry much about ppl's past..i have mine also. Just be a good person whose change have reflected in ur character.

I wouldnt even ask you .....its just aboutbme and u

bigpicture001:
Dont tell me just change ur ways for good

Most times, the change you are craving for MAY never come until confession is made. It is not easy though!

I come on peace

Mojir:


Most times, the change you are craving for MAY never come until confession is made. It is not easy though!

I come on peace

Lol....the person really isnt ready for change...if she is....no one needs to tell an adult to change

bigpicture001:


For me ..i dont worry much about ppl's past..i have mine also. Just be a good person whose change have reflected in ur character.

I wouldnt even ask you .....its just aboutbme and u

Well, that would the case if it was about her life before you guys met. But if she cheated while you were already dating, and then you find out yourself much later, what guarantee would you have that she has changed?

WoundedLamb:

Well, that would the case if it was about her life before you guys met. But if she cheated while you were already dating, and then you find out yourself much later, what guarantee would you have that she has changed?

She broke a trust...now its up to her to keep it secret...i wont investigate cuz i need more time to chase money....

bigpicture001:


She broke a trust...now its up to her to keep it secret...i wont investigate cuz i need more time to chase money....

I see

baralatie:
Hbecomes a trending video on facet, twitter,Snapchat to see in Dallas.

Not if There's no one recording

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Try more
Don't give up
U go soon chop

KingintheNorth:



Everybody cheats sha,one way or another

Randy men & Olosho quote

bigpicture001:


For me ..i dont worry much about ppl's past..i have mine also. Just be a good person whose change have reflected in ur character.

I wouldnt even ask you .....its just aboutbme and u

Its cool you shouldn't worry about people past but it is also true that everyone is a bundle of their past present and who they choose to be,

So no matter how hard we try we would somehow deal with the past.
So i would advice you to have an understanding of your partner and by implications the past would be included but mainly those relevant for the future

Somethings are better of if unknown

ndidigood:
is not easy o
Is heartbreaking.

yes,but when u have the feeling that all men cheats u won't get hurt ..a Man once told me that all men cheat, I was like wow,he said only a foolish man Will let his wife know. Omorr at that point I don't v any problem and I won't go stalking someone's son or check my spouse phone, peace of mind is good o,nd if he told me he cheated on me..I'll forgive o but its very rare for a man to open up to that level

Yusufisraelj:


But in this context OP means sex, I should suppose.

Could you expanciate this your position?

There's no such word as expanciate in the English vocabulary. You meant to write "expatiate" I suppose?



If my partner cheats on me, his crime would be lighter if he told me. Yeah!

placeofallure:


There's no such word as expanciate in the English vocabulary. You meant to write "expatiate" I suppose?



If my partner cheats on me, his crime would be lighter if he told me. Yeah!

Lols, thanks for the observations, I spelt it from the pronunciation. Lols, yes I meant to say that.

Yes I also side with your submission on cheating. But I'd rather prefer it never happens in my relationship. Hence my position on seeking a lady or guy willing to commit at your level, i.e don't look for a fvck boy/girl or someone that doesn't think you're a big deal, when you want the commitment that comes from people seeking to settle down or serious and sincere about life, at that level, every adjustments is made for the general happiness of the greater good, and commitment here is fairly absolute.

Yusufisraelj:


Lols, thanks for the observations, I spelt it from the pronunciation. Lols, yes I meant to say that.

Yes I also side with your submission on cheating. But I'd rather prefer it never happens in my relationship. Hence my position on seeking a lady or guy willing to commit at your level, i.e don't look for a fvck boy/girl or someone that doesn't think you're a big deal, when you want the commitment that comes from people seeking to settle down or serious and sincere about life, at that level, every adjustments is made for the general happiness of the greater good, and commitment here is fairly absolute.

I absolutely agree.

Ishilove:

I agree about confession in a marital relationship, but I find it unnecessary if you're still at the courting stage. If you cheat on me, the God I serve will expose you, so you better repent and beg God not to expose your shenanigans to me because if He does, my trust in you will be shattered and never fully regained.

Ishilove, I wont cheat on you. When are we going to marry?

redcliff:


Ishilove, I wont cheat on you. When are we going to marry?

Lol. I'm not single, neither am I searching

Ishilove:

Lol. I'm not single, neither am I searching

You never hear side man before abi?

Yusufisraelj:



Tell me, Simple. If I find out, there will be grave consequences.

And by the way why would a lady I'm dating cheat? Hmmm

Because shits happens!

Yusufisraelj:



Tell me, Simple. If I find out, there will be grave consequences.

And by the way why would a lady I'm dating cheat? Hmmm

That's the world we live in.

redcliff:


You never hear side man before abi?

LMAO. Side man ko, side manabbqgrills ni. Get thee behind me

Ishilove:

Lol. I'm not single, neither am I searching

This is a complicated response to a simple question. Smh

gbegemaster:
This is a complicated response to a simple question. Smh

My honey pie! Where have you been?

Ishilove:
My honey pie! Where have you been?

if J111333 see this one, he will be shocked like President Buhari

sageb:

if J111333 see this one, he will be shocked like President Buhari

J111 don deactivate tey tey