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|Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by Ishilove: 2:33pm On Jun 10|
southniyikaye:Ogbeni goan siddon o jare.
|Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by ceede2: 2:34pm On Jun 10|
tydi:Ex. Case close.
|Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by Lovablepanther: 2:34pm On Jun 10|
As in eh That kind Fulani flogging
|Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by Casham: 2:35pm On Jun 10|
I always bragged about how I can't bear to even touch a lady that's been bedded by another man. But recently, shawty just told me about a man she dated not more than three years ago(we actually saw him passing by) who was twice her age at the time and married. She was eighteen then. I was/am so heartbroken about it and I just withdrew myself from her. But, instead of hating her for that (I am dissappointed), I hated the man. Why would you just sleep with a girl that you know will be someone's joy some day? So you see, it is a Human problem not limited to one gender. Humans are weaklings when it comes to sexual purity. Even as a man, I wish never to have more than five body counts. But just put it in your mind that "every lady is DEFINITELY getting cocked by someone. The next lady you will meet is probably having an orgy with two married men right now. Nobody is a saint; the world don rotty already. With my shawty, there's nothing to forgive; she's still my joy. I understand how you feel, but this is life.
|Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by baralatie(m): 2:35pm On Jun 10|
southniyikaye:you are seriously doing yourself
|Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by TWLifestyle: 2:37pm On Jun 10|
|Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by baralatie(m): 2:38pm On Jun 10|
GeneralPula:The point of correction is this!
They are currently not married to this point in time from the time past before he met her
|Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by baralatie(m): 2:41pm On Jun 10|
Casham:You guys are really messed up psychologically
|Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by Yankee101: 2:41pm On Jun 10|
Check the header moderators
|Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by baralatie(m): 2:43pm On Jun 10|
Bola146:Shebi you see the person crying is even worse than the ladies ex
|Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by DissTroy(m): 2:43pm On Jun 10|
Not everyone wants to be with a woman who has a very promiscuous past, or didn't respect the institution of marriage enough not to date married men. A woman who doesn't respect it enough to draw that line has no qualms cheating when married.
Most of the married woman cheating slept with married men as singles. The have a warped way of justifying the adultery.
Stop gaslighting men into accepting and dating/marrying damaged women. You wouldn't be with a damaged man yourself if you have better options.
|Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by baralatie(m): 2:44pm On Jun 10|
anthonyuncle:The person he is complaining about is a side chick with a kid for him
|Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by baralatie(m): 2:47pm On Jun 10|
DissTroy:So the op that says he believes in the institution of marriage is considered to have fulfilled all duties by getting the woman pregnant with a kid outside marriage?
|Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by Getdabag: 2:47pm On Jun 10|
SoftP:honestly mehn..realmen woukd dump the hoe and wife a virginity not small boys with teddy brains marrying hoes
|Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by KingAzari: 2:50pm On Jun 10|
Seems I am not normal by not giving a flying fvck about the sexual history of any woman in my life. I am not sure I would ever care - whether wife, side chic or girlfriend. I don't even wanna ask you who you fvcked last. I am more concerned about what you do with at the present. If you like, be an excess p0rn star - keep it to yourself. Nobody should tell me. If I fvck you and I feel the toto don see more mileage than 1967 Acura Bugatti and Mercedes Venza, I would bail out.
|Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by baralatie(m): 2:50pm On Jun 10|
TheUndercover:Do you know that they are unmarried?
|Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by southniyikaye(m): 2:55pm On Jun 10|
TWLifestyle:you don't have to behave erratic like a convulsed child. If you've been used and manipulated for a long time, you will want to seek revenge on others but instead of seeking revenge on those who didn't hurt you, why not work on yourself and move on? That's what the writeup is about and just incase you have a dense brain that can't comprehend
|Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by baralatie(m): 2:55pm On Jun 10|
The only thing I see in your case is this:
You both are not married summary you are both singles
She already has a kid for you therefore she is a baby mama
You have serious insecurity issues and therefore the possibility of you constantly barging her and wearing both yourselves down is there.
As a result of wearing yourselves down and walking out of her marriage right ,infertility is very likely
When it happens the cycle of toxic relationship is been played out
|Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by southniyikaye(m): 2:55pm On Jun 10|
baralatie:am seriously working on myself to become a better person.
|Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by Ukpayahor: 2:58pm On Jun 10|
Who brought this to front page? oga Wetin happen for your wife's life before you met her nor concern you at all, I repeat e nor concern you at all except the thing has a direct effect on your current lives(they are trying to reignite the fire or maybe the kid they told you his her sibling turns out to be her child etc). Which kind jealousy be this one; if na me be her, my mother will not step foot in my house again for apologising to you for what does not concern you.
Lemme Tell U Something Important: "Whatever Happens In The Life Of Your current boyfriend/husband or girlfriend/wife B4 U Met Him/Her IS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS...!!!
|Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by DissTroy(m): 2:59pm On Jun 10|
Marriages are in different forms, man. The parents or guardian acknowledging their union is valid enough. All they need do is walk into a registry to get a marriage certificate if they need to process documents. Never heard of customary law?
Promising to marry a woman is a good as being engaged to her. Even the Lagos State Government has begun prosecuting men who engage and dump women without just cause.
I don't care how long I've been in a relationship with a female, the moment I discover she's knowingly dated/slept with married men, everything begins to die and would never lead to the alter. If I discover when already married, I'd resent her.
By subtle means I've always made this obvious to the women in my life. I also won't be with one who's had to abort for no reason other than medical complications. I've never made any woman abort so I don't deserve to be with any. Just like I've never gotten sexually intimate with a married woman even though I get accosted online and in person daily.
And, no I'm barely religious too so these aren't religious reasons but my principles.
|Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by Getdabag: 3:00pm On Jun 10|
sircrabo:that na complete rubbish u dey tlk so imagine say I be keep mysef till marraige as a man oh ...hustle to be comfortable..while the the future wife dey chop life, chop preek chop ppl money till she jam Christ. na him u wan tlk oldthings are past away? baba e no go fit wrk..I no dey judge o but somthings cant be overlooked..
I be baller bet I no fit marry woman wey don tear eye reach back never
|Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by baralatie(m): 3:01pm On Jun 10|
DissTroy:A live in the house boyfriend and girlfriend known in the community does not equate to a legally married couple
|Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by baralatie(m): 3:03pm On Jun 10|
Abeg try well,well o!
The Lord is your strength!
|Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by baralatie(m): 3:04pm On Jun 10|
Getdabag:How do you want to know if the girl tear eye reach back?
|Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by Baiser(m): 3:06pm On Jun 10|
kenoyad:The girl u slept with before you married your wife, no be person go marry am too?
Point is, the only worry you have to worry is the bloody lying....
|Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by ABANGWABOI(m): 3:06pm On Jun 10|
You can never get over it Weakling..
She would still sleep around again and give you another man seed to raise...
Your premium tears would be sweet to behold by then.
|Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by kenoyad: 3:08pm On Jun 10|
Baiser:And the guy is older, married at the time and a player.
|Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by baralatie(m): 3:10pm On Jun 10|
Are that scared that her ex is far better than you?
|Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by DissTroy(m): 3:11pm On Jun 10|
Except you want to argue for the sake of it, the OP clearly stated he had done marriage introduction with his friends and family members (except his parents). At these introductions, there's "breaking of kolanuts" and "uncorking of drinks'. Juxtaposed that with customary marriage. Next find out the legality of customary marriage and statutory marriage.
Tonto Dike and Churchill had customary marriage but they were still referred to as man and wife. If they had to relocate together as a couple, they would have had to do statutory marriage.
Still, I believe what is worth doing is worth doing well.
|Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by Getdabag: 3:11pm On Jun 10|
|Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by baralatie(m): 3:12pm On Jun 10|
DissTroy:The op ha s not down the traditional marriage .
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