IamCookie:


No, I am not the person. I don't have any husband in the USA

Alright...just kidding

IamCookie:


I know of someone that did that. He resides in the US and haven't been to Nigeria since 2016.. He and his wife have a kid before he left... He told my friend(his wife) not to get involved with anyone within Ikorodu(where they live) but in case she needs to explore, she can try somewhere far and with just that person. He further said , he doesn't want to know that person. That s why i said re-orientation is better. Somethingz are just inevitable! No need to shy away from such discussion. Otherwise , your wife's action may be disgraceful , when she bleeps individuals within

If that dude is a Nigerian and was born and breed in this soil... Forget whatever you're saying....



He's probably married to another white woman or black American lady over there and he doesn't want to feel guilty about it...


The child is the only thing connecting them... With time, everything will reveal...


I have a feeling that your story about your friend is actually you... Given the details you give... Except it's a make up storyline...

Kuriosmynd:
I mean how can u marry and your wife is abroad while u are in Nigeria. I don't quite understand especially for young marriage.

A cousin of mine married 3 years ago, my age mate , till today he hasn't been able to relocate to meet his wife. I mean is it possible one guy wont be servicing her steady? How do such husband handle such thought. The Lady is Nigerian and nurse in the U.S. They commhnicate with zoom.
I hear of husband keeping their wife in Nigeria while hustling abroad . But the case of wife husling abroad while husband in Nigeria has no wherewithal or visa luck of going abroad is strange.
You can imagine the confidence and rest of mind the wife over there will be serviced...this life ehn. You can share ur thought and experience.

Sorry, but this sounds foolish to me

When men travel abroad and leave their wives in Nigeriw, how do the wives cope? And what do the husbands do over there?

However the wives cope when in Nigeria is the way the husbands should cope, same way how the men cope while abroad, is the way the wives would also comport themselves

yanabasee1:


If that dude is a Nigerian and was born and breed in this soil... Forget whatever you're saying....



He's probably married to another white woman or black American lady over there and he doesn't want to feel guilty about it...


The child is the only thing connecting them... With time, everything will reveal...


I have a feeling that your story about your friend is actually you... Given the details you give... Except it's a make up storyline...

Na once you catch am ...lol

omanzo02:

Those are the type of men that commit murder because of punany, Bleeping is human biological need, man or woman will be sexually tempted to fulfil that need and being married wouldn't stop it if the will exist especially when's that long.
Somebody beside you will surely have his/her turn when you are not available. Something most men has come to terms with.

You're wrong about the bolded because been aware that your woman's bleeping someone else is not what a man would like to experience, and no, that doesn't mean any man would commit suicide or whatever because of it. Irrespective of the agreement between the two, most marriages like that will end up in divorce.

Those are not marriages. You can't fool nature.

Seeing a person and interacting with natural presence is a part of natural social bonding. If one absent himself to an extent it slow down the process.

It is not easy and I just pray we don't find ourselves in dis kind of situation bt if happen wetin man go do.. lt is not easy my people may God help us .

Stupidquestions:

Honestly, sometimes, I wish I could be the other guy servicing the hort pvssy of the lonely wife. While they both deceive themselves on video call that they are faithful and miss each other...da kine nacking dey sweet

"both deceive themselves on video call..." - this got me cracking like crazy.
Hahahahhhahahhhhahahaaaa!

slithering:
it is childish to think sex is what people think about while hustling abroad

Not always bro, but relaxation and stress release is necessary, and the women are so gorgeous and well mannered than Nigerian women, come to think of it they love bleeping and will seduce you instead as long you good looking.

Kuriosmynd:
I mean how can u marry and your wife is abroad while u are in Nigeria. I don't quite understand especially for young marriage.

A cousin of mine married 3 years ago, my age mate , till today he hasn't been able to relocate to meet his wife. I mean is it possible one guy wont be servicing her steady? How do such husband handle such thought. The Lady is Nigerian and nurse in the U.S. They commhnicate with zoom.
I hear of husband keeping their wife in Nigeria while hustling abroad . But the case of wife husling abroad while husband in Nigeria has no wherewithal or visa luck of going abroad is strange.
You can imagine the confidence and rest of mind the wife over there will be serviced...this life ehn. You can share ur thought and experience.

Number 1, Nurses are promiscuous. Someone is shinning her Congo in the US. Your friend should pray the person shinning her Congo should not be the guy with 2 by 4 rod, else, your friend won't find his size.

The ONLY reason that man hasn't impregnate a lady is because he knows his wife will come for him.

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Poverty can make every arrangement with financial benefits seem reasonable.


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Op same as how do wife cope in Nigeria if husband dey abroad too.........

MufasaLion:


You're wrong about the bolded because been aware that your woman's bleeping someone else is not what a man would like to experience, and no, that doesn't mean any man would commit suicide or whatever because of it. Irrespective of the agreement between the two, most marriages like that will end up in divorce.

Definitely! About the bolded, ultimate disappointment is justified but anger shouldn't warrant excessive reaction is beating, hurting or killing someone, I will prefer to move on than look back, my life is not dependent on someone else betrayal.

It's not easy

Meanwhile..

Kuriosmynd:
I mean how can u marry and your wife is abroad while u are in Nigeria. I don't quite understand especially for young marriage.

A cousin of mine married 3 years ago, my age mate , till today he hasn't been able to relocate to meet his wife. I mean is it possible one guy wont be servicing her steady? How do such husband handle such thought. The Lady is Nigerian and nurse in the U.S. They commhnicate with zoom.
I hear of husband keeping their wife in Nigeria while hustling abroad . But the case of wife husling abroad while husband in Nigeria has no wherewithal or visa luck of going abroad is strange.
You can imagine the confidence and rest of mind the wife over there will be serviced...this life ehn. You can share ur thought and experience.

Same way women manage when their husbands travel abroad. Same way his wife is managing in the abroad.
If she is the bread winner, she is allowed to date other men (afterall that is the excuse men use to sleep around) It's her money, if she can comfortably care for husby and side boos, let her enjoy. Abi is that pill too bitter for hypocritical men to swallow? That same pill women ń have been forced to swallow since Adam.

omanzo02:

Definitely! About the bolded, ultimate disappointment is justified but anger shouldn't warrant excessive reaction is beating, hurting or killing someone, I will prefer to move on than look back, my life is not dependent on someone else betrayal.

Well, more reason you should think it through before considering such marriage.

It is not easy. I would rather opt out of that arrangement.

Wetin concern you.

IamCookie:


I know of someone that did that. He resides in the US and haven't been to Nigeria since 2016.. He and his wife have a kid before he left... He told my friend(his wife) not to get involved with anyone within Ikorodu(where they live) but in case she needs to explore, she can try somewhere far and with just that person. He further said , he doesn't want to know that person. That s why i said re-orientation is better. Somethingz are just inevitable! No need to shy away from such discussion. Otherwise , your wife's action may be disgraceful , when she bleeps individuals within

Tell your friend that she will remain the wife in Nigeria. He has no plans of living permanently with her under same roof. If in doubt, quote me in 20yrs time and tell me if I am wrong. He already has a wife and family in the US. Nothing like orientation here, it is just the way we are wired. Even the whites are wired same. It is very few of them that will agree to a pre-arranged sexual rump or infidelity. Just the way, they have weird people with weird fantasies over there, we also have people here with such like those that want to watch while their wives is being fired by another man, gays, etc. But no normal man will want the woman back after knowing she has been with someone else. You need to understand that women are wired differently from men and takes sex with other people with a different tolerance.

This never lasts

IamCookie:


I know of someone that did that. He resides in the US and haven't been to Nigeria since 2016.. He and his wife have a kid before he left... He told my friend(his wife) not to get involved with anyone within Ikorodu(where they live) but in case she needs to explore, she can try somewhere far and with just that person. He further said , he doesn't want to know that person. That s why i said re-orientation is better. Somethingz are just inevitable! No need to shy away from such discussion. Otherwise , your wife's action may be disgraceful , when she bleeps individuals within

Humm...this post open my eyes to a case of a guy that didn't bulge when he was told about his wife's runs back home

People involved in this don't like to think or talk about it.

Kuriosmynd:
I mean how can u marry and your wife is abroad while u are in Nigeria. I don't quite understand especially for young marriage.

A cousin of mine married 3 years ago, my age mate , till today he hasn't been able to relocate to meet his wife. I mean is it possible one guy wont be servicing her steady? How do such husband handle such thought. The Lady is Nigerian and nurse in the U.S. They commhnicate with zoom.
I hear of husband keeping their wife in Nigeria while hustling abroad . But the case of wife husling abroad while husband in Nigeria has no wherewithal or visa luck of going abroad is strange.
You can imagine the confidence and rest of mind the wife over there will be serviced...this life ehn. You can share ur thought and experience.

it's a two way thing, how is she also coping knowing fully well her husband is back here in Nigeria

Suga daughter things. My neighbor is a good example telling us she is your youngers sisters step-daughter and she call him by his name

I was in this shoes just less than a year back before I joined my wife here. It's not easy but with God's help and the trust you had for your partner before you married her, there should not be a problem. I had to wait in nija for exactly one year before being able to get my papers but with God's help, I am here and we are doing very good.
Not every woman or man is that sincere and loyal, the more reason why before you marry anyone living far away, you must make sure you trust the person and always dwell on that. Also the line of communication must be very open between you both. No room for lies. At every point in time, tell yourselves everything, when I say everything I mean everything minute by minute. Both of your activities must be predictable and calls must be picked at every single time you hear your phone ring.

Stupidquestions:

Honestly, sometimes, I wish I could be the other guy servicing the hort pvssy of the lonely wife. While they both deceive themselves on video call that they are faithful and miss each other...da kine nacking dey sweet

Karma is still there o!!!

Enyah

Very well... Ask chidinma

It is just a matter of trust and discipline....and provided none of the couples have a greater sex drive...or promiscuous...but it is doable...
I prefer to stay without sex than to be carrying runs lady...

But on the flip side...lemme encourage some sex gangster here....it is not doable....as far as you have money....just go, strippers,s, clubs or olosho joints, Bleep hell out of their toto and pay them....you will.be surprised that some know how to do it more than your wife...and when your wife is back, just dey avoid am so that you go still dey do some side chicks...