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Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by wizi4tyn: 7:26pm On Aug 08, 2021
MeghaneMorgane:
Honestly I don’t know how those couples survive. It’s ok if it is for some months and if the couple have a strategic plan on how they intend to eventually be together after a definite period. Not leaving anything to fate or life to decide. If not, I don’t know how they do it staying apart for an indefinite period.

But people here are saying they’ll both definitely be cheating
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by Udodiri01: 7:27pm On Aug 08, 2021
THIS TABLE?.... PLENTY IGBO GIRLS DEY THIS TABLE..... UNDER DE GUISE OF OYIBO HUSBAND... SOME HAVE A BABY WEY SOPO SNR LIKE 3 KIDS... MOST TIMES DEY REGRET THE LONELY NIGHTS.. THE COLD NIGHT... MONEY IS NOT EVERYTHING.... AT THE END EVEN DE GOOD ONES WILL HAVE SOMBODY SHINNING THE KONGO

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Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by SefunmiHookups: 7:31pm On Aug 08, 2021
IamCookie:


I know of someone that did that. He resides in the US and haven't been to Nigeria since 2016.. He and his wife have a kid before he left... He told my friend(his wife) not to get involved with anyone within Ikorodu(where they live) but in case she needs to explore, she can try somewhere far and with just that person. He further said , he doesn't want to know that person. That s why i said re-orientation is better. Somethingz are just inevitable! No need to shy away from such discussion. Otherwise , your wife's action may be disgraceful , when she bleeps individuals within
God forbid bad thang !
People are trying oh. I can't . I think it's even adultery in the sight of God even if the consent is mutual.
I rather stay unmarried than have such an arrangement. But I understand it's their choice, though.


* Eww *

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Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by Nobody: 7:38pm On Aug 08, 2021
Kuriosmynd:

How about the thought of her wife being pummeled by a coccck in a strange land.

Only a man without an option will waste his time thinking about the affairs of a woman far away from home.

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Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by Oyinlomobambam(m): 7:39pm On Aug 08, 2021
The only reason I don't bordered is because a cheat wife will cheat under your nose... So it doesn't matter if it's nigeria or abroad.

We only hope they don't not that they don't

No saint
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by Kuriosmynd: 7:40pm On Aug 08, 2021
emrain:


Only a man without an option will waste his time thinking about the affairs of a woman far away from home.
Hmmm. Na to just comot face grin

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Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by zinaunreal(m): 7:47pm On Aug 08, 2021
She shall be lashed grin

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Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by JustforMen: 7:57pm On Aug 08, 2021
one of my guys has his wife and kids in the uk while him dey here dey hustle and the guy dey try for faithfulness while...
some of us dey share the same house but na side chick dey help our ministry.
you can be together in a sexless marriage. this life no balance.

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Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by gracechellar(f): 8:01pm On Aug 08, 2021
Kuriosmynd:
I mean how can u marry and your wife is abroad while u are in Nigeria. I don't quite understand especially for young marriage.

A cousin of mine married 3 years ago, my age mate , till today he hasn't been able to relocate to meet his wife. I mean is it possible one guy wont be servicing her steady? How do such husband handle such thought. The Lady is Nigerian and nurse in the U.S. They commhnicate with zoom.
I hear of husband keeping their wife in Nigeria while hustling abroad . But the case of wife husling abroad while husband in Nigeria has no wherewithal or visa luck of going abroad is strange.
You can imagine the confidence and rest of mind the wife over there will be serviced...this life ehn. You can share ur thought and experience.

Shallow way of thinking.
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by IJEYdiamond(f): 8:15pm On Aug 08, 2021
Its because its Nigeria... and the way the world sees us.... Dont we have expatriates that work here.. their wives go and come same as their husbands too..

If not whatz d big deal with the visas issues..

Asians wen full Nigeria like water.. they dont really experience that visa issues..

Its well and i hope every works out for your cousin.....!!

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Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by IJEYdiamond(f): 8:16pm On Aug 08, 2021
Udodiri01:
THIS TABLE?.... PLENTY IGBO GIRLS DEY THIS TABLE..... UNDER DE GUISE OF OYIBO HUSBAND... SOME HAVE A BABY WEY SOPO SNR LIKE 3 KIDS... MOST TIMES DEY REGRET THE LONELY NIGHTS.. THE COLD NIGHT... MONEY IS NOT EVERYTHING.... AT THE END EVEN DE GOOD ONES WILL HAVE SOMBODY SHINNING THE KONGO

Explain!!!!
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by Hathor5(f): 8:19pm On Aug 08, 2021
IamCookie:


I know of someone that did that. He resides in the US and haven't been to Nigeria since 2016.. He and his wife have a kid before he left... He told my friend(his wife) not to get involved with anyone within Ikorodu(where they live) but in case she needs to explore, she can try somewhere far and with just that person. He further said , he doesn't want to know that person. That s why i said re-orientation is better. Somethingz are just inevitable! No need to shy away from such discussion. Otherwise , your wife's action may be disgraceful , when she bleeps individuals within

shocked

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Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by dahnimoh(m): 8:41pm On Aug 08, 2021
Hahahaha

Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by Happy2020: 8:49pm On Aug 08, 2021
You’re an idiot. I bet you never stepped foot outside of Nigeria or Africa while you generalize “western ladies”

Toks2008:


Yeah I wrote "most"

But African women won't be control freaks cos they know it is not in their culture..

Western ladies believe it is their right to call the shot and that makes it crazy.
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by emmyN(m): 8:51pm On Aug 08, 2021
Nigerian ladies get much less attention abroad than they do in Nigeria. So the odds are slim but not unlikely, unless she wanna be a hooker going on frequent one night stands. For the men at home, we apply the wisdom of Solomon cool

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Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by Toks2008(m): 8:57pm On Aug 08, 2021
wany:

But there is justification for a man to dok outside his marriage right ,and there is no realistic intimacy gadget for the man to be active in years without the risk of Infection, hypocrite undecided
Well I will respond realistically...

Yes there is no realistic sx toy for a man anywhere... Argue with your keyboard on that.

And please let me give you a sound advise which you may accept or discard...

Never ever put the sexual chastity of a man n a woman on the same scale.

Only mature and reasonable ladies will relate.

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Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by Lordwaz(m): 9:01pm On Aug 08, 2021
Kuriosmynd:
I mean how can u marry and your wife is abroad while u are in Nigeria. I don't quite understand especially for young marriage.

A cousin of mine married 3 years ago, my age mate , till today he hasn't been able to relocate to meet his wife. I mean is it possible one guy wont be servicing her steady? How do such husband handle such thought. The Lady is Nigerian and nurse in the U.S. They commhnicate with zoom.
I hear of husband keeping their wife in Nigeria while hustling abroad . But the case of wife husling abroad while husband in Nigeria has no wherewithal or visa luck of going abroad is strange.
You can imagine the confidence and rest of mind the wife over there will be serviced...this life ehn. You can share ur thought and experience.



3 years in USA as a nurse? By now she has the financial capability to get her husband over to her. Except the husband dey engaged her with something bigger. If not? I no trust her? Nurse? USA? Omo forget.

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Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by Toks2008(m): 9:02pm On Aug 08, 2021
Happy2020:
You’re an idiot. I bet you never stepped foot outside of Nigeria or Africa while you generalize “western ladies”


Well I've actually lived outside Nigeria in a first world country and if you are a lady living in the western world then you just proved me right with your uncouth response to my mention...

And let me educate you cos I sense you have an appalling low IQ...

In random sampling, you are allowed to Generalise if 7 or more out of 10 case studies have homogeneity of traits.

Now you can see how you have made an IDI*T of yourself in a public forum.

Please when next you see post on any topic, please think well before quoting me and refrain from using vulgar words cos I have zero tolerance for unintelligent people like you.

Have a great evening rest.

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Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by greenie77: 9:18pm On Aug 08, 2021
Toks2008:

Well I will respond realistically...

Yes there is no realistic sx toy for a man anywhere... Argue with your keyboard on that.

And please let me give you a sound advise which you may accept or discard...

Never ever put the sexual chastity of a man n a woman on the same scale.

Only mature and reasonable ladies will relate.

You can not defend the bolded before your Creator but you want your fellow mortals to accept it as the TRUTH because you believe the sins of Adultery and Fornication is exclusively for the females not to commit.

Chastity is chastity before God, the sexual chastity God requires from men is the same He requires from women because promiscuity cannot be justified before God.

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Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by frozen70(f): 9:34pm On Aug 08, 2021
Kuriosmynd:
I mean how can u marry and your wife is abroad while u are in Nigeria. I don't quite understand especially for young marriage.

A cousin of mine married 3 years ago, my age mate , till today he hasn't been able to relocate to meet his wife. I mean is it possible one guy wont be servicing her steady? How do such husband handle such thought. The Lady is Nigerian and nurse in the U.S. They commhnicate with zoom.
I hear of husband keeping their wife in Nigeria while hustling abroad . But the case of wife husling abroad while husband in Nigeria has no wherewithal or visa luck of going abroad is strange.
You can imagine the confidence and rest of mind the wife over there will be serviced...this life ehn. You can share ur thought and experience.

If not for her status and position as a USA nurse, do you think such man can wait

He is not even bothered about who is servicing her,
He is more concerned about how he will leave this country

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Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by whodeyhere: 10:04pm On Aug 08, 2021
Aforxzy:
Married but living single..the loneliness can make either of the partners to seek alternatives.... ko easy jare..

its complicated situation..
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by salusworth(m): 10:13pm On Aug 08, 2021
However they deem fit.
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by Maski87: 10:17pm On Aug 08, 2021
I have been servicing this chick who goes around owerri telling everyone that her husband is in Japan

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Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by Kuriosmynd: 10:18pm On Aug 08, 2021
frozen70:


If not for her status and position as a USA nurse, do you think such man can wait

He is not even bothered about who is servicing her,
He is more concerned about how he will leave this country
Lol... exactly....and the babe came from a rich family.. she got relocation through study immediately after the wedding...and my cousin has been stranded here since
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by Kuriosmynd: 10:19pm On Aug 08, 2021
Maski87:
I have been servicing this chick who goes around owerri telling everyone that her husband is in Japan
Free pvssy...I bet the knacking go dey sweet stress free with no strings attached

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Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by Happy2020: 10:22pm On Aug 08, 2021
There’s things called loyalty and commitment

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Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by Kuriosmynd: 10:23pm On Aug 08, 2021
Lordwaz:




3 years in USA as a nurse? By now she has the financial capability to get her husband over to her. Except the husband dey engaged her with something bigger. If not? I no trust her? Nurse? USA? Omo forget.
She went there through studies...she was already a nurse before she left..grad from a reputable private uni in Naija
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by harmony75: 10:28pm On Aug 08, 2021
Circumstances can arise for one of you to be apart for good reason so you focus on the progress of your marriage and stay faithful it's not a big deal if you have the fear of God!

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Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by Donclique(m): 10:53pm On Aug 08, 2021
omanzo02:

Typical African mentality that can't adapt, you can't force someone to be loyal and respectful, It's comes voluntarily, with dedication and self discipline.
I have always pull up with caucasian women and you can live with them comfortably and earn ultimate respect as long you understand and respect them, who doesn't like to be respected anyway?. If you understand their cultural heritage and mentality controlling western women is easy as ABC..



Please link me up with any for legitimate relationship.
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by IamCookie(f): 11:06pm On Aug 08, 2021
SimplyFacts:


The truth is that most men don't like to know or see someone who is/has had intimacy with their gfs/wives. I don't know if females feel the same way.

Ladies don't usually care as much as guys in that regard. Most of us see it as one of your vulnerable moments or past events, that shouldn't repeat itself, going forward.
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by Nobody: 11:09pm On Aug 08, 2021
IamCookie:


Ladies don't usually care as much as guys in that regard. Most of us see it as one of your vulnerable moments or past events, that shouldn't repeat itself, going forward.

Okay

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