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Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by IamCookie(f): 11:15pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
danowena: Well, the man isn't married to anyone over there yet. But, i think he suggested it to his wife so that she doesn't embarrass him, in case human nature beckons. Some ladies needs someone to guide them , instead of leaving them without saying anything or giving consideration to their emotions. They just want you to talk. It doesn't mean they will go and do it. I think what toks2008 said about using gadgets is reasonable and any man's advice should take that angle |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by Map1(m): 4:58am On Aug 09, 2021 |
valentineuwakwe:are you married? |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by Map1(m): 5:00am On Aug 09, 2021 |
OnlyDeCapPlease:Either from Man or Woman aak your self in a situation like that does marriage exit? |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by OnlyDeCapPlease(m): 8:26am On Aug 09, 2021 |
Map1: Sometimes the financial situation in a marriage is so hopeless that something has to be done. If nothing is done, the marriage might still scatter due to extreme financial tension. Its one thing or another. |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by Map1(m): 8:52am On Aug 09, 2021 |
OnlyDeCapPlease:I as a person no matter how the case might be,i can never embark on such a mission and i will never take it from a woman am married to |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by LadySarah: 9:12am On Aug 09, 2021 |
MufasaLion: My colleagues husband allowed her. They had a son before he left who is 7 yrs but has come back twice in those years including just the past Christmas. If you see the mad ride he sent her last mth... He told her just don't make it obvious.It is happening but Alot of Nigerian guys disbelief it reason why paternity fraud is rampant here. Imagine 7 yrs without your partner |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by MufasaLion: 9:26am On Aug 09, 2021 |
LadySarah: That type of man is rare and I think he's dropped his African mentality too because an average African man ain't gonna allow that. |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by OnlyDeCapPlease(m): 9:37am On Aug 09, 2021 |
Map1: I have personally never been in such situation, but I closely know 2 people that were. Their financial situation was very very bad with children to take care of. They were tired of being charity case and taking insults from all and sundry. The opportunity came up for the woman to relocate and they grabbed it with 4 hands. Just pray that you never find yourself in such a situation. |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by Mr5050(m): 10:05am On Aug 09, 2021 |
Wetin concerns me so long as say the woman dey send money come naija she can do as she wish who sex epp, after all if u die she go still have her engine serviced by another man. |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by ibro360(m): 10:34am On Aug 09, 2021 |
Tajbol4splend:Long distance marriage |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by TWLifestyle: 11:11am On Aug 09, 2021 |
Kuriosmynd:lol , why are you putting the husband ? Do you pity women when their husbands are distributing penys up and down ? |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by frozen70(f): 11:58am On Aug 09, 2021 |
Kuriosmynd: You see my point, he us stranded but have hope that one day, he will get there |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by TWLifestyle: 12:52pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
MufasaLion:lol but you people be knacking any and everything and still expect love ? Lol , women are now following in your footsteps . 1 Like |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by MufasaLion: 12:56pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
TWLifestyle: That's called cheating |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by TWLifestyle: 1:18pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
paulolee:it's so funny when you people describe women as hoes - the master hoe gender calling women hoes . Lol |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by Map1(m): 3:37pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
OnlyDeCapPlease:hnmmmmm |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by paulolee(m): 3:42pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
TWLifestyle:lolz |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by caandi: 4:20pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
Well I don’t know about the man, but I’ve seen women who keep themselves for years without sex, some are young widows and after their husbands pass on, they won’t remarry or get involved with another man but they will stay for the kids and train them singlehanded, you see women can control their urge better than men, she might masturbate when she’s Hot but might not just cheat. Know this nd know peace |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by Kuriosmynd: 6:35pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
caandi:It's a lie. U can never know a woman's sexual habit, because if she had a fling or one night stand somewhere, she will never come out to say it, especially when she's trying to protect her image |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by TWLifestyle: 7:24pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
Divinehealer:it's always so funny seeing men wail hypocritically about how painful cheating is - something they forced down the throats of women under the misguided notion that they are naturally polygamous - they are just learning now that women too are naturally polygamous - very bitter lesson 2 Likes |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by TWLifestyle: 7:27pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
danowena:womwn are not wired differently- they were forced to accept your cheating because of the patriarchal nature of our culture . Women are also naturally polygamous - as a lot of.you have started learning . By the time we teach you ppl finish we will either all become monogamous or all become polygamous . |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by TWLifestyle: 7:45pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
TolaniLuv:why would their lives end miserably ? Lol . If cheating while married would make your life end miserably probably 90% of Nigerian men should be dying miserably becos they cheat on their wives. |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by TWLifestyle: 7:51pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
Toks2008:it 9s your own conclusion that is twisted - any woman an African man cannot control to him means she is the one controlling him- the only reason they feel oyinbo women control them is becos they cannot control her . Asking for equality from a typical africqn man to him means you want to control him . 1 Like |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by TWLifestyle: 7:53pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
MufasaLion:pls - are you running a zoo ? This one that you want to be "taming" humans . |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by MufasaLion: 7:55pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by TWLifestyle: 7:59pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
Toks2008:but there is justificatuon for men, right ? Lol . You ppl dont know anything - that's why hypocrisy is bad . U ppl are just learning that women too dont like eating same dish all the time. Looooool - we like rice a lot but beans too is good every once in a while . 1 Like |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by TWLifestyle: 8:09pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
Toks2008:you peoples hypocrisy is your biggest problem and undoing - how long did you think holding women to a certain standard while letting men roam freely would last ? You think distributing penis up and down would not reduce the loyalty your wife has for you ? You think slaying everything in skirt would not cause resentment in any wife ? Let me tell you something - a woman might not go looking to cheat but if it comes her way and she knows her husband cheats - she likely will not say no - especially women of nowadays . 2 Likes |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by TolaniLuv: 2:27am On Aug 11, 2021 |
TWLifestyle: So, you are justifying cheating? And Una claim to be most religious country in the world ? |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by Kuriosmynd: 8:28am On Aug 11, 2021 |
TolaniLuv:cheating can't be ruled out in life |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by 77star: 2:15am On Aug 16, 2021 |
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Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by Cromagnon: 12:21am On Sep 27, 2021 |
TWLifestyle:na You will just be left unmarried |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by Cromagnon: 12:23am On Sep 27, 2021 |
TWLifestyle:men getting multiple �. Women buying dogs and dying alone |
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