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| I Feel The Pressure To Get Married But … by webm: 3:52pm On Aug 16, 2021 |
I’m in my early 30s and I have stable income. Well enough to take care of a family but I can’t find a woman that matches my spec. I feel the pressure to get married, mum is disturbing but apart from that I still feel the pressure inside of me to get married latest by next year. Is it normal to feel the pressure that you need to get married as a man? I have girlfriends actually but all doesn’t match up. They’re lacking in one thing or the other and I feel I have failed. Married? How did you make the choice? |
| Re: I Feel The Pressure To Get Married But … by 2dice01: 3:57pm On Aug 16, 2021 |
In falsePhophet voice I see leakage condom I see one of your Girlfriends pregnant The one from IMO state precisely I see you have twin  1 Like |
| Re: I Feel The Pressure To Get Married But … by Cholls(m): 4:00pm On Aug 16, 2021 |
My brother it's a normal thing... Maturity is telling on you |
| Re: I Feel The Pressure To Get Married But … by fati2001(m): 4:04pm On Aug 16, 2021 |
webm: 1 Like |
| Re: I Feel The Pressure To Get Married But … by Botking: 4:10pm On Aug 16, 2021 |
2dice01: I haven't seen someone as funny as that young man you mention in this place My goodness hahaha 1 Like |
| Re: I Feel The Pressure To Get Married But … by pansophist(m): 4:12pm On Aug 16, 2021 |
I've said it before, and I'll say it again. Every man will come to realise that it is easier to actually make money than finding a good, virtous woman. They are rare, and for those that finds one, keep her tight. Ever wonder why it is "he that finds a good wife (not husband) finds a good thing? Op, try enter church, library, and utilise recommendations. Of course there are bad women in all these places, but the chances of meeting a good one is high. Also, test her virtue, it's the most important thing for every man. It is true that most women will say "yes" to a well-to-do man, but not every woman will pass virtue test. I wrote about it in the link below. Goodluck. https://www.nairaland.com/6253429/traits-man-should-observe-woman 11 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: I Feel The Pressure To Get Married But … by slawormiir: 4:14pm On Aug 16, 2021 |
Damnnn niggar Isoright |
| Re: I Feel The Pressure To Get Married But … by Iamagoodgirll: 4:19pm On Aug 16, 2021 |
slawormiir:is that all you have to say? Op wants advise tell him what to do  |
| Re: I Feel The Pressure To Get Married But … by 2dice01: 4:32pm On Aug 16, 2021 |
Botking: Well there alot of funny guys on nairaland |
| Re: I Feel The Pressure To Get Married But … by pocohantas(f): 4:41pm On Aug 16, 2021 |
Is it normal to feel the pressure that you need to get married as a man? Yes it is normal. It is on Nairaland I got to know that men do not feel the pressure to marry or that men have stopped marrying. Even Izz.ou that is not up to 24 is already asking me to introduce my friends to him. Do what your fellow men have been doing, go back to your (ex) friend list, the ones that knew you back in the days when you were struggling. Pick the most virtuous (single) one and reconnect. If you think it would be very easy to meet a new woman now and start the whole talking-stage again, sorry for you o. On second thought, since you are very concerned about them wanting you for your house and “good car”, you can try hooking up with a woman that has a house and good car too. That way you guys will have two houses and two (or more) good cars. She might not be as young as you like them though. I wish you luck. 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Feel The Pressure To Get Married But … by izzou(m): 6:17pm On Aug 16, 2021 |
pocohantas:  My first daughter would be the same age with you. Have some respect before I slap the small sense left in your head. Nonsense |
| Re: I Feel The Pressure To Get Married But … by Gerrard59(m): 6:18pm On Aug 16, 2021 |
Country is about to be islamised, niggas are thinking of getting married. What a malady! |
| Re: I Feel The Pressure To Get Married But … by pocohantas(f): 6:20pm On Aug 16, 2021 |
| Re: I Feel The Pressure To Get Married But … by The5DME(m): 6:23pm On Aug 16, 2021 |
webm:Go village go pick wife. |
| Re: I Feel The Pressure To Get Married But … by Nobody: 6:23pm On Aug 16, 2021 |
Pray about it |
| Re: I Feel The Pressure To Get Married But … by izzou(m): 6:24pm On Aug 16, 2021 |
pocohantas: Since the day you turned 36, we no go hear word again. Respect yourself oh. 1 Like |
| Re: I Feel The Pressure To Get Married But … by Gerrard59(m): 6:30pm On Aug 16, 2021 |
pocohantas: If they should marry (expectedly, they will want to be fathers), they should be prepared for the following: - To convert to Islam one day - Die in the process of not being a Muslim - Their daughters will be married off to jihadists, whether they like it or not. - Their sons will be drafted to fight jihad - Flee the sh!thole In summary, the Nigeria of today will be a paradise to the Nigeria in a decade's time. |
| Re: I Feel The Pressure To Get Married But … by shegzhkn: 6:39pm On Aug 16, 2021 |
Gerrard59:Lol, but the truth of the matter is - it's almost impossible for substantial amount of nigeria citizen seeking better lifes to flee considering the relative size of it population. Moving to distant shores may seems good but the real deal is to make the country work - that's the hard fact. |
| Re: I Feel The Pressure To Get Married But … by Nobody: 7:52pm On Aug 16, 2021 |
webm: When you say spec, what exactly do you mean? Are you referring to BEAUTY? webm: Not at all bro, having a car does 50% of the job for you. Whatever you need to tell a woman before she dates you, It has been reduced to 50% just by driving in a nice car. What you don't realize is Broke Women want Financially stable men, Rich Women also want Financially stable men. Nobody wants a broke man for any reason at any point of their life, so It is better to be on the easier path of life. |
| Re: I Feel The Pressure To Get Married But … by webm: 8:43pm On Aug 16, 2021 |
truthsayer009:Tall, beautiful and intelligent(able to hold serious conversation) and good manners . |
| Re: I Feel The Pressure To Get Married But … by Nobody: 9:09pm On Aug 16, 2021 |
webm: Hmm okay. It is super easy to get Tall and Beautiful. intelligent(able to hold serious conversation) and good manners is where the problem lies. At the end, you might have to do some tradeoffs. |
| Re: I Feel The Pressure To Get Married But … by Sonnobax15(m): 9:11pm On Aug 16, 2021 |
 This life no just balance.. One thing na to hustle make money, another thing na to find woman wey get sense Even though if she no get complete sense self,at least get the one wey differentiate you from goat small |
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