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Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by Erickymania(m): 2:10pm On Aug 17, 2021 |
lalasticlala:It is very very alright. Perfect match |
Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by SonofGod231: 2:11pm On Aug 17, 2021 |
lalasticlala:Sex-obsessed society. So as I dey so na one small tin tin go dey jump around my car say na my gf. Shame dey catch me sef no matter how attractive she is. Matured fleshes anytime. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by Sanchez01: 2:11pm On Aug 17, 2021 |
18 is an adult already. However, the gap is a whole lot. I personally wouldn't dream of it if I was 30 as I'd actually feel like a sugar daddy. In the end, it is all about the age of consent and whether or not 18 is considered an adult in that locality. 18 vs 30? It just doesn't sit right with me. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by Godi25(m): 2:12pm On Aug 17, 2021 |
It depends on the level of understanding between both of them. I know of a case like this n u won't know the age difference except being told yet the have a great understanding of each other. Right understanding and tolerance is what I think matters 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by Hamiltonii: 2:14pm On Aug 17, 2021 |
The world indeed thrive on pretense. I've reported a girl of about 15 I saw with a man of over 50 to her mother. I was shocked when the woman asked me what my business was. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by mrgreen4real(m): 2:15pm On Aug 17, 2021 |
Don't ask a Hausa man this question 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by hammer567: 2:16pm On Aug 17, 2021 |
lalasticlala: IT IS WRONG BUT THE WORLD IS NOT A PERFECT PLACE TO EXPECT PERFECTION. CC: COCOCANDY 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by gsmphoneseller: 2:16pm On Aug 17, 2021 |
Iamagoodgirll:At what age did you start dating? 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by favy19(f): 2:16pm On Aug 17, 2021 |
Lol the age bracket is too much o |
Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by Hangulsaram: 2:17pm On Aug 17, 2021 |
Let me ask Ned Nwoko and Regina Daniel. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by MYHUBBY: 2:19pm On Aug 17, 2021 |
Vinnie2000: you too go won date a lady, you no go test her loyalty? whether she's 18 or 100 I test a lady loyalty before going into relationship 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by dangoteinlaw: 2:20pm On Aug 17, 2021 |
See question oh. Oya visit instamessage or codedruns and see what 16yo are doing. A 16yo put "i will fxck u till you die" on her profile lol 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by Nobody: 2:20pm On Aug 17, 2021 |
It's morally wrong and borderline pedo because an 18 year old is either just finishing high school or a freshman at uni. The emotional and mental disparity is great because both are at different stages in their lives. The prefrontal cortex of the 18 year old isn't even fully developed. Why would you date someone that young if not for ulterior motives? Men who actively seek younger women most times do so because they're easier to manipulate and control which gives room for abuse. What happened to the women in your age-range that you don't want to date them? You have more things in common with them than the 18 year old. For those using the law in support of this age gap, legality doesn't equate morality. Just because something is legal doesn't necessarily mean it's right. 6 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by hammer567: 2:20pm On Aug 17, 2021 |
favy19: THAT IS THE ONLY CONSIDERATION BUT PUT ANOTHER 5 YEARS, PEOPLE WILL TURN A BLIND EYE. I.E. 35 YEARS OLD DATING 23 YEARS OLD. THIS IS THE DIMENSION THAT MAKES MATTERS SUCH AS THIS NOT BLACK OR WHITE. THERE IS THE AGE DISCRIMINATION DIMENSION AND SO MANY ASPECTS. THOUGH IT IS NOT IDEAL, IT CAN HAPPEN, DO WE KILL OR JAIL THEM WEN IT HAPPENS? NO! CC:COCOCANDY 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by TheGift: 2:20pm On Aug 17, 2021 |
If you are asking whether it is against the Law, the answer is No! 18 years old is marriageable age , in most, if not all the parts of the world if you are asking whether it is right for you? Well , it depends. Are you the kind of guy that just want a Woman He will point an do to, who has not true sense of Her own identity. Someone you can "mould into the shape that you want" as I have some guys say? Someone that will just be there to wash, cook and bang? Then you may go ahead. Remember though, by the time you start losing your libido might be when Hers is starting to pick up. So be ready to keep satisfy her needs, otherwise, younger guys may increasingly become. Personally, I wont marry any woman more than seven years younger than me (my wife is six) , especially cos i know women are usually like 4-7 years more mature than their male counterparts. I like a Woman that I can relate to, that can advise me, that can stand for me, that i really can respect (Respect is the most important factor, for partners in a relationship to have for each other). Not the one that will be calling me when I am away, because She doesnt know how to handle basic issues of life, like where the change over is when nepa takes light , or how to engage nepa when they come... I dont want a child to raise my child. I want a partner, a true helper. And those are usually strong and mature women. Having said that, there are some mature and wise 18 year old's by virtue of the natural wisdom and early life experiences. So if you have thought about the next 50 years of marriage. when He'll be 80 and She'll be 68 (God willing) and He's still ok. then, once again, It is not wrong, in the eyes of the Law lalasticlala: 6 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by baralatie(m): 2:20pm On Aug 17, 2021 |
Romanoff:Respect comes with a lot of add ONS and accessories |
Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by Pimine: 2:21pm On Aug 17, 2021 |
Aswearugaaad Which kain question be dis nítorí Ọlọ́run! An 18-year old is an adult for fvckssake! There's nothing right or wrong here; Do what thou wilt. |
Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by hammer567: 2:23pm On Aug 17, 2021 |
Pimine: THIS IS THE PART WHERE I WOULD ARGUE THAT 18 YEARS OLD SHOULD BE PLACED IN THE TEENAGER BRACKET. MENTALLY AND PHYSICALLY THEIR IS NO DIFFERNCE BETWEEN 18 YEARS OLD AND 17 YEARS OLD AND EVEN 16 YEARS OLD. WHY ARE SOME TEENAGERS CHILD AND ANOTHER TEENAGER ADULT? COCOCANDY MAY DISAGREE. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by Nobody: 2:24pm On Aug 17, 2021 |
Paedophilia 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by Realmi: 2:24pm On Aug 17, 2021 |
GIANTPLUSHUB:they will even tell u they prefer older men...they will call the ones in their age range small boys... u will hear " I dont do small boys" 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by meccuno: 2:24pm On Aug 17, 2021 |
Xenry: |
Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by Goldbw122(m): 2:26pm On Aug 17, 2021 |
There will be too much disrespect. |
Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by raphy(m): 2:26pm On Aug 17, 2021 |
PacAmaru: I understand well them many for social media no bully him too much make him no commit suicide o. |
Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by silverx(m): 2:28pm On Aug 17, 2021 |
There is nothing wrong with that nau. |
Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by loswhite(m): 2:30pm On Aug 17, 2021 |
Iamagoodgirll:lol so she should wait for another 5 years to turn matured adult...lol |
Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by IPIGSRSHALLOW: 2:31pm On Aug 17, 2021 |
Ojukwu was banging Bianca while she was still living in her father's house. Go figure. |
Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by Darreytinho10(m): 2:36pm On Aug 17, 2021 |
Very rice and stew gan ni |
Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by Johel(m): 2:38pm On Aug 17, 2021 |
slawormiir: Will love to smoke weed and chill with you someday...Damn niggur!,your head is Dia! 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by Pimine: 2:40pm On Aug 17, 2021 |
hammer567:Aswearugaaad I beg to differ, bruh. Some are late bloomers while others are early bloomers, but that shouldn't change how we view them. At 18, you're mentally capable of making wholesome decisions and can also be legally held accountable for your actions. Whether the lady is physically mature or not is irrelevant to the discussion - there are adults who look like kids, after all. She is an adult and should be treated as one. All I'm saying is if the lady is question is 18, there's no right or wrong answer. Do what feels good for the moment. You only live once. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 2:41pm On Aug 17, 2021 |
Guys who date girls far younger than them have no good intentions for such girls. They are dating them because they need someone they can intimidate, abuse both physically and emotionally and the person won't be able to reason good enough to walk away. They want someone that can not contribute anything to their life and after jumping from one child to another, they will come here to tell how the female gender have nothing to offer except sex. Date a 13yrs old if you like o, don't just come here to abuse your mother and all the women in your generation just because of what those kids have don to you. 5 Likes 1 Share |
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