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DELAY IN MARRIAGE
Girls at the age of 18-24 years always attract serious men who are fully ready to marry them, but at this age most of our girls/sisters never wish to hear anything about marriage.
1. I'm too young for that.
2. Who cares about marriage.
3. I'm focused on my books.
4. I want to gather some money first.
5. Marriage is full of problems.
These are some of few statements ladies talk of at their youth age.
But these girls will be having serious & series of sex relationship with small boys of their age, because at that age, they always have high rate of boys, guys and men coming for them, but they will prefer to choose those boys rather than the real men who want to marry them. They are still young to marry right, but they are not young to have sex with boys.
No problem, God is watching you.
At age of 25-27, parents will start asking them the following questions;
1. How far?
2. Don't you have any one yet ?
3. Are you not planning to get married ?
4. Are you seeing that all your mates are getting married ?
5. Don't you know you are getting old?
But mind you, parents only see the outside of their daughters, not knowing there is nothing left inside.
With all these questions by her own parents, she will now be thinking and asking herself things like: My mates are marrying,
1. Does it mean am old enough to marry?
2. Hmmm, how should I go about it?
3. My boyfriends are not serious about asking my hand in marriage.
4. They are not even ready to marry yet.
5. Well, Allāh knows the best. I believe in Allāh.
See oooh...!, she has started putting her blame on God. "Allāh's time is the best" OK, I agree for argument sake.
At age 27-30 they now start looking for men to marry not boys to have sex and play with again.
They will start looking for serious relationship that will lead to marriage, but unfortunately, at this age of 27-30 not all men will be asking their hand in marriage.
You will see them forcing themselves to marry a man who don't want to marry them. Please we beg you, leave us alone.
No single man at age 27-30 will like to marry a lady of 30-35. Now you hear the sisters say age does not matter.
My sister, it matters a lot.
Imagine buying a rotten tomato for $10 and your friend buys a fresh one for $7. Yes, that's how it feels like in marriage too.
Remember you rejected men because you think you were too young. What makes you think your old age does not matter to us?
That's why some men go back to their villages to find young girl to marry when the city ones are not serious about marriage and those that are serious happen to be old for them.
At age 30-35, her friends will ask her:
1. Why are you not married yet by this age of yours?
2. Is it not getting too late for you ?
You will hear her asking you some silly questions like...
1. Are you Allāh?
2. Or do you want to marry me?
3. Is it a crime to be single at 30 or 35?
4. Did I see a man willing to marry me but I refused?
5. Allāh knows the best for everyone please.
At age 30-35 they will start praying like never before, moving from one church to another. If she's a Muslim, she will start praying night prayers, fasting and dressing modestly.
If you ask her for dating, she would burst out to say:
1. My brother, I'm not like them.
2. Am looking for a serious man, a husband not dating.
3. If you truly love me go and see my parents for marriage.
4. I can't do anything with you without my parents concern.
Dear parents, they have started knowing your worth. When she was 18-24, she was doing everything without considering you as parents.
You don't expect a young man of 27-30 to marry you of 30-35 as his house wife when there are younger pretty girls out there.
Even if he chooses to ignore your age and marry you, his family and friends will discriminate you.
Men that will be interested to marry you will be of 45 yrs and above and mind you, those men are married with kids except you wanna be second or third wife.
Everything in life has its own season and time.
There's no lady at age 30-35 seeking for marriage who haven't been approached during 18-24. But by then, they were busily jumping from clubs/parties to hotel rooms looking for FUN not MARRIAGE.
Not everything is about prayer. Allāh who created you has made a plan for you. But when you change the plan or miss the road, please don't disturb the peace of Allāh. Because, He will be busy planning for your younger sister.
Why do we have high rate of single mothers and single ladies? Does it mean there no men but only boys?
Thousands of working class ladies are out there confirmed single. Your Master's of PhD is ZERO without a husband.
Yes, Education is key but don't neglect a marriage proposal all in the name of your studies. Both of you are matured enough to wait if you're serious of getting married.
It's never too late to ask for forgiveness or have a second thought of mind. For our God is a merciful and gracious Lord.
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Well, I have stopped rolling with broke ladies. You sef should get money... It's not all about big boobs and backsides.
All I know is that one day all their shakara go end.
Make I just dey watch them from afar .

Who was the foooooooool that likened a single lady in her 30s to rotten tomatoes?

If the pressure of marriage ain't much in this society, paternity fraud won't be on the high.

First to comment.. front page please

I hope single ladies are reading this. You better grab a husband material now or you will end up saying "Allah knows best."
Op, you did well. You deserve this.

keycash:
First to comment.. front page please

Stop using Glo

AutoChick4U:
Who was the foooooooool that likened a single lady in her 30s to rotten tomatoes?

If the pressure of marriage ain't much in this society, paternity fraud won't be on the high.

Chai

No longer Evening newspapers.

AutoChick4U:
Who was the foooooooool that likened a single lady in her 30s to rotten tomatoes?

If the pressure of marriage ain't much in this society, paternity fraud won't be on the high.

You don't meant it?

A lady between 27-30 is not yet late for marriage..where do you guys copy all this trash from

Davash222:

Chai

No longer Evening newspapers.

Anyone mocking those in their 30s no go smell 30 naw as its now a crime to grow

AutoChick4U:
Anyone mocking those in their 30s no go smell 30 naw as its now a crime to grow

Is 30 the cut off mark

Davash222:

Is 30 the cut off mark

See its not possible for everyone to be married, so many contributing factors.

AutoChick4U:
See its not possible for everyone to be married, so many contributing factors.

I'm not here for those long talks.

Most of what was written from number 1 to 5 are even false generalization.

Many young and decent girls at that young age fall victims to wolves in the name of "I will marry you" at that age.

The society will frown at you if you keep many suitors, yet if you hold on to one and wait till he proposes, you'd see yourself waiting between 3 or more years till the guy is ready.

Yet, if you dump him for a guy that's ready, society will still judge you and say "girls marry who is ready, not who they love".

That's not to say after waiting 3 to 5 years for ghee guy to be ready, he wouldn't dump you or you wouldn't catch him cheating o.

Until your decent sister gets served premium breakfast multiple times, you will not understand what women go through out there.

That's why you'd come up with this unfounded list that you came up with.

AutoChick4U:
Anyone mocking those in their 30s no go smell 30 naw as its now a crime to grow

It's not only about marriage , wot about chances of child birth that drops with age in women

bigpicture001:


It's not only about marriage , wot about chances of child birth that drops with age in women

Baba women in their 30s are fertile biko abi haven't you seen barren 20s ladies? So free that mentality

Hmmmm life, happiness, ain't about marriage, happiness can come from anywhere.
But we all will feel unfulfilled without getting a partner I pray when it comes we won't regret it.
I know its crazy out here but we have to move on.
PhD simply means you have been busy and working hard and being busy means you have to neglect some other things we can't have everything we want in life, they will be something you want that will take time to come.
Last, last what we really want is happiness and comfort, I pray we all get it.

AutoChick4U:
Baba women in their 30s are fertile biko abi haven't you seen barren 20s ladies? So free that mentality

I didn't say they are infertile... Delayed conceptions begin at 30 for most women av seen more than 200evidences

bigpicture001:


I didn't say they are infertile... Delayed conceptions begin at 30 for most women av seen more than 200evidences

Focus on d positive. If bothered about conception, impregnate and marry. Simple

Romanoff:
Most of what was written from number 1 to 5 are even false generalization.

Many young and decent girls at that young age fall victims to wolves in the name of "I will marry you" at that age.

The society will frown at you if you keep many suitors, yet if you hold on to one and wait till he proposes, you'd see yourself waiting between 3 or more years till the guy is ready.

Yet, if you dump him for a guy that's ready, society will still judge you and say "girls marry who is ready, not who they love".

That's not to say after waiting 3 to 5 years for ghee guy to be ready, he wouldn't dump you or you wouldn't catch him cheating o.

Until your decent sister gets served premium breakfast multiple times, you will not understand what women go through out there.

That's why you'd come up with this unfounded list that you came up with.

Be calming down ok.....
Am aware such post is fucking painful and hurtful towards you
Beside wetin concern me

I pity Men who date Nigerian ladies
Surely It will end in everlasting tears..............

Spider20:

Be calming down ok.....
Am aware such post is fucking painful and hurtful towards you
Beside wetin concern me

I pity Men who date Nigerian ladies
Surely It will end in everlasting tears..............

Painful towards me?

I'm not hurt at the least bit. Just trying to correct some false generalization.

Looks like I succeeded.

AutoChick4U:
Focus on d positive. If bothered about conception, impregnate and marry. Simple

I am male not female, na thier p. Not mine.. I have more than 30 ladies of "mariageble age" on my street alone roaming and seeking serious men just to be serious with them Dem no see

Run water:
Consistent electricity:
Functioning educational system:
Functioning society:

Women matters: 100%

Life of an African man is shameful!

The number of scholars in women affairs is increasing everyday, supposing we have channel this kind of energy to build our economy,at least, the country would be great.

O P, just leave women alone. Whether they are married at the age of 40 , that's their business. Let's focus on our damaged country.

bigpicture001:


I am male not female, na thier p. Not mine.. I have more than 30 ladies of "mariageble age" on my street alone roaming and seeking serious men just to be serious with them Dem no see

lol, blame the men who hustle until their 40s before settling down.

AutoChick4U:
lol, blame the men who hustle until their 40s before settling down.

My immidade ex dumped me even after all the sacrifices, sh works and earns good , she is 27. And feels her parts no dey market...I no pray bad for her ooi...but that's exactly how it starts..she says she can't marry anyone who earns even 150k .

The guy must b fair, tall, earns meaningful, Igbo, will not d sex with her, will not ask her for any financial asist, jus be eloquent and intelligent......she graduated and concluded NYSc at 22. Now 27. No partner..na so e take dey start....

Ladies are the architect if their own marital problem cuz of perfect choice

After whōring around, they will then look for a man to marry them.

bigpicture001:

My immidade ex dumped me even after all the sacrifices, sh works and earns good , she is 27. And feels her parts no dey market...I no pray bad for her ooi...but that's exactly how it starts..she says she can't marry anyone who earns even 150k .

The guy must b fair, tall, earns meaningful, Igbo, will not d sex with her, will not ask her for any financial asist, jus be eloquent and intelligent......she graduated and concluded NYSc at 22. Now 27. No partner..na so e take dey start....

Ladies are the architect if their own marital problem cuz of perfect choice

Mr man move on. Next time enter a relationship with a lady who loves you not just because she got money. Las las peace of mind in d home is important

AutoChick4U:
Mr man move on. Next time enter a relationship with a lady who loves you not just because she got money. Las las peace of mind in d home is important

Talk about the topic on ground nobody dey wail about lost gf......