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Why Do Southern Ladies Delay Marriage From Teenage Ages To 30s N 40s by Quality20(m): 10:33am On Oct 26, 2023
I'm still wondering and can't understand this at all as a typical northerner. Do they need to gather so much sexual experience with various men before marriage to the lucky man or is it money they are gathering? Or is a lady with much sexual experience and body counts much preferred for marriage?

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Re: Why Do Southern Ladies Delay Marriage From Teenage Ages To 30s N 40s by Yugoslavia247(m): 10:35am On Oct 26, 2023
Quality20:
I'm still wondering and can't understand this at all as a typical northerner. Do they need to gather so much sexual experience with various men before marriage to the lucky man or is it money they are gathering? Or is a lady with much sexual experience and body counts much preferred for marriage?

This is how terrorist begins

Very soon you will say death to all southern women

Inshallah na me go kill you by that time.

Every day Southern women.

If you love northern women why not focus on them

Terrorist

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Re: Why Do Southern Ladies Delay Marriage From Teenage Ages To 30s N 40s by budaatum: 10:49am On Oct 26, 2023
Education and a job, to be precise.

Women these days are not settling for some ignorant teenage husband who can't feed himself not to talk of a woman and children, so women are educating themselves so they can feed themselves.

Pity for you ignorant teenagers is you now need to up your game to be worth marrying.

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Re: Why Do Southern Ladies Delay Marriage From Teenage Ages To 30s N 40s by Quality20(m): 11:00am On Oct 26, 2023
budaatum:
Education and a job, to be precise.

Women these days are not settling for some ignorant teenage husband who can't feed himself not to talk of a woman and children, so women are educating themselves so they can feed themselves.

Pity for you ignorant teenagers is you now need to up your game to be worth marrying.
but don't u think that teenage marriage that is so common in the north, is the reason the population of the north is far more than that of the south and why the north dictates Nation politics?

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Re: Why Do Southern Ladies Delay Marriage From Teenage Ages To 30s N 40s by budaatum: 11:10am On Oct 26, 2023
Quality20:
but don't u think that teenage marriage that is so common in the north, is the reason the population of the north is far more than that of the south and why the north dictates Nation politics?

The North dictates the nation's politics because they mostly unite around the common cause of religion, which is not the case in the divided south which is also divided by tribe.

Even if you southerners marry as children and have twice as many children you'd still not unite to dictate the nations politics because of your disunity.

And we women are not stupid enough to let you use us as you will!

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Re: Why Do Southern Ladies Delay Marriage From Teenage Ages To 30s N 40s by Quality20(m): 12:01pm On Oct 26, 2023
budaatum:


The North dictates the nation's politics because they mostly unite around the common cause of religion, which is not the case in the divided south which is also divided by tribe.

Even if you southerners marry as children and have twice as many children you'd still not unite to dictate the nations politics because of your disunity.

And we women are not stupid enough to let you use us as you will!
marrying women of younger ages is not using them at will

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Re: Why Do Southern Ladies Delay Marriage From Teenage Ages To 30s N 40s by Anny69: 5:16pm On Oct 26, 2023
budaatum:
Education and a job, to be precise.

Women these days are not settling for some ignorant teenage husband who can't feed himself not to talk of a woman and children, so women are educating themselves so they can feed themselves.

Pity for you ignorant teenagers is you now need to up your game to be worth marrying.
I love youuuuu!!!

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Re: Why Do Southern Ladies Delay Marriage From Teenage Ages To 30s N 40s by Jman06(m): 6:20pm On Oct 26, 2023
Op, that is why baby factory business is common especially in the southeast!

At the rate the Igbos in particular are going, I foresee the Igbo race going extinct in the nearest future.

Some people cry about islamization of Igbos and total domination of the country's political arena by Muslims and northerners, but the truth is that with the way the country is currently tilted, it's only a matter of small time before it happens!

Greed and adoption of western lifestyle and culture are the nails that would eventually nail the coffins of Igbo's existence in Nigeria!

Education and exposure of the females in Igboland is not doing that tribe any good!

The only thing that can salvage the situation is if Igbos are granted independence such that we can manage ourselves but nobody is ready to grant us independence.

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Re: Why Do Southern Ladies Delay Marriage From Teenage Ages To 30s N 40s by victory36(m): 6:29pm On Oct 26, 2023
Jman06:
Op, that is why baby factory business is common especially in the southeast!

At the rate the Igbos in particular are going, I foresee the Igbo race going extinct in the nearest future.

Some people cry about islamization of Igbos and total domination of the country's political arena by Muslims and northerners, but the truth is that with the way the country is currently tilted, it's only a matter of small time before it happens!

Greed and adoption of western lifestyle and culture are the nails that would eventually nail the coffins of Igbo's existence in Nigeria!

Education and exposure of the females in Igboland is not doing that tribe any good!

The only thing that can salvage the situation is if Igbos are granted independence such that we can manage ourselves but nobody is ready to grant us independence.
Jesus Christ! This is the most retarded comment I've seen in my life. So education is now a bad thing right? We should breed almajiris like the northerners do is what you are trying to say?

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Re: Why Do Southern Ladies Delay Marriage From Teenage Ages To 30s N 40s by okoroemeka(m): 6:37pm On Oct 26, 2023
Quality20:
I'm still wondering and can't understand this at all as a typical northerner. Do they need to gather so much sexual experience with various men before marriage to the lucky man or is it money they are gathering? Or is a lady with much sexual experience and body counts much preferred for marriage?
from 15-17 yrs down they stay in primary and secondary school,from 17-24yrs they stay in University or learn a trade or handwork,from 25yrs up she is working and busy,southern women are not doll baby that men we use to play at 15-16 yrs and call the charade marriage,keep on marrying young girls that are suppose to be in secondary schools studying

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Re: Why Do Southern Ladies Delay Marriage From Teenage Ages To 30s N 40s by Jman06(m): 6:48pm On Oct 26, 2023
victory36:
Jesus Christ! This is the most retarded comment I've seen in my life. So education is now a bad thing right? We should breed almajiris like the northerners do is what you are trying to say?
I'm not saying you should breed like almajiri.

My comment simply points to the wide difference between the northerners and Southerners in terms of lifestyle and to call you to action on the need to work towards possible actualization of Biafra because that is the only thing that can help preserve the Igbo race.
Re: Why Do Southern Ladies Delay Marriage From Teenage Ages To 30s N 40s by Nobody: 7:16pm On Oct 26, 2023
They marry young but before 30 they are divorced and married again at least twice. They breed children they leave to streets to take care of, don't go to school except how to bomb people is involved, they carry the nations politics little wonder Nigeria is where it is. Like do we really allow those people determine who leads us? cry cry .
Op we southern women don't envy this at all. grin We are not the best yet but certainly not the least. Leave southern women and what they do with their bodies alone.

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Re: Why Do Southern Ladies Delay Marriage From Teenage Ages To 30s N 40s by Nobody: 7:18pm On Oct 26, 2023
Jman06:
Op, that is why baby factory business is common especially in the southeast!

At the rate the Igbos in particular are going, I foresee the Igbo race going extinct in the nearest future.

Some people cry about islamization of Igbos and total domination of the country's political arena by Muslims and northerners, but the truth is that with the way the country is currently tilted, it's only a matter of small time before it happens!

Greed and adoption of western lifestyle and culture are the nails that would eventually nail the coffins of Igbo's existence in Nigeria!

Education and exposure of the females in Igboland is not doing that tribe any good!

The only thing that can salvage the situation is if Igbos are granted independence such that we can manage ourselves but nobody is ready to grant us independence.
Why do you always write off topic!

The energy you put in writing nonsense on this forum is amusing grin grin
Re: Why Do Southern Ladies Delay Marriage From Teenage Ages To 30s N 40s by pocohantas(f): 7:21pm On Oct 26, 2023
Persephone1:
They marry young but before 30 they are divorced and married again at least twice. They breed children they leave to streets to take care of, don't go to school except how to bomb people is involved, they carry the nations politics little wonder Nigeria is where it is. Like do we really allow those people determine who leads us? cry cry .
Op we southern women don't envy this at all. grin We are not the best yet but certainly not the least. Leave southern women and what they do with their bodies alone.

Always blabbing about Northern marriage, like we don't see how they roll. Unlike Southern men that berate their women for aging, Northerners would marry their aged,widowed and serial divorced women at 50 sef. It is an abberation for their women to remain single and no, she wouldn't be left to bottom barrel men. She can very well hook a former governor as his 4th wife.

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Re: Why Do Southern Ladies Delay Marriage From Teenage Ages To 30s N 40s by Jman06(m): 7:28pm On Oct 26, 2023
Persephone1:
Why do you always write off topic!

The energy you put in writing nonsense on this forum is amusing grin grin
Ok!


Na your energy?
Re: Why Do Southern Ladies Delay Marriage From Teenage Ages To 30s N 40s by Newborn27(f): 7:39pm On Oct 26, 2023
It's because they know that marriage isn't all about having sexual intercourse only.


They believe they need to be responsible for the kids they'd be bringing to the world without them turning to almajiris.


They believe that education is light and d knowledge is power.....a teenager without quality education would end up wasteful to herself...her kids... family and society at large.


They believe that they're a growing child...not a bride at teenage.



My view.

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Re: Why Do Southern Ladies Delay Marriage From Teenage Ages To 30s N 40s by ExudeLoveToAll: 7:41pm On Oct 26, 2023
Quality20:
but don't u think that teenage marriage that is so common in the north, is the reason the population of the north is far more than that of the south and why the north dictates Nation politics?


The population, that's all you know. That population is achieving anything as regards Nigerian development.

What is the GDP and revenue accrued from the south VS that from the North? You would observe that the south is more productive.

Check out the revenue accrued to the federation account, more than 90 percent is from the south.

Population is not meaningful when it's not productive. It not by running to Abuja for monthly allocation with money gotten from the south.

Southern ladies with a view to getting education and contributing meaningfully to the economic development of Nigeria end up getting marriage mostly their mid to late twenties. I give them kudos.

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Re: Why Do Southern Ladies Delay Marriage From Teenage Ages To 30s N 40s by Newborn27(f): 7:47pm On Oct 26, 2023
budaatum:
Education and a job, to be precise.

Women these days are not settling for some ignorant teenage husband who can't feed himself not to talk of a woman and children, so women are educating themselves so they can feed themselves.

Pity for you ignorant teenagers is you now need to up your game to be worth marrying.


It's been a while ma'am...I love the pics attached to your comment.


Hope you're good ma?

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Re: Why Do Southern Ladies Delay Marriage From Teenage Ages To 30s N 40s by oluwaseyi0: 7:48pm On Oct 26, 2023
Quality20:
I'm still wondering and can't understand this at all as a typical northerner. Do they need to gather so much sexual experience with various men before marriage to the lucky man or is it money they are gathering? Or is a lady with much sexual experience and body counts much preferred for marriage?


Have you ever wonder why foreign ladies eg Europeans, US, UK etc don't have their under 18 girls getting married off

It's because women are considered human being just like their male counterpart same thing is applicable in southern Nigeria

A human being need to have a reliable means of livelihood before bringing another kids to this world, in the south it's the responsibility of parents to take care of their kids not throw them away like dustbin into amajiri begging school like you northerner do

For a woman (and man) to achieve the parental responsibility of taking care of her children she need to go to school, or learn a trade or business (you still need to learn business before starting)

This learning takes time irrespective of gender, for you when your kids are throw to the street you celebrate it, in the south you are criticize for it

Check the population of northern beggers in any average southern city, you will cry, this is enough to deter any southern girl from jumping into marriage

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Re: Why Do Southern Ladies Delay Marriage From Teenage Ages To 30s N 40s by kkins25(m): 7:50pm On Oct 26, 2023
Anny69:
I love youuuuu!!!
I love you too!
Re: Why Do Southern Ladies Delay Marriage From Teenage Ages To 30s N 40s by kkins25(m): 7:52pm On Oct 26, 2023
Jman06:
Op, that is why baby factory business is common especially in the southeast!

At the rate the Igbos in particular are going, I foresee the Igbo race going extinct in the nearest future.

Some people cry about islamization of Igbos and total domination of the country's political arena by Muslims and northerners, but the truth is that with the way the country is currently tilted, it's only a matter of small time before it happens!

Greed and adoption of western lifestyle and culture are the nails that would eventually nail the coffins of Igbo's existence in Nigeria!

Education and exposure of the females in Igboland is not doing that tribe any good!

The only thing that can salvage the situation is if Igbos are granted independence such that we can manage ourselves but nobody is ready to grant us independence.
moniker looks familiar... Are u trolling? 🤣
Re: Why Do Southern Ladies Delay Marriage From Teenage Ages To 30s N 40s by Nobody: 8:11pm On Oct 26, 2023
pocohantas:


Always blabbing about Northern marriage, like we don't see how they roll. Unlike Southern men that berate their women for aging, Northerners would marry their aged,widowed and serial divorced women at 50 sef. It is an abberation for their women to remain single and no, she wouldn't be left to bottom barrel men. She can very well hook a former governor as his 4th wife.
It's not their fault it is the southern men that treat and paint their women bad even when these women are doing their best to make life better for them.
Mumu people

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Re: Why Do Southern Ladies Delay Marriage From Teenage Ages To 30s N 40s by Islamisformumu: 8:22pm On Oct 26, 2023
Of course as someone who comes from the global headquarters of illiteracy where 50 year old men can marry 9 year old girls, you can never understand how education changes outlook on life.

Quality20:
I'm still wondering and can't understand this at all as a typical northerner. Do they need to gather so much sexual experience with various men before marriage to the lucky man or is it money they are gathering? Or is a lady with much sexual experience and body counts much preferred for marriage?

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Re: Why Do Southern Ladies Delay Marriage From Teenage Ages To 30s N 40s by Islamisformumu: 8:24pm On Oct 26, 2023
Quality is better than quantity. Even your leaders know that the quality of life in the South is superior to the North.



Quality20:
but don't u think that teenage marriage that is so common in the north, is the reason the population of the north is far more than that of the south and why the north dictates Nation politics?

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Re: Why Do Southern Ladies Delay Marriage From Teenage Ages To 30s N 40s by Makamatic: 8:29pm On Oct 26, 2023
Hiss mumu topic
Re: Why Do Southern Ladies Delay Marriage From Teenage Ages To 30s N 40s by budaatum: 8:33pm On Oct 26, 2023
Quality20:
marrying women of younger ages is not using them at will

Yes it actually is using them at will.

First you deprive said woman of education so you can tie her to a stove. Then you fill her up with your brats you can't or won't care for so she has to go find food to feed them and clothe and educate them too. And since you're the daddy, you don't let her send them to proper school, but insist they become alimanjeri for free food and board while their so called imam teacher sends them out begging for him in the streets.

Guess all you needed them for was to dictate the nations politics, which incidentally, you can't exactly do with ignorant alimanjeris who will eventually turn around and bite your asses.

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Re: Why Do Southern Ladies Delay Marriage From Teenage Ages To 30s N 40s by Anny69: 8:47pm On Oct 26, 2023
kkins25:
I love you too!

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Re: Why Do Southern Ladies Delay Marriage From Teenage Ages To 30s N 40s by Anny69: 8:50pm On Oct 26, 2023
budaatum:


Yes it actually is using them at will.

First you deprive said woman of education so you can tie her to a stove. Then you fill her up with your brats you can't or won't care for so she has to go find food to feed them and clothe and educate them too. And since you're the daddy, you don't let her send them to proper school, but insist they become alimanjeri for free food and board while their so called imam teacher sends them out begging for him in the streets.

Guess all you needed them for was to dictate the nations politics, which incidentally, you can't exactly do with ignorant alimanjeris who will eventually turn around and bite your asses.
Preach!!! cool

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Re: Why Do Southern Ladies Delay Marriage From Teenage Ages To 30s N 40s by pocohantas(f): 8:53pm On Oct 26, 2023
kkins25:

moniker looks familiar... Are u trolling? 🤣

He isn't. Typical redpiller.


Persephone1:
It's not their fault it is the southern men that treat and paint their women bad even when these women are doing their best to make life better for them. Mumu people

Women are trying their best not to be liabilities again, but they won't allow us rest. Everytime women this and that.

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Re: Why Do Southern Ladies Delay Marriage From Teenage Ages To 30s N 40s by Shijawesss: 11:26pm On Oct 26, 2023
Persephone1:
It's not their fault it is the southern men that treat and paint their women bad even when these women are doing their best to make life better for them.
Mumu people

Shut up there don't put the blame on Southern men ..

Northerners see most of u Southern women as prostitute's bcus of the way you expose Ur unclothedness outside ,Bleep any available dick...
Follow alhajis and Hausa boys bcus of small change...

Hardly will u see a Muslim girl date a Christian guy...but u can see thousands of Christians girls dating a Muslim guy who see them as sex objects..

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Re: Why Do Southern Ladies Delay Marriage From Teenage Ages To 30s N 40s by efficiencie(m): 11:37pm On Oct 26, 2023
Quality20:
I'm still wondering and can't understand this at all as a typical northerner. Do they need to gather so much sexual experience with various men before marriage to the lucky man or is it money they are gathering? Or is a lady with much sexual experience and body counts much preferred for marriage?

One, southerns frown at child abuse so they don't deem it fit to marry a lady younger than 18.

Two, if ladies aren't expected to do anything sexually until they are 18 they are encouraged to do other things like going to school, learning a skill etc.

Three, unlike the north where a man can marry and yet hit the streets asking for alms, no southerner in-law or intended bride will take that shit.

Four, martial ceremonies have become a source of income for many in-laws in the south and the economic situation hasn't been friendly enough to empower men to scale martial financial hurdles.

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Re: Why Do Southern Ladies Delay Marriage From Teenage Ages To 30s N 40s by Nobody: 11:57pm On Oct 26, 2023
Shijawesss:


Shut up there don't put the blame on Southern men ..

Northerners see most of u Southern women as prostitute's bcus of the way you expose Ur unclothedness outside ,Bleep any available dick...
Follow alhajis and Hausa boys bcus of small change...

Hardly will u see a Muslim girl date a Christian guy...but u can see thousands of Christians girls dating a Muslim guy who see them as sex objects..
Ehn ehn what did you type self... Lemme quickly brush through, don't mind me i was busy on all those femicide threads on FP.

Reading through....

Mtchew, No sense

Bye!

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