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Re: How i was able to stop dating women below my standard by generalwo(m): 11:31am On Sep 23, 2021
Plead:


All classy women aren't like Tonto.

See how you're trying to convince men to marry poor and worthless women,chai. I'm not a fan of dating or marrying below one's social/financial class.
I don't know why poor folks should be dreaming of marrying rich folks.
.... The lady that fvcked someone on national TV, Erica... She's a high class lady... What about the one that lashed someone on national TV some weeks ago, another high class lady.... Bottom line is.... Before u look for class in a woman, make sure she is capable of being a mother and a wife... Not just a classy lady.....

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Re: How i was able to stop dating women below my standard by komodapson(m): 11:33am On Sep 23, 2021
pansophist:

[b]Only few women [/b]will be attracted to those things if its not accompanied with affluence. To women, especially the Nigerian counterpart, the first step is to have money, then every other things follows. Na just how nature wire them really. Naturally I'm a super humble guy, I don't even ride my car often because I live in a country where transport is absolutely world class. African girls especially Naija girls wey no know me go think say I de suffer lol.

In other words, seek the first (emphasis on "first"wink the kingdom of cash, buoyancy, and every other thing (women, respect, connections etc) shall be added unto you. So if you like, speak grammar like Soyinka, package well like Chimamanda, if you're not financially sophisticated, at best, na friend zone them go park you put. cool

You're being economical with the truth @ bolded...the number is less than a few...lol...its quite a neglible number... None sèf...just not to be absolute
Re: How i was able to stop dating women below my standard by Munzy14(m): 11:34am On Sep 23, 2021
donbachi:
All dis,to just get a woman...I'm very disappointed.

Not even more degrees,skills,spiritual upliftment,building self worth and raising a standard worthy of emulation.to make self a better human in the society.
I weak...cheesy
Re: How i was able to stop dating women below my standard by Pharaoh4rin(m): 11:34am On Sep 23, 2021
I don't know why some men esteemed women more than themfuckingselves.

50cent's 21 Questions
Re: How i was able to stop dating women below my standard by litaninja(m): 11:36am On Sep 23, 2021
This is what you think class is? cry

habitkiller:
I earlier created a thread asking for help from NL members on why do I date girls not up to my standard... link below

https://www.nairaland.com/6535052/why-keep-dating-women-below

Right now my people, I have the solution, forget it o,no one knows u better than yourself, you are the knower" of your situation, well I simply observed if you want to date classy people you have to get classy with...

1)Good clothes
2)Good perfume
3)A good ride
4)A good ride again
5)A good ride again and again.

With this ladies of class will follow u,so hustle hard my people.
Thank you
Re: How i was able to stop dating women below my standard by Bizibi(m): 11:38am On Sep 23, 2021
Nigeria ladies don suffer on this forum.

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Re: How i was able to stop dating women below my standard by YoungDaNaval(m): 11:38am On Sep 23, 2021
9jayes:
Same here broh, I’m supper rich but ends up dating girls way below my level. Yesterday I was with Mike Adenuga when one of those girls called, I was ashamed to pick the call.
Agba!!!!
Re: How i was able to stop dating women below my standard by Ugmama(m): 11:40am On Sep 23, 2021
habitkiller:
I earlier created a thread asking for help from NL members on why do I date girls not up to my standard... link below

https://www.nairaland.com/6535052/why-keep-dating-women-below

Right now my people, I have the solution, forget it o,no one knows u better than yourself, you are the knower" of your situation, well I simply observed if you want to date classy people you have to get classy with...

1)Good clothes
2)Good perfume
3)A good ride
4)A good ride again
5)A good ride again and again.

With this ladies of class will follow u,so hustle hard my people.
Thank you


More like what you really need is to date someone you can actually spend your time with or your life with, without regrets.

Does class give happiness, love, peace or money?

Finally, please date for the right reasons.

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Re: How i was able to stop dating women below my standard by Nobody: 11:50am On Sep 23, 2021
habitkiller:
I earlier created a thread asking for help from NL members on why do I date girls not up to my standard... link below

https://www.nairaland.com/6535052/why-keep-dating-women-below

Right now my people, I have the solution, forget it o,no one knows u better than yourself, you are the knower" of your situation, well I simply observed if you want to date classy people you have to get classy with...

1)Good clothes
2)Good perfume
3)A good ride
4)A good ride again
5)A good ride again and again.

With this ladies of class will follow u,so hustle hard my people.
Thank you
after they follow u, what next?
Re: How i was able to stop dating women below my standard by Nobody: 11:52am On Sep 23, 2021
If you own a house worth N20m and trek, a woman won't follow you, but just have a clean car of N1.5m, you are the one to be running away from them.

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Re: How i was able to stop dating women below my standard by SonofGod231: 11:54am On Sep 23, 2021
OP what's your definition of a classy girl.
Well to me...Samantha,The lovely,decent and gorgeous looking intelligent crippled girl who works at the bank has stayed classier than Chiamaka,The Fair pretty girl that lives in a well furnished flat but jumps from one party to the other in her Toyota Avensis, begging niggaz money to fuel her car upandan while spreading her legs like a dirty dog for the least nigga that can press her 25k to make her hair.

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Re: How i was able to stop dating women below my standard by Klass99(f): 11:54am On Sep 23, 2021
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Re: How i was able to stop dating women below my standard by Nobody: 11:57am On Sep 23, 2021
donbachi:
All dis,to just get a woman...I'm very disappointed.

Not even more degrees,skills,spiritual upliftment,building self worth and raising a standard worthy of emulation.to make self a better human in the society.

You are speaking big English.

No matter how rich you are, a woman won't still follow you unless you do those things he listed.

You compare your sense of judgement with that of a lady ?

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Re: How i was able to stop dating women below my standard by skj1377(m): 12:01pm On Sep 23, 2021
Chairman there is nothing like classy lady, many already have children, others are international escorts while the rest are simply make believe because if you got to their house you may find 10 women in a rented flat. Rich ladies from rich families are just rich and Dont need all your list to attract them. Stop calling a disguised olosho classy lady.
habitkiller:
I earlier created a thread asking for help from NL members on why do I date girls not up to my standard... link below

https://www.nairaland.com/6535052/why-keep-dating-women-below

Right now my people, I have the solution, forget it o,no one knows u better than yourself, you are the knower" of your situation, well I simply observed if you want to date classy people you have to get classy with...

1)Good clothes
2)Good perfume
3)A good ride
4)A good ride again
5)A good ride again and again.

With this ladies of class will follow u,so hustle hard my people.
Thank you

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Re: How i was able to stop dating women below my standard by Nobody: 12:01pm On Sep 23, 2021
Lol. All these to get a woman? Ode!!!
Re: How i was able to stop dating women below my standard by Ladycewhy(f): 12:02pm On Sep 23, 2021
pansophist:


Only few women will be attracted to those things if its not accompanied with affluence. To women, especially the Nigerian counterpart, the first step is to have money, then every other things follows. Na just how nature wire them really. Naturally I'm a super humble guy, I don't even ride my car often because I live in a country where transport is absolutely world class. African girls especially Naija girls wey no know me go think say I de suffer lol.

In other words, seek the first (emphasis on "first"wink the kingdom of cash, buoyancy, and every other thing (women, respect, connections etc) shall be added unto you. So if you like, speak grammar like Soyinka, package well like Chimamanda, if you're not financially sophisticated, at best, na friend zone them go park you put. cool

#just kidding. Before you kill me with mention. Sorry, not kidding.
isn't the aim to attract the few ?

Or you want to continue to be the shit that attracts flies?. undecided

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Re: How i was able to stop dating women below my standard by Ladycewhy(f): 12:05pm On Sep 23, 2021
Klass99:
Having class involves good manners, politeness, pride without showing off, empathy, humility and an abundance of self-control.

It is also about an ingrained and wonderful upbringing which reflects years later in your adulthood. Class is evident in your words and conduct, you either have it in you or you don't. It is more about your carriage and comportment as a person, than the flashy apparel you wear.

You can buy the latest fashion, gadgets and glam up all you want, but the moment you open your mouth to speak and from the way you behave, we will know whether you have class or not.

I know an oil and gas worker with Exxon Mobil, who is very mgbekelicious in the way he carries himself. With all his wealth, nice clothes and fine can I will never describe him as a man with class. I can say he is a man of means, but class.....hell no.
Thank you.

People often think class is about the latest designers and iphone.Touts, cultists, fruadsters all have these things too, but attitude , behavior, mentality and how you carry yourself sets the mark.

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Re: How i was able to stop dating women below my standard by mapet: 12:09pm On Sep 23, 2021
habitkiller:
I earlier created a thread asking for help from NL members on why do I date girls not up to my standard... link below

https://www.nairaland.com/6535052/why-keep-dating-women-below

Right now my people, I have the solution, forget it o,no one knows u better than yourself, you are the knower" of your situation, well I simply observed if you want to date classy people you have to get classy with...

1)Good clothes
2)Good perfume
3)A good ride
4)A good ride again
5)A good ride again and again.

With this ladies of class will follow u,so hustle hard my people.
Thank you

Stewwwpidddd submission....no value whatsoever
Re: How i was able to stop dating women below my standard by Klass99(f): 12:11pm On Sep 23, 2021
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Re: How i was able to stop dating women below my standard by Ladycewhy(f): 12:14pm On Sep 23, 2021
Klass99:


My dear, that is how you know people who are shallow and who lack depth, people who have a very poor mindset.
They are plenty in my office and it seems on NL too, from the sort of comments I often see, mostly from the so called logical gender.
And then when it blows up in their face they blame everyone else but their shallow minds.smh.

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Re: How i was able to stop dating women below my standard by Nobody: 12:16pm On Sep 23, 2021
Aside the players, na who don chop bellyful dey talk about girls tongue.
Re: How i was able to stop dating women below my standard by Nobody: 12:20pm On Sep 23, 2021
9jayes:
Same here broh, I’m supper rich but ends up dating girls way below my level. Yesterday I was with Mike Adenuga when one of those girls called, I was ashamed to pick the call.

Re: How i was able to stop dating women below my standard by Nobody: 12:22pm On Sep 23, 2021
so as I dey do Msc now, if I come get fame and epic'money in the nearest future, next nah to dey carry dem classy girls up & down?!
bullshit!

as if sey nah cos of 'classy girls' I dey add value to myself.
you dey manage build yourself now, dem 'classy girls' no dey see you, dem dey carry face comot. If God's Grace come dey your side and u make am epic, nah den dem 'classy girls' eyes go open sey you be their spec now. Nah then dem go dey flash boobs and asses for your window up & down, intentionally bumping into you.

nah person wey no get common sense go look their way, make dem dey carry eyes comot as dem dey do before, ta'loh raye oshii?!
Re: How i was able to stop dating women below my standard by Nobody: 12:24pm On Sep 23, 2021
Klass99:
Having class involves good manners, politeness, pride without showing off, empathy, humility and an abundance of self-control.

It is also about an ingrained and wonderful upbringing which reflects years later in your adulthood. Class is evident in your words and conduct, you either have it in you or you don't. It is more about your carriage and comportment as a person, than the flashy apparel you wear.

You can buy the latest fashion, gadgets and glam up all you want, but the moment you open your mouth to speak and from the way you behave, we will know whether you have class or not.

I know an oil and gas worker with Exxon Mobil, who is very mgbekelicious in the way he carries himself. With all his wealth, nice clothes and fine car I will never describe him as a man with class. I can say he is a man of means, but class.....hell no.

Different people with different definitions of class. Not all girls have the same definition as yours. Take it or leave it. I like your own definition though. As poor as I am, most ladies around me do think I have pride but few ones who are close to me know that I am not proud, I just don't lose composure regardless of how flawless a lady's beauty is; I see beyond beauty.

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Re: How i was able to stop dating women below my standard by GUNITGuy: 12:33pm On Sep 23, 2021
With the wonderful thing LIFE OFFERS na to come impress woman and suppress other men na
Your purpose ..Don't worry when u grow up all this won't matter ......when women drain u finish u go find purpose by force..... ...
When would men people inventing, find solutions to global problems, Building Great Ministries, Building Great Nations for Generations....
Re: How i was able to stop dating women below my standard by Razaneli(m): 12:37pm On Sep 23, 2021
donbachi:
All dis,to just get a woman...I'm very disappointed.

Not even more degrees,skills,spiritual upliftment,building self worth and raising a standard worthy of emulation.to make self a better human in the society.

U don’t have to stress these much !
Girls now pray for "God fearing ritualist"
Re: How i was able to stop dating women below my standard by ImaIma1(f): 12:40pm On Sep 23, 2021
Personal driver loading...
Re: How i was able to stop dating women below my standard by Nobody: 12:42pm On Sep 23, 2021
JovialJune:



And this one thinks his comment makes sense, e con add pride and boastfulness join am, lmao I laugh in swahili,

You guys will never ever learn, you think using money and flamboyant things will get you the best of women? You will only attract the money hungry ones that will only be there when the going is good, when it stops flowing she will up and leave, you think life will be rosy all the time or there won't be time of difficulties? Go and ask a man's story on FP not long ago who gives his gf 20k weekly that left him at the slightest setback.



Virtually all women are like that,even in so-called Progressive Societies it's worse, women rarely date their equals, they want their superiors for a long term relationship, infact if you are married and your wife out earns there is 33% chance she will divorce you, women want stronger,taller,richer,better,wiser than them that's nature, Egalitarianistic-Equalism relationships fail woefully in Western Societies, it doesn't adhere to reality

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Re: How i was able to stop dating women below my standard by Klass99(f): 12:42pm On Sep 23, 2021
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Re: How i was able to stop dating women below my standard by PearlFid(f): 12:47pm On Sep 23, 2021
donbachi:
All dis,to just get a woman...I'm very disappointed.

Not even more degrees,skills,spiritual upliftment,building self worth and raising a standard worthy of emulation.to make self a better human in the society.
As a Lady I'm disappointed in him.. There's more to life than good dresses and ride.
Re: How i was able to stop dating women below my standard by Nobody: 12:48pm On Sep 23, 2021
PearlFid:
As a Lady I'm disappointed in him.. There's more to life than good dresses and ride.


Women love Benz period

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