sista-jay:

@ Poster. . . . . . please listen to Mr Vegas song 'I am Blessed' go to youtube, your heartache will be a ting of the past.

really? that would put me in deeper depression!! LOL just kidding sis!
it really is an uplifitng song.

@thread:

I remember when a guy i[b] thought[/b] was my first true love broke my heart back in 2007!
The first two months of 2008 were HELL!!!

I didn't sleep on my bed! Instead, i slept on my comfy sleeping bag,   I refused to eat anything but "soup water"
(SERIOUSLY!!) and i lost soooo mush weight. I went from 135 to 120 easily!!!! My mom couldn't even look at me
to how bad it was. But after a while I learned first hand that time heals wounds. I found myself thinking "really? over that n.gga?!
WHAT WAS I THINKING?!!!" and before I knew it, I was not only sleeping on my bed but eating REAL good!   Ended up
meeting one of the best guys I have ever dated, there after.   and guess who came trying to win me back? he had SOME nerve!  

MzDarkSkin:


really? that would put me in deeper depression!! LOL just kidding sis!
it really is an uplifitng song.

@thread:

I remember when a guy i[b] thought[/b] was my first true love broke my heart back in 2007!
The first two months of 2008 were HELL!!!

I didn't sleep on my bed! Instead, i slept on my comfy sleeping bag,   I refused to eat anything but "soup water"
(SERIOUSLY!!) and i lost soooo mush weight. I went from 135 to 120 easily!!!! My mom couldn't even look at me
to how bad it was. But after a while I learned first hand that time heals wounds. I found myself thinking "really? over that n.gga?!
WHAT WAS I THINKING?!!!" and before I knew it, I was not only sleeping on my bed but eating REAL good!   Ended up
meeting one of the best guys I have ever dated, there after.   and guess who came trying to win me back? he had SOME nerve!  

sexylogan:

^^^he didnt realise he loved you til he had lost you. you shud have taken him bak wit

open arms. lol. . . . .im just kidding. . . 

LOL!!! I know you are kidding bro lol! Not in a million years will I take a fo0l back that took me for granted.
Esp. if I put forth 150% into the relationship! No way! Had his backside singing like Miguel (All I want is you now! Now that you're gone!!)

Nekai:

iice:

That's because your breakup is still fresh for you. You have to get through it before you can start concentrating on the things you want to do

anishe:

i had this GF on mine when we were in Unilag and when she said she's not interested anymore, i felt so disturbed not because of my Love for her (cos i never loved her for once but for the goody goody i enjoyed from her in bed-she's good to stupor). But when i confided in a very clkose friend of mine in the same class who happened to know her very well, he told to forget about her cos she's not a wife material that she's already preggy for another man.

The moent my friend said that, i forgot about her immediately. Thank God i confided in my friend.

snowdrops:

reading between the lines, you are conteplating going back to him. remember if it were not meant to be, then its not meant to be. there is nothing worse than a double heart break. he may well be in a new relationship.

My advise;

PULL YOURSELF TOGETHER AND MOVE ON.

dkings101:

Ms Potato,

Just read your recent comments on "Black Men Makes Me Hot", but the fact is, even u r no longer wit your bf, u would still bump into another black dude. So I would just advice u 2 just reconcile with him and ENJOY THE RELATIONSHIP WHILE IT LAST. Just have this at the back of your mind. Since there are many factor that can't make u 2 to be together for like, just enjoy the relationship while it last. Believe me or not, U would still end up with another black dude, who knws if it is me

So reconcile with him, enjoy the fizzy.

lashontae:

@Ms. Potato
Yeah, av been heartbroken. I wish I could find the magical recipe that I could recommend to wipe your hurt, but sadly, you have to go through the withdrawal symptoms. For now, i'd say just do the things that make you happy. . . .

Nekai:

Love; giving someone the power to destroy you but trusting them not to.

busygirl:

Time heals. But most of us hate the process. I went down that line few months ago. For two weeks, I cried every night and couldn't focus at uni. After two weeks, the tears stopped. Anyway, I want you to know it is not wrong to grieve. It is a way of letting things out. Although, occasionally I still feel depressed and beat myself on what could have been. But most times, I try as much as possible to snap out of that mood by either praying, listening to music or sleeping. You will definitely heal, it might just take some time.

Ekpoma1:

With time u overcome heartbreak bt if u cant wait 4 time. Get hooked up with someone.

sista-jay:

@ Poster. . . . . . please listen to Mr Vegas song 'I am Blessed' go to youtube, your heartache will be a ting of the past.

Mrs, Chima:

Ms. Potato

Aww. Keep your head up and you will be okay.

sexylogan:

Ms. Potato, sumtyms a long relationship, whether good or bad, becums like

a drug addiction- we just can't let go. Someone will come along that will

make you realise why this one didnt work. Take heart and be strong, the

best is yet to come.

MzDarkSkin:


really? that would put me in deeper depression!! LOL just kidding sis!
it really is an uplifitng song.

@thread:

I remember when a guy i[b] thought[/b] was my first true love broke my heart back in 2007!
The first two months of 2008 were HELL!!!

I didn't sleep on my bed! Instead, i slept on my comfy sleeping bag,   I refused to eat anything but "soup water"
(SERIOUSLY!!) and i lost soooo mush weight. I went from 135 to 120 easily!!!! My mom couldn't even look at me
to how bad it was. But after a while I learned first hand that time heals wounds. I found myself thinking "really? over that n.gga?!
WHAT WAS I THINKING?!!!" and before I knew it, I was not only sleeping on my bed but eating REAL good!   Ended up
meeting one of the best guys I have ever dated, there after.   and guess who came trying to win me back? he had SOME nerve!  

Ms. Potato:

Its ok, Im still really sad within me but I have no more tears left to spare. Thinking that he loves me was the most stupidest thing Ive ever thought and it shall never happen again.

Ms. Potato:

Im glad you found another guy as for me, Im stiking to my single life. i feel more happier that way. Nobody can replace the love I actually had for him and nobody will.

For me it wasn't all about finding the next guy as not even that relationship lasted because we found that we meshed together more as brother and sister than 'lovers' (still VEEERY close today ) but rather that my then 'new guy' entering my life, just showed me that life goes on. There are more guys out there for me so there is no need for me to be depressed over that one who never appreciated me to begin with. The fact that I moved on is what is all about.

I am glad you chose to be single and I respect your strength sis.

Ms. Potato:

we are back together

Ms. Potato:

we are back together

tutuwater:


dont hurt yourself with the fear of losing him and fight for the love while you can.

livedit:


I am happy for you and I truly hope you two are able to work out the "differences" this time around.  Because we all would truly hate to hear that it didn't work out once again and you are back to square one.  Whatever the "issue(s) were, please deal with those now before trying to proceed ahead in this relationship. Because whatever "it" is, the problems are still there and the last thing you want to hit another "road block" ahead.    

Before your message above, my comment was to stop ALL contact with him.  Anybody dealing with a break-up (broken-heart) the last thing you need is to keep contact with that person.  All you're doing is pro-longing the inevitable and the longer you hang-on, the worse it's going to get.  It's better to just cut ALL ties completely.  No texting, phone calls, letters nothing.  If it is over, then it is over.  Allow yourself time to mourn this person first.  You can't put a time frame on when someone will be "over" that person.  It's impossible! Not if you had genuine feelings for that person.  Everyone is different and deal with their pain differently.  All we could offer anyone who is experiencing a broken-heart is to allow TIME.  How much time?  As much as it takes.  You can't rush anything like that.  

Ms. Potato:

we are back together

asas:

hang out with friends celebrate and av fun,
occupy urself,
av your friends around or family
movies and music not love songs,
if u need to cry to dont hold on to it cry your heart out (let d tears out)
shudnt be too hard anyway

2blunt:

can i ask u wat u love doing most?, den engage in it n u will be surprise dat your mind will be off it

bensky:

@poster i know how you feel because ive been that road before. but my advise is look at it on the positive side because its better to have a broken relationship than a broken home.

you have to trust God on this because he knows what is best for you. you have to take your mind off him completely and move on with your life , if he is trully yours then he will come back.

have you heard the saying that if you love something somthing you shuld let go if its yours it will comeback. you can send me a mail and i will send you my no. so we can tlk more.

Da Doctor:

I SAID IT,

THAT THEY WOULD BREAK MS. POTATOS HEART SOME DAY!

TAKE HEART O.

JUST MOVE IN, THATS THE CURE, TIME WILL HEAL THE SORE

Da Doctor:

ms.potato, watch it and make the best decision.

i cant say you pleaded with him to come back but all i will say is this,

if he came back at some mercy point of stand, HE WILL SURELY COS YOU A GREATER PAIN IN THE FUTURE WHEN WHAT HE INTENDS TO ACHIEVE CLICKS WELL.(No be curse oh, na experience i use dey tell you.)

So its better you watch well and take a leap forward and funny enough ,i am gone else i would have given you TRUE LOVE.

lolllll

SouthChi:

deal with a broken heart the same way you should deal with any emotional pain, Head on!

its okay to face the facts of what happened and KNOW that it wasn't meant to be,

its okay to admit what you loved the most and miss the most and its okay to be hurt about it at the same time,

just KNOW that you guys had your time and now that time has passed, another chapter to log in the journey, keep it moving,

Never Ever ever, let a failed relationship tear you down, Do whatever it takes, if need be, to remind yourself of your value and true beauty and you'll feel much better!

hunkyjohn:

Ms Potato, I could have sworn that you were not the one involved. It must have really hurt. Anyways, good thing you guys are back together. The thing is love requires a lot of sacrifice and compromise. If you both can wade through everything together, it's better and more exciting. 

[size=4pt]I heard breakup-makeup sex is the sweetest. So, enjoy yourself[/size] 

Olaisrich:

it never happened before! maybe you are imagining it. when you said both of you give yourselves
6 months to one years i already knew it wasn't a break up!

Im sorry but being with a black men is what had caused me to be hear broken today. If Im with an Asian men, i wouldnt have this problem because at least we share the same skin colour. But having said that,black, white, brown, yellow, I dont intend to find another guy ever again. All of this is such a waste of my time and having to think that 2 guys have slept with me is kinda disgusting

Why would u think that its not me that is involve? yes it really does hurt especially for me cause it was my first breakup ever so imagine. Im too old and I dont think I can take anoher of that other you will see Mama Ngozi die of a sroke oo
Its ok, Im still really sad within me but I have no more tears left to spare. Thinking that he loves me was the most stupidest thing Ive ever thought and it shall never happen again.

My father always tells me that it is worth it to get married back in his days but its never worth it to marry in this centurry and one should just consider being single for the rest of their life and focus more on building the economy. I think he is most definitely right
Get hooked with someone and get your heart broken once again? No way am I going down that road

I dont think Ill ever want to find love again. Im sorry. ive made up my mind to focus on my career and hire giggollo's when Im h0rny. I dont want to start all over again and I dont want to go down that road anymore.

He didnt beg with mercy and I didnt beg with mercy either. No one did. We just had a conversation and we both started sobbing and than we started smooching and suddenly we are back together without saying it.