placeofallure:
I've never been heartbroken. I do the leaving. I kept leaving until I got to the one. Don't ask me how I did it. My sixth sense was on a steep, really high frequency.

TooMuchStuff:

Ya story similar to mine. Fresh babe, beauty piece,
very young with First class degree, but more redpilled than me. She's begging for 2nd Chance but me no gonna let it

atom080:

oh my God!
what manner of man art thou?

honestly to say, talking about the most intelligent people i've ever met. it's you first, then reno omokri.

you guys speak like a diety. you both are the embodiment of acient and secret wisdoms.

funnily, you both often share similar philosophies(reno is more of a redpiller). you guys have travelled far and wide.

or, art thou reno?

placeofallure:
I've never been heartbroken. I do the leaving. I kept leaving until I got to the one. Don't ask me how I did it. My sixth sense was on a steep, really high frequency.

Jaybee3455:
who is this useless simp

pansophist:
You can't prevent heartbreak, unless you don't want to love genuinely. To love is to be vulnerable, and vulnerability is not weakness, its strength. Vulnerability is believing in your internal strength to lead you out of whichever predicament love brings to you. It's how a bird depends on its wing to fly, if the tree branches breaks off. Its strength is in its wings, not the branches.

People will always disappoint you, but you can minimise the impact. Love with your head and your heart, not your heart or head only. If your beloved is not reciprocating, quit it. Self care is the knowledge that you also deserve the same love you're giving out. Or else it will be a place of pain.

Toks2008:


Nah you no understand English and i no fit help you on that. Read again and slowly...Perhaps you will comprehend better.

UncleKoboko:
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Stupid opinion.
This kind of relationship doesn't exist between humans unless you are only being hypocritical.

helinues:


How I handled my first official break up was so funny

So I called the lady at night trying to check up on her, then she started acting up, whats the problem, she said she was with her boyfriend that she couldn't talk to me, Oh boy Lava no hot cos the temperature wey dey boil for my body heh.

At night, I couldn't sleep cos I didn't see the breaking up coming up, though na me get larger share of the blame.

The next morning, I decided to step outside the house just not to think about it , the friend I was supposed to meet wasn't available so I took a bike to my sisters shop and explain my predicament, she asked what next now, I just told her to give me some money that I need to quickly change my location cos I might do silly things.

Immediately she handled me the money, went straight to house, poured the rice and stew I cooked night before the drama cos I knew i would be out of state for weeks if not months.

I called my friends in other state that I would be coming, they didn't have an idea how urgent my coming was. On getting to my destination, the first thing my friends asked was how is my GF, people know us together back then, I was like I just talked to her before alighting from the bus.

That night, I faked calling my girlfriend so that my friends wont know that it was break up that brought me around. The 4th day, my friends became suspicious and asked if everything is alright between me and my girl cos we always talk on phone.

The first thing i asked them was, why did you think I made this urgent trip? Na to relief myself, we broke up. They couldn't believe it cos I did not think about it, emotionally disturbed or frown about it . I only took it as reality . And that was it. There were like you get mind oo

In life, as you are counting your blessings, don't also forget to count your losses. Life is so beautiful than to get stuck cos of heart break

Munzy14:



If you like collect ben Johnson...You go still love up one day.

Heart break is something everyone need to experience one or more in a life time...It comes with an eye opener and a little bit of understanding of life in a different perspective.

Men need it more to sharpen a bit...If not na so person like fly.

Hassanmaye:
hahahhahahaha please do you mean you will not marry

Toks2008:


Another illiterate on the loose. You don't call an opinion stupid cos it is not a fact hence not binding in anyway...even a presumably mad person can give an opinion. You simply give a contrary one. I hope you learn.

walkingshadow911:


you are trying to hard to defend this thing you posted. i can feel you pain

Munzy14:



If you like collect ben Johnson...You go still love up one day.

Heart break is something everyone need to experience one or more in a life time...It comes with an eye opener and a little bit of understanding of life in a different perspective.

Men need it more to sharpen a bit...If not na so person like fly.

pansophist:


I'm not Reno, Reno senior me by far na. No be that guy with white beard ?

But yes, I agree with many things Reno said. He is a smart man, and a lifelong seeker of wisdom, and it's not hard to reach this place when one have been curious and studying since for long, as in my case. Thanks for the appreciation though.

Toks2008:
I have meticulously observed the reason why many people have avoidable heartbreaks and strong feeling of disappointment in human relationships and I have come to this unsavoury conclusion.

That the only viable panacea to any form of heartbreak and disappointment is to love genuinely without having any expectation of equal reciprocation.

This will make you psychology prepared for any possible outcome whether good or bad.

You will be able to give without bothering your head if the person latter leaves you and no matter the sacrifice you make, you are ready to see it thrown back at your face and if the person eventually leaves, you will smile and just walk away rather than sulk, beg or worse still do something terrible to yourself.

It is not a difficult thing to do, it's all about the mindset.

My opinion.

atom080:

Well, it is wiser to downplay self appraisal but, the truth remain the same.

But it would have been better if you have your presence on active social media unlike 'secret' nairaland( just like reno does). You could by so doing reach a larger audience who are in thirst of what you're dishing out here. I love your posts, they are fill with wisdom and life hacks.

Reno is a politician, It would have been nicer if you were one (lol, joking though).

You're just amazing!

fattprince:

Well that only shows you didn't pass the course. Because with redpill you wouldn't expect much from those females. I've been rejected infact embarrassed by females but that didn't break my heart because it was something I put my mind that it could go any way. Bro first and foremost draw happiness from within. Develop yourself and have money. The more money you have the more you can afford happiness from yourself. Because visiting the beach, going to the cinema or an high status restaurant to treat your self vacationing etc to make yourself happy will cost money. When you are happy girls will come around but don't be emotionally involve fvck them or her if you want to be mono when you want give her money when you feel like not when she pressurizes you and also ask her for money anything you need that she has.
It's a long conversation but I'm tired of writing.

placeofallure:
I've never been heartbroken. I do the leaving. I kept leaving until I got to the one. Don't ask me how I did it. My sixth sense was on a steep, really high frequency.

TooMuchStuff:

Ya story similar to mine. Fresh babe, beauty piece,
very young with First class degree, but more redpilled than me. She's begging for 2nd Chance but me no gonna let it

Toks2008:

You just paraphrased my point.

Toks2008:
I have meticulously observed the reason why many people have avoidable heartbreaks and strong feeling of disappointment in human relationships and I have come to this unsavoury conclusion.

That the only viable panacea to any form of heartbreak and disappointment is to love genuinely without having any expectation of equal reciprocation.

This will make you psychology prepared for any possible outcome whether good or bad.

You will be able to give without bothering your head if the person latter leaves you and no matter the sacrifice you make, you are ready to see it thrown back at your face and if the person eventually leaves, you will smile and just walk away rather than sulk, beg or worse still do something terrible to yourself.

It is not a difficult thing to do, it's all about the mindset.

My opinion.

MHBNeiman:
You can't love your partner and don't expect to be loved back. We're all selfish.