Wick3:


I know right. The search party are yet to find me, hopefully they will. How body?

Hahaha.. They had better find you quick, someone wants to meet you. Perhaps, that would make the search party put in more effort in locating you

Work is a bit stressful but it's nothing I can't handle

Toks2008:
I have meticulously observed the reason why many people have avoidable heartbreaks and strong feeling of disappointment in human relationships and I have come to this unsavoury conclusion.

That the only viable panacea to any form of heartbreak and disappointment is to love genuinely without having any expectation of equal reciprocation.

This will make you psychology prepared for any possible outcome whether good or bad.

You will be able to give without bothering your head if the person latter leaves you and no matter the sacrifice you make, you are ready to see it thrown back at your face and if the person eventually leaves, you will smile and just walk away rather than sulk, beg or worse still do something terrible to yourself.

It is not a difficult thing to do, it's all about the mindset.

My opinion.

Justbehave:
The only way to avoid a heart break is to avoid falling in love. Avoid anything relationship

fattprince:

True. Ladies are naturally redpilled. There was one that I was romancing when I just started the redpill but because she was young I didn't want to play the game on her but she was playing on me already. Thank God I was already in the process I saw the bullshit but instead of me to turn the game around I just decided to leave her be. But bro you can still date again just always put yourself first in any situation. Don't love with your heart. Just catch cruise you not doing anything bad. That way trust me they will open punna. The best way to get pussy is doing like you aren't interested in the pussy.

Wick3:


Someone wants to meet me? I hope her name is "Ego" or if he is a dude "Benjamin"

Strong woman, what you can't handle does not exist

Benjamin? Most likely but you would need to work for it

One has got to survive in this harsh economy you know

MHBNeiman:
You can't love your partner and don't expect to be loved back. We're all selfish.

chatinent:
Relationship: Hi.


Me:

chatinent:
Relationship: Hi.


Me:

Wick3:


True, almost like most of us are just surviving and not living

Nazgul:
To prevent a heart break, go into a relationship with all your senses active.

Keep your eyes open for obvious red flags, breakups don't happen overnight, it's a gradual process, if she stops reciprocating your gestures, like missed calls, messages, missing dates with no reasonable explanation, unnecessary quarrells and nagging over nothing, being so clingy to her phone and acting funny whenever it rings, hardly appreciative of your effors...etc, then prepare your heart for the worse cos someone is obviously taking a larger chunk of her attention.

MJBOLT:

There's no way a person will love genuinely and not expect the same back

Oga,stop giving relationship advice,you are bad at it

kay29000:


The best and most realistic answer, but with the least likes. As you said, the only way you can avoid heartbreak is to not fall in love, simple.

placeofallure:
I've never been heartbroken. I do the leaving. I kept leaving until I got to the one. Don't ask me how I did it. My sixth sense was on a steep, really high frequency.

Phiniter:
Only women and children are loved unconditionally, a man is loved for what he's worth.

- Chiwetalu Agụ 1921

helinues:


How I handled my first official break up was so funny

So I called the lady at night trying to check up on her, then she started acting up, whats the problem, she said she was with her boyfriend that she couldn't talk to me, Oh boy Lava no hot cos the temperature wey dey boil for my body heh.

At night, I couldn't sleep cos I didn't see the breaking up coming up, though na me get larger share of the blame.

The next morning, I decided to step outside the house just not to think about it , the friend I was supposed to meet wasn't available so I took a bike to my sisters shop and explain my predicament, she asked what next now, I just told her to give me some money that I need to quickly change my location cos I might do silly things.

Immediately she handled me the money, went straight to house, poured the rice and stew I cooked night before the drama cos I knew i would be out of state for weeks if not months.

I called my friends in other state that I would be coming, they didn't have an idea how urgent my coming was. On getting to my destination, the first thing my friends asked was how is my GF, people know us together back then, I was like I just talked to her before alighting from the bus.

That night, I faked calling my girlfriend so that my friends wont know that it was break up that brought me around. The 4th day, my friends became suspicious and asked if everything is alright between me and my girl cos we always talk on phone.

The first thing i asked them was, why did you think I made this urgent trip? Na to relief myself, we broke up. They couldn't believe it cos I did not think about it, emotionally disturbed or frown about it . I only took it as reality . And that was it. There were like you get mind oo

In life, as you are counting your blessings, don't also forget to count your losses. Life is so beautiful than to get stuck cos of heart break

pansophist:
What makes heartbreak painful is when you felt used all along. You gave your all, and in spite of your genuine goodness, your beloved press the red button. It is not a happenstance why after heartbreak, you hear things like "after all I've done for you". That's a statement of debt, unrequited reciprocity, and feeling used.

pansophist:
You can't prevent heartbreak, unless you don't want to love genuinely. To love is to be vulnerable, and vulnerability is not weakness, its strength. Vulnerability is believing in your internal strength to lead you out of whichever predicament love brings to you. It's how a bird depends on its wing to fly, if the tree branches breaks off. Its strength is in its wings, not the branches.

People will always disappoint you, but you can minimise the impact. Love with your head and your heart, not your heart or head only. If your beloved is...

MHBNeiman:
There is nothing to read again. Except you want me to start writing sermon.