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Re: Why?? Nigerian Men, Why!!? by IFYBOY288(m): 9:58am On Oct 17, 2021
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Re: Why?? Nigerian Men, Why!!? by bepositive11: 10:21am On Oct 17, 2021
MrBrownJay1:


to each their own... seek for the type of man that you desire and let men seek for the type of women they desire. nobody is forcing you to open your legs thus dont force men to remain with women who keep their legs closed. to each their own.



stop making it look like sex is NOT important in a rship... men and women are different in this aspect, and YES sex is important to us, whether foir "hole" expansion or marriage



women come as a package, and in that package sex should be included. some women are used for sexual relief, other as future wife, and regardless which one you are, SEX MUST BE INVOLVED!


lol people should end a r/ship for whatever reason they see as important in that said r/ship.... are you not the same woman that will cry crocodile tears if/when your bf go and fukc some other babe because konji don attack him?!?!? stop being a hypocrite. sex is important to us men and if you (gf) dont give it to your man then advise him that he can go and have a side gf that wiill satisfy him sexually...and basta.

There's another side to this. With sex comes the risk of pregnancy. If women weren't at risk of getting pregnant, I'm sure they would have sex as freely as men while unmarried

So many men walk out on their girlfriends after she gets pregnant or demands abortion which comes with a risk to future pregnancies
Re: Why?? Nigerian Men, Why!!? by bepositive11: 10:22am On Oct 17, 2021
Beebah2000:
I no understand wetin dey worry some Nigerian men. Abi, their mama no press their head well with hot water after them born them ni?

Nigerian men, why must u end a relationship if your girlfriend refuse to have sex with u??
I don't understand. E seems like say now their new motto na
No sex, No relationship

Please, u guys need to stop that rubbish mentality. So woman way open legs for u, na wife material abi? Mtchewww!!

If she no gree give u, u go con dey think say she dey give another person.
If she give u, u will still get tired of it and dump her for another girl. That is not fair.
Please, u guys should stop doing this sad sad

If u know say u no go marry her, then no expand her hole. If she no wan sleep with u, respect her decision and continue the relationship. Stop making it look like sex is more important in a relationship, it is not important!!

Later now, they will come here and say women have nothing to offer apart from sex.
And sex was the first thing u demand for in a relationship. Yeye boys angry angry
When she open legs, they'll say Nigerian girls are useless while u are the one making them act useless.

If u can end a relationship because of sex, then I think u need to go and see your church pastor so that he/she will deliver u from that unknown spirit way dey your body.

I don talk finish.
Make I sit down here dey drink my creamy coffee. tongue tongue

Look for men who are compatible. Let those men walk away. They're doing you a favour

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Re: Why?? Nigerian Men, Why!!? by MrBrownJay1(m): 2:53pm On Oct 17, 2021
bepositive11:


There's another side to this. With sex comes the risk of pregnancy. If women weren't at risk of getting pregnant, I'm sure they would have sex as freely as men while unmarried

So many men walk out on their girlfriends after she gets pregnant or demands abortion which comes with a risk to future pregnancies

true... but there are MANY form of contraceptions, to make sure that you guys have sex safely... a coomon one being to use a condom or the babe being on the pill.

life itself has many risks/accidents, we cant sit here and talk about the IFs, BUTs and MAYBEs of life, but what is sure is that: when a woman deprives her man of sexual relief/satisfaction, he goes and gets it wherever he can.
Re: Why?? Nigerian Men, Why!!? by MrBrownJay1(m): 2:57pm On Oct 17, 2021
Beebah2000:
this generation don finish. I pity the next generation.
Okay ooo I rest my case

generation finsihed because you selfishly expect men to follow what YOU (women) desire, yet are quick to disregard what men desire?!?!?!

what you wrote is like saying that ALL women should get married to a man, even though we all know that many are either lesbians OR relationship/marriage liabilities OR nuns. let each and every individual live the life they desire for themselves, and if you dont like their lifestyle, thenn dont be with such person.

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Re: Why?? Nigerian Men, Why!!? by Justbehave(m): 3:06pm On Oct 17, 2021
Beebah2000:
I no understand wetin dey worry some Nigerian men. Abi, their mama no press their head well with hot water after them born them ni?

Nigerian men, why must u end a relationship if your girlfriend refuse to have sex with u??
I don't understand. E seems like say now their new motto na
No sex, No relationship

Please, u guys need to stop that rubbish mentality. So woman way open legs for u, na wife material abi? Mtchewww!!

If she no gree give u, u go con dey think say she dey give another person.
If she give u, u will still get tired of it and dump her for another girl. That is not fair.
Please, u guys should stop doing this sad sad

If u know say u no go marry her, then no expand her hole. If she no wan sleep with u, respect her decision and continue the relationship. Stop making it look like sex is more important in a relationship, it is not important!!

Later now, they will come here and say women have nothing to offer apart from sex.
And sex was the first thing u demand for in a relationship. Yeye boys angry angry
When she open legs, they'll say Nigerian girls are useless while u are the one making them act useless.

If u can end a relationship because of sex, then I think u need to go and see your church pastor so that he/she will deliver u from that unknown spirit way dey your body.

I don talk finish.
Make I sit down here dey drink my creamy coffee. tongue tongue
Provided she doesn't ask me for money. Then I don't need her sex. If money is involved then sex must be involved.

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Re: Why?? Nigerian Men, Why!!? by Nobody: 3:52pm On Oct 17, 2021
MrBrownJay1:


generation finsihed because you selfishly expect men to follow what YOU (women) desire, yet are quick to disregard what men desire?!?!?!

what you wrote is like saying that ALL women should get married to a man, even though we all know that many are either lesbians OR relationship/marriage liabilities OR nuns. let each and every individual live the life they desire for themselves, and if you dont like their lifestyle, thenn dont be with such person.

Re: Why?? Nigerian Men, Why!!? by bepositive11: 4:25pm On Oct 17, 2021
MrBrownJay1:


true... but there are MANY form of contraceptions, to make sure that you guys have sex safely... a coomon one being to use a condom or the babe being on the pill.

life itself has many risks/accidents, we cant sit here and talk about the IFs, BUTs and MAYBEs of life, but what is sure is that: when a woman deprives her man of sexual relief/satisfaction, he goes and gets it wherever he can.

I just wanted to give you the woman's perspective. Sure, we have to take risks but having to take care of a child for 20 years or more is a major one for women especially if abandoned by their boyfriend

Of course, despite these risks, many women still go ahead and have premarital sex but the more cautious ones refrain from it because contraceptives aren't 100% effective

OP should look for her ideal type and let those with different values like you go

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Re: Why?? Nigerian Men, Why!!? by Hintona(f): 4:30pm On Oct 17, 2021
RedMac:
e kpele o

I know say you just wan trend this evening...

anyway, No man would end a relationship because of .ex...

but you forgot to mention that 9 out of 10 Nigerian girls ends their relationship when they ask for money and guys don't give it to them


The bolded is a big lie. Calm down oga, you lie too much angry

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Re: Why?? Nigerian Men, Why!!? by Boss13: 4:38pm On Oct 17, 2021
Beebah2000:
I no understand wetin dey worry some Nigerian men. Abi, their mama no press their head well with hot water after them born them ni?

Nigerian men, why must u end a relationship if your girlfriend refuse to have sex with u??
I don't understand. E seems like say now their new motto na
No sex, No relationship

Please, u guys need to stop that rubbish mentality. So woman way open legs for u, na wife material abi? Mtchewww!!

If she no gree give u, u go con dey think say she dey give another person.
If she give u, u will still get tired of it and dump her for another girl. That is not fair.
Please, u guys should stop doing this sad sad

If u know say u no go marry her, then no expand her hole. If she no wan sleep with u, respect her decision and continue the relationship. Stop making it look like sex is more important in a relationship, it is not important!!

Later now, they will come here and say women have nothing to offer apart from sex.
And sex was the first thing u demand for in a relationship. Yeye boys angry angry
When she open legs, they'll say Nigerian girls are useless while u are the one making them act useless.

If u can end a relationship because of sex, then I think u need to go and see your church pastor so that he/she will deliver u from that unknown spirit way dey your body.

I don talk finish.
Make I sit down here dey drink my creamy coffee. tongue tongue

Are you a virgin? If you are not a virgin, why withhold sex when you have actually given your virginity to a man who didn't marry you either. If you are a virgin, better. Give it to your husband.

The highest honor a woman can give a man is her virginity and her womb. If you have given someone who is not your husband these things, you are trash.

Women don't know how to pick husbands and will continue to experience heartbreaks, till they return back to the fundamentals.

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Re: Why?? Nigerian Men, Why!!? by Posotome: 5:43pm On Oct 17, 2021
one girl dey give me green light for office in 2019 ,

later i discovered she don fxck all the guys in our office and i am the only one remaining


all the girls and ladies just dey wonder for their minds

IS he gay, is he impotent, because they knew what was going on them, but that time me i be novice,

hotel prostitu,tes that are collecting, 1000, 500 are more trust worthy than MODERN DAY NIGERIAN WOMEN

remove NIGERIAN WOMEN from your life issues and 50% of your problems have been solved

#itiswell!

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Re: Why?? Nigerian Men, Why!!? by Candidlady: 5:49pm On Oct 17, 2021
Posotome:
one girl dey give me green light for office in 2019 ,

later i discovered she don fxck all the guys in our office and i am the only one remaining


all the girls and ladies just dey wonder for their minds

IS he gay, is he impotent, because they knew what was going on them, but that time me i be novice,

hotel prostitu,tes that are collecting, 1000, 500 are more trust worthy than MODERN DAY NIGERIAN WOMEN

remove NIGERIAN WOMEN from your life issues and 50% of your problems have been solved

#itiswell!

"nigerian women" please put better halogen bulb ontop jux for enlightenment sake abeg. Icuminpiz
Re: Why?? Nigerian Men, Why!!? by Posotome: 6:15pm On Oct 17, 2021
many women dey always deceive themselves thinking that they are the only ones with va,gina

even my grandma too get va,gina

ten year old kids too get

prost,itutes too get va,gina


the most precious thing to women is ATTENTION

once you starve them of it

they will want to turn the world upside down

THE FUTURE IS NO LONGER FEMALE!

we now have BOBRISKY AND JAMES !

men have learned to move on without women

one word i have for women is

#growup!

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Re: Why?? Nigerian Men, Why!!? by Posotome: 6:21pm On Oct 17, 2021
one girl was crying in,office last year,

some of our bosses approached her and asked what happenned

she said this is the third guy dumping her for another girl after giving everything on the relationship both cash and kind


the boss petted her and told her to have faith and not loose hope

MOST WOMEN THINK THAT BECAUSE THEY HAVE PXSSY THEY CAN DO AND UNDO AND GO SCOT FREE

its only madness when you ae doing something the same way and expecting different results

man go buy you this, buy you that

when it remains make we fxck you go come dey tell me NG,BATI NG,BATI


ARE YOU MAD?

#ITISWELL!

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Re: Why?? Nigerian Men, Why!!? by iLegendd(m): 6:28pm On Oct 17, 2021
sundaygray:
Men don get sense...who wan dey relationship when sex no dey...You go dey spend money and the future is not sure, why not enjoy the present.
Truth is men do not need companionship as much as females do, we need sex. grin

Nice comment, but point of correction.

Women need sex.
Men want sex.

Women are not desperate in getting the sex they NEED, but men are desperate in getting the sex they WANT.

Only a few of us who are able to control our sexual urges and starve women of sex know how badly and desperately they NEED it, but good at hiding their desperation while most men can't hide theirs.

If I'm in a relationship with a girl who says no sex, she'll end up being the one begging for it.

What you need, you cherish it, but what you want, you don't cherish it that much. This is why sex means a lot to women, they need it, but almost nothing to men — they want it.

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Re: Why?? Nigerian Men, Why!!? by Pumpumking: 6:34pm On Oct 17, 2021
Beebah2000:
I no understand wetin dey worry some Nigerian men. Abi, their mama no press their head well with hot water after them born them ni?

Nigerian men, why must u end a relationship if your girlfriend refuse to have sex with u??
I don't understand. E seems like say now their new motto na
No sex, No relationship

Please, u guys need to stop that rubbish mentality. So woman way open legs for u, na wife material abi? Mtchewww!!

If she no gree give u, u go con dey think say she dey give another person.
If she give u, u will still get tired of it and dump her for another girl. That is not fair.
Please, u guys should stop doing this sad sad

If u know say u no go marry her, then no expand her hole. If she no wan sleep with u, respect her decision and continue the relationship. Stop making it look like sex is more important in a relationship, it is not important!!

Later now, they will come here and say women have nothing to offer apart from sex.
And sex was the first thing u demand for in a relationship. Yeye boys angry angry
When she open legs, they'll say Nigerian girls are useless while u are the one making them act useless.

If u can end a relationship because of sex, then I think u need to go and see your church pastor so that he/she will deliver u from that unknown spirit way dey your body.

I don talk finish.
Make I sit down here dey drink my creamy coffee. tongue tongue

angry
Re: Why?? Nigerian Men, Why!!? by Nobody: 8:35pm On Oct 17, 2021
Posotome:
one girl was crying in,office last year,

some of our bosses approached her and asked what happenned

she said this is the third guy dumping her for another girl after giving everything on the relationship both cash and kind


the boss petted her and told her to have faith and not loose hope

MOST WOMEN THINK THAT BECAUSE THEY HAVE PXSSY THEY CAN DO AND UNDO AND GO SCOT FREE

its only madness when you ae doing something the same way and expecting different results

man go buy you this, buy you that

when it remains make we fxck you go come dey tell me NG,BATI NG,BATI


ARE YOU MAD?

#ITISWELL!
Lol cheesy grin grin
Re: Why?? Nigerian Men, Why!!? by Karlifate: 8:06am On Oct 18, 2021
OLDESTWARRIBOY:
This Fairytale again!!

There was a article that reached frontpage some weeks back where a niqqa was complaining his wife (who they both agree no sex before marriage) still hasn't given him the sex after one year of marriage. grin grin

In this present digitalized world where everywhere you turn to whether movies, music videos, WhatsApp Tv, Facebook, Instagram, Nairaland romance section etc everything is unclad women, porn, sex, pr.iick, kitty, Mouth Action, doggy, cowgirl etc then someone will say no sex before marriage??

I laugh in fulfulde, it's either she's gay, asexual or getting the D from someone else

Re: Why?? Nigerian Men, Why!!? by Privatepart00: 9:53am On Oct 18, 2021
Candidlady:


"nigerian women" please put better halogen bulb ontop jux for enlightenment sake abeg. Icuminpiz
After Acting Serious To Help Autochick4U At The End You Failed. So Shameful The Female Can't Help Their Own When In Difficulty.

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Re: Why?? Nigerian Men, Why!!? by Savedday: 9:57am On Oct 18, 2021
9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

In mosdii voice: They are all useless..... All of them!
Re: Why?? Nigerian Men, Why!!? by benqo01(m): 11:22am On Oct 18, 2021
U talked about Sex,as if u re doing the men favour, this sex u re taking about are both enjoyed by both parties so stop wailing with that empty head.
Re: Why?? Nigerian Men, Why!!? by Candidlady: 8:54am On Oct 19, 2021
Privatepart00:

After Acting Serious To Help Autochick4U At The End You Failed. So Shameful The Female Can't Help Their Own When In Difficulty.
i owe you no explanation! Itd b a waste of data n Energy
have a nice public holz
Re: Why?? Nigerian Men, Why!!? by Mcslize: 9:19am On Oct 19, 2021
Hintona:


The bolded is a big lie. Calm down oga, you lie too much angry

The guy may be right. Some girls act cold when you don't give them what they want.
Re: Why?? Nigerian Men, Why!!? by gentlestdude(m): 11:18am On Oct 19, 2021
My motto that I will abide by no matter what:
NO SEX NO RELATIONSHIP

NO VIRGIN NO MARRIAGE

Kill yourself if e pain you
Re: Why?? Nigerian Men, Why!!? by Nobody: 4:14pm On Oct 19, 2021
gentlestdude:
My motto that I will abide by no matter what:

NO SEX NO RELATIONSHIP


NO VIRGIN NO MARRIAGE


Kill yourself if e pain you
e pain me but I no fit kill myself, so make I kuku kill u.

Re: Why?? Nigerian Men, Why!!? by jaafree: 6:17am On Nov 01, 2021
So! To test drive Nah bad thing Abi make I used my moni carry wetin I no go enjoy for the rest of my life

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Re: Why?? Nigerian Men, Why!!? by okoroemeka(m): 6:43am On Nov 01, 2021
Think4Myself:
Someone like me will only enter a relationship for sex, I don't see anything that will benefit me in a relationship apart from sex.
If I got problems a girl probably won't be as helpful as a guy in assisting
I on the same but slightly different hand only enter a relationship not only for sex but the quality of the sex,you can't lie down like a dead whale for me and expect me to be happy,there is that X-factor that always draws a man to a woman like moth to light,if you are a woman and can't offer me quality sex you don't have anything to offer.
Re: Why?? Nigerian Men, Why!!? by Wizkidfc: 9:06am On Dec 22, 2021
Who you come dey date? Korean men??
Jeon:
I don't even notice,because I don't shine teeth or gang out with them...


WAHALA FOR WHO DATE NIGERIAN MEN.
Re: Why?? Nigerian Men, Why!!? by Jeon(m): 9:09am On Dec 22, 2021
Wizkidfc:
Who you come dey date? Korean men??


IF YES, WHAT WILL BE UR REACTION?


SILLINESS angry
and noticed me

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Re: Why?? Nigerian Men, Why!!? by Wizkidfc: 9:13am On Dec 22, 2021
Las las nah your type be lesbian
Jeon:



IF YES, WHAT WILL BE UR REACTION?


SILLINESS angry
and noticed me
Re: Why?? Nigerian Men, Why!!? by Jeon(m): 9:18am On Dec 22, 2021
Wizkidfc:
Las las nah your type be lesbian

EN NO CONCERN YOU..
SO MOVE ON!

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Re: Why?? Nigerian Men, Why!!? by ahmthankgod(m): 10:02am On Dec 22, 2021
RedMac:
e kpele o

I know say you just wan trend this evening...

anyway, No man would end a relationship because of .ex...

but you forgot to mention that 9 out of 10 Nigerian girls ends their relationship when they ask for money and guys don't give it to them

RedMac you deserve a car

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