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Re: My Uncle Has Decided To End His Marriage Of 30 Years by olisefom: 6:11pm On Oct 17, 2021 |
There's a huge difference between going to work everyday till dawn and staying at home with an uncultured woman...these set of women don't respect closeness. The man must have been a good man though. 7 Likes |
Re: My Uncle Has Decided To End His Marriage Of 30 Years by jcross19: 6:11pm On Oct 17, 2021 |
APCNig:that's an excuse he needs... |
Re: My Uncle Has Decided To End His Marriage Of 30 Years by newoffer: 6:11pm On Oct 17, 2021 |
[Na she go suffer. No pepe. I have a friend whose parents are separated but just stick to keep the kids stable some women are terrible.quote author=Sonnobax15 post=106810054] The same thing is currently happening to my uncle..To the extent that he even wanted to sell one of his duplex but his children and wife collaborated and even had to beat my uncle to coma....... imagine father wey send all him four out of 5 sons to go and study for the U.K....... My uncle is currently filing for divorce at this moment,but the woman dey vow say if my uncle venture leave her,say my uncle go see pepper....[/quote] |
Re: My Uncle Has Decided To End His Marriage Of 30 Years by pfadom: 6:12pm On Oct 17, 2021 |
Xj2020: The answer to the question in bold letters is RETIREMENT. While the man was in active service, he stayed mostly outside, enjoying the company of friends and associate to suppress the trauma of being married to a thorn in his flesh. But upon retirement, he's got to face the reality of his beloved wife especially now that the kids are grown-ups and are already on their own. He either face the problem and solve it now or run away from it through divorce. He didn't see the character of the woman as any issue of concern in the past 35 years even though the nuclear and immediate extended may have raised concerns. He was either living in self-denial or simply felt unconcerned. He now has to spend most of his retirement life time the woman he didn't create time to work on. Lessons for all. 5 Likes |
Re: My Uncle Has Decided To End His Marriage Of 30 Years by Terrier99: 6:12pm On Oct 17, 2021 |
The woman thought she was indispensable because he tolerated her for long. Let her go to Codedruns, she will see suitors there. |
Re: My Uncle Has Decided To End His Marriage Of 30 Years by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 6:13pm On Oct 17, 2021 |
Conpat:Madam, thank you, thank you and thank you for sharing! I thought what u described only happens in nollywood home movies 2 Likes |
Re: My Uncle Has Decided To End His Marriage Of 30 Years by Oyiboman69: 6:13pm On Oct 17, 2021 |
pocohantas:bad woman will always turn your children against you...pray you're not bless with one,or else, your old age will be a disaster... 1 Like |
Re: My Uncle Has Decided To End His Marriage Of 30 Years by Abujason: 6:13pm On Oct 17, 2021 |
Xj2020: Yes na. If the woman no fit allow you rest, then make everyone go answer him papa name na. 30 years means nothing. Life is too short for a man to be dealing with a nosy, suspicious and nagging woman. 1 Like |
Re: My Uncle Has Decided To End His Marriage Of 30 Years by Abujaexpress: 6:15pm On Oct 17, 2021 |
Xj2020:After 30 years of productive marriage!? Your uncle suddenly realised that he cannot tolerate the wife- who bore him 4 grown up children? Haba! The 30 years of "managing" the wife is longer than the the further years he will live with the woman as husband and wife. Your uncle must have found another woman somewhere who has in one way or the other 'captured" his heart and changed his marital orientation towards his wife and the marriage. If I were your uncle, I will tolerate the wife till death separate them. 4 Likes |
Re: My Uncle Has Decided To End His Marriage Of 30 Years by humilitypays(m): 6:15pm On Oct 17, 2021 |
After 30 years of marriage, as a Nigerian couple, sex is dead already and buried, the only thing that unite couple at that age is children and shared ideologies like religion (religious activities and participations), etc. Since the children are siding with their mother, it means the man and his wife have no other shared interest or bond to unite them cos sex had died years ago in that union, so I see no turning back. The man should leave the woman alone and relocate somewhere and remarry a sweet sixteen babe to give him joy till he signs out of this hectic world 3 Likes |
Re: My Uncle Has Decided To End His Marriage Of 30 Years by Herculex03(m): 6:16pm On Oct 17, 2021 |
One thing about this marriage thing no matter how much of a hard guy you are you must compromise one day In conclusion marriage is not a profitable investment for a man At the end of the day man wants to have kids what can he do about that 6 Likes |
Re: My Uncle Has Decided To End His Marriage Of 30 Years by house10s: 6:16pm On Oct 17, 2021 |
Xj2020:to save his heart of hyper tension wire |
Re: My Uncle Has Decided To End His Marriage Of 30 Years by dreality: 6:18pm On Oct 17, 2021 |
Only stupid men go to court to get married. Then, your most of your powers are handed over to the wife 1 Like |
Re: My Uncle Has Decided To End His Marriage Of 30 Years by Atticusxsz(m): 6:18pm On Oct 17, 2021 |
Sonnobax15: This your uncle matter na serious gbedu o! See pepper in this context is going extreme and even diabolical if need be. |
Re: My Uncle Has Decided To End His Marriage Of 30 Years by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 6:18pm On Oct 17, 2021 |
jimmychang:are u sure ? Give me a proof Are u presently living Spartan life or enjoyment life inspire u surrounded by wealth. |
Re: My Uncle Has Decided To End His Marriage Of 30 Years by Eriokanmi: 6:19pm On Oct 17, 2021 |
Peace! |
Re: My Uncle Has Decided To End His Marriage Of 30 Years by Sonnobax15(m): 6:19pm On Oct 17, 2021 |
Atticusxsz:Exactly...That diabolical part na true...you just hit the nail on the head.. 1 Like |
Re: My Uncle Has Decided To End His Marriage Of 30 Years by jaxxy(m): 6:19pm On Oct 17, 2021 |
Xj2020: Nobody wants to live under same roof with a nagging or terrible woman. It’s not rocket science. A bad attitude cannot hide it will always show its self and character. And yes it will only adds negative energy to everything it touches. Nobody wants to deal with that all their life. Everybody deserves happiness/peace of mind and should seek it 2 Likes |
Re: My Uncle Has Decided To End His Marriage Of 30 Years by humilitypays(m): 6:20pm On Oct 17, 2021 |
Conpat:So much lessons to learn on parenting, thanks for this sincere comment 2 Likes |
Re: My Uncle Has Decided To End His Marriage Of 30 Years by WhatCanIsay(m): 6:21pm On Oct 17, 2021 |
Saintmary: You are confusing the stories. The Op didn't tell us that his children are against him. What you suspect is not the reality too, or else the Op tells us otherwise. How sure are you that he filed for the divorce on a whim? What of the possibility that he has been thinking of it for long before finally growing some balls? A lot of conjectures. Personally, peace of mind matters for both gender, it's not male or female exclusive. If someone wants out after trying all possible means of reconciliation, let the person have his or her way. It's difficult for both parties but letting go at times is the best option. 1 Like |
Re: My Uncle Has Decided To End His Marriage Of 30 Years by Oyiboman69: 6:21pm On Oct 17, 2021 |
Saintmary:rubbish.... 1 Like |
Re: My Uncle Has Decided To End His Marriage Of 30 Years by Crochet: 6:21pm On Oct 17, 2021 |
Hmmm |
Re: My Uncle Has Decided To End His Marriage Of 30 Years by Dpundict: 6:22pm On Oct 17, 2021 |
Sonnobax15:I suspect he may just be the provider not the father. I am just saying |
Re: My Uncle Has Decided To End His Marriage Of 30 Years by Uguruzik(m): 6:22pm On Oct 17, 2021 |
I think your uncle would be the right person to answer your question. |
Re: My Uncle Has Decided To End His Marriage Of 30 Years by AfroKnight: 6:22pm On Oct 17, 2021 |
You didn’t mention a 2nd wife which suggests he (even though a Muslim) didn’t take another wife. Hmmm. Men run away from wahala. A few things could make a man utter such a vow. He is tired. Nobody should beg him to continue enduring what he is running away from. 6 Likes |
Re: My Uncle Has Decided To End His Marriage Of 30 Years by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 6:22pm On Oct 17, 2021 |
JAYUK: They are naturally insatiable no matter what u do! Only God can arrest them 1 Like |
Re: My Uncle Has Decided To End His Marriage Of 30 Years by Deepthoughts: 6:22pm On Oct 17, 2021 |
Xj2020:But is your question not an irony!,you have already stated in the write up that the wife was I'll mannered n the man was only managing her all the while perhaps hoping for a positive change from her which doesn't appear to ever come,so don't you think the man get fed up just like any other man would?. 1 Like |
Re: My Uncle Has Decided To End His Marriage Of 30 Years by Kamachicho(f): 6:23pm On Oct 17, 2021 |
This could be a case of mid-life crises 1 Like |
Re: My Uncle Has Decided To End His Marriage Of 30 Years by crafteck(m): 6:24pm On Oct 17, 2021 |
Wats ur own |
Re: My Uncle Has Decided To End His Marriage Of 30 Years by brownemmanuel43(m): 6:24pm On Oct 17, 2021 |
After 30 godamn years, mehnnnnn that your uncle must have endured to the last, for him to come up with divorce 1 Like |
Re: My Uncle Has Decided To End His Marriage Of 30 Years by KingWarri: 6:24pm On Oct 17, 2021 |
daddytime:Maybe the niqqa don turn #Redpiller 1 Share
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Re: My Uncle Has Decided To End His Marriage Of 30 Years by seniormallam(m): 6:25pm On Oct 17, 2021 |
Make somebody drop small thing for me to take hold pocket go work tomorrow please, na beg I dey please |
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