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Re: Ladies, Can You Marry An Uber Driver? by crackhaus: 3:52pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
Raalsalghul:LOL. It's their way. Once their gender is about to be the beneficiary of financial goodwill and/or upliftment from a man, they start throwing such words around... See another thread on FP now... Almost all the females there are telling the guy to upgrade or seek his level. LoL. https://www.nairaland.com/6809548/family-says-cant-marry-because **** Bukatyne, it seems you were wrong. Modern women nor sabi develop any man oo. That shít ended in the generation of our parents. And some people go still dey call themselves feminists – equal with men... Na so e easy to be man abi 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry An Uber Driver? by crackhaus: 3:55pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
mariahAngel:Ohh but I'm very forgiving... Forgetting is what I'm incapable of no matter how hard I try. |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry An Uber Driver? by Teleprompter(f): 4:15pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
Your focus should be on his personality and the family background. This question would not be raised if there were investment bankers and civil engineers seeking her. The last must be able to convince herself why she deserves better, otherwise there is nothing wrong with an uber driver of today. |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry An Uber Driver? by Teleprompter(f): 4:24pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
The truth of the matter is that the guy has probably not even proposed. It is likely that they are not even dating yet but the last has marriage on her mind and the only prospect for now is this Uber guy |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry An Uber Driver? by Raalsalghul: 5:12pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
crackhaus: Yep, it seems Bukatyne was wrong. |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry An Uber Driver? by bukatyne(f): 7:29am On Oct 20, 2021 |
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Re: Ladies, Can You Marry An Uber Driver? by bukatyne(f): 7:29am On Oct 20, 2021 |
mrblessed: You should have posted first so we can close the thread. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry An Uber Driver? by bukatyne(f): 7:32am On Oct 20, 2021 |
crackhaus: Wetin I buy wey I nor pay for your hand? The OP abi OP's friend should leave the Uber guy alone. If he is not up to her taste or standard, let her move on. I wager she doesn't have other suitors and is 'ready' to marry hence this OP. People (men & women) should learn when they are second choices or managed and end the relationship with dignity. |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry An Uber Driver? by bukatyne(f): 7:34am On Oct 20, 2021 |
CountVersailles: If an Uber driver is not her level, why did she continue the relationship/friendship to start considering marriage? What is wrong with men on her level? She's not their level? |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry An Uber Driver? by bukatyne(f): 7:37am On Oct 20, 2021 |
crackhaus: I read the OP of the other thread and I few posts and I wouldn't advise the lady to marry him either. Not because he has SSCE but because he is very unteachable, unyielding and lacks foresight. The lady has no influence over him else for the last four years, he should have gotten his first degree even if it is online. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry An Uber Driver? by crackhaus: 7:53am On Oct 20, 2021 |
bukatyne:She should have empowered him, pushed him, developed him to her taste in that four years. That's what you would have expected if the situation were reversed and it was the woman without a first degree. 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry An Uber Driver? by crackhaus: 7:54am On Oct 20, 2021 |
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Re: Ladies, Can You Marry An Uber Driver? by bukatyne(f): 8:00am On Oct 20, 2021 |
crackhaus: I weigh each situation and approach differently even for same expectations On the first thread, the guy was schooling & got a job while the babe was static. He is poor but she was poorer so I can talk about rendering financial support in addition to emotional and social/mental support. In the SSCE thread, I wager the OP is richer so he doesn't need his girl's financial support. He however needs a lot of her time & emotional/mental support. The guy is not ready to further his education because he said the girl suggested it some years ago. She has no influence over him. On this thread, the babe would be expected to provide financial, social and mental support if they want to upgrade the guy or restructure his business or whatever because she has more than he does. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry An Uber Driver? by crackhaus: 8:03am On Oct 20, 2021 |
bukatyne:Which is what is expected of a modern woman. We are on the same page then... 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry An Uber Driver? by CountVersailles(f): 8:13am On Oct 20, 2021 |
bukatyne:Can you read at all? Did you see where I said she "continued a relationship"? Adult school just opened in UNILAG. You may need to go register. |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry An Uber Driver? by mariahAngel(f): 8:50am On Oct 20, 2021 |
crackhaus: Oh! But she did. https://www.nairaland.com/6809548/family-says-cant-marry-because#106869622 The reason he gave when I asked him why he "knocked off" the suggestion: https://www.nairaland.com/6809548/family-says-cant-marry-because/1#106870076 |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry An Uber Driver? by crackhaus: 9:00am On Oct 20, 2021 |
mariahAngel:She didn't push him. Mentioning something just one time in a random conversation does not qualify as empowerment, push, or development. 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry An Uber Driver? by Munzy14(m): 9:09am On Oct 20, 2021 |
Raalsalghul:The world we live in, subject men to swallow every Bs thrown at them...It makes them feel they don't deserve good things... It subjects men to work like elephant, and feed like ant to satisfy others. A man can comfortably marry a lady who has nothing doing in life and is not willing. But a lady is always advised against marrying a man whose Job has little or no job security, despite being capable of bringing food to the table... Smh...Uwa nwoke, uwa ahuhu... The job you do, the money in your account determines the type of woman you will marry...If not her mother will maks you understand her daughter is managing you as man.. Men are like bulldozers used to construct a road, after completing work, they are packaged and moved away from the road... In life, as a man, know your worth and never settle for less...If you are good and with prospects, you deserve such a woman too.. Left hand washes right hand and vice versa for the both to be clean. In our modern world today, never settle for peanuts especially if you are very hardworking. |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry An Uber Driver? by mariahAngel(f): 9:18am On Oct 20, 2021 |
crackhaus: Dey there dey make excuse for person wey no ready to learn. You expect her to have kept on insisting and pushing someone who obviously wasn't and still isn't ready to learn? The next thing go be to come create thread for nairaland say the girl he wants to marry has no respect for him simply because she's more educated than him. All I know is he has a complex that is way beyond inferiority. |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry An Uber Driver? by crackhaus: 9:27am On Oct 20, 2021 |
mariahAngel:Yes, that is exactly what is expected... because it's the same thing you ladies would want a man to do for you — to push you, to encourage you even when you're not motivated enough, to gently nudge you in the direction that will benefit both of you as a couple in the long run. I don't see any reason why when it's a man who needs all those, modern women dem are suddenly so satisfied with just doing the bare minimum, only to turn around to announce to the world how y'all have done so much... Abi shey na only sex & food person go just dey enjoy for una body in this life? Sex sef that it's still the man that will be sweating & pumping his heart away to shorter lifespan. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry An Uber Driver? by mariahAngel(f): 9:40am On Oct 20, 2021 |
crackhaus: That op na very stubborn man wey get pride full stop! You'll notice when you go through his comments. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry An Uber Driver? by crackhaus: 9:51am On Oct 20, 2021 |
mariahAngel:Even a stubborn man with plenty pride dey turn into water for woman wey sabi press him buttons well... — Incredible Hulk, 2004 |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry An Uber Driver? by cooooooks(m): 1:02pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
A young Nigerian guy is working hard and probably earning 800k+ a month before expenses. If he was a scammer, you'd say he's a businessman. CountVersailles: |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry An Uber Driver? by frozen70(f): 1:05pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
CountVersailles: A lady is willing to marry any man that has a source of income, no matter how little So far the man is not lazy, So far he us focus |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry An Uber Driver? by mariahAngel(f): 1:40pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
crackhaus: Maybe he never truly loved her, otherwise, he wouldn't have given up that easily. I mean, if Jacob could serve Laban for seven extra years just to marry Rachel, what is four years to build himself that he couldn't give? Some men of nowadays sef! 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry An Uber Driver? by crackhaus: 2:48pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
mariahAngel:LOL. Maybe Jacob went through all that stress because Rachel was a virgin and a devoted daughter of God who does not bill him unnecessarily. Some women of these days sef! |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry An Uber Driver? by ahnie: 3:01pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
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Re: Ladies, Can You Marry An Uber Driver? by crackhaus: 3:02pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
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Re: Ladies, Can You Marry An Uber Driver? by ahnie: 3:13pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
crackhaus:Leave me joor. Stop bribing me with that your brown kisses. You know why.hows yonderside? |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry An Uber Driver? by crackhaus: 3:29pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
ahnie: Everywhere good oo... Will holla at you |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry An Uber Driver? by ahnie: 3:34pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
crackhaus:I want sleep joor.banana abeg carry your wahala dey go lolz |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry An Uber Driver? by 1Sharon(f): 3:41pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
CountVersailles: You imply Uber drivers aren't worthy of love or are lepers. |
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