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Righteousness2:
Medically you will advised not to.

But if you Believe GOD and You are Sure She is your GOD given Partner, then go in that Might. Healing is the Children's bread and GOD ALMIGHTY that I know is Committed to what HE Initiates or Direct.

I Have Personally seen SS Genotypes turn to AA by the Hands of GOD.

your own don too much for this nairaland

what you're suggesting is more like asking them to put GOD to test

Oga please I will be very blunt with you. Don't go and do something very very stupid.

You will definitely give birth to SS children and you will cry forever. Sure banker.

Oga don't try this. You may be deeply in love already and the thoughts of starting afresh may becloud your sense of reasoning.

But do you have at least 10 million to treat each child who will eventually die later?

Don't allow any religious folk deceive you. Those children will suffer and still die.

Unless you consider adoption. But you will be tempted to give birth to children once you marry.

Yes please get married, but make sure you get HMO should incase one of your child is sicke celled, sheybi you people don’t want to learn, you will learn by experience as it is the best teacher

Post this on the family subforum as well as the medical sub.

I think there are things you could do, including IVF, and selective fertilization. There's also adoption.

I understand your vantage point.

Gbongwon1:
My people, I brought this issue here in other to probably get some dispassionate and candid advice.
My fiancé and I have been dating for about 4years now.
I officially proposed to her on the 8th September (ie last month) and she said Yes!

She informed me earlier that her genotype was "AS", I told her that I was "AA" even without any form of medical confirmation. I strongly believed I was "AA" as almost all my siblings who have gone for test turned out "AA".

Few weeks ago while discussing with one of my elder sisters, she told me she was "AS". That sent fear and doubts through me, If she is "AS" that means someone else could still be "As" in our family.

I finally summoned the courage to go for the test today. And my worst fear was confirmed.
I am "As"

I'm currently devastated, and depressed. I don't even know how to tell my fiancé. This would be too much for her.
Have called my sis already, she was sad about the report. Told me to let my babe know, but I should find away to break up with her as the risk of having a child with "SS" is high.

The thing is, I don't think I would be able to break up with her. Although I'm going to inform her about the result, probably not today.

Please, my nairaland friends. Is there a way we could proceed with the marriage and still have healthy kids. Make una help a brother in need

Try doing the test again