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Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by freshvine(f): 9:46am On Nov 09, 2021 |
Cococandy will be very hot cause she's a recipient of a man's generosity to USA. The question is, is her man still with her? 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Informanta: 9:58am On Nov 09, 2021 |
I just wish I could narrate my experience |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by okpanachil: 10:02am On Nov 09, 2021 |
abbey621: You see this your post especially that your first paragraph up there ba,flesh and blood did not reveal it to you. You see all this I love you,I love you been professed,it does not cut it in marriage. If you ask me the most important pre-requisite for marriage,it is not love (even though it is important to be mutually attracted to each other) it is how understanding your to be spouse is, his/her upbringing;if its a woman how does her mum relate with the father and if a man vice versa, who does she fear and respect and of course love of God. Trust me all of these will come to bear on your marital journey. 4 Likes |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by okpanachil: 10:02am On Nov 09, 2021 |
Informanta: Please tell us, that some persons may learn. 1 Like |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by lordally(m): 10:10am On Nov 09, 2021 |
Informanta: Please na God I take beg you... Narrate your experience make we learn abeg!! 1 Like |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Klass99(f): 10:38am On Nov 09, 2021 |
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Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Lordofalmajiri(f): 10:50am On Nov 09, 2021 |
Maski87:Lie small small Oga 2 Likes |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Acidosis(m): 11:00am On Nov 09, 2021 |
Klass99: I'm sure I'll find some loopholes in the story |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Lordofalmajiri(f): 11:01am On Nov 09, 2021 |
skj1377:He just having fun, dontt take him serious |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by belovez(m): 11:02am On Nov 09, 2021 |
Aaronsrod: Man you are callous, thou we are waiting for the supposed advice. |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by abeggnow: 11:04am On Nov 09, 2021 |
Differentiate:it is not a black race issue. it's a matter of allowing false western ideals to displace our culture. the Chinese, Indians, and such when they travel anywhere they still stick to their culture. but we chose to copy mostly American culture not knowing that their culture breeds instability in the home that's why they have the highest divorces in the world. 1 Like |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Klass99(f): 11:08am On Nov 09, 2021 |
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Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Acidosis(m): 11:17am On Nov 09, 2021 |
Klass99: Okay dear. I will |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Nobody: 11:55am On Nov 09, 2021 |
Aaronsrod:Read Ur quote well. The Bible didn't say husband must rule" over wife. He wasnt even talking to husband's at all. The only time God spoke to husband in dt chapter was when he said "husband's should love their wives as Christ loves the church and gave himself for it". So are U doing the loving as Christ loves the church? The scripture you quoted was addressed to wives and he is saying dt wives should "subject themselves to their husbands in everything". Any woman dt is well loved has no reason to not subject to her husband. Women even love to do that. The Bible created marriage between a man and a woman, and for it to work, everyone must play their role as stated. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Aaronsrod: 12:21pm On Nov 09, 2021 |
Leaforever: We are in agreement my sister. For a man, to love is to command. For a woman, to love is to obey her man's command. If I have a dog (mans best friend abi?) I will love and care for the dog as a beloved member of my household. But if that animal turns against me or dares growl at me then I have an bar of solid blue iron to break its bones and teeth until it accepts its role in the natural order. Similarly I love my children. I would die for my children so great is my love. But if they steal from me, bear false witness against me, raise a hand to me or otherwise bring shame, then woe be unto them. they shall be fortunate to breathe again. Living in a white mans country cannot free a woman from her role under the Laws of God as delineated in Scripture. 1 Like |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by mfm04622: 1:02pm On Nov 09, 2021 |
WoundedLamb: Lol!!! You never read of slaves wey reach abroad open eye? Report to Police and the slave owners are now in prison? That format no dey work ooo |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by mfm04622: 1:04pm On Nov 09, 2021 |
nikdam: You mean his servant? 2 Likes |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Nobody: 2:15pm On Nov 09, 2021 |
cococandy: Yes it does, Ma. If she claimed to a virgin but it turns out she isn't. You can report her so that she's stoned to death for deception. If you married a deflowered girl, she's to be stoned to death. (Deuteronomy 22: 13-21). |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Tunagee(m): 2:42pm On Nov 09, 2021 |
Omoluabiii: Wow! Great advice 1 Like |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by ImaIma1(f): 2:46pm On Nov 09, 2021 |
slimjohn2k5: They always forget to add what they did to the wives to make them turn out that way. How have they treated their wives so far? 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by drimzsmoke(m): 2:53pm On Nov 09, 2021 |
Aaronsrod:Don't stop there,go 1 verse further,and what did Ephesians 5:25 say? 1 Like |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by 2buffagain(m): 3:09pm On Nov 09, 2021 |
slimjohn2k5: Nothing wrong with washing pant here aka doing laundry and adding your babes clothes. There is washing machine for that. 1 Like |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Nobody: 3:46pm On Nov 09, 2021 |
Differentiate: I work with expatriates here in Nig. If you see the way they treat their wives as if they're the only thing. As if their wives carry the air they breathe. |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Nobody: 3:53pm On Nov 09, 2021 |
Aaronsrod: Psychopath. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by 2buffagain(m): 3:58pm On Nov 09, 2021 |
Aaronsrod: The fact that you used the phrase "must rule" is key to understanding that you are not worthy of the honor of doing so. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by blackboy(m): 4:18pm On Nov 09, 2021 |
So one has chance to be with his family but no he should leave wife and travel to obodo oyinbo for 2 , 3 etc years? Don't blame devil for anything that happens abroad or in Naija. Right thing is to be with your family in greener pastures . If you or your wife messes up then the reality has just materialised. 1 Like |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by okewumi: 4:24pm On Nov 09, 2021 |
Informanta: Narrate let us learn from you 1 Like |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by HIGHESTPOPORI(m): 4:25pm On Nov 09, 2021 |
freshvine:Are they separated? 1 Like |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by loliapoopy2013(f): 4:29pm On Nov 09, 2021 |
[quote author=Aaronsrod post=107251974] What is this one saying? The Bible tells us a husband must rule over his wife. Ephesians 5:24. Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing. [/qu Rule for which you country |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by BRATISLAVA: 4:43pm On Nov 09, 2021 |
Lexusgs430: Your wife |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Lexusgs430: 4:49pm On Nov 09, 2021 |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by BRATISLAVA: 4:57pm On Nov 09, 2021 |
Lexusgs430: Does ataga ring a bell? 1 Like |
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